 Do this To make the narcissist regret leaving you Yes, that is what we're gonna be talking about in this video and I'd like to start off by saying I know What it's like for many of you When you get discarded by a narcissist Of course, I do know what that is like. I've been through it many times myself and Of course, that hasn't been for a while and hasn't been for a very long time since I was last Really affected. I Mean that doesn't mean that I haven't been Discarded or rejected by people recently But in many ways I've just been too busy to notice why notice but I just didn't really care because I I Wasn't really getting anything out of it before they discarded or rejected me anyway So for me it hasn't affected me for a very long time But yes, I do have these experiences in the past Where I was deeply attached to certain people And of course Like many of you I thought we were in a committed relationship I thought we were both thinking about building a future together. I Even thought that in time you would get married and have children Yeah, I thought about all the things in the past So I know what it's like. I've experienced it myself. I've experienced it firsthand and I know it can be painful Because you feel like you've developed this bond to this person and then knowingly to you They didn't fully attached to you There was no real vulnerability from them So they never actually established an emotional connection to you They may have established Connections on other levels but not in the way that you wanted emotionally Because they lack empathy So they don't share your feelings. They don't understand you But they do it Cognitively remember narcissists are predators. They know how to Read people and get into their minds to know What you want What you desire what would make you feel better? What would make you happy? Of course, they know how to do that because at the end of the day We are all human we all have certain needs and desires and a lot of us Share the same ones. I Mean, of course, that's how I'm able to create a community like that with 165,000 subscribers over 40 million views it's because We all pretty much wanted the same things So knowing that no, you are not alone It's not just you There are a lot of other people who are going through this Who wanted the same things that you wanted? But of course as we know this narcissistic individual Was not about that Which is how it was so easy for them to leave you Because what they were about are things that they don't really need you for They see you as an object that exists to serve them But guess what? They can get it somewhere else Because these things are superficial Things like money power and control Sex Maybe a place to stay These kinds of things they don't Exclusively need you for that They can just go and get it somewhere else So there's no reason for them to remain loyal to you without that emotional Component because as we know that is what creates the full attachment Yes, you can depend on someone and attach to them For things like attention validation approval these types of things. Yes But then it's not a complete attachment because remember you can get those things somewhere else and it's going to feel Pretty much exactly the same but with the emotional component well as we know that is Unique You can't just replicate that with someone else. It's going to produce different emotions And that's why we hold on to these people so bad Because They make us feel a certain way and we believe that it's real we believe in the illusion But it isn't actually real It is just an illusion This idea this reality that they're feeding to us It has no basis in reality, but we're pulled into this fantasy world Where everything is wonderful and magical and these things do exist Which of course as they know is exactly what we want to see but yeah, they can just leave you They can leave you high and dry Like you never meant anything to them They could just move on As though they were never emotionally attached to you because guess what they weren't Many of you just thought that they were because they led to believe that but the reality is But that is not true after all But they led you to believe that it was and of course when you find out That you were led astray the entire time, of course that is heartbreaking It destroys you and you feel completely alone and isolated And your anxiety is through the roof at times you may have panic attacks You may experience an increased heart rate loss of sleep Insomnia maybe even a loss of appetite weight loss weight gain These are the types of symptoms that you may experience When the narcissist leaves you and they try to make it seem like it's something wrong with you As though you should not be attached. It's your emotions of bad or wrong When emotions are actually Very healthy, of course at times we do need to use our brains and recognize When something is wrong, but you hold on to them you remain attached even when they've just Completely left you and moved on to someone else You may still be hoping that they will come back What the very least you want them to regret their decision you want them to think that What they did was wrong. They should never have left you and Yeah, in some ways there is a way to get them to do that, but it's not going to be in the way that you would like They're not just going to magically Gain empathy And have this magical epiphany where they finally understand you After all of these years, they're finally just going to get it. They're going to figure it out No No, it's not going to work out that way in the way that you would like Even though I know that you may like that It's not going to happen like that for you Or for anyone you're never going to get that Emotional connection of that you crave and desire and I know how bad you want it Because yes, there was a time where I wanted it to and I can tell you that I never got it from those narcissists Some cases I held on for a long time. I've had relationships that lasted up to four years at a time and I waited I held on and I never got it and I know many of you you never got it too and just because there's a break There's a separation in the relationship. That does not mean that they're suddenly Going to have this epiphany and realize How bad their life is without you And now they finally want to come back and emotionally attached to you Share their