 All right, so Oprah Winfrey mega star one of the most successful people in the world a billionaire She wrote this book what I know for sure It's almost like a little diary of her life all the lessons that she's learned from her way from her Terrible youth where she was abused as a child in poverty to Rising up the media chain and becoming this global superstar who has such impact in people's lives And this is a wonderful book and I've really summed up the two main themes of this book and I actually write them in the back of Up in the back of the book afterwards. So when I go back and I don't want to read the whole book again I understand the message and the two main messages that I got out of it are only speak positive about people Okay, only speak positive about people and be generous and give It's so simple, but just think about it If you only speak positive about people you will only think positive if you're always looking for the positive in Someone then you're looking and you're looking and you're looking then you can compliment that person or you can think positively about that person You are going to have positive emotions. You're going to transfer those positive emotions onto the other person And you're just going to be happy together When you're always looking for the negative you're trying to find something that's wrong with that person You'll find those things wrong with that person too many people in romantic relationships For example, they're in a relationship for six months and they start to find fault with their boyfriend the girlfriend the husband and the wife Stop tallying up all of the bad things or all the things that you dislike about your partner and start tallying up all the things That you love about your partner Start thinking positive about people Compliment someone Oprah Winfrey used this successfully in her life. She's always Speaking positive about other people every time that you say something about someone behind their back That's putting negative energy out into the world. Okay, and that's making you negative and that's not hurt It's not helping you the other one is be generous and give Now you don't need to be generous by like handing over money But be generous with your time be generous with your affection be generous with your Encouragement of people Because when you encourage people when you support them when you help them in any way you can whether it's just a small little thing Like helping an elderly lady across the street Or whether it's when you're at a Starbucks You actually put down an extra two dollars and say, you know what shout the person behind me They're coffee today and just do it and walk away. Don't even expect anything in return when you are being generous You feel amazing other people appreciate you and you live a positive happy life So let's move away from like thinking this person's wrong. This is how my life sucks Let's start thinking positive. Okay, because Oprah Winfrey only speaks positive about people She's generous and she gives so much and what she knows for sure is that when you give and when you only speak positive about people All your dreams in life come true