 Are you for real? Is this right what you're saying? Sometimes I think that feminism is a cult Yeah cult. You know feminism and communism. They have many letters in common No, I'm not No, I'm not I'm sorry. Can we Do something called science like look at data and numbers You're amenable to this Because I don't think you're going to like the I don't think you're gonna like what you're gonna hear Yeah, of course. I blame third-wave feminists This first wave feminism was a massive departure From first and second wave feminists. Do you remember the sex wars in feminism? I mean First and second wave feminists detested Detested third wave feminists and for good reason Third wave feminism is a psychopathic corruption of Psychopathic I insist on not I insist on this. No, I'm not It's not an exaggeration. I insist on this So you may wish not to put me in your documentary if if you if you think I'm over the top Listen, whenever you're confronted with facts you when I say you is yeah, you I mean cult members whenever you're confronted with facts You trot out these You are misogynist or you are it's hate speech It's I'm not a misogynist and it's not hate speech. It's statistics statistics statistics, yeah, absolutely Yeah, third wave feminists were the worst thing that had ever happened to women women are less Empowered today then they have been when my mother Within my mother's generation my mother is a 70 something women are less empowered today than my grandmother used to be and It's all owing to third wave feminism not second Definitely not first the vote equal wage Fighting pornography. It's all legitimate and I'm delighted that we live in our society where women can contribute and Relate to to men as equals in some settings like you know the workplace and so but third wave feminism Third wave feminism was not about choice. No, it was not about choice. It was about empowerment read the literature I'm sorry. You're ignorant. I'm sorry, but you're ignorant Read the literature. It's about empowerment What do you mean, it's inclusive if if your main slogan is empowerment, then it's a power play It's a it's a It's an f in power play because it's about m power man power, you know, it's power P. O. W. R It's m power man make you more powerful It's not self empowerment because it was always related to women's relative positioning compared to men Always in all waves of feminism and third wave is no exception and definitely the fourth wave Intersectionality that is about Minority the power matrix how to restore power equally distribute power. It's all about power It's a power play men and women have been engaging in a power play since Adam and Eve Remember the serpent and the fruit It's all about power. Yes, it's all about power women have been trading sex For money and services. It's it's power. Men have held power No, I'm not denying I'm not denying Patriarchy existed, of course and main men abused women for millennia. I'm saying it in all my video Have you bothered to watch any of my videos? I'm sorry. Did you do your research? Did you do your research? Is this the way you treat every participant in this documentary? Allow me just to p to you I'm sorry So do you want to hear what I have to say or not? I really have no no time for indoctrination and propaganda Do you want to hear what I have to say or not? Yeah, I mean statistics Are you interested? I don't care that you're a lesbian. Do you think that's why I'm lashing out at you? I'm lashing out at you because you blindly follow the party line You it's you made up your mind. You don't want to you don't want to let the facts confuse you because you've made up your mind But but you can't argue with that's men men invented the pill Not Margaret Sanger men invented the pill pinkers and jirasi Men men were the first ones at the beginning of the 20th century. Men were the first ones to advocate for casual sex Men sparked the sexual free love revolution of my 1960s Yes And the hookup culture who invented dating apps women or men? Men did all this men also opened the workplace to women, especially during the two world wars now even now Even now most most corporate boards are controlled by men. They are the gateway keepers 40% of primary breadwinners in many industrialized countries are female but men still keep the Men are the bouncers if you wish like, you know, right so And you and you label all this feminism or women's empowerment but these are all male self-centered acts They wanted you to be available for casual sex. It is very important Very simple You can't avoid no, you can't it's an illusion You can't exclude men from this narrative 90% of feminism was men not women Had men not allowed feminism to become a dominant ideology Women would still not have the vote would still not be allowed access to the workplace No healthcare and no education nothing look at Afghanistan. Look what's happening in russia If men were to decide to take away all your rights You would be disenfranchised tomorrow Because men still have the power you are women Women are on the ascendance I know I said it women are on the ascendance but But but it's controlled from the bottom They're coming it's a grassroots things exactly Men are still there as gatekeepers I mean Consider for example language the language we use To describe sexuality and sex. What do we say? We say penetration Penetration is