 When the narcissist sees your life improving without them when they see your life getting better When they see you becoming happier and healthier without them, how do they react to it? How does it make them feel? When the narcissist sees your life improving without them, it makes them feel very jealous They feel like you are taking something away from them Something that rightfully belongs to them Because narcissists have a strong sense of entitlement They believe they have a right to everything you've established Even if you did it without them They are envious of your achievements and advantages And they want to take it all away from you They are fiercely protective of their own rights and possessions And they see you as an object that exists to serve them They see you as something that belongs to them So when you go off on your own And your life begins to improve without them They feel like they've just been robbed They feel like you've stolen something from them Which they think gives them the right to take it from you Or to sabotage whatever you've established on your own Even if they were the ones to discard you In their distorted minds they still feel entitled to you They feel like they can come back whenever they choose to And pick up where they left off But they're only coming back because they want a piece of the pie They want to partake in the fruits of your labour After you did all of the work And you went through everything you went through Now they want to come back And act like they were with you all along Was though they invested something into it So now they're looking for a payout When they never did anything for you If anything They were an inconvenience in your life They set you back And it was only when they left That you then had the time and energy to improve your life But here they come Acting like you have something that belongs to them When they were never invested in you They were never interested in building anything with you Because they never wanted to see you succeed When the narcissist is always monitoring you They're not looking to see any signs of improvement They want to witness your misfortune It gives them satisfaction to learn of Your troubles, failures or humiliation It makes them feel better about their own lives But when they come back And they see that you're happy and doing better without them It eats away at them They get very jealous They will always have some demeaning remark for you They will always have something negative to say about your success Because they're very insecure They see your success as a threat And they were always jealous of you Even before your life started to improve Because all they see is the finished product They're not looking at everything you did To get to where you are today They're not thinking about all of the hard work you put in So in their minds, it's unfair In their minds, you are not deserving of what you have They see it as though you're unkind And considerate or unreasonable They see it as though you're selfish When really, they are the ones who are selfish For watching you go through it all on your own Without ever stepping in to assist you And then when you finally rise from the ashes That's when they return to collect When you are dealing with a narcissist There's nothing you can say to justify your success There's nothing you can do To get them to see all of the hard work you put in Because they're only thinking about themselves They're only thinking about how they can benefit from the situation And when you try to explain this to them No matter how right you may be It just triggers their shame It causes a narcissistic injury And then they get very angry Because narcissists are very competitive Which causes them to become ruthless and merciless Where they will do anything to get what they want While having no pity or compassion for you When the narcissist sees your life improving without them They get very jealous And if they do come back They will come back with their hands out But even if they don't return They will be plotting behind the scenes They will be smearing your name And trying to find ways to reign on your parade Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.narcsurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon