 Now see I was just talking bad about Instagram One thing about Instagram Is they know how to Get your live out there Instagram know how to send your live out there but then YouTube they not as good With sending your live out They feel a little slow and that YouTube don't know how to update you Update your live fast enough either They be so slow So you see they'll have two people on here but you got 10 people in the chat Want to pop on here. I just got off Instagram. Was anybody on Instagram? If you was on Instagram Let me know so I could talk bad about you No, I know I appreciate the support, but I just want to talk bad about you All the social media you all Right now But I want to pop on here because a lot of people tag me In the message that the young man said he want to see more men talking about marriage And I'll be honest with you. I want to see that too. I want to see that too and I'm hoping soon that See we in a we're in a small recession Because and I'm gonna tell you how I know because I keep my finger on the pulse of things But tomorrow I'm teaching a class that I sent out to the mailing list and I said the class is 25 dollars But if you can't afford it Yes, you could just pay what you can Somebody Send in one cent And then it was some it was a bunch of two dollars $3.00 five dollars And I say we in a we in a now it was a I seen some a fifty dollar So it go both ways some people they in abundance. They abundant mindset and some people they they struggling and See somebody say they sponsor somebody cuz somebody's sending one cent and I bought Almost curse. I don't curse. So I run really gonna curse It almost made me mad But then the Lord checked me and the Lord say that might be all The person guy I Was like, you know what? Okay It might be all the person guy. I said, okay, you know what I did say if it's not affordable I don't want nobody to miss it. So Boom, here you go So I said, all right. I said, all right. All right. I got them got the little with it. And so You know Had to realize that now listen y'all We I'm on my phone so I couldn't Set up to where it's only members So for those y'all who not in the blessed tribe I want y'all to know that typically y'all would not be able to chat if I was on my laptop So y'all be mindful of that and be respectful. So I don't have to block you on here but if y'all kind of, you know Understand that that Got to be be mindful on here and the chat ain't for a whole nother conversation It's for what we talking about So don't be on here talking about Black Friday sale and all that is for what we talking about So understand that and if a moderator mess around and get in here, they'll start moderating you and And one thing I forgot is No Jade it's an exclusive cuz I'm on my phone and YouTube changed it to where you can't make it members only chat When you're on your phone So everybody how they they false YouTube got a false Instagram got a false and it's just crazy that they just don't take People who they see active on a network and just fly out that Apollo alto and let you sit there and tell them what they need to do And just you're thinking like man, that ain't rocket science y'all got these people in the computers who don't even use YouTube during the coding and They ain't got stuff set up the way it need to be so if you in Palo Alto and you watching this In y'all next meeting Tell them to add back for those who go live on mobile the ability to make the chat members only and Make it easy to see and right there easy and simple. Come on. Y'all got to do better Y'all got to do better To become a blessed tribe member you will see it under my videos. It'll say join if it's available in your country So under my videos right under the bottom of the say join But I want to come on here ain't gonna be on here long not cuz I'm tired I probably have been on the phone six hours today coaching People one-on-one individual sessions Tomorrow night we have a session, but if you're not on the Academy mailing list then you didn't hear about it And that session we going we talking it'll be a slight recap of what I did on live last week but we're gonna go through some specifics and We we're gonna be talking through some things about the dating world and just dating with you know some boundaries today and So, you know, it's gonna get real But tonight I want to talk about this thing because I've seen a lot of people talking about marriage and things of that nature men speaking on marriage and Somebody just scored my wife hauling She watching somebody game She love get excited when my son come around cuz you know You want to act like a super mom super soccer man? Then build that rapport with my son She know me don't lie She loves some sports. And so here's the thing. I want y'all to understand something Is that the reason why and it on God bless you the reason why a lot of men Are not talking about marriage The hollerin in my wife watching the soccer game See she about to have me Babe babe somebody thought something wrong with you Somebody thought something was wrong with you. Yeah, I'm trying to explain that Y'all keep that down a little bit in that I Somebody be the call the police on me. She said USA scored That's my wife though Sports so you come cross a soccer ticket send it her way But the reason I'm gonna tell you the truth about the reason why and I took another take on this on Instagram But my videos on Instagram after I go live I make them available for my subscribers because I try to give them something Because I don't get to pop on there a lot. So just for them supporting me I try to make my lives only archived now for my subscribers on Instagram Because they have subscriptions on there now And so I took a different take on there and I was talking about how when you were in a relationship And when you're working Whenever you in a relationship, you're gonna be going through It's gonna be a test if you're not going through a test the test is around the corner So that's why a lot of us don't get the breath to talk about our marriage or what we're going through because We working through it like we learning each other. We we working we Taking that time we trying to grow we trying to heal and so we don't get to talk about it because If you go to talk about victory Defeat be right around the corner Now the defeat may be temporary, but it'd be right around the corner. So then What it can take and do is It can make you look like or feel like a hypocrite so what I have to do is I have to String together a Bunch of wins So if you see me go for a whole week or two talking about business That means that in my marriage I'm working on myself as a man meaning I'm trying to Be more aware More alert like I'm being quiet. I'm being quiet to the world Because I'm listening to the spirit on what I need to be doing as a husband But I'm gonna tell you the other side the other side of why a lot of men are not Talking about marriage is because of cheating And here's the thing when men are cheating if A man is online praising marriage praising his girlfriend praising his wife Talking about this stuff. It is going to enrage somebody So just like the guy who went on the vacation with his lady and They went on The vacation with his lady his boyfriend Seen the vacation and his boyfriend is not his boyfriend. It's really just they look like It was like a one-night stand and the man came out and Was like, oh, it's funny to see how people on vacation when they was just at my house or just eat my salad or just know just Riding me or getting getting rolled last night or a couple nights ago and I'm My stomach did a double double somersault Because I'm visual and a man got a little meat on his bones He is not the swimmest thing in the world. So when he said that I I thought up Because I'm like Y'all were doing what and a man out there on on vacation with his lady That's why you don't see a lot of men post their woman because they have a work wife or They have a woman Who is on the side or a man on the side So if they come praising marriage and praising their relationship and the crazy thing about it That was interesting because the man he said he said I want to see more people talk about marriage And what they got to work through and what they got to deal with but it's like listen listen play boy It's a reason why a lot of guys not talking about it because a lot of guys ain't clean They act up a lot of guys ain't clean the act up And so you have to realize that When you go to talking You're going to be tested You're gonna be tested. It's gonna be trials and tribulations and You got to be ready. You got to be ready. And so you got the D8 three Come back on here Making noise telling not a bad person like the