 Hey you guys let me get my lights together I know y'all thinking why don't y'all why don't she have it together before she starts filming because I just didn't okay so I'm put on a little bit more lipstick I'm wearing this matte glam bomb and longy and that's all the makeup she gonna do today that's about it I look shiny as hell but my skin is clearing up get some tea the weather has changed here it is cooler and I'm gonna tell you what Phoenix people are weird as hell I mean once it drops under 80 degrees they bring out girl they they have on scarves mittens gloves I'm like it's just 79 what are you doing sis so right now it's actually as cool as 65 of a high of 65 but that's still not cold to me but these people are like they wouldn't look when I dropped off JP today at school they wouldn't allow the kids to play outside because it's too cold so they have all the kids in the gym and it was probably 59 I appreciate that to keep the babies in the warm and it was certain age groups gives me fourth grade and under that's okay but I'm like this is the perfect weather for kids to be outside but whatever all right y'all let me cut to the chase today I will be retwisting my hair because I just got finished reviewing a lotty body we like the body the lot of body products and so I'm going to be retwisting my hair using kinky tresses if you're interested in these products I do have a review on them one of the best products I have used to date for twist I'm not even saying that just to be this is bomb that come especially this coconut mango hair butter absolutely love this very thick and I've been using this often on since I purchased the um the products um yeah this is the lotty body and I knew she wouldn't hold up because I it's not necessarily that I did this on blonde out hair um I didn't use in the products but that's okay I was I got the look I was aiming for and that's all that matters right so but yes look at that girl all that boy that's a cute hairstyle I'm serving you 80s pop that's cute huh so but we can't go around like that because she will throw out um it's really useless to do a part on on my hair because you can't even see when I part my hair because you can't even see my scalp so I'm just going to go ahead and section off my hair yeah I have a couple of things I want to talk about but you know how it is girl I start talking and we go down that rabbit hole and I absolutely love this time of the year I love fall I love hallmarking lifetime movies Christmas I know how I was last year um I was fit to be tied girl because they were playing Christmas movies because it was Christmas in July on hallmark and you know I just love this feeling as a family togetherness and I just love it now I'm not here for all the pumpkin spice have y'all been seeing all this foolery I saw it starting a month ago pumpkin spice pumpkin spice cereal I'm even like punk pumpkin spice lattes I used to be on that kick a couple of years ago but I don't even drink coffee from Starbucks anymore um I'll have their tea now now I used to be it and you know definitely would drink their coffee but it's too overpriced I can get four cups for the price of one there at home so y'all let me hush up and put my hair up section it off hell it's cute just like this um so girl in these youtube streets so I saw I don't know what has been going on with youtube as far as notifications because I know a couple of months ago I've seen you guys complain about it well let me back up last year youtube unsubscribed from from some people unless I had a moment where I was upset and just started unsubscribing from a lot of people would know youtube unsubbed me from a couple of people not a lot like four or five then I stopped getting notifications or stopped seeing people's videos and I don't know if I don't know how you know everything works on youtube even as a content creator I don't know I don't want to in those meetings I don't be reading any of the blogs or anything like that I guess my point is I was not seeing videos of people whom I would subscribe to it could be two or three four videos they have posted and I don't see those videos and those videos are getting traffic so I'm wondering why I don't have these on my playlist I feel like I should be able to see you know if someone posted a new video even if I don't have the notification so at this point I go ahead and click that notification bell if I definitely want to see someone's videos because it's not guaranteed you know what I mean so border hammer is back I had no idea and I'm so upset because I'm a huge fan of hers I started watching her back when I was wearing wigs because she would do wig reviews those you don't know it's her name is border hammer and she's mostly known for her wig reviews but she's she's very random um she talks about personal life her family life um uh wig reviews makeup she has great impeccable fashion sense she's in her big 40s she has um older children which I appreciate but yeah I missed two of her videos and she's back and she's been posting and that video is a month was a month ago and I just I just got it as a suggestion after watching someone else's video I'm like but this video is a month oh why am I just not seeing this in my suggestion fees so anyway um this was last night so I didn't get the chance to go back and watch her video but I definitely I like her really do now she did I know I'm gonna come up a little bit of not drama but I'm just gonna keep it real she did have one video that got a lot of not a lot some backlash now let me know if y'all remember this and I may get things a little confused because it's been a while but basically overall the video I believe it was an advice video and I think it was either one of her subscribers or someone she knows was looking for advice on how to approach the situation the young lady believes she was either dating someone or she knows someone who had contracted an std and this is the thing that tripped me out about border hammer is that she was so surprised that people still have unprotected sex because she was like people still doing that and it is in 2000 like 2002 people still doing this in 2015 we're like uh yeah that's why we got babies and people getting stds because yes people still have unprotected sex with multiple people