 Hai, semua. Macam mana semua yang buat? Bagus. Bagus atau bagus? Bagus. Bagus. Okey, so the topic is, what the F moments? Do you react or do you respond? Because if I can share a bit about reacting and responding while they set up the technical part. A lot of times when we are in a F-up moment, we're like you just react and then you become depressed. And then you don't take action. You just moan about it and then you don't move forward. So there's a choice between reacting or responding and then executing. You know what I mean? So, slide please. Okey basically my name is Zai Mystique. I'm Zaiton Majid but it's Zai Mystique on social media and what have you not. So... Ya, I'm a coach-autor speaker. Oh, there's so many slides. Good. Ya, it's good. So I'm a coach-autor speaker. Basically I help people renew your aspirations. I help people turn your dreams into reality with confidence and clarity. Because if you just turn dreams into reality without confidence and clarity, you move two steps forward ten steps back. Through? Yes? Okey cool. I also found a Sisterhood Mentorship Program. I'm not a feminist. Just that I feel that when women are happier, we have a happier household, a happier community, a happier world. Through ladies and gentlemen. So, I started out... My first business was Mystique Art. Since 2001. I took it to Japan. I'm sharing with you. Two weeks trip became a six month stay. It was super fun. But something happened. I couldn't go out to work. So, you guys know the story. Coming out, I started Mystique Shopping and then Mystique Print. And then I was learning Arabic. I was in Jordan, Morocco, Yemen for two years. And I came back, created a program called Read, Write, Speak Arabic. Not aerobics. Aerobics, the language. And then eventually, as you can see, I don't collect boyfriends. And boyfriends. Okay, anyway. Eventually, two years ago, what happened was I started a Mystique Academy under the wing of Mystique International because I could do my hand up. I could sell things online. I could teach the language. I was happy. And then I had a call from a random person on my Facebook. And she went like, can I speak to you for ten minutes or so? I'm like, okay, give me a call. And I called her. And what happened was she spoke to me just before we hung up. She said, thank you for speaking to me because I was just thinking of committing suicide. I feel better now. So I'm like, dude, what do I do now? There is something that I need to do. Right? Okay. So that was the story of Japan. So just after I didn't quit school, I'm not like a school dropout or something. I finished school, but I was a model. I was doing make-up. I was a make-up artist. I was introduced to Hanna Art and I took Hanna Art into Japan. Super fun. Two weeks trip became a stay. And then my favourite student. And then my Japanese students living in Japan by turning my passion into profits. That is one of the things I did. I was so excited. I wanted to set up a Hanna school in Japan. I was interviewed by Tokyo FM, magazines, radio. I was just so fine. That's why I owned Japan. I was only 20 then. It was so fun. And then I wanted to set up a Hanna school. I came back to Singapore. There was, of course, when you become foreign talent, then they recognised you. So George Yang came to my house. We did an interview. This was in Tokyo FM. Magazines, TV. Suddenly you become an FT. Foreign talent. So that happened. And everything was good. I had bookings for corporate events, for bridal Hanna, for classes. Two years in advance. But in 22 April 2005, I was in a... I shouldn't sound so happy. I met with an accident. Fractured, dislocated my spine. A doctor said I cannot walk anymore. Before, this is a miracle. I deserve a clap. And it was tough. So what happened was, I fractured dislocated my spine. The doctor said you cannot walk anymore. Even if after the operation, the chances of you walking again is 5%, that's it. So this is a living miracle. And miracles happened. I could react to this and feel like a victim for life. But of course it was not automatic. I'm not like a superwoman. A year into the accident, my one year anniversary, I ask myself, do I want to be a victim for life? Or do I want to come out victorious? What is my purpose of being? Why didn't I just die in the accident? That got me thinking. So I travelled. That was when I travelled. I went to London, Cyprus, Syria. I was not wearing the hijab before. The accident didn't inspire me to look for spirituality of God. Because it was a huge ego. You're awesome. But no. But anyways, I started wearing the hijab. A big challenge. And I was in London, Cyprus, Syria. I found the hijab fashion. That was 9 years ago. Before, I've beaten into Pasar Malam now. Now everybody sells everything on Facebook. So that was 9 years ago. Pioneer batch selling stuff online. Made 3-5k working from home. Couldn't go out to work. So I brought my business home. And it was awesome. But anyways, just after the accident, I had a broken spine. I was jobless. My savings were depleting. Because I had to go for doctor's appointment, physiotherapy, medicine. I had to get fixtures in the house to feel comfortable. And after 10 months of the accident, I only had 10 USD to my name. Fuck up, right? And if the above was you, what would you have done? Something to think about? Would you react to a situation? Or respond? Actually, I already told your answers. I decided that I would be a victim for life. I would come out victorious. And the best part was, half the time, family don't really support you. You are on your own, right? Not all of us are fortunate to have, like, yeah, I have siblings. I have everyone's there. But you are on your own, dude. So whenever you want to do something, don't think too hard. What will people think? What will people say? People will talk. Let them talk. You just move forward and do what you need to do. Can? Good. So, and then I was determined. I said, I wanted to discover what was my purpose of being. I said, I desire to redesign my life. I wanted to be a brand new me. I wanted the world to know that you can be whatever you want to be. Whatever you want to be. With faith and love. You must be happy. Because only you can make you happy. It's great if you have a partner who makes you happy. But he also got access baggage. You have your bagages. So clear all your past, diagnosed who you are. I'll share a bit about that. How I brought myself to where I am today, helping people. So this is a new paper article. She brought her spine, but not her spirit. Okay? So tomorrow's story is simple. It's okay to be a