 Alright guys, day three of the 21 convention 2010 Stockholm Sweden first event in Europe First speaker of today is p.m. Putzer smooth dock of the rim on conference and dating doctors in Netherlands Now that sounds cool, right runs the coaching company and runs conference similar to this in Europe But I have a lot of respect for this guy that I don't even know how to put into words What this guy did in 2008 in Amsterdam has never been done before and it is my dream to do that again He pulled a conference like this off with like 400 people No one's ever done that not me not Vince Calvin not Cliff Nobody's done that and that's amazing And he got some amazing DVDs done of it, too. I think everybody want to check them out In any case, he's here. He's gonna talk to you guys for a little bit bonus talk wasn't scheduled really excited and Kick some ass man. Appreciate you coming. Yeah to team up next year. Yeah Thanks, Anthony dream For inviting me over the conference Maybe this will be the worst stock you ever heard because I didn't prepare of course and without preparation preparation there comes failure But I have some experience in teaching people So please stand up Thomas you can stay down, of course But it's a practice you can do too. All right. Thank you. You still have your balls with you. Yeah, of course All right, so that's a good thing then. Yeah, so I just wanna I just want to ask you guys it's been a long day especially for me and You want to take it like low energy you want to take it high energy You would have taken a lot of coffee you want to take high energy. Yeah. All right. All right, right because we have to like Come out at the shit, you know, like it's gonna be a third day of the conference And we've seen so many shit and it's good awesome shit, but let's do it. Okay. I'm gonna do it for you It's a bit of Michael Jackson, you know You just grab your balls like this I Make the most Manly growl you can produce Something like that Like really from the balls out, you know, it has to come out like there All right, all right, right, right. Can we do one more? Can we do one more man? Okay, let the testosterone going Sit down again so We're a bit energetic or more. I'm gonna talk to you about practical shit I'm not a community guy. Actually. I'm I'm I love the community I love what it can bring for you. I love what it bring to me But I was just a guy seducing girls Nothing learned out of the community not out of books or something Like all right Not out of books. I just should use girls So in 2005 a friend of mine what I did a seduced girls with came to me and We started up a company and then I actually invented the community and and some books and DVDs and that sort of shit and then I Invented like or discovered like IOI's and that sort of thing mostly some things like Not slime with a girl not saying like oh, yes. Yes. I think this too this was like yeah for experience I learned this so I'm gonna talk some practical shit to you what's easy to use easy to apply and especially also for beginners because You can have some advanced shit, but I seen also a lot of beginners here and also for experienced guys. It works Maybe you see me at the first day of the conference on Friday evening with a nice girl walking beside me on the square Who did see me with a nice girl? You did see I'm an experienced a guy. What's he a nice girl? I'm an experienced guy or experienced level. What's he a nice girl? What's your nice girls to see yet the blonde one? Yeah All right, so I'm gonna exactly Explain to you how I did that and it's gonna be very simple. It's a one-minute routine. It's easy It's about day game. Did you already learned about day game in this conference? No, not at all That's a That's what you need to hear. All right, let's say there's a beautiful girl there walking on the street She comes around you and say excuse me. I Just saw you walking on the street, and I thought you were have a very nice energy or You have a very nice Radiation about you. It can be a little bit vague You can say you look beautiful This is a bit wrong because you stating something about her appearance You can say something about her clothes or something. Hey, you look nice in your Your tank top matches your eyes Something like you see details in a compliment a good compliment always sees a detail because girls liked it Compliments mostly are about her appearance That's that's a bit wrong. You can't say about like the grooves in your lips. I think they're very beautiful like a very Strange compliment you can do that so I do a bit of a of a vague compliment She will understand it nice energy It comes on it. She will smile Normally and say thank you So the thing is what you do in the beginning you go too fast. You want because you're in a rush Because you're you're anxious you're nervous you're nervous to talk to this girl. So you try to There are always a lot of maybe probably in your conversation also a lot of permission asking to her You don't have to ask her permission because you're bringing a present to her What is the present I bring to her? That's a good one. Yeah, you're bringing actually at the compliment The first of course the big present of it all is yourself. That's a very good one. Plus for that But the first Simple present and it's a nice one. It doesn't cost you anything It's cost something of your warmth and respect in your heart. Does anyone has a Low quantity of warmth and respect in his