 hello everyone i was here today in the middle of the jungle i've just been driving this car the new BMW 320i it's got a cool body kit and yeah i'm just out here in the jungle traveling and exploring this beautiful day today as you can see i've actually been watching a few of my older live videos recently and yeah it's amazing to see how far i've come i mean the message is still pretty much the same when i watch my old videos i still agree with a lot of the things that i said back then even two to three years ago and yeah it reminds me to still try to keep that same style as well because that's the thing when you've been doing this for such a long time for so many years i mean i've been doing this now for five years of course after some time you may become quite desensitized to it and you can lose that passion and enthusiasm but it's really good when i watch my older videos it reminds me of that and it reminds me just how important disinformation is non-sacistic abuse is a big deal it destroys people's goals and dreams it erases people's identities it destroys people's relationships families future everything people's children so yes even though i've been doing this now for five years i don't want to lessen the impact of sharing this information because that can happen sometimes people are using the word narcissist for things where it may not really be relevant i mean remember the basis of it is the traits as mentioned in the dsm narcissists are self-absorbed they lack empathy they don't care about anyone but themselves a lot of them all they care about is their image the very grandiose they have a strong sense of entitlement and they often play the victim they project and deflect they blame shift they gaslight they manipulate and they can often appear quite delusional as well as though they detach from reality and of course they are very abusive their intent is to destroy their target if they can't take what they want from you so that's important to remember as well this is what a narcissist is and if you are dealing with someone who sounds just like that like where they lack the empathy and you can't just sit down and have a conversation with them things never get resolved they just spin you around in circles then yes that sounds like you are dealing with a narcissist so i think it's important to put that out there so that people understand but aside from that today's topic it's about what you need to do to make the narcissist come back because it really is quite simple a lot of you you are blowing up their phone texting and calling them trying to get their attention wondering why they disappeared and the reason why is because they don't need to contact you they don't need to talk to you why would they need to do that when they're already getting what they want they're already getting supply they're getting your attention they've got all of your messages and phone calls on their phone they know you want them to come back they know that you want to see them they already know that so why would they bother why would they waste their time when they're already getting what they want they're getting supply they're getting that attention they're getting that validation they're getting all of that already so there is no need no reason for them to come back unless you withhold that you take away your energy and attention from them you stop giving it out so freely and instead you take that energy and focus it on yourself and your own life focus it on becoming the best version of yourself because I can promise you when you do that they will sense that your energy is slipping away from them and that is actually the last thing that they want that's the whole point of why they groomed you they love bombed you because they wanted your energy to flow through them so that they could participate and be a part of it so that they could get something out of it because remember they're completely self-absorbed everything is all about them it's all about their own feelings and needs it was never about you so yes when you pull back and you keep that energy to yourself that is when they will begin to notice and recognize it they will see that something is wrong you're no longer attached to them because that's what it's all about it's the attachment as I said in a recent video they tie this cord this rope between you and them it's like a trauma bond they traumatize you and then you're trying to fix it you're trying to resolve it so you're coming back to them for validation and they tend to do that because you've already been gaslight you've been taught not to go within yourself as though your own validation of yourself is not good enough so you have to keep coming back to them but my advice is to do the opposite yes go within yourself yes validate yourself and your own experience and when you do that you will sever the tie and you will free yourself and that will often make them come back and that is also what you should do anyway even if you want to get rid of them you should go no contact you should cut off all communication with them because all they're gonna do is drain you of your energy their energy vampires they're just gonna take your life and the energy away from you they're gonna rob you of that so yes these are all important things to take into consideration they're not coming back because they already get what they want their predators they can sense that energy and they know that it's coming to them because you're thinking about them when you take your mind off of them and you put it back on yourself they will sense that as well and they will notice that you're beginning to heal and move on with your life and when you do that of course they're not gonna like it because they want you to be tied to them they want you to be attached to them but once you sever that tie you will feel a lot better about yourself you will feel stronger and more confident so yes of course that is what I advise you to do but I advise you to do that mainly because it will help you it will help you to move on with your life I don't advise you to do this to get the narcissist to come back and the reason why I don't advise you to do that is because as I said remember those traits they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy they don't mean you know well they're all about themselves they're all about what they can get out of you they will strip you of everything that you have