troll Yeah, listen ain't got time now Ain't got time So y'all need to I'm trying to talk so don't be in the chat Acting a fool because I ain't got time to be reading the message and trying to thank now because YouTube don't have it where I could put members only because the members have some sense So if you're not a member and you know, you don't have sense Then just be quiet if you have a sense then you could say something But understand this is really just supposed to be members in here So y'all have to sit like a fly on the wall and just partaking our Members live this for the members now So I just had to block somebody and then me to own like messages from people without a real picture and without a real name When you come in here DB 83 9 79 with a fake picture a picture of a dog boy Because if you're gonna talk crazy, you need to have a real picture. You need to have your name so I could find out your address And so listen to me So this is the thing is what we really really need and and and we will act dumb we will act dumb and we will act like Especially this new breed of man today this new breed of man today is deflecting and Pretending that we don't have issues and so The comedians and these entertainers entertainers started to say this thing of black men don't cheat and There's so far from the truth But what we hear and what we say we start to believe So literally men will start to tell themselves. I don't cheat. I don't cheat but they cheat Instead of saying I'm a cheater. I'm a dog and I need to grow up and I need to change my life A man will be cheating and telling himself. Oh, I'm not cheating and then you'll be and he'll actually believe it's live And then he'll tell itself. Well, oh other men got four wives Other men got multiple girlfriends other men have threesomes other men in polyamory and all of this right here So what I'm doing it ain't no big deal and we start to talk ourselves out of our common sense and that's what starts to break our relationships down and women cheat too But the thing about it is it's a different type is different types of cheaters So if you really pay attention to this and a lot of people don't have Enough data and a lot of people ain't got enough Going on so a lot of times nine out of ten times when a woman cheat on a man He has cheated on her or he has abandoned her Nine out of ten times there are women who cheat for no reason whatsoever But typically when a woman cheat for no reason whatsoever She typically is a woman who was stripped of her self-worth and her self-value Meaning she didn't have a father or she went through something traumatic and she forgot who she was a crop Nine out of ten times there are exceptions to the to the rules now So when you go on and you look at men You will see men cheat Who had a two-parent home? who Went through no trauma Who had a smooth-selling life and they'll cheat um, I Know a brother who he went on a podcast recently And he was talking about Healing with integrity he went on the the wifey podcast and he was talking about healing with integrity Well, I know the brother personally and He don't talk about his story. He don't tell his story, you know He teach people how to be a speaker and stuff like that but he's gone through two divorces and Just like the gentleman who doing the podcast y'all told me that he cheated on his ex-wife and went through a divorce So it's like as men we do so much talking and not enough healing We want to be on we want to do podcasts and we want to gallivant and we want to gas light instead of healing Instead of really growing we want to be in the spotlight and we want to make money But the growth happens in the dark The growth happens in silence the growth happening behind closed doors. You don't grow on a podcast You don't grow in the limelight you grow By doing the work But as men we don't want to heal and grow. We want to make money We we want to be out in the limelight. We want to be out there front center and the thing about it is this is Women and y'all have to forgive me women don't have any discernment Women don't have any discernment when I say women. I don't mean every single woman I mean the majority just like when I was talking about men on me every single man I'm talking about the majority The majority of women don't have discernment. So here women sitting on Sitting and watching men Who have been through divorces talk on love and relationships and Eating it all up not realizing that these men still Ain't got it right Still ain't grow to the point to where They could get into a real relationship. That's not about money. That's not about cloud That's not about being with a celebrity. That's not about being with a fantasy and Worked on it with a real everyday woman and got it right and Just eat it up. Somebody just sent me a clip of the guy The single relationship coach With the locks He he sitting there talking on one of the biggest podcast is on the guy on Jay Shetty He on the Jay Shetty podcast Giving relationship advice Single as a dollar bill Single as a dollar bill So now the responsibility comes from the host It's like so now if you are a host You need to make sure the people that you are interviewing have credibility not just association So what they doing is they going and they looking oh well you went on this podcast You went on this podcast you went on this podcast or you got this PR or you got that PR So I'm gonna bring you on my podcast, but they're not thinking about credibility like I just seen the the podcast Earn your leisure. They're promoting P. Diddy new app for black businesses Well, when you have an app and you have transactions you get a piece of that transaction. I Have not heard a P. Diddy artist Say that they've been compensated fairly So I'm not getting on no kind of out where My money got to go through P. Diddy hands So if I am a Platform owner I'm not fixing to Put I'm not finna promote to my audience Somebody who is notoriously known for ripping people off Like come on Come on just to be associated With somebody So this is another reason why men are not talking about marriage because it's not enough married men and And men are too worried about Association Men are too worried about being and looking cool So men is is it's like oh If I come out and I say I love my wife and my wife is the reason that You know, I changed my life and my wife stood by me then Men assume other men gonna be like your a simp and You're saying this for applause from women That's how men look at it. Oh You your old you soft. Oh You a simp is I seen another guy He was he's praising You know his woman He prays in his one minute. She's amazing woman. She this and that she amazing woman, but At the end of a carousel He's selling his course so now Every man is gonna look at it even if it's completely pure Every man is gonna look at it as oh this is This how you you using this story this sweet story to get women to buy your course and That's what they say So I was talking about marriage on on a new app threads. I'm talking about marriage and I'm talking about Talking about marriage and doing this and here come this guy in the comments and he taught my He's saying something we going back and forth and he was like I'm not gonna knock your hustle. I know this how you You know, I ain't gonna knock your hustle Now mind you I ain't sold nothing on threads. I ain't promoting nothing on threads But he come in assuming that just because I'm talking about marriage and Why we don't talk about marriage often enough as married people because we focusing on the work He assumed that it's a angle that it's a hustle For me to be talking about marriage and I'm like So I wrote myself, bro, you sound stupid Because this ain't even how I make a living so it's like when I'm The majority of my money Come from me creating things outside of love and relationships So it's like when you watch my videos When you watch my videos a lot of time talk, I'm riding just talking Well, YouTube pay you now that ain't majority of my income, but YouTube put ads on your videos and they pay you But I'm not sitting up here and just pandering to men or two women Because a lot of the men who accuse men of pandering to women those men be pandering to men as a heterosexual male If I was going to pander, I'd rather pander to women than to men Because what do I say about a man who was pandering to men? You want some you want somebody to wear you out the frame Tell you out the frame That's what that say So it's like when men want to be seen and approved by other men When another man can't do nothing for you Another man cannot bring your child into this world A another man cannot lay with you cuddle with you Unless y'all in that life, but