 you have convinced yourself over your lifetime, just because you have an intellectual ability that you actually know. But knowledge is not the same thing as intellectual ability, you know? And knowledge doesn't come from thinking, it comes from not thinking. See what I mean? So for you, the process now is to surrender, to be quiet, not to try to grasp and grab and gain, but to give, to give. You have to learn to give. It's beautiful, it's a beautiful way to proceed. I don't know if you're going to do it. That is up to you. But this is a chance. Maybe your spiritual master has brought you here, you know? And you should take it as a chance to reach that which is your core, your center, your truth, you know? Then maybe you will also be able to experience that love and to love the other.