 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم وصلاة والسلام على سيد المرسلين سيدنا ونبينا وحبيبنا وشفيعنا وقائدنا وقرة عيوننا سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم افتح علينا افتوح العارفين اللهم علمنا ما ينفعنا ونفعنا بما علمتنا يا رحم الرحيمين today inshallah we will talk about ummu ma'band and ummu ma'band رضي الله عنها is nicknamed by the describer of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so who is ummu ma'band what happened at the tent of ummu ma'band ummu ma'band رضي الله عنها her name is عاتكة بنتخالدني بن خليفني بن موقذي بن ربيعة الخزاعية الكعبية she was an honorable female companion she was very eloquent and she had one of the most eloquent eloquent description of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so could I practice all types of oppression against Muslims they got so mad that the Muslims had left the religion of their forefathers they wanted them to go back to their old religion and they did their best they wanted them to abandon Islam they did all they can they followed all possible means good or bad but no luck so they tortured Muslims so harshly but again no luck Muslims would not go back to the religion of their forefathers so the Muslims were tortured so harshly and until Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave the permission to Muslims to migrate and a lot of them did migrate and of course the first migration was to Habashab to Abyssinia سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم told them go there their king is a just person and when they went there we know that Quraish sent two people so they would talk to Al-Najashi and they will convince him to get those Muslims back to Mecca and we all know the story how after they talked سيدنا جافر talked to and he told he told Al-Najashi the story that we were sent to you by Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and he told us that you are the just king and that no one will get hurt at his land and hearing their story especially when those two people of Quraish they told the king that they talked badly about Jesus and Mary so the king asked them what do you say in them when he heard the Quran that was revealed to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم about say the Mary he said he looked at those Quraishi people and he said to them I'm not giving them to you and he ordered his people to give them back their gifts that they brought and the Muslims stayed there and they were safe at his land at his country and we all know that this delegation this group of Muslims after some time some of them went back to Mecca and also they were tortured and until that situation kept so until Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave the permission to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم to migrate so the Muslims first migrated to Medina say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم stayed in Mecca until Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave him the permission to go to Medina and he was صلى الله عليه وسلم he was accompanied by his great companion أبو بكر رضي الله عن and with them there was the freed slave عمر ابن فهيرا عمر ابن فهيرا and رضي الله عن and also their guide was عبد الله ابن ريقط and he was not a Muslim yet so they left Mecca heading towards Medina the sun was so hot the sand was burning the distance was so long and in the midst of the desert Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم so a far away tent and the group immediately headed there they were looking for shade for food for drink so whose tent was it that tent was for أمعبد and her husband أبو معبد and they placed their tent in that place so they could host the travelers so what happened سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم got there and there was strong woman feeding the animals and her few animals that were there so they asked her سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asked her for some meat and dates so they would buy from her but what happened unfortunately there was nothing to offer them that time they had that time they had severe drought so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم noticed at the corner a weak goat and he requested أمعبد to milk it what she said so when he said to her what is this she said it's a weak goat that that is in the tent it didn't go with the other sheep for grazing so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asked is there any does it give any milk when she said أمعبد said she is so weak she is weaker than giving milk سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asked her would you permit me to milk this sheep she said yes if you find milk then there will be milk so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he wiped the other and he said بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم and he made dua so what happened miraculously the milk started gushing at the hands of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and it was a lot of milk so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم gave the milk to him and she drank and she drank and drank and then he gave milk and they drank and drank and then so they drank once twice and he repeated that