emotions with you Tell you how much they love you and they miss you You're not going to get that from a narcissist or even a toxic person. They're just never going to do that It's just not going to happen, but as I said there is a way that That You can get that not from them, but from yourself and in fact that will actually be more powerful than anything they can give to you That validation that emotional validation. You can give it to yourself. You don't need to depend on anyone for that and Not only that but yes, you can make them regret leaving you in a way It's never going to be in the way that you would like. There's never going to be any Emotions any love any healthy attachment Connection intimacy There's never going to be any of that So you just got to put a stop to that right now and just forget about it because As you know, I've been doing this for a long time and I can tell you right now you are not going to get that Not in a million years So just give that up and forget about it You have to accept it Because the longer that you hold on to it the more that it's going to hurt you It's not going to hurt them at the end of the day. It's that that's going to be your pain not theirs Because remember they're not emotionally attached and they never will be You are so yes, it's going to affect you before it affects anyone else and They are fully aware of that too and they will use it against you. They use your empathy against you They use your desire for love and connection against you and it's so easy for them to do that Why because they can't experience it you can So who's it going to affect you of course So yes, you will never get that from a narcissist, but what you can do and what you should do To make them. Yes Finally regret leaving you Instead of doing what most people do You hold it on to them Some of you even begging them to come back As you're trying to prove to them Why they made the wrong decision Why they need to give you another chance and How you've got all of this stuff That you never gave to them you got so much more Waiting for them if they just come around You want to prove all of this to them that's never going to work That is never going to work No matter what it is that you think that you've got They're not going to care about that As long as you keep trying to prove to them and You keep holding on to them and you're seeking their validation you're defending yourself As long as you keep doing that all they're going to do is Resist all they're going to do is Resist the more that you express your undying love and emotions and your desire for connection Marriage children whatever it is that you want The more that you express your desire for that it's just going to completely Turn them off and they're going to run away from you and they're never going to look back And actually I'll even get to a point with the thoughts of Any kind of connection even any kind of sexual activity with you is going to completely make them sick And I know many of you may have experienced that already Where the narcissist doesn't even want to be sexually intimate with you They don't even want to do that anymore and it's because You're constantly expressing Your desire for it and Yes, they know that you're about it for real They already know that What they've got to do is pick up the phone send you a message and you're going to be over there in a second Well, they're going to be back with you and Doing all of the things that you like to do whatever it is Maybe you like to go for walks on the beach Maybe you like to go in dates You like to go to cafes or Restaurants, I don't know what you like to do Or of course many of you who are seeking the validation. Yes, you may just desire To have them back and just have sex You know, let's just keep it blunt. That's What it is a lot of times as well because they Make us desire and crave it They do and they they're very good at that. They know how to do it They get you hooked in the beginning And a lot of it is really just fantasy they make you imagine it inside your head But then they get you addicted to it You get this rush of adrenaline and excitement And you're addicted to the Dopamine and the oxytocin that is released in your brain so Yeah When when all is said and done, it's you who is left desiring these things You're desiring to go out with them again You want to go on dates you want to go to restaurants walk on the beach hold hands kiss all of the stuff You want to do with them? Maybe you just want them back over your house again, so you can cook dinner for them you want to do all of these cute romantic things and I can tell you It makes I'm sick Just the thought of it just turns them off completely And they're not looking at you like this loving caring person That you're in reality you'll portray yourself as But what they're looking at you as is Just this desperate needy person Yeah, that's how they're seeing you And I'm not saying that's what you are. I mean, of course You know if you're meant to be establishing a relationship with someone and they've led you to believe it's moving somewhere You're not doing anything wrong Not really. I mean The problem really lies with them. They fail to reciprocate. They fail to appreciate and value you They just see love as a weakness They really do So it no there's nothing wrong with that You know when you become emotionally healthy and someone shows genuine love Appreciation connection. I can tell you that is the best feeling in the world for an emotionally healthy person someone who isn't a narcissist and hasn't been raised in a toxic dysfunctional family dynamic which they never healed from so yes when the narcissist leaves you and You tried to get them back. You're writing these love letters. You're sending them emails text messages You're making a hundred phone calls a day. Just trying to get them to respond and Even if you're trying to get their attention sexually You think that's going to work It's not it's just turning them off even more It just makes them want to run away from you and into the arms of someone else because You're treating them like a normal person That's not going to work. You have to remember that they are dysfunctional So what you have to do is you have to take a leaf out of their book That's what you've got to do. You got to play the game You've got to respond in a way that a person who was raised in