for for a heterosexual man another man can't do nothing for me He can't do nothing for me, but be my brother and if he gonna be my brother then guess what? He judging me for what for the message that God and put on my heart and that's What I see today and I'm gonna tell y'all not and I'm gonna be real with you And we're gonna go back we're gonna go through this a little bit tomorrow in our class But we we're gonna have Q&A as well. So that'll make it a little more in-depth but I'm gonna tell you something is If you are a single mom If you're a single mom Do not or if you're a single father, we're gonna talk about that side too But if you are a single mom do not make your son your husband Do not make your son your boyfriend Do not make your son your king If you a single mom know that your son is your son and you have to raise him to be a strong respectable man If you are a single dad, do not make your son your homie Do not make your son Your your role dog Raise your son to be a respectable man Today what I'm seeing is so many sexually confused men who present as heterosexual and they present or they present as masculine men But they actually are sexually confused and the reason why they are sexually confused is One because they were around their mom so much they heard girl talk all the time and They seen nails getting done hair getting done and they were in the conversation of women all the time to the other reason is because of pornography and That pornography takes these men and women down a path to saying sex sex and so these men You gotta think about it When somebody is watching porn, it's like watching animals in a zoo Because if you will record that an intimate act For other people to see you've taken yourself from a human and you made yourself an animal that is in a zoo and if you Are a man and You are dealing with women You are used to that So what is going to be intriguing to a young mind? To somebody that's nine ten eleven twelve It's gonna go from man and woman to man and two women to woman and woman To man and man and these young men are being turned out and That's why you can't let your children have a cell phone or a computer in their room When it's time for your children to go to bed Regardless of their age, they need to come and plug up their electronics in your room and Your child should not have a TV in their room and if they do it should not have cable or anything like that and They should have to bring you the remote and you need to check you need to put them to bed You need to make sure all of their devices are out of their room and in your room and Then you need to make sure you have their remote if they have a TV and when you put them to bed You need not go to sleep until they are asleep So you need to stay up for another hour and you need to come back and check and make sure they sleep inside Because these children are raising themselves and they're being led to pornography even at the Christian schools and That is why these men today because porn came out Sometime back. That's why men today are struggling finding a wife Because it's either the man don't know how to relate to a woman or it's the women their meeting don't know how to relate to a man I've seen a post the other day that said every woman is bisexual and That really bothered me that really bothered me Because although I know it's not true. I know it's a piece of truth, too And so even with women You need to be careful with thinking that you're special and Thinking that you can say oh, she's sexy. Oh, she fine Because those are sexual terms So a woman should never call another woman if you are not a lesbian You should never call another woman sexy or Fine You could say she pretty you could say she beautiful But don't use sexual terms from a woman to a woman and the reason why so many women do that is because so many women also watching porn and Also going to the strip club Soon as they get 18 they go into the strip club with their homeboys or with a boyfriend Or with a homegirls. So now women are starting to see women Sexually and then that's making it That's making it hard for a woman to relate to a man Because a woman is now getting with a man but would rather the company and the love of another woman and so We have to understand that this sexual Perversion is happening on both sides and That men and women are being turned out To the point that they're being turned out internally But externally still presenting as heterosexual But being turned out Internally so that when they go to a heterosexual relationship, they don't know how to make it work Because of what they've been feeding themselves What they've been telling themselves and so We got to understand that and It's getting real it's getting real It's getting real my wife told me the other day she was like today It's more likely for a woman to shoot her shot than it is for a man She said it's more likely for a woman to shoot her shot at her than it is for a man to shoot his shot and that's sad That is sad that so many women today is telling me that men not really approaching like that There's so many women saying men not really and y'all remember a day We all remember a day to where it didn't matter what you would look like everybody Everybody was getting approached Everybody's getting approached because we have social media. We didn't have pornography on our phone everybody was getting approached and It's in them to tell you something a lot of women is coming and they said oh Tony I'm seeing this type of woman that type of woman that type of woman married and I don't understand how she married. I don't understand. How did woman? How did one got a man, huh? I said listen. She don't have a man She have a girlfriend That is posing as a man That her man got her as a cover-up Because don't think that you working on your mind you working on your three bees and you Single as a dollar bill and hit his woman who ain't even got one bee She ain't worked on one bee and she got a husband. Don't think that she she up That she a better person than you know, she have a girlfriend that is calling himself a man But she don't know men. She don't have a discernment. She don't understand She can't see that switch in his hips She don't know that her man like me She don't know that that man who was selling them fake dinners was was just writing Her man the night before they went on vacation. She don't know that she don't have a discernment And so that's what you have to realize So the other day my son showed me this boy Who play college basketball? For Duke he painted nails He painted nails and he do a bunch of love very feminine dances and I say son. No, don't I say Don't think that that's That he doing all that and still like just women Because that's spiritual When a man go to do all the stuff that a woman do He like and what a woman like Dandelion Tell you like that right now Tell you like that right now because it ain't nothing cool about it. It ain't nothing fly by it. It ain't nothing swaggy by it He he he won't he want him or he Getting him some Dandelion Tell you right now and that right there is becoming a man paint his nails is becoming the new signal It's becoming a new signal to other men to slide in the DM because That's the only reason why they're doing it because that don't make no sense because I'm gonna tell you something and This all this is spiritual and really why I'm giving this this here game way Is because And I can't say everything and I can't say all the names and stuff on here That's why we haven't class tomorrow night. So we could talk unfiltered names and everything Can't do all that on here Y'all got to forgive my Do that Even now clear polish is not the same as painting is as a color polish but clear polish still Takes us into a feminine space. I used to put clear nail polish On my nails and then when I did it, I felt sassy I'm gonna tell you like that right now. I ain't want no man Ain't want no man But I felt sassy It just meaning you feel you feel Feminine you feel real pretty You feel real pretty And so listen it's certain things that a 100% heterosexual man Just not gonna do I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm Be honest with you. I Can't even sit with my legs cross. I Can't even sit with my legs cross Because for one I got something between my legs That if you crunch it it hurts. It's full of nerves So for one I can't even I just don't even feel comfortable I've never once in my 39 years crossed my legs So even though almost every man so many men cross their legs when I see a man cross his leg He might not like me But do you do you do you like man-on-man, huh? Do like what up, dude? What else do you like because it just not even genetically