and he gave them again so they got what they wanted and they left سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so when they left there was plenty of milk for مربط and her family now when her husband when her husband اكتم ابن ابو جوان الخزاع مديني مديني اشتعkaa مديني مديني مديني مديني و التي ستها بقي ولا الكل يوم المحامل هذه المجموعة تأتي منه. لذا فهمتها. فهمتها و فهمتها ما حدث. فهمتها ما فهمتها. و she said to him a blessed man had passed by And her husband immediately said he asked her her her to to describe this man with with his كاملانت. و أم عبد gave an incredible description of the messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم. So let's read the Hadith and try to understand it. So I'm on the authority of Umma Abad describing the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. She said, رأيت رجلا ظاهر الوضاع. I saw a man of visible radiance and purity. He was beautiful in appearance. He had a bright, bright face. His face was radiant. أبل جل وجه. He had a beautiful face. حسن الخلق. He was beautiful. If you look at him, then you see the beauty in his face. لم تعبه سلجة. و لم تزبه صلع. With neither protruding grips nor a small head. و سيم قصيم. He is handsome and fair. في عينه دعش. The word دعش means شدة سوان العين. So his eyes were deep black and they were large. و في أشفاره وطف. And his eyelashes were lush. و في صمطه صحل. So his voice was mellow and soft. و في عنرقه صطع. And his neck was long. أحبب. أتحل. أزج. أقرن. The wideness of his eyes was bright. And his pupils were black. They were very black. His eyebrows were beautifully arched and connected. اللهم صداسي. إذن محمد و على آله و صحبه. شديد سوادي الشعر. His hair is black. إذا صمت علىه الوقار. When he was silent, he appeared dignified. و إنتكلم علىه البهاء. And when he spoke, he was imminent. And crowned with magnificence. حلو المنطق. حلو المنطق فصل. لا نزر ولا هذر. كأنه منطقه خرزات نظمنية حدرن. So his speech was sweet. امجن the words that أم محبة has heard from سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم. And she's describing these words with sweetness. And these words were precise, neither too little nor too much. And in another Hadith, سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم, he was described as كان يتكلمه بجوامع الكلم. So he, صلى الله عليه وسلم, would say only the few words that would give a lot of meanings. So his speech was sweet. His words were precise. They were neither too long nor too much. They were neither too little nor too much. And كأنه منطقه خرزات نظمنية حدرن. His words, his speech was like a string of pearls, his words. So like a string of pearls flowing down gradually. Imagine this description. ربعة لا بائنهم منطول ولا تقطحهم وعينهم من قصر. أصن بين أصنين. فهو أنظر ثلاثة منظر وأحسن قدرة. So after talking about his words, his speech, she said he was the most striking and beautiful of people. He was once seen from far away. And the first of them, when seen up close, he was medium height, neither unagreeably tall nor scromfully short. He was a branch between two branches. And she likened him to a branch. And his companions were also like branches. And among these three people, among the three, he was the most radiant in appearance. How amazing this description is. And she continued. She said he was the finest of them in statue. So it was only a few minutes that أم عبد has seen سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she described him this amazingly. She went on and she said له رفقاء يحفون به. إذا قال استمعوا لي قوله. Or إن قال أنصطوا لي قوله. وَإِنْ أَمَرَةَ بَدَرُوا أَمْرَةَ So he was surrounded by companions. When he spoke, they listened attentively. And when he gave orders, they hasten to fulfill them. So she was very careful describing سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and also the people who were with him, his companions. Then she went on and she said محفود محشود لا عابس ولا مفنن. So she said, honored. He was honored. He was served and surrounded by followers. He neither frowned nor criticized. سبحان الله. So what was the reaction of her husband when he heard this amazing description? He said I swear by Allah that this man is from Quraysh. And this man is the same one that was mentioned to us in Makkah. وَلَقَدْهَمَمْتُ أَنْ أَصْحَبَهَ I had the intention to follow him to be on his religion. وَلَأَفْحَلَنَّ إِنْ وَجَدْتُ إِلَا ذَالِكَ سَبِيلًا And I swear that I will follow him if I find the means for that. سايد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم Of course, he left and the Abu Mu'abad came. Then what happened? You know that when Saeed the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم left Quraysh, left Makkah they sent people looking for him everywhere. And it was that group of people whom they sent some of them reached Umma'bad. So what happened? Umma'bad looked at those people who came to her and she noticed that evil was flying from their eyes. As I just mentioned Umma'bad Umma'bad was very smart, very clever and with a few minutes she gave all that amazing description of Saeed the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم. So she immediately noticed that from their eyes she realized that they were bad evil people. So they asked her Where is Muhammad يا Umma'bad? So