 Hey you guys, how are you guys doing? I'm in my bathroom, that's why it's kind of echoey and y'all, I'm supposed to do something with the lighting or something cause it just don't feel like it's enough light in here. Cause it's a little dark, isn't it? It's not dark, but I don't know. Cause you can't even really see every detail of everything, so I may have to buy some more tabletop light since I trash most of those. I think I trashed that stuff two years ago. I had tabletop lights. Actually, I had a ring light that I threw when we moved here, girl, anyway. Y'all know how this is, this is a chitchat video. We're gonna talk about what's going on in my personal life, what I'm watching on TV, what I'm watching on YouTube, all of that, girl. I got a long list of pollutants here, anyway. Let's talk about what's going on in my personal life and let's get started on this hair, girl. I'm gonna detangle my hair properly in like months. I'm gonna be honest, months, months. Girl, speak English, hell. So what I've been doing is being lazy and so I wash my hair, I put the conditioner on and I'm like, you see this? This is why I need to detangle. Yeah, this, this, yeah, that. So that's what I'm doing. I'm doing this and then I'll just do the top. I ain't going nowhere in here, nowhere in here. None of that's me and detangle. So I don't even wanna do that, y'all. I don't know what we're gonna do. We'll do something with my hair while we're talking. I don't even wanna detangle my hair because Ms. Orlette is coming back from Canada. She was on break, actually she was working up there and she said she'll do my hair when she comes back. Yes, and she takes her time, y'all. Like I am there when she does my hair. We're talking about four or five hours minimum. But look at my hair, girl. Yes, we're getting limp. So okay, our house is under contract right now. Praise God, you guys. So we go over, I go over there almost every day just to check things are okay. Make sure, you know, because when we were having the house was actively being shown, the real estate agent was forgetting whoever was the buyer's real estate agent. They were forgetting to lock the house up. Like, oh, you got your new line, so I have to go back, lock the doors. Well, first of all, shut down all the blinds, lock the doors, make sure everything's okay. So that's what I've been doing. Just going back and forth between the house and the apartment, doing that every day. I have to do that. I've been doing that every day for two weeks now because my husband is at work. He's not here. He doesn't even get off till 11. So I go through before it gets dark. I'm scared as hell. So going through that, check the way. Girl, I put, you greedy as hell. I put a note here and I'm gonna get to me trying to lose weight. We're gonna get to that shit in a minute. I put a note here, Chick-fil-A red status. Cause apparently I was checking my junk email and now I apparently have made like platinum level cause I ordered so much damn chicken from Chick-fil-A. Just greedy. So, but I have started back working out. I didn't get a chance to go to the gym today, but the good thing is that our gym is 24 seven. It is a beautiful gym. I tell you the gym here is very nice. Not a lot of people. They have weight resistance. They have free weights. They have machines. They have dumbbells. They have a stair master. They have a spin room. Yeah. They, they have really put in the money. So let me tell you guys how I feel about apartment living. Frankly, my husband and I are very surprised. We don't mind it. We don't mind it. To the point to where we're going to take, now that our house is under contract and more than likely, God, please let this buyer. They did the, what do you call it? The appraisal, no inspection. And then the appraisal will happen next week, but hopefully this will go through. Okay. And we won't have to put it back on there. But even if it does, even if it has to go back, it will sell fairly fast. But my point is, is that we're comfortable here in apartments cause it's fairly quiet. We don't have anyone that lives above us. I know that's going to change here fairly soon cause they've been getting it ready. So somebody, maybe I'm going to have to go down and talk to Viani and Tawana and be like, Hey girl, those are the leasing agents. I mean, but like, who's moving up above us? Like I need to know. But yeah, it's very quiet here. Like I said, the workout room is nice. They have a nice apartment. Everyone who works here is nice. And girl, that icing on the cake is that they have monthly, monthly gatherings for the community. So two days ago, they had a happy hour. And I'm thinking, okay, they're going to have like, you get a, what do you say it? Like you get a glass of wine. Girl, no, no. They had hard, look at that. Bacca, tequila, gin. They had everything you could think of. They had a bartender and then they had wine. And it was all free. You just tip her and I was like, hold up. The honey. And then they had snacks and stuff. So that was really nice. And it lasted for like