 When we ask, why? When you ask us to do something. Hey, hey, hey, could you nip down to reception to pick up a package and a pen for me, please? Sure, but why? What do you mean, why me? Why do you always have to answer back so much? I'm not, I'm not answering back. I just, I'm wondering why you want me to go do that. Well, I'm pretty sure that you're ever trying to get out of doing this. Disrespect me or challenge me. No, I'm, I'm not. Alrighty, well, could you at least explain that for me, please, cause I'm finding it really hard to understand. I want to understand the situation as it really helps me feel in control and less stressed. Not saying no, and I'm not trying to challenge or disrespect you, I just really want to understand cause it just makes life a lot easier for me.