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Do you really need to be in need to know that your friend is indeed? Help us bond that give us your five cents. Just do what you got to do. Hashtag is my the money, but let me let the panelists introduce themselves first and foremost. Good morning, guys. Good morning. Why are we like this? Are you hungry? Are you tired? Are you cold? Good morning. Good morning. There you go. Let's start with you. Tell us what's your name? How can we find you? What do you do? So, I'm Wangarewa Shuri. Wangarewa Shuri is an actress. You can find me on Facebook, Wangarewa Shuri, Twitter, and Instagram. And I think we should just send them some love, tell us she looks nice. Yes. Yes. Yes. What's your name? What do you do? My name is British. I'm a student leader at the University of Nairobi and I'm countered by extension. But do I say... But it's a dangerous combination. Yes. You can look for me on Facebook. I'm Patis Ajwango Tieno and Twera. I'm at Ajwango Patris. He's the son of the lakeside. Do you know Twera? Yes, Twera. I don't see it. I have a question, guys. On our socials, we've asked if you have real friends. Do we really need to be needs to know who our friends are? Do you think so? Personally, I tend to just leave it to destiny because if someone is supposed to help you, if I am destined to help you in a particular situation, then even if you run to your best friend, that best friend will not help you because it is I who has that burden or that responsibility of helping you that particular time. So when it comes to real or fake friends, I just let friends be friends. Because someone can be your best friend today. Tomorrow, priorities change. People change. All the time. All the time. Without warning. Yeah, so fake friends, real friends. Someone can be fake yesterday. Then this person matures with time, becomes a real friend. Someone can be real. And then, you know, just maybe you can take a promotion. Mahali, when they place Fulani and then this person is like, please. You know, and they do it. Yeah, so real fake. They're just friends anyway. Just friends. Talk to me. And please feel free to interrupt or interject or add on to anything she's saying likewise. We have a lot of lies. Now you see, I think, majorly people confuse issues in terms of their social circles. There's a difference between being a friend and being an acquaintance. You can be a friend in that we share memories. We share a lot of things that bring us together. And then you can be an acquaintance in that I know you. You know me. We meet off only by the roadside, by the corridors of whichever place you meet. And I mean, that's it. So you don't expect an acquaintance to come through. But for a friend, yes, he can be able to come through when he can. But one thing really matters. The heart, the intentions of the heart really matters. Somebody can be in a position. You really want to help this guy, but to connoisseur. Ooh, my twist. Yes. You see, sometimes people wish for dangotes of this world to be friends. Or johos of this world. I know papa no be dangote. I imagine. But you see, sometimes it is for real. Your circle, your death worth of your circle is really amusing. You are all in financial flight mode. Wow. So if one person gets financially embarrassed. Embarrassed. He drops it. He gets it down, but you people must help me. But at the same time, they are all in financial flight modes. Actually, if the heart and the intention, the genuineness in the heart says that I would help this guy if I have the way with all, I would. But if I don't have, I don't have. Yes. I agree with that. But let us look at now when it comes to us. Now I'm the one with the problem and you two are my friends. And so for you, you have the financial capability, but you know, it's just like. And then this one is the one with the heart. You know, it's like, you know, I could really have helped this person if I had the means. So as a human being, to me, who's their friend? Huh. And you see, now this is where it gets complicated and twisted. To know me in terms of Sema, she's just a fake friend. He's never there for me when I need him. And then I'll be like, oh, she's the real friend because she was there when I needed her. But am I your friend? If, for example, I give you, but sit at your home. Like every five seconds to keep trying to numb to act. And they're choosing to say, they are who you are. She has just many problems. I just had to. I get that. But there are people who are not even doing it like to hurt you or to even brag. It's natural. There are people who are made like that, you know. And true. But you see, I mean, of course, I want to take your last point and build on it. And people are made differently. And as a result, people value things differently. Now, for me, as a tenor, I have a circle, which we all have dreams. We are saying in the next five years, we will be packing BMs somewhere. We are packing a cadet somewhere. You see? Now, you see, at that point, you could be in a situation where you're in problems and