 I need help after an online date. It was okay until we got to his. Can you tell me what happened? I didn't want to have sex, but he said I shouldn't have gone back to his if I didn't want to. This is not okay. This is sexual abuse. There's no excuse. If you didn't consent, it's rape and a criminal offence. We can help you. Confidential help and support is available 24-7 on the Live Fear Free helpline. Call 0808-8010-800