 Kama niya kujana pa la nyumba ni safi majiya kukupale na hoga ni Uva kadele hekwa ni ni Nakini ni kifika kwa nyumba, nambia bibi hangu ni aji nata kafudu na skia Eiii Sharon, letia baba cha kula Aisha Sharon na nata cha kula Nambia bibi hangu bebi nata kwa kuga Eiii Aisha Tari shia baba majiya kwa kuga Aisha nata ya Risha Nama uno na kujapale na Alamu na pata Aisha Ni wala made mwata kwa zile family zeni wama fundisha Wama fundisha uile kitu na Somu zia na hangali eno na eish Ni kama rio Niaisha na nata Uya eisha kama ita kula Ameza na pikaivi ni kini na za pikaji Tafu na pata eisha ni wama fundisha What's up guys? Welcome to France Vibe Right here on SPM Baza My good name is a super host Miss Kithingi And I am joined By the gentlemen Introduce ourselves please Aja mgainej introduced Hi guys my name is Carlos Experience It's not me it's my mother which not me Yes my name is the great Eddie Boutita I didn't join you joined me Silvakido is my name Silvakido na lambazana Kristianata jamalizawa na month Bazi Ah so evil Can you share in the Aisha? Mafazwangu wa Uae Middle East Arab Nation Mafazwangu Kristianata juim tuka Kuna jamaflani na mandevu Bati ni fanoesfim baza Manise kutoka Saudi Atazile legit badu as jatoka Bana Thank you so much guys for the kids Pa kwa sa iko Bana na vaka utafit Okay Ebu Shara to our fans kwa Uae by the way Hey Saudi Arabia Dubai Shara to you guys Wait let me fool you guys Mi utaka potiri dika ezi zakuangari ya Mujwi zi information Uae is United Arab Emirates It is Iko Kiviake Kamanchi Iko na states kama Dubai Sharja Dubai is not a state Dubai is a city Brutulia kwa anza Kuna Dubai kuna Sharja Kuna Abu Dabi na kuna Ajman Those are the Emirates Those are the Uae ni They comprise them So where this hema Katar Saudi Arabia Do you have to parade to the entire nation No You corrected yourself Let's work with the first impression No Kitu mi na onani I always equal in front of national platform No Ume pele kwa na muzami ni juzi Kataru na anza Wacha wewe Bana Intakulati ya ki arji Misawa zana na wewe Kataru noha Bata zote zikwesia Guys, shout out to you guys You are our fans, we love you Do not be distracted by buti Thank you so much for all those comments That you leave down on the comments section We love you guys Sawa Now the topic of discussion Today is What is going on between Households and husbands Who is the problem Jukunam tu ananyanganyua Alafutena utu anasema Households nido shida Wenginu anasema mabu anandiyua wana adabu So I don't know what you guys Have to say about this Ono jukuniwa doona Ukuniwa zohana pila kulewa kaba Waita ono kongawarembu san Bia ikuwa nkitamu Niyuwa sibkidogo Weze baitene nama waita mabu hejangi Lakin isasa Ukitaftabibi sutaftabasi bibimrembu kama waita ama Ono jukidufanika Nama waifa waili wagi Nimoja wanome tu sii nika moa toto Wanome zitu waga moa toto Wememe Wawatoto ati in terms of alchemy ama Watoto upenda, calm down Just listen Watoto upenda nani Watoto upenda wile anko mo nyanelata suiti Nya manan pampa Nya manan fanya witu pohapo Nini nini Nya manan penda anko flani flani jumu Ono fanya nga iwi na iwi Ano lewa naka kwa nyumba Ano na ah, hizini jogmobu Manan wume Then ananata dem Manan wume zireza utwani lewa udem Nisa babu, nata kwa anifanyange Witu zingine zau kike Kama na kujana pana nyumba Nisa fima jyongu kupale na hoga Onaka na potaka rofu flanika Lakin ni niki fika kwa nyumba Nambia bibi angunia jenata kwa fudu Nasi kia, hei Sharon Letia baba cha kula Nambia bibi angunia jenata kwa gwa Nambia bibi angunia jenata kwa gwa Hey Aisha Tarisha baba mwaja kwa gwa Aisha nata ya Aisha Nama uno na kujapale na Nama uno na pata Aisha Ni wana matia kwa zilefamili zenia wame fundisha Upeish Nika mwadi yo Uya isha kama ita kule Ameza na pikaivi na iwi ngei nga za pikaji Nafu na pata ita ni wame fundisha Pia kupikele na kule My friend, you're going to get it. Jamani, kwaifu no, it means men don't take their time into looking into their wives' characteristics. No, no, no, no. What does that mean? It means, it means, it means, one has to rock a job now. No, but he's speaking as if he has a blame, I'm watching down here. No, I'm asking a question but it's a... Okay, okay, or I'm on a blame, because I'm on a blame now. As for Kalo... Before, before he said make it a... Do you think the problem is