they are not coming through, not because they are stingy, they are mean, but they don't have the capabilities. But you see, sometimes these friends who are needles or are obligated to sacrifice, you cannot be like you don't have daily. You see? But being that you don't have, having all you don't have any resources to help does not really place you at a certain lower degree or a higher degree of being a friend. I mean, let me ask you, a filanth of his friends. I don't think so. They give a lot of billions to countries. They give a lot of money. Even politicians give a lot of money. To where? To their constituents. The campaign is coming up. Yes, they will drop money in guinea bugs. But you see, at that point, you don't say this is a friend. I think the intention behind the hat really comes, you see? And you will know when you have a problem that does not need resources. And I think to know whether or not you have a real friend, you should really evaluate it when you really have in a situation that resources cannot come through. Like back at home, maybe you want to build a house. And then, man, they have been staying in the chickens for a lifetime. Come through. Those people will come through. Friends? Our friends. At that time, when they come out of there, they will not give you iron sheets. With respect, let me just bring back what she said, her aspect of it. Her name is Wangari. And I'm talking to Patrice, who's a scientist of sorts. Anyway, bringing back that aspect of people change, you know? So, perhaps, maybe, to same, I mean, we are at equal level. That means maybe we're making roughly the same amount of money. We have the same kind of education, the same level of education. Maybe we're from the same area. So, by the time that I say, ah, I'm going to eat and drink, so you come eat, come, I come help. But what happens when the day, you don't look at your child? Don't you imagine? Because it's human. Let me just tell you guys, it is human. People keep saying, especially a relationship between ladies who are friends or colleagues, everything that we're always trying to tie each other down. But it's a simple fact. It's just in us. We are touched to share. We are touched to love. We are not touched to hate. That means it's somewhere inside the sindio. So, what happens if... Now, you see, there are many things that bring people together. And at that point, it is obligated upon us. We know the true nature of friends we have. I mean, there is that friend who is noble, who is a friend of honour. He had ended Australia 60 years ago. You look at him and they say... You change what? I mean, it depends. Depends. It's trust you make. There are some of us who... we won jackpot some few weeks back. But we know money is not everything at the same time. So, you really are obligated to get friends who you stand by. But there is also this thing that many people don't really have. You have friends for convenience. You see? I have you because I need effort from you. And then by the time I'm not in that particular level in life, in fact, you are not together. In fact, I don't know you. Wow. You see? You must do your friends. Yeah. But guys, I'd like us to take a step back. And before we brand fake and real friends, let us look at ourselves as a personality. Because sometimes who we are will determine who stays in a circle and who lives. Because if I'm the kind of person, I don't know who I am. I don't know who I am. And then I don't know how. Next time I talk about the capability of helping me, will you help me much as you're a true friend? And you really love to be there for me. Will you help me? You will suffer. What's the problem? Is it the friend who's fake? Or is it your personality that does not allow this real thing? Can we talk about that brand fake friends? Because honestly, to my knowledge, I cannot remember a man telling me as fake friends. I can't remember a woman telling me as fake friends. And I can imagine that my age is too big. It's just too big, guys. My age is big. Okay? If I'm the kind of person who's fake friends, why are they my friends if they are fake? If I'm the kind of person who's fake friends, I'm the kind of person who's real friends. It's some type of intuition. Why are you still my friend? And why am I now holding it again? In fact, I'm asking you this question as a shorty, but I'd really like to hear your opinion after she's done. Why is it that... I want to say, I'm madame, but I think it's kind of universal, this whole situation. But why is it that you will keep me in your circle if I'm fake? Just why? Do you want to know that you have many friends? Do you want people to know that you're likable? As in, what is the problem? Nani, I'd rather be in my house. I'd rather be just with my TV. If it is like this, I'll help. My bed will never betray me. I'll never call it fake. My clothes are not going to disturb me. My shoes. Beds get broken. No, in a century, once in a century. We've got a lot of faults. Of which, that is not fake. Okay, girl, but to answer you, let's go back to a personality. You