 do you or someone you know keep getting into bad relationship after bad relationship after bad relationship well this might be the cause of a broken picker once a broken picker stay tuned and find out all right everybody we're on the hunt for the elusive toxic relationship can we find one out in the wild oh oh a level 200 let's see if we can get it come on come on all right let's try this all right we failed okay let's try to catch it come on toxic relationship i pick you okay all right let's give this all right one more try one more try oh no no no no what is up everybody this is chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution and this is a video i've been waiting so so so long to do all right but anyways you might have a friend or you might be that friend who keeps getting into all these bad relationships like it's a lot easier for us to kind of judge other people and what they're doing it's a lot harder to look at ourselves and what we're doing so let's pretend we're talking about your friend right that friend who keeps dating the same type of guy over and over and over again and her heart keeps getting broken or your boy who keeps meeting women at the club or at the bar and then he's like i don't get why she cheated on me well i used to be that guy i used to date just terrible women just terrible over and over and over again and every single time they would just take my heart out of my chest and just dance on top of it and every single time this happened i would curl up into a ball and i would just have the biggest pity party and i would just go why me why me why can't why can't i just find a good girl to date me right and i just kept doing this same pattern over and over and over again so it wasn't made clear to me until i started working on my mental health and i was trying to become a better person and i was trying to eliminate as much stress and anxiety and depression out of my life when somebody told me they're like chris i think you got a broken picker i'm like what the heck are you talking about and the way i pick people okay the way i choose people is inherently flawed i pick the wrong people over and over and over again it's the same candy is just a different rapper and until i could realize that i was destined to be in terrible relationships for the rest of my life but once i was able to take a step back and realize that my type wasn't exactly the best type for me and i was gonna keep running into these same situations i was gonna live a terrible life with terrible relationships so this is a brand new series that i'm starting called the broken picker because i am here to help you or maybe somebody you know who might have a broken picker the more you can start being mindful of the different things that you keep doing and the different relationships that you get into then you can step back and start having a choice of which relationships you decide to pursue and which ones you don't all right so this is a brand new series i'm excited to get it started so what i want all of you to do okay first off share with your friends all of your friends who get into terrible relationships explain to them what a broken picker is all right and the second thing i need you to do is start to fill up the comment section down below with different relationship problems okay i have a ton of stuff planned out all right but i need more topics from you i can only help you if i know what you're struggling with with what you're going through okay so help me help you all right and we'll get that broken picker fixed right up okay but anyways if you liked this video please give it a thumbs up and if you are new here make sure you click the little round subscribe button i'm always making videos to help you out with your mental and emotional health and over to the left of me you can click or tap on one of those thumbnails right there check out some other videos on this channel thanks for watching i'll see you next time