it don't even make genetic sense Not genetic but anatomical biological Whatever you want to call the sense for us to cross our legs with all of that sitting right there between our legs You crunching up all you're crunching up and like That's painful like right now if I try to sit here in front of my leg I Can't do it So I have never once in my life and I ain't and I'm not knocking nobody because almost It's a lot of me and see what they lay across but what I'm trying to tell you is You have to be careful of That spiritual perversion You got to be careful and It's a lot of me and feeling real sassy Feeling real sassy And they go to they go to venturing with a mind. They go to venturing with their mind and The thing about it is the black man don't cheat was started by men Who have multiple women? So then it started to make us not accept Responsibility for our actions and for the change that we need to make in our life And so we stopped accepting The responsibility to make the change because we were not admitting to our shortcomings We were not admitting that most of us never seen Even five men Be completely faithful to their woman We were not admitting that most of us had never been faithful to a woman We weren't admitting it and so that that is why So many men And here's the thing men with big brands Men with Multiple children Men with a big Role in society When you like a principal or a Police officer When we're looking at it It's so many men Who have so much to lose and still cheat? I remember getting on the get on the phone with two well off ambitious Successful black men And when I got on the phone One of the men who knew me my whole life He introduced me He said to the other man he said a Such-and-such you know that stuff we be doing on the road This guy here he don't do none of that He don't do none of that what he was saying for those y'all don't understand what he was saying He was saying you know how we be cheating on our wives on the road This man here does not cheat on his wife That's what he was saying And I was just I didn't know how to take it Cuz for one I was saddened I Was saddened because I'm like the question in my head was haven't y'all had enough Like we we done slept with three women in a day You know one of the gentlemen on the phone Hadn't slept with 13 women in a day I'm like Haven't y'all had enough Like why like why are we still cheating? Like I'm not understanding like why are we still taking that risk like we took sexual education class So we know that just based on statistics. It's only so much Sex you're gonna have before you catch something that you cannot get rid of so I saw I was saddened because and then what I also was saddened is because Their wives gorgeous So I'm like man This is a gorgeous woman classy respectable And she being cheated on she don't deserve that So I'm thinking like that because at that point, you know, I'll Of course, I was older. I was in my marriage But before I got married I had already been with over a hundred women And only reason why people know that because I tell people that because a lot of times And so that's where it's a little unfair for me is because a lot of these guys Who you see online? You could kind of look at them and tell that they never had women and that they never was in that place and Women be shocked when I tell that but I tell it because that that was normal Like and I was on the low end Like my homeboys will be sleeping with with girls and I'll be like now. I ain't touch her So I by the age of 21, I had slept with over a hundred women with and I had standards It's down So because it was a lot of women that I turned down It was a lot of my new now bronze great. I'm scraped y'all finna y'all finna do that y'all fin new I'm straight And so listen, that's how easy it is and I'm like and that's honestly and this what men don't understand and that's why I try to tell me and all the time The reason why I lean more to Educating women is because I know how easy it was for me when I was in the field When I was in the field Women was so blind Women was so gullible Women was so easy to trick so easy to manipulate so easy to control so easy to deceive and That's what taught me that a woman was made for love Because it's me and we don't trust nobody But a woman would come in and she would come in and women come in and give a man everything When we come in and they believe the best of a man women come in and they believe this man finna love me He's the one he gonna marry me. He finna be this he finna be that like women will come in and just be Just wild open for a man and when I saw that 99% of the women I met Was willing to sleep with me on the first night It broke my heart It broke my heart, but I didn't know better. I ain't no better and So I was like man In a sense of I knew better, but I wasn't being taught better like that wasn't a thing like we weren't taught Coming up old save yourself until marriage So it was like Christians Even though we in the church everybody in the church fornicate like The pastors all the pastors daughters was pregnant All the pastor's sons was dope boys or still in or so it was like the church was more about tradition and Religion than a relationship with God The pastors were sleeping with the members the deacons were sleeping with the members Anybody who ever grew up in a black church or in any church because they did in Hillsong too And and a lot of the white church is doing it too. Well anybody who ever grew up in church, you know that this is The church is full of sick people The church is full of people who need Jesus and a lot of people ain't trying to get it on a lot of people just live and So we was in there and we was full of sin. We were full of sin And so that didn't mean nothing that didn't mean nothing and It started to cause us so that's why I tell me in the day. Oh, why you oh, why you Always calling the man. I why you always giving them giving away the game. It's because when you played the game At the level that I played it and you saw that in my life in my life There was In my life, I meant three women Okay, no for that turned me down that when I made a move sexually they said no the five My wife was one And at the same time around with my wife It was two other women One of the young ladies I didn't really counter because she had just came out of relationship The other young lady was 10 years older than me the other young lady was 20 years older than me and Then the other young lady was when I was young when I was you know a jet and I tried how that y'all know for those Y'all who followed me on here the young lady with a thick tongue and So I can count on one hand How many times a Woman Turned me down when I the first time I made a move to sleep with her So that's why I Do what I do That's why I give away the game the way I give away the game because I realized a lot of women fathers Did not give them the game Because if a man give a daughter the game We got to tell on our self and A lot of men are not willing to take a cape off So they'll call me captain to save them, but they the one got a cape on because see me I Become Clark Kent and let you know where I fail that let you know my shortcomings But a lot of men Daughters are raised blind Because they won't tell a daughter the nature of men Because they know that daughter being intuitive is gonna say what that is that how you do mommy? Daddy have you done that the mommy and Then it's really no man in the world that can say Yeah, baby. I cheated on your mom. Oh, yeah, baby. I put hands on your mom Or yeah, baby, I didn't curse your mom out. Oh, yeah, baby. I control your mom So that's why so many women who are naive To the nature of a man and they go in With wide eyes and they like a deer in headlights Not really that that man is a f-150 With his foot on the gas and he coming to take off for everything she got She very rarely do a does a man come to a woman to give life Doesn't man come to a woman to protect her when we come as a man. We coming to take We come in to get a woman on her back Get a woman to open her purse Get a woman the open son open her mind get a woman to open her ears. We come into take Very rarely does a man go to a woman and say listen. I Want you to say your body I Want you to say your body and I want you to stop giving your body away I want you to say your body and I want to get to know you and I want to get to know who you are here And I don't even want to sleep with you. I don't want to sleep with you I don't want no support from you while I'm getting to know you meaning because I got God to support me or my mama to support me or I Got some I'm I got me. I Want to get to know you who are you? Now how many women