know, there are people who are so afraid of losing anything or anyone. Like, if she knows that she could lose, she'll just keep you because she just can't lose. People who don't know how to lose. Yeah, there are so many people. They don't know how to lose. We've been friends. You guys have been best friends. Now all of a sudden, you're best friends with someone else. Or now you just know her friend. There are people who can't handle that. So that's one person who will keep you or accommodate you or storm a queue as a fake friend. She knows you're a fake, but... Who is she? I'll tell you my story. I'll tell you my story. I confess, but I don't confess. I confess. Oh my God! This is what happened. So initially, we were friends. Me and the Shorin. As in friends for, okay, just by the way, I'm thinking, are you cool people? Okay, let's just, you know, be friends more a little bit. So it's a little bit. So it's a little bit. So it's a little bit. It's a little bit. It's a little bit. So we get along. Oh yeah. Someone else is approaching me. Someone completely out of the picture. This is a dude. I was assigned a job. A job that has maybe five parts. So I've done four to five. So the fifth one, and then I come home to and I'm going to pay a vulgarity. I'm going to pay a vulgarity. So I'm going to pay a vulgarity. So I'm going to pay a vulgarity. Then I'll come home to and I'm going to pay a vulgarity. So I'm going to pay a vulgarity. In fact, I'm going to pay that for someone else. I'm just going to pay the vulgarity. Imagine my shock. When I'm over there, I think, I get excited and it's hot. And I say, what are you going to do next time? I'm just saying, I don't care. I just refuse. Life is too enticing and sweet for me to waste time on this one particular person who is now coming and trying to put a wall on my eyes wall on my eyes is it's no imagine but no valid time you come across too many of such people to a point out when you see a new one you're like you be as cordial as you can be in public lucky me where Piaw Natua Vaibhia excuse social distance actually COVID-19 is real out of Seneca to be a son in fact don't breathe next to me varmas thanks you're going to say something now you see again one thing you people need to know kill a mood on objectives in life agendas we we I cannot fit in your gender you cannot fit in mind I can help you achieve yours and you help me achieve now some of us we we we we we somebody strategically I mean we are friends because we have strategic interests now to sleep so some of us we are friends because we have common interest I mean just like quality two countries I mean I'm your friend because we have seen some goal that some people are playing with some other and we have to take it other point you my friend and then at that point when I assess you and then I see a value are useless at this point I don't mean to tell you you are I mean I mean again he's a man I'm gonna talk about you talk so at that point you will find myself doing very unique things in fact I will show you yeah I will have you I will flabbergast you I will authoritatively disturb your existence so that is one thing but also the second thing I think fake friends is a I mean it's a defensive manner people have to deal with certain situations yeah I mean if somebody is not is fake as you have termed them or her I mean no need to have him in either of your circles I mean we should not even whisper next to that nigga or man is social distance yes yeah so if you're fake you're fake I don't need to call you a fake friend I mean that you it's a defense mechanism I think people have developed over the time and then some people them themselves they're fake so that you think that too personal I don't think that's a that's I mean it never exists I would honestly rather you tell me honor I'm just here with you right now because I want to achieve one to I know I really just like honesty and I hear we like to be lied to as the other gender must be like Mr. Aki imagine just tell me the truth when you miss a sigh and he does just rip it off not for all you see you know therefore that's because not withstanding no just just give it to me or leave me and I realize that people don't lose friends with value I don't know there is that friend who never always six day around with all who is always going there to go and look for others you want to release your circle balloon your circle no sometimes you don't even go looking for them sometimes prejudice you know just go to a new workplace you find new people you build more connections you move to a new yes that is acquaintance that is not a friend friends don't give him degree as a graduate so how does he graduate when this person is there for you during your time of need very good question what we're going to do is now we're going to hear from the ground so we have a couple of videos to show you in a few seconds and this is basically just a penny for your thoughts and if you're interested you can do the same at what my phone Facebook quite for channel Twitter hashtag is white in the morning