a dysfunctional family and Developed all of these traumas that they never healed from You've got to behave in a way that a person like that will respond to That's what you've got to do and to do that You You need to stop reaching out to them Stop giving them all of these opportunities Where they can just come back to you or respond to a message or answer a phone call And instead what you need to do is you just need to forget about them stop this intense feeling of attachment Because if you haven't noticed by now it is pushing them away They don't want anything to do with you now Because you're constantly reaching out you're constantly in their face all the time if you see something Enough times it's just gonna make you sick it is Just imagine if we eat pizza every day Eventually you're gonna get fed up of it You probably won't even want to eat anything after that Are there maybe a friend comes over to your house with some pizza? You're gonna respond to it in a way Well, your friend is gonna be very confused if they don't know you ate pizza every day for the past week And it's the same thing with these narcissists Even more so for them even more so When you're constantly reaching out you're constantly there it is just turning them off And you're never going to make them regret their decision by doing that Because you're always there anyway They already know they've got you you're right there. You're not going anywhere. You're never gonna leave them alone. I Just tell some All right, I can do whatever I want then I can just Go over here. I can just go home and forget about you Because I already know I'm gonna see you again tomorrow That's what they think That's exactly how they think That is exactly what they are thinking They know that they can just ignore your phone calls your text messages Because they already know that there's gonna be another one They already know that Which is why what you have to do if you want to make them regret leaving you You need to cut it off completely Cut off the contact go no contact Stop message of them stop calling them on the phone And actually even if they call you don't even answer it Don't answer it anymore. Don't respond to the messages and If you can maybe don't even post on social media too much especially do not post about anything to do with narcissism or Anything that suggests that you're hurt or worried about the absence Don't do anything that suggests that and instead what you've got to do is focus on yourself and your own life And don't just pretend to do that Act like you're doing it. You're gonna actually do that for real and really mean it And the reason why you have to do that is not just because I'm telling you But because you know it will lead you to a better place a better place And not just in the external world, but also within yourself because At some point You've got to catch on and think hold on a minute If I'm constantly engaged with this person I'm sending them all of these messages every day I'm constantly make it all of these phone calls And I'm never getting a positive response At some point you've got to think what is going to lead me to happiness What is going to lead me to? pleasure and Satisfaction at some point you've got to think about that And when you do you will come to the conclusion that yes cutting them off going no contact and Finding that peace love and validation within yourself It's the right decision And believe it or not, but that was actually the right decision All along even before you ever met them That was the right decision all along even before you did that It was And when you come to this conclusion I Can tell you that there is nothing more empowering than that it frees you It completely frees you from the chains from the grips of this toxic person It really does because the whole point of the the trauma bond the it to mean intermittent reinforcement All of these crazy abusive manipulative tactics that they're doing The whole point of all of that is to get you to depend on them for validation security and comfort These types of things Which ironically are the very things that you're never actually going to get from them Which is that which is why at some point You do need to come to this conclusion But of course when you're down when you're feeling bad about yourself because of course they do target yourself esteem and During the lower vibrations you can't even see it and a problem cannot be resolved at the same level of Vibration which created it It can't Which is why it is Very fortunate when you do get on here you get on YouTube and you find a coach like myself Who of course has been for this already? I'm already elevated at a higher level and it's like I'm looking down I'm not actually In it right now myself But I can see it as an observer As an outsider So of course I can completely identify Not only the problems, but also the solutions But when you're trapped in it and you're attached to the abuser You can't see a way out And I understand that So yeah That's really what you have to do if you want them to finally regret leaving you You do need to focus on yourself You do need to validate yourself Practice self-love and self-care These things are very important Because up until this point and you may not have noticed it But you have been valuing the narcissist More than you value yourself more than you respect yourself and Yes, that could be because of low self-esteem insecurities And these may be from the past or it could be something that they provoked in you Because yes, narcissists are extremely insecure far more than the average person So much more that when you get around them. Yes, they can create these illusions and stuff, but they do pull you down They pull you down beneath your normal state of operating so Yes, that's what you've been doing up until this point you have been valuing them More than you value yourself And often the reason why is because you are interacting far too much with them More than you're interacting with yourself So you're interacting with this extremely low vibration, which is constantly pulling you down and it's affecting you and That's why it's so great When they leave it's actually a blessing in disguise because then you have some alone time and Then you can explore your own mind Get to know yourself develop This relationship, which will be and should be the most important relationship That