 Hi, she was seven I'm back. Okay, so I've been getting a lot of comments lately and people have been asking you to Talk about, you know, how Someone gets a good life. How, you know, how not to end up in a certain position You know and just you know kind of like just some tips and these these tips can be for men or women because anybody can apply them, okay, so I'm just gonna give y'all some of my tips, you know how I do it So basically it's very important who you allow into your life. Okay, I Don't just allow anybody in my life. Okay. I don't just allow anybody in my life Even when I was young, I did not just allow anybody in my life. I chose certain people to hang out with To date or to be around That we're actually in the position or on their way to the position that I want it to be in myself so I'm not gonna hang around people that are lower than me or That are going in the wrong direction that I'm You know not going obviously because those people are going to distract you and bring you down from you know Where you're headed so you don't want to hang around certain types of people Okay, it's time to let go of those friendships or stop hanging around those people that aren't going anywhere in life And you know they are so you kind of got to distance yourself from them and either make new friends or hang out by yourself, okay? Another tip is to only invest Or purchase things that are going to benefit you or take you to the next level of Life that you want to be you know a Lot of people get messed up right here. They mess up their priorities. Okay, they will actually Instead of saving up for a car I've mentioned this in my other video. They will go out and buy expensive clothing jewelry purses Shoes and not have a car. Okay, instead of like a car can benefit you it can get you from a to b It can get you to work. It can drive you can be a Uber driver. I don't know But it can help you out more than some clothes. Okay So you have to get your priorities in order and only invest in things that are going to benefit you in the long run Like a car versus shoes. Okay um, the next the next good tip I have is You know pick something, you know if you're going to work or Do something for a living make sure you enjoy it and you like it because Nothing is worse than going to a job. You hate every day. Nothing is worse is doing something that you hate to do and to get paid for Okay, nothing is worse than that So find a skill a trade go to school for something that you actually Enjoy Um, if you're good at it, you're gonna make money at it. Okay You know Don't just there is no quick get rich Ever okay, there is no quick way to get rich unless you win the lottery Okay, a lot of people I know are always talking about oh if I do this I'll be I'll make this much money in two days and it never works out for them and we all know It's just a scam so you know put Put time and effort into something get good at it improve on it grow grow Get better skilled at it and one day you will have the type of money you want because You'll be actually good at something and people will pay you to do it. Okay. That's just common sense Okay, loans. Oh, don't take out any loans unless you can afford to pay them And plus more. Okay. Don't don't Go out and take out a bunch of loans get a bunch of credit cards shop do this Don't do that if you can't pay cash for it And it's not a giant like Thing like a house or car. Don't finance it. Okay, if you can't pay cash for it, you don't need it. Okay, if it's school you need to uh Try to get grants or something, you know But don't try to get these loans because you'll always be in debt and you don't want to be in debt Okay, that makes your credit bad when you can't pay the bills Then you can't get a car. Then you can't get a house. So now you have all this bad credit Because you were too Your priorities weren't in order. You couldn't save your money You know, you bought stuff you didn't need and here you are with bad credit and can't do anything. Okay So don't do that. Okay. If you can't pay cash for it and it's not a car or a house You don't need to finance it. Okay. That's just it. Um Next thing, you know, don't go backwards in life if you have gone If if you if you're if you break up with someone because y'all Or not compatible and y'all brought each other down Don't try to go backwards and get with that person move on to somebody better. Okay, and I've talked about that before The mate you choose the partner you choose the type of person you date will determine where you're headed in life Okay, so if they weren't compatible with you if they were dragging you down And y'all are broken up. That was the best thing that could have happened. So move on to bigger and better Stop trying to look back. Okay Moving forward moving into the future Moving into a better life. You don't want to keep Going backwards and thinking about the past That's over So move on. Okay. Next tip save your money. Okay Save your money instead of going out to the club every night instead of buying this this and that Save your money sometimes, you know save your money because One day you're going to see something that you really want And you're going to be able to just go buy cash, you know One day you're going to see a car that you really want You're going to be able to just go put the down payment on it or pay for it and cash one day You're going to want a house and when you buy a house, let me tell you you have to have a lot of money saved Okay, because you're going to have to pay lots and lots of lots and lots of Down payments closing costs Earnest money you're going to need money. Okay. So if you ever if you plan on buying a house start saving your money, okay um Don't don't hang around people that always want to borrow stuff from you and need something from you because they're going to drain you Okay, stop hanging around those people. Just say i'm sorry. I can't run you no more You're toxic Bye-bye, you know, maybe in a kinder way, but you don't need to hang around toxic people That are always asking to borrow money, you know You don't need that in your life It's better to be alone and to focus on yourself and to prioritize things and get things in order for yourself And Then it is to be around a bunch of people that are draining you and taking you in the wrong direction and making you make mistakes and You know, just dragging you down. It's better to be alone. And then when you have yourself in order You