heart. Does anyone have this? Do you do you have a very little amount of warmth you have a big one? So you can give something of it, not So why do you do this? So you give something and you ask also Like train this in the body like hey Where is this warmth whereas respect put it in your head put it in your heart and go outside she will feel it You will concentrate on the warmth and respect in your heart And you want to bring this across Because psych already said it the value What what the sellers did it's warmth? So you bring out warmth and respect in your heart. It sounds a bit vague, but it helps you It helps you to concentrate on that thing you all have enough of and you can give something to a girl And she will get very happy of this The girl will smile so you pause a bit The biggest mistake you can make is you're going too fast because you want to I Feel nervous. I want to do it as fast as possible You have to slow down pause Take the thank you because if you bring your present You don't use present by You just say a okay. Thank you So the girls takes the present says thank you and I said hey, I didn't know what to do I'm a bit nervous so Don't be like a player like hey girl You look fine today Don't be like this cool guy You can be this cool guy if you really are this cool guy, but mostly I Still am nervous when I talk to girls Especially in Sweden where the girls are so beautiful. I Still I'm I'm people see me as some guru or something, but I still get nervous I only override it I'm courageous enough to say hey fuck that. I'm not gonna die here Maybe I'm gonna fuck a very hot girl Maybe I'm gonna have a very nice experience with this girl Yeah, because I don't expect too much of it maybe I'm The the biggest thing I am is like I'm curious. I'm curious about her voice. I'm curious how she reacts the hot girl of Friday She was very strange for me. She she was very there's nothing has happened with this girl but I had a very nice good experience with this girl because I Starting like believing in good girls again, so she was so she helped handicap children She lived in the woods. She could Carpents you could do do constructing things with her. She she played tennis. She played volleyball She was a nurse, but she changed her job into ice cream vendor She was very strange very so this sort of experience happens to you on the street You meet a lot of good girls. You don't meet in the clubs The party girls the girls who are a little bit flaky the girls who don't want a relationship the girls You know the party girls you meet mostly in the club The the girls you don't meet in the club you meet on the street The girls you gonna love you meet them on the street So my biggest love is of course day game. Of course. I'm very good at day game That's also the thing because I'm not that good at club games. So that's also a thing. Take your pick You always should try day game once in your life See hot girl, you know You want her Then the only thing is Knowing what to do and I told you what to do you just go up to her and say hey, I saw you walking there Sorry, I have a little question for you Sorry, I have a little question for you not can I ask you a question? No, you're bringing a present You're bringing a present to her You you're not asking to someone. Hey, can I please give you this present to you? If you're someone's birthday, you're not gonna bring a present like that. Do you do it like that? Will you please accept my present for your birthday? No, you say hey, here's your present and the other guy. Hey, thank you. What a nice present. You really know me I know girls girls like compliments With warmth and respect Don't think that some crazy guy will come out of the bushes and slap you or that's her boyfriend Never happened to me Thousands of approaches I did Don't think the girl will get angry and slaps you never happened to me thousand of approaches So this all the stupid stuff in your mind It's just that it's stupid stuff forget it The the the the most Like a negative reaction is that she don't listen to you and walks on so she ignores you so There's nothing to be done about that because I have to talk to this girl and to get her interested Then you say after she says hey, thank you. Yes. I didn't know what to do at first, but I could do two things I could Come over and talk to you and Find more about you because I'm a little bit curious about you or I Could do nothing and nothing would happen not and she would say yes So we are getting in a yes letter. Yes, of course, nothing would happen so and You always can say you're a little bit nervous because when you Vocally saying you're nervous you're getting less nervous because you're getting congruent with it if you're like hey I don't want to accept that I'm nervous. You're trying to push down the fear You're actually stating that the fear is there. Let's repeat this Let's repeat this all together. I do it once before and then you repeat it together All right, do it. Can we do that? Okay, if you push away the fear you're actually saying the fear is there Okay, now all together if you push away the fear you're actually saying the fear is there Yeah You never saw this glass it's there. You always saw it, but when I push it then you see it The glass was there So the best thing you can do about fear is accepting it and The good thing is the girls will like it the girls will find you and it's a very good quality for a man charming charm