a male point of view Why don't we say engulfment? The male's penis is engulfed by the vagina It's equally accurate anatomically to say engulfment, but we don't say engulfment We don't say engulfment we say penetration penetrative sex. It's in the scholarly literature. It's not only on the street So it's still men men even control the language There's no difference in importance or difference in involvement between a key and a lock I don't know a protein and a receptor Reagent and a substrate There's no difference between there's no difference between them and yet The male point of view is that there is Many men would tell you the way a woman experiences sex Is not the same as a man and women have a different sex drive to men Yes Exactly. I think I think casual sex is a is a major disaster Is it objectifies mostly women? Objectified. I'm not I'm not saying this. I'm not saying that in relationship the situation is much better Abuse happens in relationships Sexlessness happens in relationships 21% according to latest statistics couples without sex But couples are without sex Because sex had been decoupled from intimacy And that has been you're doing That has been the work of third wave feminists mainly To decouple sex from intimacy To render sex a maintenance chore a physiological act akin. I don't know to eating or What what's wrong with sex not being associated with intimacy? Sex is a major possibly the only tool we have to express real intimacy No, you can't have 20 years of You can't have 20 years of one night stands with zero intimacy and then suddenly switch to being To to intimate sex. You can't do that end of story. Your brain is rewired Rewired in the in the physical sense. You develop develop dopaminergic neural pathways That react to sex without intimacy. You learn to Disassociate them you learn to decouple them That minute after 20 years of such experiences. There's no way on earth for you to switch back To intimacy with sex or to intimate sex. It's dead. It's finished. You learn to associate sex with novelty New bodies new smells new tastes new exercises in bed new experiences. So you learn to associate new conquests You learn to associate sex with novelty and risk And how do you call that? How do you feminists call that? You call that sex positivity Sex positivity you ruined you ruined the most important connection In in the human condition between sex and love sex and intimacy and you call this sex positivity It's not sex positivity It's not sex positivity It's it's not because one of the major dimensions of good sex is intimacy We have studies. I mean, I don't know how many studies that show that sex in committed relationships is much better than sex in one night stands The famous august and yeah Especially for women by the way if you are so if if you are a champion and proponent of femininity and womanhood Then you should know that casual sex hookups are bad for women Hookups are good for men. They're bad for women But they actually eventually they are bad for both genders because if you have a whole history Of of hookups and only hookups. You don't know how to do anything else You don't know how to do You don't know how to do intimates. No, you don't know how to do it's not like driving It's not automatic. It's a skill Internet sex is a skill has to be acquired Has to be has to be practiced Practice practice makes perfect So when you practice hookups, you're perfect at hookups, but you suck at intimacy How would you have commitment without intimacy? Intimacy is not important What on earth What do you talk? What do you mean intimacy is not important? So what is important self gratification? Self actualization and self expression? Do you think you can really self actualize fully without intimacy Do you think there's such a thing as a human being? With no connectivity to other human beings and that person would be happy or self actualized When did when did you come up with this idiotic counterfactual Perception No No, you can't be happy without other people No, absolutely not. This is not self actualization. This is indulgence. This is hedonism materialism what cause Excuse me. What causes you happiness your smartphone your netflix your cats. What do you have in your life? I can already tell you your life is empty What do you have in your life? Your miserable thing No, I will not modify. No, I will not modify my language I think you're miserable And I think you're a thing Because if you regard intimacy as utterly besides the point, you're not fully human I didn't say that I didn't say that don't put words in my I didn't say that Casual sex has not been invented by you Of course, no of I My generation invented casual sex I'm not I'm not saying this true true The newer generation the younger generations engaging Engaging less sex than than I did and had fewer sexual partners Have few yeah young people don't have sex. I agree with you I agree with you But the practice is to not have sex and the ideology is sex positivity and sex positivity means sex without intimacy bad idea Anything without intimacy is a bad idea not only sex Anything without intimacy is a bad idea not only sex imagine. I told you Bring up a child without intimacy Raise a child with raise a child without intimacy What get married without intimacy? This intimacy is the organizing principle The object relations school in in