know, that's going to attract other people who have themselves in order So if y'all are looking for like the perfect man or woman You know, stop hanging around losers and people that drain you and You will start to attract these people that have what you have equal or more Okay, and then y'all can benefit off of each other a lot of people say well You know, if you if you marry a man with more money than you you're a gold digger But that's just not true if you marry a man with more money than you You know chances are that you had something to begin with to be able to be in the environment that he was in and able to To Conversate on the same level of intelligence with this person. So obviously you have, you know, you had something on for yourself as well So Remember that you're not going to find, you know, a rich man to take care of you hanging out with losers. Okay That's not going to happen. So And for me and you're not going to find a woman who's going to you know be An equal Because I know that's what y'all want these days equal Uh Woman that's going to pay half your bills or half the bills if y'all get together You're not finding that hanging out with losers You're going to have to step up your game go to a nice place put on some, you know decent attire Uh, you know have something in your bank have your credit looking good You know, you got to look good on paper as well these days because people can just look up your name and see your credit score online You're like So yes credit scores are uh very important when you're trying to You know get married and have a life with someone or you know to purchase a house or a car You need good credit. So people need to really focus on their priorities savings Not taking out stupid loans no credit cards pay for stuff and cash if you don't if you can't afford it and cash You don't need it. Okay, and then one day you can have you know The type of life that you want with no debt You know sometimes a guy with a lot of money. He sees a woman Uh, you know, she might look good and stuff like that. But if she comes with a ton of debt She's not gonna look so good, you know when I met my husband. I had no debt I might have had one credit card bill for less than 500 dollars, you know and A car note which was almost done being paid. I had zero debt. So You know girls when y'all are looking for guys and you have a ton of debt They're not going to want to marry you and put their name on that debt Guys the same thing when a girl is looking for to marry someone and you have a ton of debt She's not going to want to inherit that debt when she marries you So it's very important to get debt out of your Life so that you can be free, you know I don't know like oh people just have the wrong priorities. They're worried about This loser cheating on Cheating on you with another loser. Let them losers go. Okay move on to bigger and better Okay, the best revenge is success. The best revenge is getting money The best revenge is when you Can look back on all the people that you've left behind And and say I'm so glad I left those people behind because look where I am now and look what they still are There are people still Where they were when I left them 10 years ago, okay They're still in the same place make it the same amount of money talking the same talk Okay, you don't want to be there with those people get up move. Does this sound like an Everest commercial For like the Everest college get up off your couch move do something, you know I don't care if you start a video channel talking trash. At least you're doing something Uh Start of you know start something do something start your own business. I don't care do something online You know get a skill go to school for something be somebody, you know, you're not going to ever You're not going to ever make it in life If you don't get up and do something like seriously even if you your goal is to find a rich man You got to get up and maintain yourself in order to even do that you got to have some type of job to maintain looks and uh nails and hair and your rent Or apartment wherever you live until you find that man You still have to you know be on that level till you can get into places where those type of men hang out You can't just look raggedy Okay, so y'all remember that you know always be improving always be self-improving whatever you do Should be a step towards improving yourself if it's not you're going in the wrong direction and that's why You know life is not so good so Every action you take Is going to lead to your future. So just remember that Okay, if you if you're doing bad stuff if you're doing drugs and Drinking and not going to work on time losing jobs cheating getting caught getting kicked out of your house You know having kids without you know The man left you and you know Leaving kids everywhere and you can't pay child support and you know in and out of court jail, you know You're going in the wrong direction and your life will never be good And if you try to type some advice to somebody and tell somebody this is a net and your life is not Together do you really think they're going to listen to you when you have a terrible life your opinion doesn't even matter People will look at you and like what are they what why are they even talking? Okay, if you can't trade places with somebody if you don't want to trade places with someone You will not take their advice. You know, he's like what they know, you know so Basically what i'm saying is get get priorities together Get your life together Do something positive and going the right direction You know No matter what your goal is men or you know women no matter what your goal is stop going backwards. It just it's not Beneficial to you or your children your future generations if you don't have children You know, you don't make anyone proud you got to you got to move forward Okay, if no one is proud of you and no one can brag on you And you're not Excelling and doing better each year or even every day. You're going backwards. Okay, so i'ma see y'all later Thank you guys so much for watching thumbs up And if y'all have any good topics for videos put them in the comments, um youtube acting crazy So sometimes i can't comment back. So i'm sorry if you're asking any questions YouTube is acting crazy and i can't really answer all the comments. They'll let me answer a few but then it just cuts off so That's what's going on there. I'll see y'all later and have a good day. Bye