glow stick. Sometimes we need to break before we shine. You know that thing where you... Ya, you know that party style. And then you shine. So this is a very powerful tool. This was a TV interview and also a business award that I received earlier this year. By The Chambers of Commerce. Nice. You like that, Adaya? I like it. And that was recently. I was in Japan launching my Hanna Art Therapy, launching my book, signing just in November. I just came back like end November. And I came back because I promised Angela I was going to be speaking to you guys. So thank you guys. Yes. If not, I'll still be in Japan. So don't count your days. Make your days count. It's very important. I have some copies of my book. So I basically written your passion to profits and five things I love about being a woman. So basically I teach you to appreciate yourself, respect yourself and trust yourself. Because if you don't love yourself, nobody's going to love you. And this is not about being self. I'm all about me, me, me, myself and I. If you don't be founded and grounded, you cannot help the world. How many of you have taken a flight before? Take a flight aeroplane? Yes, of course, right? And then what did the lady say? Put on your oxygen mask before helping the rest of the world. Yes? So that's the same thing for you guys. Okay? So basically just to share a bit. Because I went through a lot of stuff, not a lot. I'm sure all of us had moments in our life whatever we went through. I just want to share how did I get to where I am today? I was strengths coached two years ago. You guys heard of Gallup Strengths Finder? Personality test? Gallup? Ya? Okay, great. So, basically I'm a strengths coach. How I help people is I help them diagnose who you are. Then I help them pass your past. Because as long as you have all those past, my mum say I'm stupid, I'm not good enough, my family call me sleep, they call me lazy and sleeping head. But I got myself sleeping beauty instead. So eh, it rhymes. So I call my sleep. So people can say whatever they want to say. Identify who you are. Desire check. Ask yourself what do you want truly? Personally, not for my children, for my mother, for my girlfriend, whatever, no. What do you want really? This was a hard knock question I had two years ago and I said I don't know what I want, man. I live my life, I earn money, I travel but I don't know. Then I was on this journey. But before that, I got to know who you are. Identify what you want to do. Desire, what your heart desire and then decide what, how you want to move forward. For me, I decided want to be a politician, join young PAP and inspire people or wrong idea. But oh, was an option or be a celebrity or the international speaker travel the world, I help people. So this was a path I decided to do. So I end my speech with this. Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your heart on fire and be the strong successful success you are resting to be. Thank you. Question? Do I have time for question? Question, please. You? Question, please. Those are tough questions. So perhaps relating to your accident or something else? When I wasn't the A and E bet strapped up the only thing that I thought of was my mum. I said I cannot die. I have to live for my mum. So sometimes you need to have a reason to live for maybe. But eventually it got to asking myself what was my purpose of being and then moving from there. Identify what my purpose was and then take it from there. Question? Are you guys inspired? Thank you. Just wondering, yes. I'm just curious how do you pick yourselves up after living only left with 10 US dollars after that. You have to read my book turn your passion into profit. But what I did was really, really let me share with you something. A henna cone costs 5 dollars. The henna paste the cone is 5 dollars. So I said if I cannot draw henna because of my broken spine I can teach it to people. So my basic workshop is about 50 dollars. My professional course is about 400 dollars for a 12 hours lesson. And then from there I started saving money. Same thing. How I started my hijab. Hijab is the veil that I'm wearing right now. The hijab business. Same thing. I started with a 200 dollars supply and then I triple quadruple it and then buy stocks, sell, buy stocks, buy stocks and sell. I mean buy supplies and sell. And that's how I started having making money. And they said if you're too comfortable you don't think how to move forward. So when you're stuck you're like I need to think. I need to think how to get it. Ya. Ya. Okay money and then I travelled again. I went to Jordan, Morocco, Yemen. I learnt the language. I spent a lot of money. 2 years overseas. Not cheap. But then again I came back. I started teaching Arabic and then I realised why I started the coaching programme, online coaching programme was because I wanted to do something that I could do. I could be in the Caribbean now. I was in Japan doing my coaching programme. I'm like haa I finally found the formula. So that's why I do what I do today. You start small start believe in your 5 dollar business. Before I went to Japan my family said we have half a million asset. What can your 5 dollar business do for you? My 5 dollar business took me to Japan last month. Make me, you know I appear on TV on radio and never underestimate what you've got and you all have it inside all of you. Yes. Yes. For the most who came down here in your life after the accident who was your strongest supporter? And what was that spark that actually made you stand up on the field again after a year? There's two questions again. Who was the supporter that I had after the accident? Okay. And what was the spark that actually caught me? The supporters I knew here? Or was it the spark that made me want to get up again? Well of course I had a very good friend who we were involved in an accident together but I broke my spine and she didn't. So she was quite cool and we were very good friends then. Then. Then we were very good friends like you know. Ya. And well she was there for me very helpful, very useful and eventually like our frequency and vibes doesn't match anymore. So we fall out. Very sad. There was a very big breaking down point for me. It happened two years ago only. And Well I said do or die. Ya. Two or die. That's why I say people can talk. People are there one day and they are not there the next day. But you are alive. You get up and do what you need to do. It's not easy. Find friends like-minded people. A bit crazy is okay. Too crazy don't get too close. And then ya. Move forward. Thank you very much. Thank you.