an old very Old thing what we've lost maybe for a while charm male charm And the thing is If a guy is fearful Everyone you can go to a military or something. Hey, where you fear about in Afghanistan? I got guys in from Afghanistan who shoot in Afghanistan who worked in Afghanistan. I would never do this I'm too afraid for that Who were too afraid to talk to girls? I Repair to him and told him hey, it's nothing wrong with you to be fearful of talking to girls. It's it's it's a bit So be charming about it and when you say hey, I'm a bit nervous You're actually saying you're a very courageous man. You're actually saying that hey, I'm nervous I'm a bit fearful about this. I actually don't know really what to do after a thousand approaches You know, but you still say this but you're still feel a little bit of fear in it You can be authentic You don't have to be this pickup guy you see in the DVDs or anything. You just can't be yourself Just be yourself. Just be charming You know what I mean You really know what I mean say yes All right Because this goes to my heart Yeah, that I see people like wrong way like hey, I want to be this pickup guy No, you can be just charming and be nervous. It's okay accept the fear and It feels so good when you really yourself and picking up girls You think hey, I was just myself and and she likes me. I was not some stupid guy And you know what will happen then you will find the woman of your life with that because you wear yourself There's nothing wrong there. You're not saying hey I was some other person she doesn't really know me and you start off on a good food Instead of starting off on a bad food Starting off of a food. What isn't you? It's not your food It's some other ones food from a DVD or so somewhere You have to stick your feet stand on two feet and say hey I'm a fucking nervous guy. I don't I actually don't want to talk to girls maybe but I still do it and she thinks hey That's guys courageous. He's charming. He doesn't do this every day She gets sympathy for you That's a good start to get into a relationship Maybe you think it's a bit lame. Oh sympathy empathy, yeah And with this empathy comes some sympathy and what is sympathy English language sympathy means like Yeah All right, but she she will take you you're a nice guy. That's the thing That that's we're looking for that that she thinks you're a nice guy. You're just being yourself and it's okay So and you say yeah, I really know don't want to do you're you're starting to be nervous And I really don't know and yeah, but What's your name? My name is Pim and You just do like like you would normally do that sort of thing and I said hey, I Really don't know what's gonna happen next. Maybe you would think I'm an asshole or something or maybe you think I think you're a cunt or something and she will laugh at that probably I should know no I don't think you're an asshole But maybe it's not so bad after all if we meet and have a drink for ten minutes. Do you have time for ten minutes? There will be three answers She will say oh, yes, where you want to have a drink? This this happens guys this happens this happened to me this is very Like this model of of a girl like a blonde hot Everything you want in a girl she immediately opened like spontaneously like no saying. Oh, I don't know no immediately And I'm a look at me. I'm not that guy Especially now, but I'm not this supermodel or something. No, I got a belly I Got no right biceps or something. I'm a tall guy. I'm not that bad looking I think but I'm not I'm not the super guy. You don't have to be Superman like fly away You know Superman isn't that good actually is a blue tights on he looks like shit actually If you keep running around in the street, hey, sorry, I have a little question for you. I'm Superman You'll think go away you stupid in your blue tights It's okay to laugh actually in my presentation so don't be Just laugh if you want I like it to laughing so right Second thing is she will say I don't have time I say, oh, yeah, I actually don't have time to I'm there with my friends or yeah I have to but you are actually the problem. I'm now late for work, you know, I Get fired of you She will laugh so it's good to laugh because You feel when you're laughing You relax, you know when you really really are laughing muscles Don't do it anymore. You you really like low is laughing on the floor or something laughing something Laughing out loud. Yeah, you also have a roll of or something Yeah, so that's the thing if you really start really Aesthetically laughing you can't control your muscles anymore. You start going on the floor You ever have to have this in your life that you did this like Aesthetically laughing and you fell on the floor. You can't stay anymore. That's a real good experience When she left because she will be nervous to baby even more nervous than you probably she will be more nervous than you What you know why because you knew what is going to happen? You knew you're just some random guy and don't want to take a purse or you don't want to rape her somewhere in the bushes You just want to have a nice experience. Maybe 10 minutes to drink That's all You know and people lead in the media all the time and especially girls about men who rape women You know, you don't see things in the in the paper. Oh, like Thomas met a girl 25 years old They went for a drink for 10 minutes the other nice time. You don't read this in the paper You