Have you met? Who's who could tell you? That a man came to them and did not pressure them for sex Got to know them For who she really was fell in love with her and then followed through Married her and then was faithful to her And see that's where we going wrong is As men we supposed to be protectors We supposed to be protectors, but we we cannot be protectors until We are honest about the wolves In sheep's clothing We cannot be protectors until we are honest about the issues in the count We cannot have better marriages and better lives Until we are honest about what's really going on. Look how many women say never heard that none None and this is why I try to get men to understand but see that's why it's not many of us because in order to have this revelation From God you have to get over yourself as a man In order to have this revelation you have to stop Feeling sorry for yourself as a man You have to stop being the victim. You have to stop thinking what is in it for me What can I get and you have to put the shoe on the other foot and you have to seek to understand as men we have to say How many men treated my mother like a queen as Men we have to say how what man gave my mom a covenant and kept the covenant as Men we have to say did I see my father? Not control my mom or not put hands on my mom or not cheat on my mom And so we have to realize that as men if we didn't even see that from our own father Then where Did it happen at? But we are walking around as men with this delusion That we have no work to do that we perfect beings that we don't cheat That we need a woman to bow down and to serve us and we're not thinking about what trauma Do I need to heal? Have I healed from the person that I kill? Have I healed from the person that I seen get killed? Have I healed from Seeing my mom get beat have I healed from my sister being raped? Have I healed from my sister being beat? Have I healed from seeing my aunt's be beat? Have I healed from seeing my grandmother be have I met a woman who I Believe she's never been cheated on by her man so if I can't if I can't take and See a Woman who I believe has never been cheated on by a man or is with a man Who I believe has never cheated on her Then How am I believing that we as men don't have issues that we need to work out? How are we believing that? So we have to come to a place to where We could say This is an issue This is an issue So if if we as men got homeboys Who are married and We go around our homeboys and we on the road and we on a guy's trip and our homeboy will kiss another woman Sleep with another woman do something with another woman Then how am I telling myself? That women cheat as much as men If every man I know When presented with the opportunity Cheats on his woman or If 80% of the men I know when presented with the opportunity Cheats on his woman. How am I telling myself that we don't have a problem as men? That the problem is women That women too hard Women not submissive like my wife is Jamaican and she was raised by a Jamaican woman And her mama her mama told me a little bit of her story Like last month Her mama was was You hear me Her mama bust a man head to the white meat cuz he touched them He touched it without her permission And hopped on his bike and tried to ride off. She picked up a rock through it bust a man head to the white meat That's how her mama move Her mama threatened to kill me me and my wife got into it a Few months after we got married her mama called me like Liam Neeson She said you ever in your life Touch my daughter again. I kill you and I didn't even hit her My wife was trying to leave and I was trying to hold and so we got into a wrestling tussling match And I end up letting her go because she was trying to go so bad I realized that if I made her stay I would have to hurt To make her stay because she was trying to leave with that much force and her mama called and threatened my life So it's strong as my wife is If I asked my wife right now baby If it's after 10 o'clock if I say baby you'll go get me a burger from steak and shape She'll look at me like I'm crazy, huh? Are you serious? Are you kidding me? And she'll go get that she'll go get that burger from steak and shape and when I tell you She flip at the mouth When I tell you she'll tell me about myself When I tell you she's strong when I tell you she don't care no about me giving her a solid treatment When I tell you she don't care about me getting no attitude when I tell you she don't care about none of that Anything I asked my wife to do she'll do it But yet men say women too hard women not submissive Women all this and it's lies that we telling ourselves Because if you take and you choose a woman with some class With some self-respect with some dignity with a heart if you love her and you treat her the way You should be treating her then she's going to reciprocate that If you chose a woman who was raised by wolves If you chose a woman who was a savage if you chose this woman because of her beauty and her booty Then yes You're gonna get cussed out Yes, you're gonna get spit in your face. Yes, you're gonna have a woman that does not respect you that will not submit to you as a man because You chose a woman Based on the wrong characteristics So we have to understand this but see as men we're not being open and honest about this We just moving and we painting this narrative in our mind and We're feeling like the victims and we're feeling sorry for ourselves And we want women to be as bad as us and we want women to be worse than us in our mind But when we actually look around I've heard of One time where a guy girlfriend punched him in the nose picked him up Body slam him on the car and punched him in the nose But his wife played linebacker in the LFL that's the only Situation now I know it's other time where women are punch men and all of that but When we truly as men look at it And we look around and we see how many men do we know that's abuser? How many men do we know that cheap? How many men do we know? And then when we looking we see women how many women do we see? Beaten on a man How many women do we see cheating on a man? So loud now listen, I tell you it's five women That I tried to make a move on in my entire life that turned me down When I tried on that first move Now I cannot tell you how many women I Can't even count how many women That as a young black man With a nice body with a nice car With Two cell phone Looking like money. I cannot tell you how many women That I tried a holland That said to me That they have a boyfriend or that they have a husband I'm in my try to holler at a woman And I don't look like the bottom of a shoe. I don't look like somebody chewed up and spit me out I remember I tried to holler at a woman in the light outside of the club and she gave me a fake phone number. I Called the number The phone answer Assucker You thought you had a number dummy Yeah, no number This ain't no number look like Now listen when that woman did that to me I Felt like driving off a bridge Now listen, this is what I want you to do. I want you to ask yourself, okay How many women how many men on e-podcast? That before they but that before Tony lost his heli and Before Tony put that weight on how many men on e-podcast hands down would have would have looked better than Tony So listen if women were giving me fake numbers and Women were telling me they got a boyfriend then what you think The men that look like this hill and the men that look like this hill lamp went through They went through what I went through and more So when that lady gave me that fake numb and I felt like driving off that bridge That is the feeling that Seven out of ten single men have today They are hurt They are hurt They have been lied to They have been They've been played They have been ran through the mud they have been took through these circles They don't they don't went through this stuff. So guess what? They hurt they is angry And I'm gonna try and I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest with you the only Podcast that I could think of that got men Who I feel like could have had they way? with as many women as they wanted to is Is the pivot and There's a sports podcast. They don't talk about relationships. There's a sports podcast so Near I could be missing one Or two But nearly every other podcast that I look at I could tell that them men Was outside the club That they was at the bike of the line That they was the homeboy Who The girls cheated off they test They were the homeboy who gave the girl they lunch money so she could get So she could get a piece of pizza at lunch and he'll just eat the regular lunch or he wouldn't eat Or he wouldn't eat he'll give And see