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But into this video We're going to be talking about Revenge because of course You all found my videos because You were being mistreated You were being treated unfairly You gave yourself to this person You gave your love your loyalty You gave them everything you had And you felt like There was no reciprocation there wasn't a fair exchange and not only that But you were being abused You were being manipulated deceived lied to future faked They put you through a lot of things Maybe they cheated on you They stole from you And it was just unfair You knew that you didn't deserve that You knew that you deserve to be treated with love and respect So you may be watching this video now because You're hurt You're thinking about taking revenge on the narcissist and of course yes, there are ways that you can do that But it's definitely something that I don't recommend Because anything you try to do if you try to punish them It's just going to be tit for tat they'll try and punish you And even if it's something where You just leave them behind and you go off and live your best life You become successful You're earning more money You're doing better without them and then you want to show it off you want to put it on social media So that they see that you're so much happier without them When again if you do that It's just going to cause a narcissistic injury And then they're gonna come back and destroy it all or they may triangulate you with someone else Or they may start a smear campaign against you So it's just not worth it there's just no point in Taking revenge on the narcissist because you should be wanting to get out of it Not to sink deeper into it Because that's exactly what is going to happen If you do try to take revenge No, narcissist is just going to leave it alone and forget about it. If you do something that hurts them If you try to punish them or make them envious or jealous They're going to come back to get you or they're going to do something behind your back that you don't know about They're going to bring you down with them, which is why when you are dealing with a narcissist you do need to be very careful Because there's no telling how they might react They are unpredictable Which is why I advise That first you recognize why you want to take revenge because of course the only reason why It's going to be because of your feelings You feel hurt and hurting the narcissist Getting revenge on them that might make you feel a little bit better in the moment But over time you're just going to feel worse It just isn't worth it You're just wasting your time and if it doesn't cause a narcissistic injury then sometimes they won't even see it They won't even know what you're trying to do. They're so focused on themselves and their own interests They're not even going to figure it out So you're really just wasting your time There's really no point in getting revenge. It's just gonna hurt you and I know that myself on my own experience Anytime that I left the narcissist and I tried to do better without them It just caused an injury and then they came back to destroy me So I'm saying this because I don't want it to happen to you. I Don't want you to go through that Instead what I'd prefer for you Is to move on with love for yourself With focusing on where you want to be in the future Instead of going back to deal with this individual again Because that's only going to cause more trouble for you. It's going to get you into a lot of trouble Narcissists are very dangerous They are not to be messed with and I know there's a lot of videos on here talking about getting revenge Talking about How to get to them how to make them envious or jealous that is a very dangerous thing to do Because they are very unpredictable You never know how they're going to react Narcissists are very extreme Of course as we know there are narcissists out there who have killed someone Just look about Chris Watts case a few years ago He was a narcissist He murders it murdered his own wife and his two daughters Buried them all because he had This other relationship His new supply and maybe she found out about it. Who knows? so, yeah Just my opinion based on my research It's not it's not worth it getting revenge You're just going to be fueling those hurt emotions. You're gonna be feeding into it It's just going to make it worse for you Just recognize why you desire to do it. It's because of your feelings Don't just react from emotions like narcissists do Think logically Think about where you're going where you want to be Think about what's going to help you Focus on yourself your own life And don't reveal too much information Don't let them know where you are or what you're doing Because otherwise they will use it as ammunition against you Just as they've done before and if you thought it was bad while you were with them Trust me. It will get a lot worse If you do take revenge Then they're really going to want to bring you down Because they are very emotional So this is really what I recommend Just move on with peace and take that peace And use it and share it with someone else Because when you find someone else and you have a new relationship after you've healed You won't even be thinking about the narcissist anymore They won't bother you and as long as they don't know about it You keep it private. You keep it secret Don't let them know that you've moved on. You've got someone new Because all they're going to do is come back to destroy it A lot of them they don't want to see you moving on. They don't want to see you being happy So the less they know The better. It's best if they don't know anything About what you're doing in your life Because then they've got nothing to use against you But a lot of these narcissists what they do is they're constantly Watching and stalking Their exes because it's almost like they're looking for fuel They're just looking for something to rile them up So that at least then they have a reason to attack you It's like they need something just to get them going As crazy as that