psychology taught us that We are nearly the confluence of all our relationships This is also saying a self Unitary atomized separate from everyone and everything Casual sex is nothing new But in my time it was not casual sex was not the dominant or the exclusive practice It was not the only sexual script around as it is today People go and have casual sex. They don't expect to have relationships As as we did we had casual sex fully expecting to have a relationship We were often disappointed but we went into casual sex with this in mind. You don't You don't You are using casual sex to delay commitment Your commitment forms Maybe maybe you're traumatized by the divorce. Maybe you're traumatized by your parents The divorce rates and It's intergenerational trauma. You're post traumatic the third wave of feminism is a psychopathic post traumatic response psychopathic post traumatic response in in current In the in the cutting edge of psychology now we realize that after trauma There's a psychopathic self-state that is a protective self-state. I think you're simply traumatized generations by us by us Fully I fully accept responsibility. You're right. This is the first time we agree a very worrying sign Yeah, very worrying sign. I agree. We did this to you I agree, but what are you? But what are you? I don't know robots. What do you mean? We did it to you. You have a mind You have a will you have a conscience you Use you're more educated than previous generations I don't think allocating blame is the main is a good exercise right now Who cares about the listen who cares? Who cares? Why have you given up on love and intimacy? career A woman should first have a career I'm not saying no, of course a woman should have a career and a man should have a career Everyone should have a career How is that mutually exclusive a career and intimacy a career and a relationship a career and love? How is that mutually exclusive? You're narcissistic exactly like your entire generation. You're spoiled indulgent narcissists Yes, you're entitled you feel entitled life owes you nothing spoiled brats all of you listen I'm known for being blunt and honest If you came here to interview me expecting political correctness And a nice guy you're in the wrong address I'm willing to try to tone down if you're willing to listen And not toe the party line. They always do Okay We can try I've made up my mind. Don't confuse me with the facts. No, I'm not giving you I'm not giving you your opinion. You're entitled to your own opinion, but I want people in contempt If their opinions are not based on Data and your opinions are not based on data You know what? Alarm, can I offer you an exercise if you are courageous enough? If you're core. Yes, if you are courageous enough to defy your indoctrination your brainwashing Can I offer you an exercise? Can I give you a profile? A profile of the life of a typical modern woman Not such thing Not such thing as typical modern woman Well, they would surprise many people in gender studies program Okay, women contemporary women in all industrialized countries And even in countries like Mexico, China, India and other countries, Israel that are emulating the west or where western influence is disseminated via social media and mass media Can we agree on this? Contemporary no, no not modern contemporary. I don't have an I don't know what's the difference, but okay You're very much Very much into her splitting with nitpicking with words It's not a good trait. Let me give you a hint You're in your 20s grow up Focus on quality and essence not on labels and descriptors That's it's another another hallmark of feminism You you're focusing too much on labeling and description descriptions and who does what to own it, so Blame. Yeah, blame as a shiny blame It's an orientation. You're fit. You're stuck in the past You're stuck in the past. I'm sorry. You're you're still into bashing the patriarchy Of course, I'm I'm not denying this. Of course, there's still inequality and lack of equity and lack of and lack of equity. I agree What in some age groups women earn more than men? So wages equality and wage inequality is very misleading Under age 25 women earn more than men Under age 25 women earn more than men. Are you listening? You're a cult member. I'm sorry. I treated cult members and you are a cult member. This cult is called feminism Okay, can we do the can we do this? Can we can I give you a profile? Of a contemporary woman in in the vast majority of of countries in the world Unfortunately today, even in Russia, even in China, even in India, even in Mexico, even in Israel Starting to be even in countries like Egypt and and so, so can I Can I Listen, this is the only thing I'm willing to do. Do you want to do this or not? Thank you. I appreciate that you allow me finally to to say my piece. So here's a profile of a but I'm delighted that you're passionate But can we establish a protocol of civility and communication? Let me finish what I have to say. Let me finish my piece. Don't interrupt me. Please. It derails my train of thought When I'm finished, I'm open to questions if you have any Can we agree on this? In the discourse between men and women, or are you part of the gender wars? And you are here to somehow subjugate me humiliate me Guiltrip me and so because I happen to have a penis Thank you. It's extremely kind of