you will ever have in your life and that is the relationship with yourself When you develop that that's when you find your true power and you strengthen yourself from the inside out And if you do it right at some point you will become emotionally invincible To some extent You will become untouchable They won't be able to affect you after that because Your values your beliefs your reality are too strong They can't penetrate it They can't get through it and a lot of times believe it or not, but that is actually One of the main reasons why they leave It's because you're finding your power your strength You're catching on you may have held on to the illusion for maybe many years And at some point you just started to think Hold on a minute Where's all of these things that they promise me? Maybe they said you were going to get married you're going to have children and then you look around and you think Where are these things? that's because despite the endless Brainwashing and a minute of tactics you are still a real person. You're still grounded in reality So you do still notice these physical things around you like clearly you're not Manifesting or coming into fruition and that is what ultimately helps you to break the trauma bond When you notice that these things they promised these things that were supposed to happen never actually manifest That's How you end up finding your power within yourself Because since there's nothing outside of you to distract you You can turn inwards and then you start to question things you start to confront them you want answers and Of course narcissists are not stupid. They do know that it is a false reality an illusion They do know that they are giving you a false character and Sometimes you do see the true character and then you don't like that as well And they are fully aware of that too so you're looking at them and You're thinking okay, where is all of this stuff that was meant to happen in the future and Then they're just standing there Turning their pockets inside out Thinking I haven't got it. I Haven't got any of the things that I promised you and I haven't even started to work on it so all they can do at that point because they already know if they're not about anything for real and they're not even planning to Establish anything and they haven't got the means to do it Of course, they already know by that point. You're not gonna accept them. You're not gonna want anything to do with them Because they already know that yes, you are about it for real and you do actually want something They already know that So they know at that point that all they can do is leave There's nothing else that they can do There's no other option Of course if someone is just fake manipulative and deceptive Are they not really about anything? They're only about themselves Why would they stick around? Just so the illusion can fall apart and then you can stand back and laugh at them. No narcissist is going to do that They're not going to put themselves in a position where you can humiliate or reject them Instead They're just gonna forget you and walk out Before you get the chance to do that because they're already fearing They're already anticipating it They know what it what's about to come They know that if it comes to that point You're gonna kick their asses out the door They know you're not gonna tolerate them. They already know that that's the whole point all of the manipulation all of the deception the future faking The lying in the love bombing the false character the illusion That's the whole point of all of these things It's about you don't ever get to the point Where you're kicking their asses out the door? Where you're realizing Hold on a minute This person ain't about shit That's the whole point of all of that is to cover it all up Because as we know yes, narcissists they lack empathy they can't establish an emotional connection They can't experience True intimacy in a way like we get to experience it As we know they can't experience any of that so At some point the show is over and they have to close the curtains and Yes in many situations they may not want to do that, but they don't really have any other choice. I Mean the choice is Okay, yes, I Can either leave or I can Show empathy to this person trying to understand them establish something for real But they can't they don't have the ability to do that anymore Yes, when they were children, maybe they may have seen seem so loving kind and caring But that slowly died away with age and they became very cold hearted Distant they shut themselves off They became very resistant and defensive And of course the reason why is because they can't Participate and get the same fulfilment like we can Because of course as many of us have experienced already It is an incredible Feeling when you connect with someone on that level It is quite possibly one of the greatest feelings in the world aside from of course Validating and loving yourself. That is the most empowering Feeling and as I said the best relationship you will ever have is the one with yourself But aside from that yes true intimacy is Healthy and very important It's what makes us human to desire that so there is nothing wrong with that, but yes Sadly, I mean I can empathize with these narcissists With these toxic people these abusers I can empathize with them as well and of course, you know, it is a Devastating thing for these people who cannot connect and understand other people's situations. I Honestly cannot imagine What that must be like I can't imagine it at all. I mean of course there may be times where I'm busy or I make other things more important whether it's You know things that should be more important to me, which we should all do of course But to be like that all of the time To not feel anything when someone is hurt someone's going through distress That is the worst feeling in the world for me More than anything just to think that I couldn't have that But no end that I do possess these traits and emotions And how it's helped me to provide this information to millions of people around the world. I am very grateful for that. I am very grateful for it and Yes, you all should be too. It's a very powerful thing This is what helps us to cooperate and build things with each other or at least that's what it's supposed to do But yes, sadly these narcissists cannot experience that and that