three hours and everyone was, they had opened up the area. This was in the community area. Not to take y'all down there with me. So yeah, I can see what it looks like. It's really nice. They have a free coffee that you can get. It's a really big community room. I told JB every now and then if he wants to. And actually when we were doing homework and stuff, we would go down to the community room and he would do his homework and then they have like a little old school arcade game. So yeah, I mean, this is technically a luxury apartment. So that's just one of the perks, incentives is that yeah, they offer that. And every now and then they will have a food truck or ice cream truck for the entire community. So yeah, it's very nice, very nice. So we are taking our time and looking for our house because the inventory in Farny, Texas is very slow. Also, we are going to have to decrease the amount we are wanting to spend on the house because we want to make sure that we have enough in savings because yeah, we just need to make sure that we're able to cover everything and just have enough in savings. My husband's very smart about that because clearly, y'all, I have to get my credit together. I don't know what the heck happened. My credit score went up 20 points, like two or three months ago. I got a notification early this week that it's down and I think it's because one of my credit cards went over the limit. I forgot to pay it. So it charged me, first of all, it charged me the interest rate for me spending money. I forgot to pay it. So it charged me a late fee. Oh, forget the hell what you're thinking for you. I don't know what type of fee. And so I was so upset but it is what it is. It's something that you can work on, right? As far as your credit. So my credit now is not, so my goal is to minimize credit card usage, especially since I'm going to be having to pay the mortgage next year. This is like an extra job. Once we get settled in Texas, I think I want to go ahead and become a notary, okay? Get that because they can make between $13 to $18 an hour depending on what it is. So I definitely, I think I want to do that. A part of me was kind of sort of thinking about selling Presta Nels when I get there, but definitely the notary, but there's another thing, there's something else I know I'm going to want to do because I'm a busy person. I could do it, you know what I'm like, I could do it. So my mom sells baked goods. I was thinking, you know, maybe I can help her during my holidays and stuff and find something that I like with Sharon. I would be eating all that shit. So I don't want to do, there's something. I want to do something. And I want to do something that's creative. And so a part of me is kind of leaning towards the Presta Nail business, you know, making, cause that's something I like to do, you know? And my sister can help me with that as far as advice cause she's a nail technician. So yeah, just looking for other ways to ensure that we're saving as much as possible. Yeah, so yeah, like I said, apartment living is going great. And so let's talk about JB. JB is absolutely loving his school, you guys. Micro schools is something that's been around for a while, but the development of them has heightened due to COVID. So they've been popping up a lot in the valley. A lot of people started homeschooling in general because of COVID. So yeah, so JB's doing good, but the only thing now, see, JB was popular in his old school. And that was primarily because we jumped around, not necessarily jumped around, but we had been to two preschools before we went to this public school that's actually right across the street. So he knew a lot of the kids. He always knew at least two kids in each classroom. So he was pretty popular with the kids. But here he's the new kid and JB is a little quiet. And so every day you guys, every day I've been praying over him and just trying to get him to be a little bit more open cause he's quiet. He's actually is an introvert. He has that bubbly personality like me, but he's an introvert like me too. So he said the other day, he was playing with some other kids outside. And I'm like, how was it baby outside here? Get the apartment complex. And he's like, I just wish, he's like, I just wish that I can, I'm gonna start crying. Cause JB's different. Y'all can see that. Those of you who've been following him for a while, he has an old soul, he follows us on Instagram. He can see some of his comments he makes. And so he feels sometimes when he meets, and he refers to it as these kids, these kids nowadays, that's his favorite line. I'm telling you, he's disappointed. And so I always try to tell him, I'm like, JB, you are different. There's nothing wrong with you being different, but you're not gonna find a lot of kids that are like you, or maybe you will. And that'll be it for you. So he was playing with the kids outside. So he came back in a little disappointed. He's like, I just wish that I could find a kid that's like me, but has the heart of an older person. I'm like, oh baby, he's