know you read the shit in the paper about shitty men who do wrong things who aren't in this conference who's thinking So you have to take care of some one one thing is what mostly overlooked in pick up in security There are some that in pick up. It's like comfort But mostly it's actually the security if a if a woman feels secure with you you can do everything you put her Third thing is I Have a boyfriend She will say there's a lot about seven out of ten will say they have a boyfriend especially at first You know why? Trying to scare you off or just you're mostly you're not doing approach that good You can watch it even be at home because it's online for free. So you mostly you're doing that good You're probably too slow to too too fast. Just repeat what I said. Sorry. I have a little question for you I saw you walking on the street. I think you're very nice to see Pause thank you two things. Don't really know what to do nervous drink Somewhere that's the basic outline and somewhere you should find your own outline She will say she has a boyfriend you can do whatever you want with it. There are some good lines for that, too You I mostly say thank you now. You think I see you're looking at why he says thank you. What the fuck? She will think the same She will invest and of course there are some people who saying investment is good within pickup She will invest in thinking about you why he says thank you and She probably verbalized that in why you say thank you. It's very easy. You say you say hey I just wanted to go for a ten minutes drink and you already thinking about the relationship with me That's a good thing. I think you know I I look like a supermodel or something you know So You look you'll always can say of course you have a boyfriend you look very fucking you look you look super nice Well Well, how did you met your you can you can go to into the boyfriend thing and then then you can ask somewhat later How long do you know your boyfriend? And when it's not a real boyfriend, she will say like two days Say okay, you're gonna marry this guy after two days or you are still free to go with other guys So don't go for for like hey, you don't have time Don't go for the I have a boyfriend because then you lose like 90% of all sets After a while you get you get stronger with your warmth and respect you get you get the vibe going because I can Get into state if you would like like with the warmth and respect I can concentrate on it I can concentrate on the nervousness. I can do it right So it looks like a very benign approach and it is actually I don't want to hurt her I I just want I'm curious about her. I'm curious about a voice what she is like and I want to actually Cure the curiosity me And you also have that like if you see a beautiful girl walking on the street you want to know is she really beautiful Also inside Because you're looking for that special partner maybe to have kids with At the end maybe you just want to fuck around or for a while. It's a good for you. I did it, too So I'm not judging anyone about this and Girls who judge you about it fucked them. No, I got balls to use them You just touch your balls at the beginning of the talk and you know, they're there for something They're not for jerking off on some you poor or something They're putting up they're putting for semen into a girl's pussy to make children of it That's why you're there And if you're sitting for you porn you actually feel something inside a voice who says hey, this is wrong man. I Should get it in my girl's pussy. Maybe I Should invest in getting a good life. I should invest in good good family together Well, maybe maybe that's a good thing for me So That's the thing about day game. I'm also gonna do Sometimes when you have the of course a telephone number or maybe with internet dating or something like that You get onto a date you especially if you're not that good You don't go on insta dates that much So it will happen if you do it like 20 times you get will get on instant data out of it Probably if you do it at first Probably maybe soon. So When you're in this instant date You are really that charming guy again. You'll give her your arm and she'll immediately because do this immediately She will take your arm and she will go in Now of course you're walking and it's it's a bit It looks a bit old You just drop your hand She drops to and you walk hand in hand Easy You look like this charming Gallant something old We never knew before because in pickup where you're not gallant. We were just alpha. You can be alpha You can lead You do it. You just did us what did Offering your hand you can be gallant and alpha and that's a very strong medicine for getting a girl if you take a chair if You take a chair you just post your post on the chair you say hey sit here you're giving a commandment and You put the chair under her very nice beautiful ass Because you talk to girls on the street you like you check their asses That's gallant. That's respectful. That's charming. You put all this attraction switches You know, it's like a U-boat Go guns go torpedoes All four torpedoes at once the girls would get what hit me now all this charm want this pack gallantry This is a man. I want to meet This is a man. I want to go a little kiss who can be a father of my children whatever You blow her away you blow her off her feet. You know the expression blow her off her feet That's the seduces work She will free flabbergasted