 She seems to like going in there She comes in around the back Don't worry. I don't lock her in Yeah, so a different style of video today. It was Valentine's Day yesterday or it may still be today for some of you and Yeah, I mean I've been doing some videos recently to Help men to become better and to more effectively interact with women and You know, I haven't really given much advice to women who are looking to date and Be involved with men again so Yeah, I'd like to do that today and I do hope that it's gonna be helpful for a lot of you and this isn't just for women to watch this can be for men as well who maybe you could learn something from this and Also, I'd like the man out there to tell me if you agree With my perspective on this So do let me know down in the comments below, but I can understand for a lot of you a Lot of the ladies Lot of the girls who are watching this after coming out of a relationship with a narcissist You may have difficulty trusting people and this may affect your relationships in The future it may make it difficult for you to Form connections with men. You may just prefer to be alone to yourself Rather than talking to new men and that will make it difficult for you to find a good man Because of course that is what men want. They want women who Make an effort with them. I'm just gonna turn This light down here I think it is Interrupting the video a bit. Yeah, maybe that should help but yeah That's really one of the main things that men want is a woman who makes an effort Especially these days a lot of men feel like women are not making an effort So Yeah, that's what a lot of men are looking for is a woman who is conscientious woman who cares and Wants to do the best that she can for her man a woman who is trying to accomplish Something and Yeah, that's really how to make a guy fall for you is by knowing What men want? And if we look at most men today They work very hard They spend hours each day working And for what I mean, of course it could be to take care of their woman Their children, but not only that it's about status Men care a lot about status They care a lot about their social and professional Position within the world and if you look at it, that is the reason my men do everything that they do It all comes down to status It's the reason why they buy a big house It's why they drive a fast car. It's why they go to the gym That's why they work hard is why they went on a better job It's why they always want more money and it's why they want respect This all comes back to status So if you want a guy to fall for you You need to give him status You need to improve his social and professional position within the world and To do that Yes, you could be beautiful You can focus on your physical appearance but Other than that what men really want is a Woman who wants to take care of her man and that may be Something as small As just giving him a little back-back massage now and again Even if it's only for 10 or 20 minutes, it's something that shows you care and men love that and Even just cooking him a dinner when he gets home from work Men really appreciate that and it shows Conscientiousness shows that you are aware of him. You have consideration for him And it gives him that status that he's looking for it makes him look important to his friends his co-workers Because everyone's looking and thinking wow He's got a good woman. He's got a woman who loves him and takes care of him. That's what men want We want to look good to other people Hey, Erica Happy Valentine's Day Yeah, men want to look good to other people. That's where they work so hard That's where they want to find a good woman That's why They don't want to be with someone who makes them look bad That's the last thing any man wants They want someone who takes care of them and makes them look good. So yeah despite But the media and society may tell you it's not all about sex Men do want other things as well They want a woman who is conscientious and also a woman who is loyal a Woman who is exclusive only to him a Woman who no other man can get Because that is another thing that gives the man status It makes us look good it makes us feel important Which is why you do need to take extra care to avoid making your man jealous Be careful with your interactions with other men Before you do it you need to think about Is this going to make my man look better? Or is it going to make him look worse? another way to Make a guy fall for you Is by your openness to experience Now this is very important Because a man wants you to experience things and Seething see things through him and for that to happen You kind of need to not have too much knowledge or experience of particular things that he may be interested in Because just imagine you're going to give someone a Christmas present and then You're aware that they've already been given 10 presents before you That were better than yours You probably wouldn't want to give them anything after that Because you know they're not going to appreciate it They're not going to be open to experiencing it. So what's the point? Which is why? Man actually don't prefer women who are too sexually experienced Women who only reserve themselves for certain men women who are selective contrary to Common belief men are not actually Going after women who are in Bentley's and Rolls Royce's On super yards and private jets Yeah, they may want to have sex with a woman like that But they're not going to fall in love with her They're not going to have a serious relationship or marriage They would prefer a woman who is more shy and inexperienced Because then they can lead and they can give the woman those experiences And isn't that a beautiful thing? You know despite all of these things we hear about men today and about toxic masculinity and all of that yes there are men out there who still want to lead and They want to give you Experiences They want to show you things and they want it to be special They want it to mean something so Yeah, that's definitely an important thing is the The openness to experience because men want to feel wanted They want to be appreciated that's why we do a lot of the things that we do and Men also want women who share their values and beliefs Women who are agreeable women who Will listen to what they say women who they can teach This is important too because You know, this is another Beautiful trait that men have is that they want to be