 Hi, it's Bridget. Welcome to Above Life Channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and fill you up with hope. Today, we have a wonderful afterlife guest. I will be doing a discussion with Patrick Swayze in the afterlife. Now, I know Patrick Swayze from the movie Dirty Dancing, one of the iconic movies, and I'm sure some of you who are mega fans are screaming at your YouTube right now because you have so many other wonderful movies you would like to share of Patrick's. And if you would like to do that, don't worry, you can make recommendations in the comments section for your favorite movies with Patrick Swayze in them. Alright, so Patrick will come in and sit down. Yep, he's sitting right across from me. It looks like there's hardwood floors and we're in like a bar setting. And he's got a black shirt on and black pants and a black belt and black shoes, so he literally looks like he's gonna dance or something. You are quite tall. He's taller than I expected him to be. Let me just say he looks at least six feet, maybe six one. It looks like about six feet. I could be wrong, five eleven, five eleven and a half, I don't know. He looks pretty tall and he looks youthful. He's got a very distinguished face. Oh, the movie Ghost. Oh my gosh, he's like Bridget. How could you not mention that movie? You are a psychic after all. Good point. He's very warm. He's very genuine. I feel like you're somebody I could have dinner with. I like you. I actually genuinely like you. It's so cool to meet a spirit in the afterlife that I feel like as people we would get along. He said, oh, sure, sure we would. Absolutely. He says, absolutely. And then he says something. He references his wife. I think he was married at the time of his death. I also hear the name Patti. I'm not sure who that is, but he says I hear Patti. And I... So Patrick, you came up twice and I thought, okay, I'm just gonna channel you then. I'm just gonna channel you. And I will say that I admire dancing, good dancing, and you are a fantastic dancer. He says, well, thank you, thank you. He said, thank you, thank you. So is that the career-wise? So you're in movies, you're in movies and things and you are obviously dancing, dancer. So were you an actor first or a dancer first or how does that, how did that play out for you? How is that? Describe that. Can you talk about that a little bit? I dance, I've been a dancer ever since I was a little kid and you know, I used to screw around. I had a lot of energy. My mom said I had a lot of energy is to screw around and you know, do crazy tricks and things, you know, not too crazy, not like backflips off the wall or anything, but pretty close to that stuff. It was kind of a daredevil, she might say. My grandma would probably say I was a sweetheart, but kind of a mischievous boy, but definitely dancing is at my heart. It's at my heart. It's at my heart and you felt that right away. So thank you for that. Thank you for seeing me as a dancer. That's at my heart. But you were a heartthrob, Mr. Patrick Swayze. I mean, you were like, you know, easy on the eyes and very talented and so talk to me about acting. When did you get kind of the bug for acting? Did you have that or is that something somebody just offered to you or that kind of a thing? Tell me about that a little bit. Well, I had a friend that hooked me up with an agent, got me in and you know, you know, you have to have somebody has to promote you in Hollywood. It's not like to these big movie moguls, you don't just go, you know, knock on their door and say, yeah, I'd like to speak to Mr. So-and-so please. And it's not like that in order to even get an appointment in order to not, you know, get kicked out on your ass when you go there. You have to know somebody or somebody has to introduce you. So I wasn't really interested in the whole fancy party thing and, you know, hobnobbing and things. So I knew I had to get an agent if I wanted to be in film. And I never really had a thought about being in like TV shows and things. But he shows me that he had some experience with TV shows or made for TV movies. But he says, I wanted to be in movies. Yeah, I wanted to make movies. I thought it would be really great to do that. But I did a lot of stage, stage performances, you know, like musicals and things where they need dancers and actors. So you could do both. And that was the place where I started, where I kind of where I realized that, hey, this could be my thing, you know, I can dance and I can act, you know, and then I wanted to get into to film, you know, and so that's when I got an agent and I had a friend of mine, a buddy of mine, introduced me to someone that was able to get me into some auditions. And the first couple of things I did, I got to be honest, I thought, I don't know if this is for me. I mean, I don't want to be, you know, a model and just another pretty face, you know, did you do some modeling? Yes, I did, because that's how you pay the bills. That's how you get seen and noticed. You're going to take anything you can within reason, you know, I