is why when you go to them and You try to Establish the things loyalty commitment with them They just see it as an act of desperation and it turns them off completely It does it really does And I know a lot of you you are hurt and you want nothing more than just have them back again Yes, I know that but the truth is the more you try and reach out and you try and get them back It's just gonna make it worse for you it is It's gonna make it a lot more. It's gonna make it a lot more difficult for you. You're just gonna sink deeper and deeper and It's gonna be hard it is Which is why I do advise that you don't do that. Don't read out to them. Don't keep calling them Don't keep messaging them. Don't keep doing all of those things and Instead What you do need to do is just cut them off Because as I've said they are never going to understand you They're never going to understand or share your feelings Your situation They're never going to be able to walk in your shoes and see things through your perspective That it's not because they value different things all they really care about is supply fuel Which is just your attention your validation Which is not always a bad thing for people to want attention and validation, but what do you want it for? What do you want it for? It's a just in a shallow way for yourself where you're just feeding yourself and That's all that that that is and you're not sharing any value Or like in your situation You're wanting their validation because you want to build something You want a marriage children you want something long-term you want commitment That's good That's not a bad thing And yes, they will try to shame you they will try to make you feel bad They'll try to make you feel like you're so needy so desperate because you're chasing after them You believe in this illusion And now they're walking away Yes, they'll try and make you feel bad for that because in their minds that is bad. They see love as a weakness It just shows you the dysfunctional toxic family environment that they were raised in That's what it shows you For them to think like that To see these things as being Bad When they're not they're good but yes Unfortunately, this is exactly how they think and By thinking in this positive and healthy way you will find yourself alone You will be walking a very lonely road In this world because yes a lot of people are not about these things They're not thinking the way that you do The luck and more for short-term Fixes things that will just spark their energy give them attention in the moment And believe it or not, but they see nothing wrong with that But then when you're reaching out to them and you're desiring their validation because you want to build something long-term Now they have a problem with that, but yes You want to make them regret leaving you and to do that you do just Need to go no contact You need to focus on yourself and your own life and You just need to forget about them Because All they're gonna do is just feed off your energy It's just supply, you know, that's all that it is That you're giving them when you're messaging them you're calling them You're telling them how much they mean to you and they know that you're in it for real. You're about it That's just supply That's all that that is. It's not Going to anything meaningful It's just going straight into the void and it will never be seen again It will never be seen again. It's not going to Amount anything It's not It's just going to completely disappear it is so You do need to be aware of that you do need to recognize that yes all of this investment Is not going to amount to anything long-term and when you realize that You will stop Calling them texting them trying to get them to come back And instead you will begin to focus more on yourself You will realize But investing your time energy and effort into yourself is far more rewarding and it is it really is And I do believe that I am proof Evidence of that statement as I stand here today Making these videos Pretty much every day now for almost five years With a hundred and sixty five thousand subscribers 40 million views It just goes to show that hard work really does pay off and you do Need to invest your time energy and effort into yourself You do need to do that Because you should know by now that investing all of this to the wrong people It's not going to amount to anything It's not going to amount to anything it may appear to amount to something in the short term But it's not going to reduce the long-term effect that you are Desiring it's just not It's never going to produce that it will always return to the way that it was The way that they were destined to be And no matter how they try to pull you down and try to get you to value the things that they do That's never going to work either. You're still going to desire What you want and what you always wanted all along you're still going to desire that So at some point you just need to realize that You share completely different Values in life You want completely different things despite what they're telling you Despite what they're displaying to you Because yes a person can tell you that they want certain things It doesn't mean that they do Time reveals all You'll see what it is that they really want But I can assure you that it's not going to be you Or any other person for that matter it's only going to be As I said some official things Because they lack empathy they can't experience That connection that you want them to experience That we all want them to experience because then they wouldn't even be narcissists anymore But as I said they are never going to experience that They are never going to experience it So yes You want them to regret leaving you I can understand that and You do just need to focus on yourself Your own life Focus on the things that you are passionate about The things that mean something to you Find new hobbies and interests Things to distract you from the narcissist Because that energy that frequency it's only going to pull you down It's only going to pull you down or suck you in And it's not going to amount to anything It's just going to pull you into the void so Yes you do need to take your energy and attention and put it back on yourself And by doing that They will begin to notice that your energy has shifted And they may even try to hover you and come back to you Because yes that's