a role model to you They want you to admire and respect them. They want you to see them as a good example something that you can emulate and Yeah, this is why Men don't really like women who have too much experience in life and relationships Because then it's quite difficult for them to be that role model in your life It's difficult for them to be someone who you would admire and respect Because if you've had a lot of experiences in life Your mind may be made up already You may think that you already know everything that you need to know I think it's difficult for him to teach you and to give you those new experiences Which is why as I said before it's important to be selective as that Those hand-in-hand with the agreeableness That is what will make the man fall for you and want to protect you This is what makes men be good men There's nothing that a man really wants more than a woman who is loyal and exclusive to him a Man would do anything for that type of woman When the woman fulfills her responses her responsibilities as a woman Trust and believe that the man will fulfill his duty and responsibilities as a man But these days with social media You know he's going on to some woman's Facebook or Instagram and He sees all of these experiences. She's already traveled the world. She's being in all of these cars And he just sees it as though there's nothing new that he can bring to your life And then he's not gonna feel the same way Because he knows anything he does with you it's not gonna be special if you've already done it before And that is why Men do prefer women who haven't had too many experiences who haven't done too many things We don't know too much about life because they want to be that role model in your life They want to lead they want to teach they want to give you all of these wonderful experiences and Yeah, this is just the way we're wired Biologically it's always been this way up until the last maybe 20 or 30 years and then things have changed but it is different for men and I Think a lot of the women who are watching this will agree That women are naturally attracted to experience men Men who have already done and accomplished Everything in life, but it's different with a woman Men don't tend to be attracted to that in women They prefer women who haven't experienced too much because they want it to be special They want you to experience everything through them. You know men don't want to come along and Feel like their second place They don't want to come along and feel like they're not as good as they were the man before They don't want to feel like that It's difficult for a guy to fall for you when he knows in your mind. You're not the best. He's not the best He's not the most special so yeah, that's something to keep in mind, you know every man More than anything what every man wants is To know that what he's bringing to the table What he's bringing to your life is valued and appreciated Because if it's not that will hurt him that will destroy his self-esteem That will make him feel unimportant irrelevant It will destroy him inside and will break his heart To know that you've already experienced everything you wanted to with someone else Because then he already knows he's not going to be anything special to you and that's what men want They want to be special to someone they want to feel important they want to look good they want status and Yeah, another way To make a man fall for you It's just submit I Know a lot of women might not want to hear this But the truth is men do work hard. They deal with a lot of stress. They manage businesses They do all of these things and when they come home, they do need some positivity they need some sunshine after the rain when They've had to deal with this cold dark worlds They don't want to come home to a disagreement They haven't got the energy to fight They want a woman who is agreeable They don't want to fight over What is a better car They want a woman with empathy a woman who can share their experience a woman who is on their side in their corner So if he's worked hard and he's bought a new car and you say you don't like that car You don't like BMW you want to Mercedes In his mind he's gonna be thinking oh Oh, so you've already been in a Mercedes before who who picked you up in that car Well, how do you know about these cars? And that's not going to win his heart That's not gonna make him like you and I know this may seem quite trivial and Yes, I understand. It's quite a small thing, but these small things They add up to create the dynamic in the relationship The fact is that Men want women who are agreeable and submissive men Who will follow their lead and absorb their views of the world? And that's is how to make a guy fall for you That's really all it is. I mean You know, I could sum it up in this 20-minute video It really is that easy And I think it's just that a lot of women didn't have this information. I mean, I don't blame you. It's not your fault it is really a society and this This modern view of the world and relationships That's being fair to us And it's been affecting us men too You know, we we've had a hard time as well and You know, even in my own life I have met a few narcissists and I know many of you who are watching this have too and Yeah, it's hard to get tricked It's not fair. I know But you know once you come out of that and you're looking to date again just know that these are the traits that real men high-value men are looking for and It's important to To not be afraid, you know to be willing to trust again Really, there's nothing more than a narcissist once Than to see you leave them and just go through a bunch of failed relationships and never be happy Or to just not even want to date again Yeah, that's exactly what they want to see and that's why I have to put this information out there to help you to Go out again and date meet new people Because We can't let we can't let these narcissists win. We can't let them have that but yeah, happy Valentine's Day everyone. I Hope you've all been having a great day and Yeah, let me know what you think about this different style of video. I know I don't Talk about these kinds of things much But let me know your views. Let me know if you agree or disagree Love to free. I'd love to hear from you Please let me know down in the comments and Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it. I Will talk to you in another one very soon