still yes girl so she was just still shocked about that um but overall let me get to the point basically this person was saying whether or not asking in the letter whether or not she should let another woman know that that her boyfriend or someone she's dating has an std and I want to say was it aids you guys was it aids and so and let me know in the comments those y'all who remember that video let me know and so she wrote back or border hammer basically said she doesn't think she should tell the girl anything oh baby the backlash that she got on that video oh they served it to a date they handed rachel because I think her name is rachel is her name rachel they handed her everything let her know that that that was hard boy advice um she should let the girl know because I think she knows the girl okay the person that's dating this guy that has aids or HIV I can't remember what it was um and I want to say that she posted another video apologizing and she since took down both of those videos but yeah y'all I don't know about that I didn't say anything I was just looking back looking at her getting dragged I'm like oh my gosh I wouldn't say they necessarily dragged her people were very um very PC about it you know their approach because she's like that too she never comes off as being very demeaning or anything like that um but yeah no you if I knew someone if I had a friend and I knew that she was dating someone who legit had oh yeah I'm letting her know absolutely you could be potentially you could be potentially saving her life and other people lives so anyway overall I'm glad that she's back and I do appreciate her videos and her knowledge that she has what else what else what else girl I'm already laughing let me stop y'all I am silly this is why I laugh a lot in my videos because I'm silly as hell um I know I'm late talking about this but y'all Benny Benny Harlem y'all this has been going on for quite a while apparently and those of you who don't know Benny Harlem is this um young girl gentleman African-American gentleman who has long beautiful hair supposedly right and I used to see some of his pictures come up on Instagram because of course they showed they're shared all over Instagram and all this and I think he has made the Guinness book of world records for the highest style keyword highest style now my girl Avon Douglas has made it for the largest Afro y'all know Avon I love her um she's all over on Instagram and stuff like that but Benny so Benny has decided that he's gonna take advantage of all you help us looking for waist length long hair and at any cost possible so Benny decided that he's gonna package up and make his own hair products and call it what did he call it y'all these veggie green veggie hair kits all I see are cucumbers and grapes and applesauce and some shit so let me read you this was way back in August so yeah it's been a while let me read you this this post he did August August 28th is when it's dated and apparently he's going all the way to the motherland to gather ingredients to make y'all kits so let me read it for y'all I was bitten by a viper snake while in Ethiopia forming an aquarium ingredients for the green veggie hair kits there was no anti venom medication available at the facility I was transported to and I was told the bite the bite was non venomous I was shocked to find out I was very close to not making it when I returned to the US a few days ago deadly venom was actually very present in my system I was in the middle of an interview with photoshop blah blah blah so sis you're going all the way to Ethiopia in the farmland you got a bit by a viper to gather these ingredients y'all this is the irony of all of this you have to see what he said he was a bit by a viper while looking for ingredients to make y'alls foolery kits he's now he's literally selling you snake oil right and I have mentioned this in quite a few of my videos there is not one product that is going to make your hair miraculous miraculously grow now yes there may be some growth pills or there may be some type of hair oil but one thing that a lot of those um those products have or nutrients so if y'all blood was eaten correctly eaten properly your hair nails skin would flourish you ever noticed that vegetarians the ones that do it good vegetarians and vegans have beautiful skin beautiful hair because it shows up they're getting the the right amount of nutrients for their body y'all so oh it gets even better baby you know how much he's selling these kits for or he was selling for three hundred and ninety nine dollars three hundred and onyx box a month what the hell is in these kits so now he has reduced it to two ninety nine and this is what's so crazy about it those kits sold out so fast I mean there are so many women who are dying to get long hair that they will just buy any and everything so anyway this is the real kiki this is what really makes it funny and interesting he's scamming on multiple levels not he's been going to Kroger's buying up jars of honey and craft ranch sauce and been dipping out the bottles he doesn't even have the you know the professionalism to buy his own bottles he's gonna go to Kroger's pour out all the honey out those bottles remove the labels and slap his own labels on there pour in some make for serve and put sprinkle some leaves on top pine cones or whatever type of foolery here's your here's your hair growth kid or what he called your green veggie kid child I would never you would never sing let me tell you something I think the most I've ever spent on a hair product was like 20 dollars I think it may not even have been that like close to 20 it was 20 with tax put it like that not even having it so he sold out on that when he shares these videos of excuse me these images of his hair it is neatly uniformed natural hair is not as neatly done nobody's hair is that perfect even when avan douglas douglas avan dougas who's had a big beautiful fro when she said shares pictures of her fro you can see in some areas um how do I say you can see through some certain areas with his you can't let me tell you what you can do to get that type of hair and roll in the nearest community college and take you a class in adobe photoshop his photoshop in that hair his photoshop in the step baby's hair