you. So here's a profile of a typical life of a modern woman Ah, sorry, not modern contemporary woman in most in all industrialized countries and and other countries which are developing Technically, but actually are pretty industrialized like china india This kind of woman a contemporary woman. She spends most of her time working She's working twice as long as she used to work And she's sometimes trapped in jobs that she hates with people she detests Yes, it's called a career This kind of woman is burdened With a mountain of crippling debt For example student debt in the west This kind of woman deliberately acts And dresses as a slut And she does this to attract men and you feminist you call it sex positivity or launch culture the actually You had internalized the male gaze The chauvinistic stereotypes of what it is to be a sex object You're not sexual you're sexy so You dress and you act as a slut because that's what men want. This is not empowerment This is the most extreme form of disempowerment. This is self objectification in order to gratify men And casual men random men not even an intimate partner just any men Slut walks and slut pride. It's a joke. That's what men want They want you to offer things for free and objectify yourself They have no incentive to reciprocate in any way shape or form not even in the sex act Men there's an orgasm gap women Have orgasm far far less than men in in casual sex here So this contemporary woman deliberately acts and dresses up as a slut To attract men and then she has one night stands with total strangers. It's known as hookups And then she has one night stands with near strangers And this is known euphemistically as dating. That's modern dating Modern dating is an opportunity for a man to pretend that he's interested in a woman in order to get her to bed Okay, yes irregularly and infrequently The contemporary woman has sex with friends with benefits Or a reluctant temporary so-called intimate partner because Contemporary women don't have intimacy skills because they've spent decades in casual sex And they didn't have any real relationships. They have pseudo relationships. I mentioned it a bit later No, not not just let me finish Let me finish I'm actually tackling this later. Just let me finish one in ten women 8.3% offers sex on camera Even to random men even to random men That's not an act of self gratification or empowerment. That's desperation in my view Desperation in my view Additionally, these women were found to have what we call dark personality. There's a clinical psychopath And socially socially unrestricted unrestricted Okay, one in 12 women Participate in degrading group sex and kink Now there's nothing wrong with group sex and kink. I had a lot of group sex And I do kink in all my in all my sex encounters But they participate in degrading group sex and kink when they don't want to Just to be accepted and loved and liked A shocking one-third of women are sexually assaulted Because they disrespect themselves And so they are disrespected They have no boundaries. So everyone breaches them the contemporary woman fleets and fleas from one pseudo relationship To another and I call them pseudo relationships because they are not relationships. They are partial partial cohabitation Yes intimacy no intimacy avoidance coming going Two days a week one day away These are not relationships. These are fakes intended to comfort The participants to believe to delude them into thinking they are in relationships Most of these liaisons end up being sexless Abusive and they last a few months only luckily The contemporary contemporary woman has 90 percent 90 percent Fewer friends than she did in the 1980s She has more cats and Netflix, of course She is far more likely to drink heavily and regularly She is far more likely to suffer from mental health disorders, especially mood disorders Anxiety disorders and substance abuse disorders. She is much more likely to self-medicate with drugs including prescription drugs She is 31% likely to remain a lifelong single And 60% likely to divorce more than once Or to be a single mother She is 20% likely to be childless even when she wants children increasingly Contemporary the contemporary woman gets pregnant via donor sperm in IVF IVF procedures Because she can't find an appropriate committed invested partner Men don't want to invest and commit anymore because why buy the cow when you can get me as much as you want Yes, it's course. I agree. Yes. It's vulgar. It's life. It's called life life. You'll grow up. You'll see Let me continue, please You see all this Is the work of third wave feminism Women have arrived They have become men They become men and now now they're empowered. Yeah They're empowered because you know, let me summarize They spend most of the time working They're burdened with debt They act and dress as slots They have one-night stands They have pseudo relationships They drink They self-medicate They have mental health disorders. They don't have any friends They're childless. So you could say that third wave feminism has been a major success. Bravo I have never seen an act of self support I have never seen an act of self sabotage self destruction and self defeat Remotely akin or similar to third wave feminism. You shot yourself not only in the foot But in every conceivable part of your anatomy Every conceivable Every