sounds and it's not always that you're doing anything They're just going out of their way looking for things They're just looking for something So that it will make them mad and then they have a reason to attack you Which is why it's best to hide it from them. Don't let them know what you're doing And just move on with your life Quietly and peacefully it will be much better for you Narcissists are not to be messed with Especially if you're dealing with a sociopath or a psychopath You definitely don't want to take revenge on someone like that Because it looked like they've moved on and then when you at least expect it They will do something and a lot of times there's no telling what they're going to do And it may look like they're fine It may look like they took it well. They're okay in the case of the sociopath the psychopath Months even years can go by and they just wait it out and then all of a sudden They pop up and they do it and you may not even know why you may not even trace it back To something that you did before But they did and They were waiting for it That's how sick the sociopath and psychopath really is They will wait it out They will wait for the right moment And all of that time they will suppress their emotions They will pretend like everything is okay Well, the narcissists as we know they're more quick to react Once you've done something to them. They've got to do something The sociopath and the psychopath are very different and they are far more dangerous If you do take revenge on them So these are these are all things to take to keep in mind and I say this because I Want to help you Want to guide you to the right direction Which is away from the things that hurt you you don't want to go back into it You may think that you do but it's just your emotions These emotions will subside over time and if you're a normal person You're gonna feel really bad about it Regardless of what they did to you You're still going to feel bad and then that may pull you back in and you may want to help them And then before you know it, you're stuck in the relationship again So my advice is just don't do it Don't get involved with them again Don't put yourself back in the drama Just because of emotions trying to get revenge Instead just focus on your life focus on healing Don't get too distracted by what they're doing because you have to remember Your life your time, it's very important clearly. It's more valuable than the narcissist After what they did to you so why waste your time on someone Who isn't even worth your time because what did you ever get out of it? I just hope that this message helps someone Because remember I am talking from experience. I've been through these these things myself. I know what it's like I've experienced the lifetime of abuse Every type of abuse that there is From the very beginning of my life When I was a child I was already Being abused in every possible way There were all sorts of things that were done to me and of course There was a point where it upset me Especially when those memories started to resurface But I never really felt the need to take revenge I just thought it's best if I just focus on my own life and what I'm doing Because it's just not worth it. It's what narcissists typically do They like to take revenge They like to hurt people We should not be doing that But yes, let me know if you have any questions About this topic or something else Let me know down below in the live chat and if you appreciate this message You can send a super chat donation as well or a super thanks in the comments It helps to support our community Druid VW says none of us deserve that A dog doesn't deserve that Yeah, that's very true. I mean no one deserves to go through what we go through With these narcissists, I mean whoever it is Whatever you've been through whatever you've done There's just no excuse. There's no justification for that type of treatment. I believe that everyone deserves to be treated with love compassion and respect No matter who they are because otherwise It's just not going to have a positive effect On them or on you Sometimes you just have to show compassion from afar But either way I genuinely believe that it is the right thing to do Even despite everything that I've been through in my life Showing anger hatred resentment that will never lead you anywhere good chosen 11 says stop being a victim Yes, definitely I agree with that That's what this this channel is about That was the whole point of why I named it not survivor because survivor is all about surviving It's moving past The victimization drama fan 08 Says yeah, don't try to hurt people They'll make you look like the abuser to the other people that they manipulate That's very true Even if you do try to take revenge and even if you are successful in doing that And even if they can't get back to you They will just play the victim and enforce their flying monkeys and then they'll make it look like you are the you are the abuser Even though you're just reacting you just responded to what they did to you They're very good at twisting things Thank you for the donation be the survivor. I'm happy to hear that my advice has helped you But yes, I know After what many of you have been through with these narcissists Of course, I understand this may not be what you want to hear It may not be your idea of a resolution Because you feel like it's unresolved You feel like you have to do something to them when it's just going to make things worse It's not going to make things better for you and remember. It's just you're reacting to your emotions We have to think logically So that's it. That's the message for today. I advise against Taking revenge on the narcissist but what I also advise is to focus on peace and love and just Taking your life in a healthier direction Away from what hurt you So I hope that helps If it does you can show your support down below By giving this video a thumbs up And let me know your thoughts thoughts in the comment section as well Is share and subscribe And as always I'll talk to you in another one very soon