don't want to do any hemorrhoid commercials or anything like that, you know, got to keep up the image. But not that there's anything wrong with that, not that there's anything wrong with that, you have to pay the bills. But I, I definitely, I was lucky, though, I got, I got kind of a break in a smaller production in a movie that not a lot of people heard of. And then not a lot of people, people hadn't really heard of me. And I got my break with a bunch of other actors at the same time. And so we all kind of grew our careers together, I think you'd say. Okay, so I see an image of that. And I feel like I know the movie. He says, Oh, come on now, you're much younger than I am. I'm not that much younger than you, not even. I'm feeling like you were like in your 60s, when you transitioned when you died. He says pretty close, but let's not talk about age. Okay, okay. It's more how you feel, right? It's more how you feel. Thank you. I really appreciate that, especially as a 40 something woman. I appreciate that. So I see the picture of the movie, I think, and there's multiple actors that I would recognize. Faces of people I would recognize. I recognize them all young people that I recognize in movies. Gosh, I can't think of any names, so I can't recognize. I can see their faces. You guys are probably screaming at me. Sorry, above life channel viewers. Sorry. If you know the movie, write it in the comments below. Gosh, I almost feel like it's like a Ralph Machio and a Sean, somebody, maybe I can't, I can see his face, but I can't think of who he is. Okay, so anyway, I'm sorry. I get off, like I get stuck on that. He's like, it's okay. It's okay. Let's talk about, thank you, Patrick. Thank you for the info and the insights. Let's talk about your transition. So you died, you had an illness. You died of an illness. I think it was pancreatic cancer. It was some kind of a cancer or illness. And so you were sick for a while, so you knew that you were not healthy and that things weren't going well. Did you know that you were going to die? Like, did you really understand the severity of your diagnosis? I think this will help for other people who have cancer, who have had loved ones with terminal cancer and help them understand that kind of what's going through your mind when you're a person, you know, about that. He says, yes, I think that's really, that's a really good, like a really good service to do that. I will say that there's a foundation in part of my name that my wife and I set up to help educate people about the importance of, and I feel like it's cancer. And I feel like, I feel like part of what you're educating people about or helping people about is some kind of childhood thing that has to do with kids or affecting children or something. But I feel like what you had was not that, that maybe was either pancreatic or prostate cancer. It feels like a P cancer, cancer with a P on it. I think it's pancreatic cancer. I think I know that maybe. I don't remember. And that's a tough one, you know? So did you know you were going to die? Like, did you actually know that? Like, okay, this is serious. I'm going to, I'm not going to live through this. I'm not going to survive this. Well, I think there comes a point he says, he says, I think there comes a point when you have to just face that. That's just a fact. And you have to recognize, I had to kind of come to terms with this isn't my fault. This isn't something I created. This isn't something I, you know, it's not some kind of karma thing. Cancer is not a karma thing. Nobody deserves that. You don't earn that. It's not a punishment. I want to be really, I want to be really clear on that. But I had to kind of come to terms with, okay, so this, this is my life. This is my life so far is my life. So you look over all of these chapters that you've written for your life and you do reflect and it can be really deep and it can feel traumatic even at points like really difficult. You question, well, did I make the right decision here? You know, could I have been a better person here? Could I have taken the high road? Maybe I should have punched that, that guy's lights out because he deserved it. And I really wish I would have done that kind of a thing, you know, but it's not, it's not this, it's not like I was tortured or tormented with regret. I don't want people to realize that, just to feel like that. I did have quite a bit of alcohol. Like he's showing me drinking, like he's showing me drinking like, oh my gosh, I don't know if he was a drinker or if he just was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna, you know, have some alcohol here because it's not like it's going to kill me. And I feel like hard liquor like Scotch or whiskey or something. It's like a kind of a caramel looking thing in a glass like this. And maybe he wasn't, maybe you guys, it might be, okay, let me see. I'm going to interpret a little bit. I could be wrong. I feel like it might be that he may have had some alcoholic issues in his lifetime. And so he was sober. And then at the end he