Umma'bad was scared not for herself but for the messenger of Allah. She wanted him to reach Medina safe. So she said to them تسألونني عن أمر ما سمعت به قبل عامي هذا You're asking me about something I've never heard of before this year and they said إنك تعلمين أين ذهب You know where he left where he went, where he headed and she immediately said ما أدري ما تقولون I don't know what you're talking about. عندما يسألها سؤالها مجردًا وكانت مكتبًا في حياتهم وحفظة أنهم كانوا في حياتهم سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم. إذا كنت تقول إذا لا تترك من هنا مجردًا I will shout and my people will come from far away they will come and you will be in trouble so the people of Quraysh knew that those people I mean this group of people who were looking for سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم they knew that he was an honored woman and they knew that her tent is on the way to her people سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so as if she was a guard to the path of the travelers and they they knew for sure that if she screamed then they everyone will will come so they they preferred to go back instead of getting in trouble and being the losers so it was just a few days later that umabbat has gathered her stuff and she with her husband لفت for مدينة they wanted to catch سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so in مدينة the blessed city of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم when they reached there they both went directly to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم they announced their shahad and they pledged to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and they became very good Muslims very good companions of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so from this story umabbat has entered his story because of her eloquency because of her very accurate description to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she described his her she described his eyes she described his eyebrows she described his mouth she described his neck she described him she described his manners just in a few minutes that she met him so uh she was one of the female companions that we till today say her name we till today enjoy the description of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم the accurate description that she has given of سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم her description was so sincere and that's why it stayed and it reached us today in our days we are reading what has been written about what has been said about سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم 1400 years ago by a woman companion so narrations indicate that once سيدنا علي بن أبي طالب was asked what was the most accurate description of رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم and سيدنا علي رضي الله عنه answered أجمل وأبلغ وصف قيل في رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ما ذكرته أم محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم خزاعية the most eloquent the most beautiful description that has been given about سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was what was mentioned by سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم like she did so سبحان الله سيدنا علي رضي الله عنه praised that description may Allah have his mercy upon this honorable companion female companion of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم who was very eloquent very accurate very intelligent very smart in giving the best description of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was أم معبد عاتكة بنت خالد الخزاعية رضي الله عنها وارضاها we move on to another female companion of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم her name is أم قلثون بنت عقب الأموية رضي الله عنها and her nickname is the one who migrated walking imagine who migrated from Mecca to Medina walking a female walking between Mecca and Medina الله سبحانه وتعالى revealed Quran that about this woman this companion this female companion that we still read till today and it will be still going on until the day of judgment in صورة الممتحنا آية الله سبحانه وتعالى says إذا جاءك المؤمنات مهاجرات فمتحنوه الله أعلم بإيمانه فإن علمتموهن مؤمنات فلا ترجعهن إلى القفار لا هنحل لهم ولا هم يحلون لهم so who is this female companion who is أم قلثون about whom سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said والله ما أخرج كنا إلا حب الله ورسوله والإسلام وما خرجتن لزوج ولا مال الله سبحانه وتعالى سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم where that he these this woman did not migrate for husband or for money she did it only for the love of Allah the love of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and the love of Islam who is أم قلثون أم قلثون the honorable female companion who whose name is أم قلثون بنتوعقبة بني أبي معيطني بني عمرني بني أمية بني عبد شمسني القرشية أم قلثون is the sister of أثمان ابن عفان from her mother أروا so who is this brave woman who is this brave companion female companion that no woman in قرش was as brave as she was she was strong she after following say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم she was in a very bad position amongst her family amongst her people whom they wanted her to go back away to go