the men or... I'll sit on the edge on this one... According to the story, the problem is that he's going to make it a problem. He's going to make it a problem. Because now... Of course, he's going to say he's going to make it a problem, if he takes a job, he won't give up. That's right. He's going to make it a problem. He's going to make it a problem. But he's going to say he's going to make it a problem, good morning, just thought it's a Monday, you might be having a slow day, kwa nisha nga shamba boy pia, wa ni kwa gana nbi okaitu kuwa pige pige tuu operationia wu ko injuna ya dika su su kicheki, udem, aisha kiku japale, unya goni ame dunga deyra ya ke ame ana pige pige pale kazi, ana maneno Baba kikuwa kiki tisha kitu, ana lito kwa mpige kakaoti Ana leta, kwa zawa kwa zawa yuji, ana leta, ana mbomingi ala puwe, we ni kichuwa ngumu mefura, 3leis, umeka umbocha aneza pika, houseel, aneza pika, aso ni kila kitu lakini ni kifika konyumba ni tisha food, we kama bibi yungu na faku ni sava tisha na nga nga kwa pika konyumba basi lakini, ata kama na pika, ata participate, tusemi ni joo biya kiku pika participate, lakini, ikifika tenia, mi mi sasa, mi mi sasa udi, you know am not just anyone else, mi ni buwanaka kwa yiki tu ju, simbochu iba buwana, ukutaku ju simbochu iba buwana na ni utaftan boch, ni dem, ni utaftan boch ofia yu own choice ofia own choice, mojibu aneza paka ok, ju kona story fly ni na so mi tu ni go moved, na fi ni dema na ni treat, na ni marji ya ni na tokatu pa lenge pika orakuna kama storya, kama storya kuna tu vi tu petizu ane, azi, azi, azi, azi wajia kuna watu mbaka, houseel po aneza extentia kuchangu wangu do you know that? ah bro inafikafu siya ni azi kwa ni na kulipi ane ni, kuna patadewa me na kulipa ju ane ni e boom tafti e mgo houseel po aneza tafti e mgo fiti unende iba raka mbuda leo me dunga sisa spili uta mbi o me dunga ju waifi ako ni aneza kutagulia uta na kusia mole dem lakini ane adi sa vingiri kumi boom tafti but also I still don't think that's a justification to hit on the house help whether your wife is doing what she's supposed to do or not I feel like you hitting on the house help is this an in discipline case so you're just not a disciplined man that is just my thinking but I agree that don't leave all the chores to the house help because it is risky it is not about risky it is about you taking care of let me finish Carlos it is about you taking care of your husband it is not about it being risky because you should have a man who has sexual discipline in the house a man that respects you let me finish a man that respects you if a man respects you they cannot go to going to do some other things whether you're doing what is supposed to be done or not if they're not you talk to them a man doesn't go a man doesn't go a man is led there is led there so you don't have to have control so you don't have to have control as a man I have some control Carlos where did you get it where did you know one thing the moment a lady in the house help appear to be competing in the house in the same house so the idea here is you should be aware of the operations there mama should become a roommate mama should become a roommate and you see I don't know what happens it happens for life ma rejiako nile ma rejenye hakuna vitu zenginez na obain dakuna tilapda kuna project na dusem hakuna enikuna na ikaw missi heria demi sawa kuna red lines kuna red lines kama sana kuna turtlecano So the moment, the moment, the moment kuna vituze nye una pata, una pata sasa adi aaa pana Like una na sema, ati sasa, mini buona kuna ta kuna job Nga nga job 5 am, one nga job 7 am Asbui, since tu kona mboch, mi na mka na hoga lafuna pata mboch ama shatwa nye Everything, na tokat wana nwe kiacha, wana dos too Na tokat, I'll not do anything because I'm discipline, I'm not going to do anything But it's not going to happen Kuna una jua zizi, mi attention, nia attention na peti wana nye we ho nipati in ta inotis In ta notice, you're not giving me the first priority Ya, you talk to me about it, don't smash in there, how's that? No, it doesn't go that way Nanya jiva, nanya jiva Anpuna jiva, nanya jiva Better not for that, you're supposed to know Unless you're not ready to give me Unless you're not ready for the marriage You're supposed to have known Actually, nia me let nga bocha No, yeah, don't see why I have a point You know, beti is making it appear as if we are saying It is a must now when the marriage takes responsibilities We marry them But here the question is What is leading to that issue of Someone breaking up with wife, alafa na mari But what's even happened, nia I know of a case where I'm saying Ali mari, sista we fiyake, na kacha we fiyake Ya, I know, there are such cases But also, they're going to disappear Ya, just men No, not sexual in this plane Okay, sawa basi How could such a baby How could you reach Not sexual in this plane, wa ni ni The moment na kufokas na sista ako Na chana nawewe So, see, as much sista go nawewe Na shift, we are shifting So it's not sexual in this plane It's not sexual in this plane I'm shifting from this one Sasa, here I'm going Sawa, that is okay And you know, let me tell you Carlos I would rather you to shift Than do the both of them at the same time That is disrespect Shift and because as a smart man You will know things have shifted As a smart man, you will know things have shifted So it's either you work on it Or if you did not work on it And things have gone the way they've worked You work out So before you start working on it Why has it even gotten to that point? Sometimes people just don't know Carlos You need to communicate Not make excuses No, akuna kitukama yon Let me ask you a question In briefly just explain to us What are the roles of a house help? To house help, to help in the house This be specific one What should you need a house help? No one, but wait I mean, I don't want to apply to me Carlos, that one I don't Betty, one How she inyumba? So you can help in the house What are the chores in the house? Break it down All the chores that are in the house If you want to inyumba Kupika Iso, iso Iso, kusha inyumba kupika Siniyo, kwa ni kuna ka zingine house help anakwa nga naio? Asaba siwe unna livin dinaio Atawe kwa kiliyako Rizulia kupa kulist ni Una feel zingine sii za Apana butita What are the chores that in the house? Let it in the club abe Ngaoja Ngaoja, ngaoja, ngaoja ni mune Do ense ma chores in the house Kwa ni kutandika, kutandika kitadayako? Kia, kitadayam, kitadayam Kwa ni kutandika, kutandika kitadayam Bedroom ni angu ni angu Kwa ni kutandika, kutandika kitadayam Kama kila kitu yucho za njumbazout Ani za house help Na rollya waifu kanyu bandim Rollya waifu kumpanyun ship Look at this one Kwa ni kutandika, kutandika kitandaya kuna se mani? Kwa ni kutandika, kutandika kitandaya kuna se mani? My bedroom is my boundary I will create boundaries in my bed Okay, now We will speak to ladies Who let house help Tandika their beds Okay, he Mi mi, that one is my private part Why do you think it's wrong? Tell them why you think it's wrong That is this generally Crossing boundaries Mi ata bedroom ni angu Bilanguana Yoni boundary zangu That is my place So that is my boundary I would not allow someone To clean my bedroom Because Because what might happen? That is my boundary No, that's a private room It should not be entered What ata house help? No one else should enter my bedroom Because me growing up We never used to enter our parents' bedroom So now you agree You agree there is a red line Red line, apart from bedroom There are a lot of red lines Iwa ata si house help Kwa yoni red line for everyone But who is everyone in the house help Kuna kuna ni nga Nama geni Apot is very simple This red lines Sometimes there are people who neglect Onaches na kusiyo You see Wada ni kupa tekama iswia Iswia iswia iswia Iswia iswia kupika Serious possibility One zakwata na chef But the fact that Kuna u de moja Mwenyemko wewe U yo dem hazi Namto imoja Alafu na moja Everything Inama nisha Kuna responsibility zako una Ata u both everything ine But kuna asenima asenima Kwa kuna msuwa kushanyumba U kua kuna msuwa ni nga The fact that U de manachu kwa responsibility Namakila kitu kwa hao Alafu wewe U kuna ex-kubes Na have a question Kido ata jkwa Nampukidwa Milkwata kwa paredu sutu limoja Panojemi na isi kwa estate squeeze Kuna squeeze Kuna famili moja ilikwa December Onata kwa kuna holiday Mzea mihenda kuna familia Kama Rudi Waihifanafa kuna Christmas Namato ui Haendi Anabaki She said Haendi Haendi, yo na yo So mi na kwa, we ni story e to, chakaya utandao Haendi, yo ni day So ni kuli ze, because ui umza meza ma kwa willing e kwa baki kwa njumba Ata baki je sugli ya ke, staraya ke Mbocha na naki kwa na mze kwa njumba kwa very comfortable Ata baki ata ni mtu moja ata maintain Ata mwa osha, ata pikiya, ata mshugulikiya Why is a kwa na stress? Haizi ena na watui Because, and I feel like now Mbocha na kwa so close na mtu wake So mi na go back to the ladies Ka mume ukoreni kwenya kwa marriage No, lakini tena, if I wear a kama mo na ume Kwa fogo pe kuwacha na mbocha Kwa tena Eju sasa weni tu ilaga ni tena I feel like sasa ata kwa daily space Kama jini, kama mecha responsibility Kwa chana kwa mbinda keza Kwa mbinda keza isa wife Kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa mbinda kwa but if she knows very well was her space is still her space she'll never have a problem to live that although means it's a Q women to AC The 80 I can't buckets So now for the women that work probably long distance and they have a house help. Mzuuri sana mwenye nawa sa idea buwana pia kukazi around. Nawa konam toto. Aroon yuwa. Kwa wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki. Yon nae ni mtu ya kwa wiki. Mama wacha netuna yuwa job. Yuki from men's point of view, I think 95% on one example attempted at some point. Niki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki wiki. Wu nesadvaisu mama ni ni akwiti yuwa job. Neza mu advise. Ano toto tosha naji. Mebim toto tom dogo mwenye na need kushuguli kiwa hende shule. Kama kona house help. Asi jari wuku matiaf. Lazi ma take part. Katakani raising. Lazi ma take part. Mama video calling ma nini. Lazi ma take part. Ata ni mla blame house help peke ake. Famili amistia na nazo. Kwa tu na ule amistia na na koga me. Eva tu kama nvenya. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. E buwacha ni kuli na beti. Philipite 2a pana mamakia. O nomu na hasa kuli na beti swami. Tcosia hasula pehite. O iwa kama mama. Onaf aviationya Kazim Bali. Ukonam tu oto wami a gangapi. Tano? Tano. So man give me input like this. Landie husband, n rhyme telo in tu pasado karining omb 맡 하나. Yuki netsizo kwa trefin eni k 주ono isnit raining crown by the country kwa Motia. 후 d Coz nova monayufu k silkalu ma� lasti. Mtubu ma spiritull ni okia pamaופinia. Oduj междуirdni. Bari bounce wei. Mهu kwa z Onza kwa nafanyo jo buko But where we? That's the solution? Npate solution? Onza kwa nafanyo jo buko Nakini uko awaia If it was na penku awaia kuhaze Una dila umboch Atare labdanda unam lipa atare dunini Ya ni umemekshu wa mimi na umboch But you're not there physically Out as we are, iso dera kupita No, I'm trying to say Kito moja, kito moja mjui Kito moja mjui You're working Kito moja mjui Somewhere And Umeni atia dem Atia kuna full responsibility kwa njumba Ati kitwa tufa njitu na ni kula lanaia Atia aia Anamka na pangatro iwa hende kazi Anani pikiak sasa wei pia shuwali Ata wei Kido Kido Zena mini hende kwe tu Nita tere matibwa mubasi Ata amafanyo shiguli Kwe tuza awa Sina zima Sina zima piyamboch ya kwe demre Onza na dem tu maze flani Amada ya kia za kupa kameka Kwa kuna Nita duna maze msi zia kwa maze Nisha ona yu Ujona Ujona Tafta mnianye tula Ona ita maze mboch na Aalafwa maze oni tuwa nani Apana si na ni ni mboch ni mboch Udoza na nana mboch maze Mizai Anamka yon Anata solusioni ni om toi Mpele kwa shuwa kina Uke tafu everything Soja gada mchi kulia Uke tuwa umboch Om bocha kai na shuwa Om toi na om toi Namboana kai peki ya kia Wachala tansere Bwanas doom Kwa shuwa Kuna om om om Aki endakama ni night shift Amo anasaviri Anameku shuwa umbdu toa melala kwa rumia mizai Hei Mizai asifa ziki tiyote Sawa Alright guys Ni yangu na sema Set boundaries Make sure you have an employer Employer kind of relationship With the house help That is all for me guys Tijini nm na semaji Down on the comments section Leave a comment Jia wei taji bitumbuwa Mi na sema ni fi Nisha maliza If you're a woman Take care of what is important Kama ni kukua woman Kama ni vi humbo Fiki vidun zafanya fanya Wei nani sini nmiki na O'Sheh vi humbo Fogao shuwa Vi humbo ni watatu e mu Anakuna me dotung You the泾z You the mud I'm telling you You the fanya fanya Sawa Thank you guys Wei na doa pe ne Thank you guys for watching Trust me Leave a comment down below On what you think In this conversation wochi penuwe wa awa jau. Wana nitandaugu zna zeyana.