why they come around you in the first place Is for your energy That is what they are trying to get from you That is what they want And at the end of the day it really is up to you Whether or not you want to give them another chance But of course you already know my advice My advice is Shut that door And keep it locked Don't let anyone in Because if you thought the first time was bad Trust me The second time is only going to get a lot worse And the third time, the fourth time It never gets better It only gets worse after the first time And of course as you know I have a lot of experience So yes I know myself that it does get worse, a lot worse And on average A relationship with a narcissist may end about seven times Before it's finally over And I don't want you to have to go through that experience again and again Instead I would advise for you to just cut it off Yes, what you can do If you really want to, if you want them to regret leaving you You can take my advice which is what you should do anyway Regardless of what you're trying to do Even if you are just trying to move on Just focus on yourself, focus on your own life The things that you are passionate about Find new hobbies and interests Things that distract you Things that mean something to you Things that you value in life That's what you've got to do And yes when you do that They will sense that your energy has shifted And they may even try to hoove at you As I said when they do that It's up to you if you want to let them back in or not I advise that you don't And instead you just take that That's your validation, that's your closure That's what you were waiting for all along So don't just stand there and expect to see something more Instead just take it, take what they've given you The closure of the validation and walk away with it And just forget it That's all you've got to do That's all you've got to do And yes when you do that it will feel amazing It will feel amazing Because that sense of independence And being self-validating It is an incredible feeling As soon as you achieve that You will feel so much energy inside of you It's like you filled up your own cup And now you've got so much to pour Into someone else And that is an amazing feeling as well When you've got all of this And you just want to pour it into someone else And especially when they're able to receive it It is an incredible exchange of energy That's what it is And it's something that we should all strive for To experience in our lives And that's really where I want to get everyone to This point where you can experience that in your life You can be independent and self-validating Because I know that for me and my own experience It's just an incredible feeling Especially when I get on here almost every day And I share this value and this information with people And I know as I'm speaking these words That people are receiving it Some people may be taking notes And you're using this information for a good purpose That's the best feeling for me It really is And I want you all to get to that point But of course it is a process It's not something that happens overnight This can take a long time And even then it's like going to the gym So as soon as you stop doing it You gradually revert back to your previous state So yes it is important to be aware of that If you want it to be effective and productive You need to keep at it every day And then yes you will fill up your own cup And then you'll have a lot to pour into someone else So yeah that's really it Just looking through the live chat DruidVW says don't play around with these demons You know I'm not completely sure if it is In my opinion connected to that I mean yes I do believe it has some There's something happening on a spiritual level But I wouldn't actually go and call them out Especially not in person as demons or monsters Because that will actually just give them supply Yes they will enjoy that if you say that Because that just tells them they're very powerful And of course you know they're very insecure So naturally they do desire to have power But as for us I know a lot of us Yes we seek to empower ourselves And that can be good at the beginning But at some point you want to get to the point where Powerlessness is a sense of empowerment Believe it or not it does actually come down to that At some point when you let go of your ego And you become humble And you recognise that there's so much more Than just our physical body and this material world When you realise that That can be more empowering than anything else And that is when you let go of this need for power That is when you do that So yes I wouldn't actually go out and call them Demons or monsters You might even see the little narcissistic smirk If you do that So I don't really recommend it That might just fuel them even more To destroy you I mean as we know if you do have a question Or confront them or call them a narcissist The first thing they're going to do Is get very mad Maybe even lash out at you Or if you're lucky they'll just be passive aggressive And then they'll keep a very close eye on you They'll stalk you, they'll watch you They may even start a smear campaign against you So yes that's another reason why I don't recommend Directly confront them or call them out Because that can be very dangerous for you Yep as everyone's saying in the live chat I said just walk away Because anything that reflects back to them That they're not who they say they are They're not just going to suddenly reflect And feel the shame and think Am I not who I say I am Maybe they're right They're not going to do that No narcissist is going to do that instead They're going to get mad So at the very least passive aggressive And they are going to find a way to lash out at you For threatening their false sense of identity That's what they're going to do So yeah another one Got this Japanese car now As many of you know I do like Japanese things I was in Japan a few months ago Just before Christmas Only for a couple of weeks But it was one of the greatest experiences of my life Alright that is it for this video But I do hope that you enjoyed And if you did as always You can give it a thumbs up down below It helps to support our community And let me know your thoughts down in the comment section Share the video, subscribe And for one-on-one 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