 Don't let someone who has never been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces. Someone did a version of this with me recently and I had to say to them, hang on, you would never be saying this to me if you'd been in my shoes. The fact that you're saying it tells me you have no idea what it's like to be in my situation. The example we were talking about. People want to be armchair experts about things they have absolutely zero experience with and therefore have no empathy towards. So be careful of those people that try to tell you how to live your life when you know they have not spent a second in the shoes I am in. You're doing fantastic. Love you guys, take care, speak soon.