concept you are not empowered. You're disempowered. These are not choices These are not choices. You're desperate Even when you're in your 20s, even you you're all desperate. These are not choices. No one chooses substance abuse depression Anxiety no one to no one chooses no one chooses one night stands as a way of life No one chooses to remain alone For the rest of her life No one chooses to not have intimacy give me a break No one chooses no one should no one chooses this well, maybe outlives. I don't know companionship is an essential part of human psychology Not a bit. I'm not sick And when did I say that you should comply with abuse? The patriarchy is an abusive structure. So fight the patriarchy. Why are you fighting men? Why are you fighting men? Fight the patriarchy not men I'm sorry, but you're a misandrist I'm not a misogynist, but you're a misandrist. You hate men I don't hate them. You're just angry at them. No kidding. I failed to see the difference I'm sorry in your speech. I failed to see the difference between anger and hatred and revulsion and rejection I don't know It's up to you I don't know I don't know the answer I think it's gone too far I well you have phenomena like mcdow Your phenomena like mcdow, you know men going there Right women are doing the same. I agree There's a cohort of bitter, disappointed, desperate, disillusioned, disenchanted women who never want to see men again And I was surprised for you. Same goes for men You've ruined it all You've ruined it all not by becoming equal Not by introducing equity These were good moves You've ruined it all by You've ruined it all by usurping Men's role in the world Men have a role as well Everyone has a role But you wanted it all You You You lost trust in me exactly. Yes. Yes. You lost trust in men and so you said and so you said And so you said we can't let them do any we can't have them do anything. We need to do everything by ourselves We can't trust men anymore for anything not even sex nothing Are you serious? I'm sorry. That's not true 53 percent of men 53 percent of men College age men And definitely after college Are looking for relationships and can't find them men are complaining that women are not up to relationships They don't want relationships. They want to travel. They want to have fun. They want to go out with their friends They want they want They want to act promiscuously. They don't want to they want they want sex Uncommitted no strings attached sex. Yes, they've been exactly Exactly they have become like the men of yore. They have become men But not all men were like that. My father was not like that But not all men were like that But you are imitating the bed the bed men of yesterday the psychopaths the masses is the womanizers You you are not emulating men of the past wrong wrong Wrong. My father has never been like this There were good men Hardworking men loving and caring men. You're not emulating them You're emulating the you're emulating the shitty men You are emulating the men that other men didn't want to have anything to do with You're emulating womanizers You're having you're having random sex with strangers the way a tiny sliver of men used to have I'm you made a mistake simply you chose the wrong wrong wrong role models No, not all men were like that. Not true Not true Not all men were like that Exactly that you believe this Just goes to show what third wave is what that you believe this about men Just goes to show how deeply feminism had poisoned you I never denied that there's toxic masculinity. I never denied this. Of course there's toxic muscle. It's increasing by the way Men are not becoming more feminine. It's a myth. It's not true. They're becoming more toxically masculine. You're radicalizing men Am I putting all the blame on women? Are you kidding me? I just said that first and second wave feminism were fully justified Women had been subjugated and enslaved and mistreated and murdered for millennia And they had a right to rebel against this and I'm glad they did And then they went too far not too far in the eyes of men They went too far in the sense that you are destroying yourselves Your generation and previous generation, let's say Millennials onward millennials Gen Z and so you're destroying yourselves You are you are sentencing yourself to a life of loneliness Loneliness self degradation disempowerment Oh, give me a break Give me a break So so apartment prices are high You know previous generations had similar small problems like second world war the great depression the holocaust Compared to your problems, honey You know your problems are nothing. You're lazy. You're entitled. You're spoiled. You're narcissistic Not you personally. Maybe you personally also, but your generations definitely are millennials onward You are pussies Yes, it's a sexist term. I'm using it on purpose to provoke you. You're all pussies and whistles and lazy and spineless I have only contempt for these generations only contempt Previous generations have dealt with much more like a million times more Right and they prevailed and they made you And they prevailed and they made you And they made me maybe ah I I wondered when you're gonna say this that's I I thought you'd never say this. Okay boomer. Okay got it Okay. Thank you very much Thank you very much. This conversation is over. Thank you Thank you. Thank you