 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARTS Fiber Live video And in this one I'm going to be talking about if the narcissist is thinking about you so they may have discarded you and You haven't cured from them in a while You're wondering what is going on with them. You're wondering if they're thinking about you And in this video I am going to give you the answer to that question I am going to tell you if they are still thinking about you because In the beginning after the discards They may have moved on with a new supply They may have found someone else so They're preoccupied with this new person They haven't really got time for you And that is why they're not blowing up your phone as much You're not hearing from them Because they're busy with their new supply. It's new so they're still learning about them and The new supply doesn't know what they're really about So during this time They may not be thinking about you We're not thinking about you as much And you won't cure from them so often but just give it some time time reveals all and They will eventually get bored of the new supply They may begin devaluing them Seeing things wrong with them And the new supply May start to figure the narcissist out as well and when that happens They may come back to who big you You may start to get the occasional message or phone call And they will be thinking about you again But just because they're thinking about you That does not mean that they care about you Really, they're only thinking about themselves They're thinking about what they can get Not what they can give because they only care about themselves It's all about extracting things from you Whether it's supply Place to stay money or resources whatever it is even if it's just your attention Your validation of admiration Whatever they can get out of here Once they suck the life out of the new supply Then they've got to come back to you unless they've already got someone else lined up So if you're not hearing from them now, it's just a matter of time until you do Unless they've already found someone else again as you can see I'm just walking on this beach Good time to go for a walk. It's not too hot But it's still sunny, but yeah, you shouldn't worry too much About whether or not the narcissist is thinking about you Does it really matter? Because they're never thinking about you really they just thinking about themselves It's all about what they want. It's all about what they can get out of you They don't really care about you. They don't want to give anything to you. They're just using you Well at the moment they are Likely using their new supply But it won't be long until they try to come back to you But you shouldn't give them the time of day. You shouldn't even care about them Shouldn't care about what they have to say Because they never cared about you Just remember everything that they put you through all of the things they said about you So why should you care what they're doing now? Why should you care if they're thinking about you or not? After everything they did to you does it really matter? At this point you shouldn't even care if they're alive Because trust me when they're they see where their new supply They couldn't care If you're dead or not Doesn't make any difference to them in that moment It's only when they need something from you So keep that in mind You've got to stop caring about people who care so little about you Doing so much for them You care so much about them You care if they're thinking about you you want to know if you if they're on if you're on their mind Doesn't really matter because they're not thinking about you Not in the way that you would like at least So just forget about that. Don't let it play on your mind Instead Why don't you think about you think about what you want to do Think about what will make you happy because that is More important And I can tell you that no one is going to think about you the way that you do No one is going to care about you the way that you care about yourself So this is the message for today To think about yourself for a change take a leaf out of the narcissist book because they're always thinking about themselves So why don't you do that for a change and? practice self-love practice self-care Do something for yourself Instead of worrying about them all the time. You're worrying about what they're doing. You're worrying about what they think Who cares? Forget them so yet to summarize Is the narcissist thinking about you if they've just discarded you and moved on with a new supply They're probably not thinking about you Unless they're just trying to find a way to hurt you and get a negative form of supply Once they start to get bored of the new supply and they begin to devalue them or the new supply starts to figure them out Then there's a chance that they may start to think about you again Unless they already have someone else lined up But even then they're not really thinking about you. They're just thinking about themselves and what they can get out of you So that's it to summarize this video. I hope it was helpful if it was please give it a thumbs up down below and As always share your thoughts in the comment section. I read your comments every day Subscribe share the video If you'd like to book a one-on-one session with me you can go to my website. It's narksfiver.co.uk and Check out my Instagram as well. It's narksfiver YouTube and Instagram. I've got new pictures and videos on there every day And also my TikTok New videos on there all the time. It's narksfiver YouTube on TikTok Okay, I'm gonna head back to the car now The Range Rover. I'd just like to thank you all for joining me. I do appreciate your support and Yeah, I Look forward to talking with you in another one very soon