just out. I just wish I could find someone that has the heart and like the mind of an older person, but it's still a kid. I'm like, oh baby, I'm so sorry. I'm y'all, I'm starting to tear up now. He's just want someone, cause he mentioned that one of the kids was cursing and he didn't like that. Cause he found that disrespectful. He said, I remember one of the kids was crying, was cursing and I could tell these kids looking at a lot of TikTok and YouTube and I just want to play. He just wants to play. You see what I'm saying? He doesn't want to TikTok. He doesn't want to do anything. There's a time and place for that. You see? So, same thing with school. He's like, I haven't made any friends. I'm like, well, baby, you've only been there for two weeks. So I did kind of mention to the teacher and the teacher said he is very quiet. So maybe I'll butch him every now and then to say something because I said, what are you doing? He said, I played by myself on a playground. He said, but that's okay. I don't mind. He said he sits by himself at lunch or he sits at a table with other girls. So no one really talks to him. And so I'm just trying to encourage him to, just talk to people and be yourself. You're going to make friends eventually. Look, a party moves like, I only have two friends. I don't care. You can't be there. You can't be there with the babies. They want to have friends, you know? So he'll be fine. All right, y'all. That's what's going on in personal life. Like I said, houses are contract. We are doing the apartment living is not too bad. I'm going to start to get back to blogging. It's just that I'm just busy doing a lot of stuff. Work is good, very busy. All right, you guys. So we're going to talk a little bit about YouTube and just what's going on in the world a little bit. It's just a lot going on. I understand about that one young lady that was, I guess she was an Instagrammer and a YouTuber. And she had an argument with her boyfriend and apparently, well, it hasn't been proven but they are speculating that he's the one that murdered her because her body was found a couple of days ago. But that also bought into question the thousands of black people, men and women that go missing and we don't know their names. Okay, we know the Lacey Peterson since and we know what it said, the Chris Watts wife and her two babies. We know about them. We know about this one girl, Gabby and there are all the deaths are absolutely horrible but what we don't know about are the black and brown people who go missing. So there was a young man here who was a geologist and he went missing up in Buckeye, Arizona. So I believe the people he was with said that he was acting kind of strange, made a comment and burst it out and they haven't seen him. That was like in July when it was really hot. Where is September, right? So they just went searching for him for two or three days and stopped it. His father came down here looking for him and still nothing, absolutely horrifying. But this is something I also want to bring up and one thing I do absolutely love about Leah Gardone, she's another YouTuber, she highlights missing black women on her channel and I really do appreciate that. She also gives stories on women that have been murdered and it is horrible, absolutely horrible. Another group of people that are unspoken of are the indigenous people, excuse me. And being in Arizona, we have quite a big population here because there's reservations everywhere. There's a lot of Navajo here, Maricopa, but primarily Navajo. When I tell you the number of missing indigenous people in this country is shocking. It is absolutely shocking. So when was it? A couple of days ago, a woman went missing, 30 years old, went missing in Las Vegas. She was caught, she tried to FaceTime or call her boyfriend several times, frantic. They haven't heard from her in almost a week. It's been longer than that, two weeks. They haven't heard a peep from her. There are so many that they don't even, they don't even know the exact number, especially when they go missing on the reservation. So yeah, what's wrong with Wendy, your friend, your home girl, Wendy, what's wrong with, no, honestly, I saw a picture of her when she was being wheeled out the hospital in a wheelchair, she was vaping on a bed. She was vaping, but apparently she tested positive for COVID and she's doing a lot better now. But what is her problem? Is she okay? Is she battling? Is it all mental that manifests it physically? You know what I mean? Or God, I hope she's okay, but girl, I don't know. Child, all of these celebrity devs, it is a lot, you guys. I feel like 2020, 2021 is like the step child of 2020. Oh, I'm just laughing to make myself, anyway. AJ Johnson, the comedian from, he played the crackhead on, we just watched Friday, the first Friday. So AJ Johnson passed away. What did he pass away, you guys, was it drugs? What are my favorite, I call him a character actor because he's a character. The older gentleman with the scar right down the middle of his face and he played in the