the thing about it is women don't have discernment cuz see so I can't even lean on y'all to tell me who y'all think used to could get women because when as soon as a man get a beer and Get some money and get a platform y'all don't know what y'all be talking about But see men know me men know me Men know men and so I'm looking around at these men Yeah, he was the teddy bear Yeah, he was the teddy bear Yeah, he was the one letting the woman cheat off a test And and that's how women will do you and they'll keep you right in that space They'll keep you right in that space. I remember when I met my wife She had a whole book of DVDs from another man that she never dated If I let you hold a DVD I'm finna wear that thing out you not finna have $10,000 worth of DVDs and ain't diving off in that thing Black O'Vallet SPLACK So this what you have to understand the narrative is Being created by men who are angry They are hurting Because the girl that they got in high school She slept with the quarterback She slept with the running back and they go through a lot They go through a lot the men went through a lot. So the reason why they get mad at me is because I was on the other side of it and I was dogging women out So I wasn't experiencing the hurt So they say man, you will sell you will sell and Now they get into deflect and call me a simp because they have been a simp all their life They were the real sense of the word simp and so it hurt them so now they want to take and they want to They want to get back They want some get back Now they like hey, I Got I'm making six figures Um, I got a platform. I got a following. Hey I'm finna dog these women out often tell Often to tell these women about they sell and they literally Taking the pain from one woman Maybe two women and they unleashing that pain on a whole generation They warping the minds of our young men They warping the minds of our young men It's just like the guy That these men look up to it's not think about it and God rest his soul But if you look at Kevin Samuels Never have a man who wear a cross body with a scarf and cross their legs and stand feminine Being able to get a bunch of women never Never But that's who the guys worship When you look at the guy even who they they other father Andrew tape Andrew is tall but When you watch him talk, he has a list He has a list and When you look at his ears and how his ears sit off of his head and the fact that He has he went bald and Then look like went to get the hair treatment over there in Turkey And so it's coming back real fuzzy and stuff like that And somebody say he walked funny You take that man with them ears with that list With their hairline and you put him in a 12 year old body You take a man who don't have a gut now ain't got a gut still slender and lean Naturally Don't even look like he really could be big and You take that and you put that in a 12 or 15 year old body He would get bullied and That's probably what led him to doing MMA So that he could stop being bullied but see people don't pay attention to this people don't pay attention to it and So when these men come out and put women in a place When you when you strong You don't want to put somebody in a place that you say is weaker than you So if a man believes that a woman is the weaker vessel Then why would a man have to Strong on her and put her in her place if he already believed she the weaker vessel if a man believe That a woman is the weaker vessel as the Bible says Then that man wants That woman to have the last piece of food. He wants her to have the advantage He wants her to be first in line. He won't hurt her to eat first. He want to protect her He want to lift her up He want to bless her if he truly is strong and he believes that she is The weaker vessel as they say But they'll say a woman is less than them a woman is weaker than them a woman is this a woman is that but then be Yelling at the one women Cursing the women out strong arm and women. So it's like we only do that when we intimidated by somebody if you're not Intimidated by somebody Did you never want to? You never want to put them in a place. You never want to Scraping them out like You want to straighten out a bullet you want to straighten out the bad guy and So that's truly how they be Seeing a woman and that's why we having a breakdown of men And I've been guilty of it. I have been guilty of it I don't been sucked in to that mindset of Want to have complete control Want to have complete say so Want to have a woman in her place want to have a woman under my foot Because of I had to realize that the men I'm looking up to is weaker than me No, the men I'm looking up to is is is lame The minimum I'm looking up the names Like of course he mad with women because he's a lame Because he'd have been treated like a lame his feelings hurt his heart hurt. So yeah, he mad with women But a man who don't feel like that He want to build a woman up. He want to strengthen the one So the thing about it is now I don't look at nobody I heard a quote that says a man said that The makeup of a man is his history and his biography So when I look at somebody I don't look at who they are right now Because who they are right now is based on what the world has done to them and how they have responded to it So when I look at somebody I look at them as a child Who were they when they were a child? How did the world treat this person? Based on their body type their skin complexion their speech their look What did the world do to them because we know the world has its constructs and we know That the world is set up in a way that the world is cruel the world is cruel So when you see somebody as an adult like if you see a man with a beard You got to picture him without that beard Because he didn't have that beard at 12 and that's really where his personality was shaped That's really what who he was And so you got to be able to see somebody and say, oh This person Okay, yeah and the same thing when I see women and this is what I try to tell me because sometimes they'll put women in a box Then this one when I look at a woman I don't look at who she is as an adult. I Asked myself What did that woman go through as a teen? What did she go through as a child? What okay if she giving that thing away and she out here just on her bike on her bike on her bike What's her story when I'm looking to that story Not out of 10 times. I see that she was victimized as a youth I see that she was taken advantage of as a you and I see that she lost her dignity. She lost her self-respect. She lost her self-law and That right there That's why she is who she is today When I meet a woman who is Unrealistic I look at that woman and I say I Look back at her life and I say, okay Well, who was you raised by? Majority of the time she was raised with with her father a unrealistic woman who don't know what to expect from a man and What I realized is she is unrealistic About what to expect from a man because her dad has lied to her her whole life Her dad has pretended to be perfect. He's pretended to be Superman so now She believes that this man is supposed to be just like her dad Not realizing that her dad is called and commissioned to love her Unconditionally because she is his responsibility and he brought her into the world but it is not that man's responsibility to love a woman who is entitled and Disrespectful that that husband that boyfriend who is in Process to become a husband has the right to walk away then he got the right to walk away because She is not his responsibility and that even when he marries her if she Start the disrespect in him and dog in your mind that She breaking a covenant and he got the right to walk away and then The same thing with a woman who doesn't have a father if she unrealistic It tells me that her mom Lied to her and told her all of these things Because of what she went through and if her mom didn't make a marriage work She was raised by her mom and her mom left that marriage her mom may give her a unrealistic Expectation of what marriage is supposed to be Because she didn't find or meet a man who they figured it out and they learn how to make it work So that's why a lot of times single men and women Men and women who was raised by a single parent a lot of times their default ends up being single because what they saw is Is either Unrealistic example that didn't have both sides to balance or They saw walking away For reasons that could have been worked through And then we have those exceptions where is whether there's one parent or two parent where a real representation of Love is shown so you have parents who will tell their child a You got somebody good man or woman You got somebody good and you can't