 They're saying to, they say it's to the Imam Ibn Ata'a al-Sakandari, you call me haithuaqamakillaa, or maqamaka haithuaqamak. Your place is where he puts you in. You know what that means? So if he puts you as a wife, that means he wants you to be serving him, him, not your husband, as a wife. No, I really mean this. If he puts you as a single mother or a single woman, that means you are his servant in that status. So abusive. And a woman come to me a lot about this. I have only one line. I said, where are you more pleasing to Allah? Inside this marriage or outside this marriage? If you are more pleasing to Allah inside this marriage, meaning you can take it, you are absolutely patient, and you look at your Akhirah, then you stay. If you are not, even if there is not really a lot of abuse, she just can't stay, then absolutely leave. Exactly what Sheikh Hassan said, put Allah number one in your formula. Difficult parents, that's the toughest one. Because this is, there is no plus and minus. It's in the Quran. Wa qadah rabbuka illa ta'budu illa iya wa bil walidaini ihsanah. He put it together. Allah had decreed, you worship not but him and treat your parents with excellence ihsanah. And then he specified, because you know when it's gonna get tough. In my ablughanna inda kal kibar a haduhuma a kiraahuma. When one of them or both, get to the old age. And you know how difficult it is with an old age parents, especially these days. Falata kullahuma uff, don't say uff. So what do I do? It's very difficult, sister Haifa. I say, turn to Allah. Say, yam yassir yassir. Ya Allah, you are the one who makes things easy. Make it easy. Do you think he will not listen to you? He will have this relationship. Cry to him, run to him. So there is choice and there is no choice and Allah will make things easy.