wire. Michael Williams, great, great, great guy, stand up dude. And he did OD, he did. I think he was here, it was, he was shooting up, but it was laced with fentanyl, it was laced with something. And it's cheaper that way. I was asking my one girlfriend that used to be on meth. It's not funny. Again, I'm laughing to make myself not feel so uncomfortable with y'all. It's a nervous laughter. So I do apologize, I'm not being insensitive. So I was asking my one friend, I'm like, why would they buy this? She said it's cheaper. It's cheaper when you get it like that, but yeah, you could die from it, just one hit and you could die. I'm like, oh, she's got a wish to stop making it that way. I'm like, okay, thank you for the info. I haven't really watched a lot of YouTube. I'm not really, you know, like I said, I'm not really watching much of anything on YouTube. I was watching episodes of Divorce Court. I love that the old school judge, I love her. The queen of blending, y'all know who she is. She's Latino and she does beautiful. She does the exaggerated makeup girl. I follow her on Instagram. Apparently, let me pull it up, y'all. Let me pull her up so you know what I'm talking about. Let me find her name, Queen of Blending. She used to be really popular a couple of years ago. So anyway, let me go to her Instagram and read y'all this story. You gotta be really careful who you bank with. And this is one of the reasons why I have our savings. It's in the credit union, but baby, when we moved to Texas, I'm thinking about putting my check-in and savings in the credit union. So let me pull this up. She says, do not bank with Wells Fargo. Wells Fargo allowed people to use backdoor encryption, their words, to access my bank accounts online and steal all of my money. All of Malia's money, which is her daughter, I believe. Gone. I gave them a week to look into my claim and today I receive a letter and spoke to reps on the phone basically saying they will not be getting my money back as it's not eligible. We've lost everything. Not a single dime will be returned. That is absolutely devastating. Girl, Bank of America don't play. I was trying to use my ATM card at the dispensary to get out some money for my animals. They shut my account down because I tried it three times in a row. They shut my account. They shut it down. But it sounds like what these people did is that it went online and used encryption to get through and take all her money from her checking her, all the accounts gone. That is so scary. And I was reading some of the comments and apparently it's happened to other people at Wells Fargo. Our bank, we banked from Bank of America and Chase Bank of America is really good. They really, they really stay on it. But that's got me scared to what I'm thinking about going to a credit union. Cause I'm like, or like move all my savings to a credit union and they just have my checking. Like what I'm doing now basically but just replicated in Texas. You know what I mean? So that way I can have stuff spread out. But that is very scary. All right you guys. So again, like I said, I'm not really watching a lot of YouTubers. There's not really much. So by speaking of YouTubers, Linda Lynn had her baby. Oh my God, y'all. I am, I don't know what it is. I'm having serious baby fever. My oldest ain't going, I need to be taking all the drug control pills. Linda's baby is absolutely beautiful. Okay, so what I'm watching on TV. Blood and water, I can't say in girl. Blood and water season two is back on Netflix. If you haven't watched season one, watch it. It's really good y'all. Blood and water is South African. I absolutely love it. Surrounding teenage girls, teenagers in general at this school. She kind of, I even forgot what it's about. It's been so well, but it has to do with mystery, okay? And child abduction and all of that. So yeah, I may have to watch season one again, but I started with episode one, season two today actually. And so yes, can't wait for it. I finished clickbait like I told y'all last time. I was not feeling the ending at all. It was wack as hell. I'm sorry. Finished nine perfect strangers, same thing. Let me tell you something. My anxiety was so high going up and down. I'm like, oh hell, what is Regina gonna do? So I was seriously thinking that somebody was gonna get murdered. Isn't that how y'all felt? Those of you who watched the show, again, it's called nine perfect strangers with Nicole Kittman. Fine as Luke Evans from Hulu. It's on Hulu. And so I'm thinking, okay, somebody gonna get killed. I knew, I just knew somebody was gonna get killed. I knew somebody was gonna get a arm chopped off. I knew that something dramatic was gonna happen because it was just that much tension. Girl, nothing, nothing. We just gonna, you know, we all gonna get high and look at it again. Spoiler, we all just gonna get high and look at dead people. A waste of my damn time. Like seriously, I was a little upset with that. I actually turned it off halfway. When I saw how it was going, I didn't even finish it because I knew where