and you will feel like a real man and you will think about me again. I say You feel yeah, that's what a manly thing to do you go out on the street see beautiful girls talk to them and maybe seduce them That's a manly thing to do. That's that's what you're here for you can't do something mannier It's not driving a Porsche or something. Yeah, I'm really mad. You do this for other men girls The manly thing to do is go out and seduce girls Fuck them if you fuck a girl you thinking about what's the sense of life? You think hey, I like Yeah, what's the sense of life again? Oh, I have to be here in the now or something. What's that Eckhart toilets? No, you just fuck her. You just you just hate is a good feeling. So what what's the sense of life fuck girls? Actually is if you think about it The sense of life is fucking girls for us men So you never so now you know what's the sense of life for me for anyone else it can be something different for me the sense of life is fucking girls and Maybe it's maybe too blunt to say this but fuck them man I myself fuck fuck right. I don't I'm a man. I have testosterone. I have to do something with it Now they will have to shame to be a man fuck. No I'm not hurting girls. I'm giving girls a good time. I'm especially looking forward to get girls a good time. They love me Okay, so You put her on the chair. She sits on their nice ass You go sit next to her Because why you sit next to her? Why do you think right? Right? Right? Also because if you sit opposed to her Yeah, I don't know. It's gonna do with the camera, but if I go to you very close Up front you won't like it and I actually can't touch you I can't touch you but you still won't like it if I'm gonna sit next to you and put my shoulder Next to you and touch you you say, okay, maybe a bit the gay, but you will accept it It's okay So you actually get get closer to a girl without setting off any alarms like Anthony did or maybe the camera crew You don't sit off any alarms if you sit next to her girl and it's More easy to escalate. There's a body. There's her knee. There's the inside of her tie You know something All right After a while You maybe take her hand and start caressing and very very caressing like you're only touching the hairs over And what's the biggest erogenous zone of a woman? What's the biggest erogenous zone? Yeah, the skin the biggest erogenous owner is the skin Especially of good-looking charming man with your qualities does this to her if I does to you You don't feel like shivers in you, but it's a really beautiful girl. You're really in and she starts touching your skin You go, oh, let's look you feel it. You feel like goosebumps all over you The same happens to her it goes directly into a pussy. She wants to fuck you now Yeah, I'm blunt about it, but she she wants it too man. She's she's a normal human being with with sex Into her she also got the hormone. She also got the pussy. She also got some things made for fucking She she loves it she wants it there's some social conditioning in there and it's okay It's also has a meaning for it because if you fuck too soon That's not good. Yes. She has to take in while she has to take in only the good stuff And I'm saying it's very blunt, but it actually choose you once her body wants the good stuff so you're escalating this with and I know she likes me now because how do I know she likes me? She accepts it, right? She doesn't take her hand away So it's not like tickling the keys or something at the at the car and kissing goodbye and and awkward moments or something You know, she likes you if you caress her hands and she doesn't take it away If she does take it away, yeah, it's not yet and you do it three times again, and then fuck it. Okay other girls You don't persevere or something you just caress her hand and say hey Do you like if I caress your hand? You already know she likes it because she didn't take it away Do you like it if I caress your hand because I don't like to do things that girls don't like That's key here because we know she read in the paper that there are guys like who rape Rape like girls. So you're talking about security. She now knows you're secure guy After a while, you'll say hey, I really would like to kiss you Really would like to kiss you, but I don't want to sue is here with all the people around Because you're sitting in a restaurant or a bar and you're not gonna fuck this girl in a bar or in restaurants You're not gonna do this. You're gonna do this at her home or your own so you want to escalate to your home You want to be authentic or concurrent you don't want to talk about a DVD and say hey do you we talked about this DVD? I have this at home. Shall we look no, that's not authentic. That's not real man You just say hey, I really would like to kiss you, but I don't want to do this here with all those people around Shall we go to my home? That's it and if you're at your home, what do you will think of you you will not start kissing away Immediately what she will think of she will she will think of kissing you So it's very easy to kiss this girl. She wants it. She's you said you want to go home to kiss her now You're not kissing her. She's actually for ten minutes. You could so you give her some tea or something girls normally drink tea After a while you take the tea away and kiss and escalate further in the bed So this was my talk. Thank you for hearing me at this very early hour and see you very soon Bye