 I think, yeah, I think a big red flag like we mentioned is when they use your autism and your differences against you, like their attitude might change really quickly and they will switch back to being nice with no effort. If they think it will control you in a way that gets them what they want, like they'll be mean to control you to get what they want, but they will switch on the nice the moment they think you you're like threatening to leave or they think that they're going to lose control of you.