back away from Islam they wanted her to go back to the religion of their forefathers so أم قلثون may Allah be pleased with her she became a Muslim and she was سبحان الله يعني her family tortured her tortured her and she bled to say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم she became a Muslim and she promised that she will be still fast on Islam and Allah سبحانه وتعالى الله سبحانه وتعالى gave her that religion that strength so when say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم migrated to Medina she had to choose ايهر to stay with her family or to leave or to leave to Medina and migrate to Medina alone so what do you think she chose هر love to Islam her love to say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم made her travel to Medina and run away so to be to to preserve herself on the new religion and she did even though they were looking at her even though they were surrounding her she was able to run away at night from Mecca going towards the mountains leaving to Medina walking she didn't have anything any animal any any horse any donkey anything to mount she was traveling alone no sustenance no water no food nothing while she was traveling she met امان from and he promised her that he will be as a brother and he took her with him to Medina and when she arrived in Medina she knew that her two brothers قيد وعوما را have came followed her and they are coming to Medina to get her back to her family and they reached there الوليد وعوما را came to say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and they asked him to give them back according to the agreement that قريش had with say you know Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and one of its items was if someone came to you running away from us from قريش then you have to return that person you have to return him back to us but what happened is when they came to him they said yeah Muhammad Oh Muhammad fulfill your promise to us so very strongly and she said I am a female وحال النساء إلى الضعافة إما قد علمت and you know how we and the women are in فتردني إلى الكفار يفتنونني في ديني ولا صدرلي if you want to send me back then I will be tortured until I go back to that religion and I cannot be patient on that الله سبحانه وتعالى heard her words and he revealed the that I have just mentioned I've just read يا أيها الذين آمنوا إذا جاءكم المؤمنات مهاجرات فمتحينوا هنا Oh you who have believed when believing women come to you as immigrants examine them test them الله أعلم بإيمانه الله is most knowing as to their faith فإن علمتوهنهن مؤمناتهن فلا ترجعوهن إلى الكفار if you know them that they are true believers then do not return them to the non-believers لاهن نحل لهم ولاهم يحلون لهم they are not lawful wives for them they are not lawful kinship for them and they are nor are they lawful husbands for them so do not send women if you test them and you realize that they are truthful do not send them back so Allah سيدي محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم tested her and he tested all the women who came after her and he used to say والله ما أخرج كنا إلا حب الله ورسوله والإسلام وما أخرجتن لزوج ولا ما I swear by Allah that you have migrated just for the love of Allah سبحانه وتعالى and the love of his messenger and the love of Islam you haven't you did not migrate just for money or for anything else so this was the truthful أم قلتون so what happened سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم looked at the son of Omar and he said to them نقض الله العهد في النساء بما قد علمت ما تنصرفا الله سبحانه وتعالى has given me an exception in women and you just heard it so go away I'm not giving you أم قلتون باك so أم قلتون رضي الله عنها stayed in Medina under the shade of Islam she was learning from سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and soon enough زيد بن حارثة proposed to her and she accepted him but it was not a long time after her marriage that her husband went for and he went to fight for the sake of Allah in the battle of Mu'ta and he passed away he was murdered he was killed in that battle again later on زوبي ربن العوام proposed she got married to him she had one daughter with him موان زينا but she was very harsh and she could not live with him so she asked him for divorce and she had divorce later on عبد الرحمن ابن عوث proposed for her and she got married to him and she had with him ابراهيم and حميد but later on this good husband passed away and after that عمر ابن العوث رضي الله عن proposed to her and she accepted the marriage but it was about one month that she lived with him that she passed away رضي الله عنها the amazing companion أمك الثوم passed away she was a righteous believer a righteous companion of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she became a Muslim she struggled with her family but she migrated walking from Mecca to Medina الله سبحانه وتعالى has given her some help along the road الله سبحانه وتعالى also revealed Quran or revealed some ayahs that are bread until today and until the day of judgment this was أمك الثوم رضي الله عنها may Allah be pleased with them and this is all for our session today until we meet insha'Allah next week I pass my Salam Endure Salam to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته