 So today I want to give you some tips for how to pleasure him. Let's say you don't really feel comfortable going down on him But you want to do more than just a plain old hand job. Well, this is where your fingers come into play So the first one is called lighting the fire. These are from the ancient Chinese tech So they have slightly unusual names So for lighting the fire first put lube on the penis then crossing all of your fingers you are literally going to place your hands around the penis and Rub as though you were rubbing two sticks to create fire And what makes this one so pleasurable is that when the fingers are crossed like this the way that the bones chat out Plus the combination of the fleshy bits in between the feel of that on the penis can create the most Incredible sensations the second one is called the slide and this once again lots of lube on the penis and then Warm your hands slightly either by placing them on a hot water bottle or around a mug of a hot drink Just so that they're slightly warm and then one hand goes to the base of the penis the other one goes right to the top tip And then you move together and apart together and apart It's like a feeling of being in a warm wet vagina It can feel unbelievably gorgeous as I've said before there's never a reason to not be fully Pleasured all you need is just a couple of new techniques