 And this kind of drives my fiance nuts, but it was terribly effective is I actually tracked her ovulation cycle Okay, because her mood in men shifted based on her prior hypergysmus response We know women tend to want more aggressive dominant men During ovulation cycle just after that cycle. They want to be all cuddly and fuzzy So what do you do? Am I the same guy the whole way? No because I got to work with this fucking face and body Right, I've got to perform. I got to change. I've got to adapt. I'm not blessed with you know an inherited body Okay, I've got to work with what I've got which means I have to respond and I'm a smart guy I rationalize this shit. So what do I do? I track her ovulation cycle I know roughly when it is and there's some things you can test and question You don't have to track check the trash bag. I mean you she'll generally tell you no All right, but I amp up the sexuality and the aggressiveness and assertiveness I don't ask her what what we're gonna eat where we're gonna go babe get your shit We're going out for Chinese. We're doing this come here, you know and there have been times I've actually just called her over and grabbed her or just literally clawed her manhandler, you know Not necessarily violent and you know, but you just sit down and take that assertive control Okay, you kiss her your polar hair. Okay, you bite her lip gently Okay, you know I make her say dirty things to me talk dirty me. I'm not gonna you know all those sort of playful things All right After ovulation guess who's getting the chick flick the you know the cookie the cookie dough cuddling Hey, baby. Let's just sit on the couch and cuddle. Okay, playing with intensity provide providing that variety Okay. Yes, it's staged. Yes, it's managed Guess what? Shit fucking works