 Amina hindi hisha naka-mufiliaresi na IOM'u, hisha hisha rikutasini na b�indisha, continuea mufiliwa, hisha hisha hisha matlifu na newa, wa na juki hisha hisha kuwa mufiliwa. Amina hisha hisha naka-mufiliwa na hisha, naka-mufiliwa na hisha kutusupu, naka-mufilio na naka-mufiliwa na ano, naka-mufiliwa na naka-mufiliwa na hisha. Kikutu imuumiliwa Kitilu Nidido, hisha hisha naka-mufiliwa mufiliwa. Kurwapa hedi ya mamaa mohamit na mladu Žunit nawu ulaza wamaa, mohamit bati wiko naki wimama gtikia wajit. Udenventha na mame yimama, ka mada mdwa mh Gywa mwio hafizistia, hamu tuha mwa mwio hanyu na m 행복a mdweja. Makatapu tha mihiko yung wa hakpa mwia ga jia mwia kwa mdweja mkintushi mwio mwya miha mwia mwya yung aru. Tywa mwia mwia mwia yung ahisha Maigata kwa maikata심a reaching avatuhu na wajibua,게 Five O'raándu kantha kwa aote wkankata kwa kama nhau wa hoka maki liwa. Nkweninu yeisibuni na wajibu na wandermu masti huwa, viwa yauna, kwa jweldu ya mikuhu kua kama? Ya, ua, kama na, kwa mikuhu? Maigata ko na kwa mikiwa lalati na wajibu na leanaka huwa maikata westa. You are forcing your work on us, especially on me. You are not our supervisor. Also, you keep disappearing throughout the day without notice. Excuse me, I am working as much as all of you on this project. Team members are supposed to help each other out. I am not doing anything out of line. If you cannot do your part, why don't you just quit this project? We cannot keep working with you like this. You are so rude to just enter my office and attack me like this. Who do you think you are? I am rude. You are bullying us into doing your work. Don't you see this as a problem? Please just get out of my office. You have interrupted my work enough for one day. The second example is a conversation where both colleagues use active listening. The objective in any difficult conversation should be to leave the discussion on good terms with the other person. Hi Amina, can I speak to you for a few minutes? Hi, sure, come in. What is this about? We have known each other for a while and we get along well, right? I know you are a hard worker and we all value you in the team. Yeah, we're a great team. I wanted to meet with you because it has been a couple of months now that I feel like you are less present at work. It feels like you have been delegating your work to the team and to me the most. I just wanted to let you know that when you do this it makes me feel like you think I work for you rather than with you. It has just come to the point where I feel tired and frustrated. Have I really been delegating that much work? I thought I was managing everything well. I didn't think I was overwhelming anyone because I felt like we were all helping each other out. The truth is I have been taking care of my mother who is dying, all on my own. I can't afford to have a nurse at home so I often have to rush at all hours to go take care of her. I did not realize I was putting so much pressure on you. I did not mean to. Oh, I see. Very sorry to hear about your mother. I hope she's okay. So if I have understood you correctly, you have been absent from work and asking us to cover for you because you have been caring for your mother. That's right. It was never my intention to make you feel like I had some kind of authority over all of you. I should have spoken to the whole team about this sooner. I just felt embarrassed to let you all know that I'm struggling a little. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. I understand it's hard taking care of a parent. Thank you for telling me about it now. I'm relieved to hear that you are not trying to make us feel like we are your subordinates, like I thought. How can we find a solution to this? Maybe I should take a short leave so I can fully concentrate on taking care of my mother and define an alternative way to make this work. Okay, that's a good idea. Maybe we could discuss this with the whole team and our supervisor so they are aware. Yes, let's do that. Let's also have a team meeting when I come back to think of alternatives that will work for all of us once we've had some time to think. Thank you for coming to talk to me about this.