just run away because you unhappy Because The toilet seat being left up because you're not getting your way all the time because this right here that right there You're not being cheated on you're not being beat on the rest of the stuff. You're gonna have to work through Y'all gonna have to learn how to communicate Y'all have to learn how to work together Y'all have to learn how to have conflict and then how to have Resolution it is going to be hard. You are going to cry. You're going to sweat You're gonna need counseling or coaching or prayer or all of the above But you got to make it work. You've not in danger Your life is not on the line. You've not been you know doled out so shut up with this you unhappy or You bored and make their relationship work And it's some parents who gonna tell their kids that but then some parents they only gonna take their child side Oh, that's not fair. Oh, that ain't right. Oh, that ain't right And a lot of times now a lot of times it's a disgruntled Married parent or it is a single parent to where they don't seek to understand And that's what I love about my daddy That's what I love about my dad when I call my daddy If I'm in the wrong He gonna tell me Tony wrong Tony wrong He gonna tell me I'm wrong If my wife in the wrong, he gonna tell me Don't she in the wrong and this what you need to tell her did what you need to say And then when I'm in the wrong time, you're in the wrong and this what you need to do And that's what we need from parents. We need parents whether they are single or whether they are married and Unhappy we need parents to be able to tell a child a truth Because we getting a little bit of discomfort We're getting a little unhappy and we running from the smoke We running from the work and that's why our society is breaking down that's why our society breaking down right now because Men hating women women hating men and everybody is competing and I'm gonna tell you something that I'm seeing That and I'm gonna tell you something. It's just how I talked to you how I talked to you about the men That is out here With these podcast that's bashing women that's going in on women Let me tell you about what's on the woman side of it. That is getting despicable is getting nasty We have too many nasty women I'm telling y'all women do not Get sucked in to the devil's playing playground of being nasty Because I'm seeing women post sexual stuff online and women is in the comments Yeah, ooh this and that ooh this and that like the girl from London She always post a nasty question and then you got women with no class going into the tweets and And Sharon all the nasty business Take your nasty behind to the altar in prayer Do not let the these demons who is trying to destroy Relationships because here go this woman. I don't know her name. Oh lonely or only or something like that on Twitter I don't know if she's still out there doing it, but she always will ask a stupid question Stuff that is supposed to be between a person and God She will ask a stupid per question and then she will have all of these broken loss nasty women in the comments Yeah, I cheated on my man while he was in the bed next to me But yeah, I slept with my man best friend. Oh, yeah, I slept with two women at the same time and then Had my man do this to me or do that to me and he didn't know it Yeah, I had a boyfriend the whole time while I was with my man. So now Now all of the men Who want a wife? They want a wife. No, this is on Twitter. They want a wife. They want to get married They're going to these pages that is posting these stupid questions Tell your dirtiest secret. Tell what nobody knows Tell your your worst cheating episode Tell a fantasy you have Would you cheat on your man with? 50 cent for a million dollars Would you they asked each question to? Ratchet women and then ratchet women become the voice for all women and Then Men we sitting there in the comments. We looking at the comments and we losing all faith and hope in women and in humanity and We sitting there and so it's going both ways So the same way women could watch men on these podcasts and you start to lose hope the same way men could watch women on these podcasts and start to lose hope and And it affects all of us when these women start telling the stuff they did All of us including myself is looking at our woman with a side eye Um, baby Let's talk to you for a second. Oh Somebody posed this question online about like the sneakiest thing you'd never did And um, I want to know What I don't I know you ain't gonna incriminate yourself But like before me like what's what was the slumiest thing you never did to a guy? That's how all those be Then my mom what what are you talking about? Man listen, I'm not like those women and then she had to remind she got to put sense into my head Listen to what you're saying If a woman she like I don't even tweet so if a woman will go online and Tweet that she has did this or that We are not the same You know what? You're right you're right Not every woman is the same But we don't realize that the same thing of if a man say something a man could say You know if I'm doing this right here if I'm providing I'm paying the bills Then a woman need to be a woman need to make my woman need to be cooking every day So now every woman she looking like man got a cook here today Just to have a provider man When it's men out here who we don't care nobody home cook meal Yeah, we like it, but it's not a deal breaker. It's not something that I'm Moving furniture. I'm throwing furniture around if my wife don't feel like cooking But when we hear something we believe it So right now I want you to understand I want you to see the the perversion now in class tomorrow We're gonna be calling names. We won't be saying that I can't say names on here But in class tomorrow, we'll be calling that in class ain't no hill And if you're not in tonic gas in the category Of course, and you know the middle list and you get notified by the cloud that Now I don't try to get in class knock out. You don't unsubscribe from the middle But tomorrow we're gonna be calling names now when we call the name gonna be a real life is apples Celebrities and all we're gonna do we don't talk about these spirits, but when you see the spirit on a man On the hip podcast. I want you to realize that same spirit is on a woman on the hip podcast It's going both ways and it's showing up differently. It's gonna show up differently for the for the men This spirit has men showing up bitter Hurt and angry and for the women is having women showing up Slaughterhouse nasty with no Coot and self-respect Women is talking about he could cheat long as he cheat in peace or cheap Respectfully women talking about You got Ayala van Zunt Tom, I shall be one of Many wives So she don't have to be taking care of a man every day and doing all of that. I Say nah, see that that right there Is the devil's work and that's what I've been trying to tell y'all that is what I've been trying to tell y'all y'all have watch Ayala fix your life on the own network for Decades and you and you is on there. You praise and Ayala You respect in her you loving her you ignoring the fact that she's not married and giving married couples advice and Telling them how to make a marriage work and she's single as a dollar bill and then she get to the height of her career and go on The breakfast club the number one radio show in the world and says that she is okay with Polyamory or polygyny or Polygamie or whatever they was talking about and Then it goes to explain why she'll be okay with it and why she'll do that And I say man But see that is how the devil work that's how the devil work She double will give you something good and give you all this good all this good all this good and Take you all the way Take you all the way to a valley Get you all the way out here in the wilderness and then say drink this poison Drink this poison We were by if she was married we talked about because if you was married and it didn't work Then that mean you don't have the recipe for it to work Regardless of why it didn't work So you could tell why it didn't work, but you cannot tell how it will work That's gonna take experience So that's what got to be understood, but we letting so many single people Give relationship advice instead of single advice Give single advice on how to be happy single give single advice on how to be How to have self-love? Give that single advice You got to give advice from what you where you at and where you in it You can't tell lots. I don't know why we lost But see what I try to tell y'all is this how the adversary work The adversary gonna give you some good give some good give some good give some good