was like, well, what's the point of that now? You know, but I don't know. I also feel like there's a connection to his dad that his dad was in heaven. And I don't feel like there was a great relationship. I'm not really sure I'm kind of confused about that. But I feel like his dad is also on the other side before he was. All right, so looking over your life, kind of kind of assessing things, you know, it kind of sounds like a life review almost. He said, no, that's different. This is when you're in your mind, your brain is looking at your human life and you're taking an assessment of your life, an inventory, and you're grading yourself. You're grading yourself. You're giving yourself grades. Did I do this? Well, did I do that? Well, you know, what could I have done more? But it's not, I don't want people to feel like there's this deep remorse or I'm tortured by, oh, I should have done this. And it's not about that. It wasn't like that for me. It wasn't something I didn't get stuck in the past. But I think it's probably a natural thing for people to instantly look back over their life and say, was it worth it? Did I do what I needed to do? And I think that's probably just natural. But you bring up a good point. You asked about life review or you mentioned it. So I would like to talk about that. I'd like to speak to that. That would be great because life review is a concept that I have experienced in sessions with other people as a medium when I'm talking to someone's loved one who's crossed over into spirit. And they talk about the life review process. And when my own father passed away, he talked to me about life review process. And I saw, I can look back and see how, when the life review process was actually happening for him while he was in a unconscious medical induced sort of coma in and out state. So I understand that too as a person experiencing that or watching a loved one do that. So please, please, Patrick, speak about life review. Tell us what it is and tell us how it worked for you. Because I understand that it works different for everyone. Correct? He said, he said, yes, it's pretty customizable over here. You know, when you get to the point where you're leaving your body and you're becoming full fully spirited, fully spirited, then yeah, that's pretty customizable there. Yes, there's a lot of choice at that life death point. There's a lot of choice. It's like a big buffet, you know, would you like this, would you like this, would you like that? There's a lot of choice. I want people to know that. And so then you feel more free freedom and not so confined at that, those moments. It's as a spirit, as a person becoming spirit, there's a lot of choice and it feels really freeing. It doesn't feel scary. It's not frightening. It's very freeing. So the life review process that you're talking about is something that feels like, almost like a welcome to help you get comfortable with the way your life has been, the life that you've led. And in order to say goodbye to it, in order to really be able to release it, to leave it when you leave the body, to leave the life when you leave the body. And it's really hard to do that. And I'm going to tell you why, because you get so used to being around the people you've been around and you're connected. The connection that you have isn't connected by body, even if it's, you know, your own flesh and blood, your children, your wife, your husband, whatever it is, it's not just about that. It's not, it's not physical, but there is a spiritual component to relationships, to all the relationships you've had. And they're good and they're bad, they're positive, they're negative, but they're all these components are spiritual as well as physical. And you might not recognize that at the time. But that's why sometimes it takes a long time to heal from a split or a loss. And that part is so important. And I feel like the life review gave me personally an opportunity to see how special my human relationships were, my family, my children, particularly my son and I, the bonds that we have last forever, and there's no end, there's no end date on that. And it's important for people to understand that, that it does matter, the relationships you have do matter, not your human understanding of them, but your spiritual connection, that's what matters. And so when you let go of your human body and you let your life go, and you merge with the source of light, that's true eternal life extendant. And it's like your life is extended, which is probably why they say after life. But it's kind of ironic because it's not really after life, it's after human life really. But you become this beautiful, loving, powerful beam of light that is connected to other beams of light. And there's no separation, there's no segregation, there's no sorting out of things in heaven, whatever you consider or perceive heaven to be, which is life after death. And the death is significant of the human body, but not, it's the birth of the spirit fully. And it's not constrained anymore by the human, what the human