 Welcome everyone to another NARC survival live video live from My hotel room. I haven't been in a luxury hotel for quite some time. Nice to be here. It's a great room Levinette can't wait to order some room service and and Maybe check out the rooftop There's supposed to be something going on there tonight. It's a Saturday night. They're meant to have a DJ So go check it out. But yeah onto this important topic tonight When you realize this you have defeated the narcissist And it really is that simple It's very true what I'm about to say and Yeah, I hope that When I share this with you and when you realize it It will free you from The grasp The clutches of the narcissist. I hope that it will free you from their web their network and what you really need to realize is to put it bluntly They are very low-value people and Before some of you May say that it's very superficial or shallow to say that To separate people in terms of low value and high value let me first define what I mean by Low value or high value Because to me a High-value person. It's not just someone who accumulates wealth success or Someone who focuses heavily on their physical appearance someone who is high maintenance That would be a narcissist definition of a high-value person to me Your value is determined by the difference you can make in the world By how you can improve someone else's life and with the amount of time that you spent with a narcissist All of those months or years that you were with them How much value did they contribute to your life? What did they do for you? Did they improve your life in any way or did they make it worse? And that's how you should realize that you were dealing with a low-value person, but you were high value to them most often how it goes is If you were dealing with a narcissist You left with less money and resources than you came in with Well, they left with more money resources and experiences Than they came in with So they benefited at your expense and you got the short end of the stick Because you were a high-value person who was dealing with a low-value person So you were given all of your value to them and they were just taking it But they didn't have any value to give back to you in return That's how you lost so much in the process of dealing with them. But when you realize that When you really see them as they actually are as these low-value people Who have nothing of value to bring to your life? They will just get themselves out of dodge They will ghost you they will disappear. They won't want anything to do with you after that Because they want you to see the illusion they want you to validate their false self it's an illusion of Significance and value Because their value comes from external things Whether it's Money their physical appearance Their car their house whatever it is Or the people they associate themselves with This is all just an illusion of value. It looks like they have a lot to offer you But they never actually give anything to you So There isn't really any value there you're not gonna gain anything from dealing with them You're not even gonna get an equal exchange There's not gonna be any reciprocation, which essentially means that They are worthless and when you realize that you have defeated them It's game over for the narcissist at that point Because they're dependent on their manipulation The illusion they're hoping that will be enough to pull the ball over your eyes But when you begin to see the man behind the curtain Like in the Wizard of Oz They can't fool you anymore You've won You've defeated them So it really is that simple You just need to recognize that The reason why you lost out in the end The reason why everything went from good to bad to bad or worse The reason why you lost so much in the process of dealing with them is because You were dealing with a low-value person It's as simple as that If you were dealing with a high-value person Just picture this imagine Imagine a Billionaire or millionaire someone who you admire Now it could be Bill Gates Elon Musk whoever it is Just imagine spending one week with them These are high-value people and I'm not just talking about how they have billions Or all their cars and villas and Their super yachts their private jets. That's not The only value they have I'm talking about Their knowledge their wisdom their experience They have so much to share with you Just imagine Sitting down with them and having a conversation For ten minutes You'd probably get more value from that ten-minute conversation Then you would get from ten years with a narcissist and that's how you know All of this time you spent with them how much value did you get out of them nothing? And they were never with you to bring any value to you. Anyway, it was just to extract from you because You were the high-value person You were like the Bill Gates or the Elon Musk in their lives And that's the only reason why they wanted to be around you and when you realize that you have defeated them It's game over for them. You have won. I hope this video has been helpful I just had to share this message with you tonight and now I'm going to enjoy This amazing hotel in my room here as you can see if this video was helpful for you Please give it a thumbs up down below helps our community Share the video hit that subscribe button For one-on-one coaching you can go to my website. It's not survivor.co.uk And check out my Instagram as well. I've got new pictures and videos every day on there. It's not survivor YouTube and Instagram Again, thank you all and you will have a great day