because I don't for one I understand that that's not even his daughter that's the woman that he's with daughter that's not his child um his photoshop in his cheeks his nose you know you can do all of this but don't sit up here and say that you grew all this hair and this is all your hair the fuller it's our fault come on now y'all we don't want to do the work we want to buy something it's the same thing when it comes to even diet pills we don't want to do the work we don't want to be consistent we don't want to have any type of discipline when it comes to eating right we just want to buy something a quick fix doesn't matter at any cost you know so yeah same thing with hair products I'm just like there's something I get some type of weird energy from him anyway I can only look at his pictures too so long and I feel like you know how you you look at those illusion pictures in one minute you might get that uh um two people looking at each other or a vase so I feel like what I feel like I'm looking at an optical illusion when I'm looking at his pictures too long so enough about that y'all so the other day I got a text message from one of my friends she was asking me you know how do I feel about over sharing on social media and if Alex was my husband husband I call him Alex that's not his name but um if Alex ever shares too much is that gray hair it sure is okay y'all sorry anyway I'm gonna read twist this because I'm not liking it at the roots there's no over sharing there actually there's no there's no facebook my husband does not have a facebook page the only thing that I know my husband and I'm not saying he doesn't I look I'm not that controlling he's just not on there I know he has a twitter account we follow each other but I'm not really on I'm not on twitter so he's not on facebook he's not on instagram um and he's on twitter for political stuff so he retweets stuff and he follows people over in his country you know Ethiopia so he's not over sharing anything he should have held us and sharing anything about our personal lives I mean I don't even think he has his picture on his profile he has something that he has a flag or some shit girl no not happening so she was saying her husband is constantly over sharing whether it be pictures of them everywhere um comments about whether it financially I'm like okay you know what that's too much that's way too much and I know people who do that I see people look it is your page you can do whatever you want but at a certain point one is enough it's enough and I know y'all have friends that are like that and I just girl I will control or delete in a minute and just log off um my mama is like that she'll show all attack but my daddy does not like it she'll show pictures of all in the hospital here's my discharge papers here's the medication I gotta get and I'm like you sharing too much and honestly Facebook is not what it is Facebook in my opinion is not what it was created to be I think at this point it's a data gathering tool you think you're up there sharing stuff with your friends what y'all don't know is that third or third party applications in place to literally capture everything that you are posting and I know that's because I used to work for a company that was doing it um and that's all I'm gonna say about that but I'll be very careful especially if you're talking about anything political um I would be very careful what I say on social media and that's not being you know your tenfold hat you don't have to do all that but just be mindful of what you put on social media and plus a lot of people live for that you know a lot of your so-called friends are just waiting for the drama to explode and on the page there's just some people who are like that so yeah no be careful and be mindful about that yeah I don't share anything my husband even thinks that I share too much on my youtube channel y'all he was fit to be tired when I told y'all that he hit my car subscribers I didn't tell I didn't make a facebook post I didn't even seriously I didn't even do that I didn't make a facebook post I just told about 16,000 people watch my videos that video had like 500 clicks and some of y'all probably watched it several times so maybe you know twice not several times so I'm like yeah girl he was yeah he was like no you don't need to because I also told my mom and my best friend and my sister so but I guess my point is that I wasn't oversharing I wasn't making a post about it on social media I don't do that when it comes to anything like that and one thing that I really think people need to do and I don't know there's someone I know and she's another youtuber and she's also on my facebook she's on my friends list and I would not if I'm getting into a new relationship with someone don't put that person on social media at all wait I would say wait for about seven or eight months is that straight y'all no but who cares I want to wait for a couple of months not even that like yeah y'all see I don't show my husband because some people just looking for drama don't be showing anyone that you're freshly dating do not put them on social media in any form here don't even tell people until y'all get serious who you're dating if you want to do that yes but I find that the less people know the better let me tell you because when you start having issues because you are because everyone has issues that's just how it is no one's perfect when you start to have issues and if you start talking about it some people will feed on that okay so I mean like I said do what you want but I've learned in my 38 years on this earth that it's best to not overshare you know overshare things and just because you're not sharing everything does not mean that there's something going on because that's another thing that people think that well her marriage there's there must be something wrong if she's not sharing no there's not that it's actually pretty good girl yeah it's good over here so um I need to hear it with my hair and um these are gonna be long now I'm not look how shiny this right now look at that very very what the hell is this oh all right you guys so that is it for this chit chat I'm gonna go ahead and hurry up with my hair and that's it y'all leave a comment like subscribe if you knew I will see y'all next week bye