and Then you're gonna end up at a concert and they're gonna pass out some juice You're gonna drink that juice and everybody gonna fall to the ground You're gonna be following somebody who's saying something right and When you so bought in and you so in love with the man or the woman and their message Their message has pulled you out of your darkest times If they're working for the devil, they're gonna get to a place where they're gonna tell you Something that is going to destroy everything that you've built So just like the single relationship coach He was on a podcast talking about he used to be abstinent But he was saying used to be He used to be So now that sends a message as that sends a message That fornication is okay that you could talk about God and say God and be living in sin against God Now it's sending a message that if you meet him and y'all started talking You y'all gonna be having sex that he expects you to sleep with him because he's no longer abstinent and With all of these women out here When a man got over a million followers and he talking good If he is not full of it It should be easy to get a woman If he's not full of it, but these women is getting these men behind closed doors and Realizing that they full of it realizing that they scam artists because it's single men Who given relationship advice and it's single men who got a podcast that Ain't ain't la la Anthony single and she out there You know celebrity Some of the generous sister's probably single Lot of the actresses is single Lot of the pro-athletes women is single lot of the R&B single is single like LeBron James Friend who got Adele High in the world is Adele single at that level If you got women single at the highest heights of their career That means it is no excuse for these men with millions of dollars and millions of followers to be single Because you is not that good. You is not that smart and you is not that special There is a million women out here that is worthy of being your wife So if you're gonna be single for decades giving advice on relationships When all of these single people is out here, you need to shut up and sit down You need to shut up You need to take the money that you're making from scamming people on relationship talk Take all of the millions invested into real estate buy you 50 houses and collect rent Get 50 to a hundred thousand dollars a month in rent checks and shut up talking about love and relationships and go into the closet and Work on yourself pray fast and intercede in the God that you say you believe in until God send you your wife and Then when you get your wife and you figure out how to make it work And you loving her and you faithful Then come back out and get back to talking about love and relationships But until then y'all need to shut up Trying to be famous trying to have notoriety and trying to make money pimping relationships when you not living it and If you whatever you living Then pimp that If you living single so low and happy Get aired get air dime out of that you can But if you living single so low and happy stop talking about a successful relationship That you don't have and that you wasn't able to make work talk about your mistakes Until people don't make the mistakes and leave it right now Gone about your business. Let's let me get on out here at 100 minutes. It's look like my oldest son getting in the shower and My throat heard me Listen to me. It's time now. It's time Now tomorrow night. We got class tomorrow night. I Said you could pay what you want to pay for the class Somebody sent one cent. I say man, somebody trolled me Somebody said what's it? I'll say and you know what? It was dumb of me The way I did it because I posted the PayPal link and the reason why I post the PayPal link is because PayPal have PayPal credit so Because some people on finance $25 Because we we just in that state right now. So I sent the PayPal link Somebody sent an e-check So that means the pavement don't even come to after the class and then somebody sent one cent I Say you might as well just right in and say Tony only got one cent Can I have a class for free? So doing me like that The PayPal took one cent because they got a minimum that they're gonna take on transaction. So I ain't even get one cent PayPal. Oh, thank you. That's a donation of us. I Say man come on And listen sometimes I have to do these classes because I can't say everything on here Can't say everybody name because see the way I'm the way I mess is If I have to call a name and then somebody got come for me I'll be them went to jail and so because I know what my mind said that and that's where the Lord working on me I have to be careful to not put myself in a place to where the devil could snuff me out Because the devil know he's not gonna get me to cheat on my wife And I don't say that a lot of times and it's been no women coming my DM and try to shoot they shot It's been women come my DM and they'll try to strike up a conversation But they ain't shooting no shot and so well devil know he'll get me in me slapping fire to somebody Or me laying somebody down to send them to meet the Lord and that's what he'll have me locked up And so I have to I have to go behind I Have to go behind the paywall sometimes with Individuals who really serious and really about their work in addition to doing these free hour and 40 minute And the other night we did three or four hours in addition to these sometimes I have to go Somewhere else because I have to be able to because see I have to be able to say names And I have to be able to call people out because I have to be able to I have to be able to point out Who the demon is residing in so that you know clearly who I'm talking about And and what and what that demon is doing in and through them So that if you're not there yet spiritually on that spiritual discernment It was a woman who sent the one sent I told why I'm like man, that's what I'm worth. I'm like man. I'm like man. How she see me But it was but it was a lot of people I said the class 25 hours But if you can't afford it send what you can a lot of people sent to dollars to dollars three dollars And so that's why if you didn't get an email you can't sign up for class if you didn't get an email That mean you're not in my ecosystem. You're not on my melodies, but um You know no real rider, so I can't just send a link to people. That's not on my list and And it's a certain way to get on the list. So Unfortunately, it's for the Riles for the Riles right here. No, that wasn't on the state now You need You can't mistake zero dot zero one That you can't say that Yeah Can't say that And so I had to pray man. I had to pray I had to pray and and I just had to pray and say Lord I'm just Lord, I hope this is all that she could do and Not just spending my faith So you're tomorrow, but we're gonna do in class. We're gonna have a class And we're gonna teach y'all know you gotta hear the same thing 16 times before you committed long-term memory So some of this stuff will cover but we also gonna have Q&A and not necessarily Q&A about your relationship And what you're going through but Q&A about you know, this right here what we What we dealing with spirits and the love and relationships and what you got to be prepared for and Brain your pen and pad because we don't talk about the do's and don'ts I'm gonna give you the do's and don'ts and you got to be really in the ride with it. And just like that Beauty Shan, this is not a Q&A It's not a Q&A and typically You not And also in the chat is just for members But I couldn't set that setting on here So y'all if you see the button up under the thing when I'm on my computer It just members could be in the chat. So it's a button up on the thing to say join You could join that if you want to be in the chat on the future lives when I'm on my computer But I'm on my phone tonight Now tomorrow night really not for married people But we will touch on it a little bit because the stuff that's going on in the spiritual realm or relationships is Affecting our marriages include by it affect all of us because we got to hear it And we got to navigate through it and we got to hear all this talk So, you know, but again if you didn't get the email, you can't be in the class And so the only way you could be in the class is if you got the email So if you got me blocked if you got me going to jump folder if you unsubscribe from the mailing list Can't be in class and the only way to get into The class is you got to be in a course on Tony gas and Academy calm so and And then that puts you on the list But even with that sometimes people don't get on there because they email be blocking stuff But hey, God bless y'all We'll talk soon