expectations are, because your mind really does create your reality and it makes it so visible to you that the things that aren't visible don't seem real, but really those are the most real things. So love is something you consistently are, whether you're in a body or outside of a body. And so that love is what gives you the ability to have the connections then still with your loved one. So when I died, for example, when I had my final days and we knew, I knew that my family knew and they knew that I knew. It was like this just understanding that this was we were wrapping this up. And there was a lot of crying from time to time, but there was also a lot of joy, laughter in between. And I know that sounds odd to say, but the funny moments, you know, the silliness comes back. And do you remember those little moments that you may not have really recognized as very super as important as they really were at the time you had them? And when those come back and you kind of cut the tension with the laughter and the fun memories and in between the tears, you know, and then there's laughter, uncontrollable laughter. And it seems kind of awkward, but it's a natural state. It's the way, it's the way the letting go happens. And I do feel that I was fortunate to be able to have the time to let go and to be complete. I don't feel like I left anything undone. I don't. I mean, do I wish I had more time with my loved ones, with my family in my life? Yes, there are things that I'm sure I could do. But I was really, I got to a point where I felt very, I felt contented like I was complete with the human, human part of my life. And I don't feel separate from my family even now. I feel, I send them love, I send them the awareness of the bonds that we have together that come, that flows through love, that flows through memories, that flows through, you know, looking at pictures, it flows through even the holidays, you know, that's really difficult for people. The first holiday without, without the physical presence of the person is really difficult for people, but, but I want, I would like people to understand that and as a spirit, spirit in this, this, this afterlife play with this, in this afterlife existence, we are still there. We are still capable and available and present. And that's part of the healing contract. That's part of the agreement is to follow through and flow that love so that this group that was so important to you as a human consistently gets to be able to evolve and grow and heal. And that is really special and a precious thing that I want people to be aware of. For my life review, I feel as though that piece of it for me was pretty compact. I felt like I did most of that myself, but when at the point of my death, the very point, the last breath moments, that is when I would say that my life review with others, representatives, healing representatives or healing agents like angels, you would say, you would call them angels, that they were present to assist me and give me choices and options for things. And so I got to choose when my last moment was, although not consciously awake or aware in my body to others who are watching me leave my body and prepare to leave my body. They would not have necessarily seen or noticed this, but I had choices on how this was going to go. And I feel comfortable that things went well. I feel like I had choice and I want other people to know that. I think people would find comfort in knowing that their loved ones have choice like that. And so that's what I would want to share that about the life review process and about what it's like after that. What happens after that? That in and of itself is very, wow, wow, that was, all right. So I feel like, wow, Patrick, honestly, I didn't really know what to expect. In fact, I told my husband who helped set up the camera and stuff for me before I came to do the conversation with you was I was like, I don't know a whole lot about Patrick Swayze, except like the cheesy stuff, great dancer, heartthrob guy and dirty dancing movie, that kind of thing, just the cheesy stuff, the superficial kind of stuff. And I didn't know what it would be like to talk with you. And you have a great personality. There's a lot of energy with you and you feel really positive and very insightful. So I mean, I would like to say thank you. I really do appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you very much for your time. I really do appreciate it. Yeah, thank you. So for those of you who are watching here, I just had an afterlife conversation with Mr. Patrick Swayze. If you guys have questions that you would like me to ask him, I would be happy to talk with Patrick again in another video. So be sure to take time to go to the comments section, write your questions for Patrick Swayze. And maybe just maybe that'll show up on a future video. And remember here at Above Life Channel, the purpose of these weekly channeling videos is to inspire your spirit to give you hope to live your life. This is your life. So you live it, live it. Thank you so much for watching.