 And for, there's a lot of women out there and men, men and women who have had childhood wounds and adult traumas that requires deeper healing to be able to lean into a fully committed relationship. And sometimes we go into relationship hoping that the relationship itself will be the healing tool. You know, sometimes we go in with the best of intentions. I know she went in with the best of intentions. She certainly made tremendous effort to make this work. But sometimes it doesn't work out. And that's okay too, because the quality of a relationship isn't measured by the time.