it was going. I'm like, this is wack, wack, wack, wack. AHS season 10. Another one of those shows to where, I wonder what's wrong with these writers? Like, what's going on? I was okay with it. I don't know, it went up and down, up in the way I felt about this particular season. But I liked it. Overall, I liked it. I think we're done. We're done with it. I liked the way it ended. I liked the way it was going. So what I have on my list to watch, okay? Intrusion, this is on Netflix, I believe. Intrusion, Dr. Foster again, because I started to watch Dr. Foster, then a bunch of stuff I was watching came up. So I'm gonna go back and watch that. The chair, only murders in the building, and the wander years. Now apparently, let me tell you something. Snowfall, y'all, I'm not playing. Like, they've been not messed with me. They're back to taping. They better not mess with me. The way that he did mail at the end of that season, the season finale, when I told you, I told y'all, I was about to, I was about to inbox that actor. I was so heated. I'm like, yo, I've been thinking with that damn, that's basically what's a prop within a prop. You been walking around with that cane and that limp and yo, I said, need it. Are you serious? Yeah, but Snowfall is good. You guys, if you haven't catch it, go back and watch it. There are a couple of shows that I absolutely recommend whatever you do. I'm gonna name off at least 10. You ready? Okay. Let me see if I can find whether it's, I can tell you which ones are. I like dark stuff. Dark, okay? So let me go to my Google. I'm gonna give you my top 10 recommendation. Dark is on Netflix. Dark is very confusing. German based. You may have to watch it twice, but look at it. It's called Dark. It is on Netflix. Happy Valley. I believe Happy Valley is on Netflix. Good Girls. Good Girls is on Netflix and Hulu. It's good. Look, The Ridge. The Ridge is on Netflix. Black Spot. Very different. French base. It's on Netflix. Glitch, which is Australian, is on Netflix. I believe it's called The Rain. Let me look it up. The Rain, which is Scandinavian, Danish siblings, Swedish, but you will be able to understand it in English on Netflix. It's called The Rain. It's good. What did it say? Black Spot in her eyes. Netflix. Good. It's good. Creepy as hell. In her eyes. Netflix. What else? What else? Sharp Objects. When I tell you that Sharp Objects is one of the best I've seen in a while. And I believe that's on HBO. That's on HBO. Sharp Objects, again. Did I have any of that, girl? That's enough hell. Y'all got enough stuff to... Snowfall, I absolutely recommend. Happy Valley, I already said. There's another one with the woman from the X-Files. What does that one call you guys? And let's see. The Fall. And I believe The Fall. Is it on Netflix, you guys? I don't know where The Fall is at. You may wanna check it. It may be on Netflix. The Fall with Julie and Anderson and Jamie Doren. I don't think he's that good looking in my opinion. The guy from Grace, you know, what is it, Fifty Shades of Getting Born As? He could be eye candy, but whatever. Everyone's blowing up about that movie at the time. I'm like, okay. Yeah, I can tell y'all, none of y'all are getting none. Cause y'all really are blowing up about this movie. So anyway, The Fall, great movie. I'm serious. Excuse me, series. I'm personally like Vera. Vera, you're gonna only find on Amazon Prime. Again, Murder Mystery. Broad Church is another one on Netflix. I have been, that was recommended to me. That was recommended a couple of years ago and I had it on my list. It's not on this one. It's like the first episode is a little slobber. When I tell you, this is up there. Broad Church is up there. It's European based. It's up there from the UK. It's up there with The Fall and Happy Valley. It has that same type of path. You know what I mean? Twist and turn. So yeah, there's some recommendations you guys. I'll maybe try to list everything below in the description. If I forget, girl. I don't know what to tell you. Got even the tag of my, what did y'all tell me? So look, I'm gonna try to film her. Ms. Arlett Pender is coming back. Child, she was up doing Black Cindy's hair. Ms. Arlett, this stylist that does my hair, is a celebrity stylist. So she works with celebrities. Like she used to do, what is, Nas's ex-wife, Kelly's. She used to do her hair and she was up in Canada. Meaning my stylist was up in Canada all this time. Like for like six or seven months doing Adrienne Moore's hair. And she's the actress that played Black Cindy in Orange is the New Black. And they're actually friends. And so she saw one of my videos. Ms. Arlett. And she was like, when I come back in town I'll do your hair. Girls, I be cutting my hair all wrong y'all. She was sending me messages like don't, why are you doing your hair like that? Because Ms. Arlett, you not here. Okay, that's why. So y'all, I'm all over the place. That is it. We gotta go pick up my baby. Oh, I know I'm going all over the place. That is it you guys. Thank you so much for watching. Take care. Bye.