 My friend, there are some things you can take to your friends. There are some things you can take to your spouse. There are some things you can take to your pastor. There are some things you can take to your spiritual leader. And then there are some things for which there are no answers. And there are some things that no one in all their wisdom can give a reason for. Take the difficult thing to him. Give it to Jesus. Shifting your focus from that which troubles you to that which gives you peace. Shifting your focus from what seems to be impossible, the impossibility of the situation, and focusing instead on God's great power.