 because it's really difficult to heal when you're in a victim place, where you are either looking for somebody else to blame or control or whatever. And some people in earnest, they're confused, they really don't know where to go. And then so I'm sensing, where is that question coming from? Is this really the time for a person to start to awaken within them? And sometimes I might ask them back, well, you've been living in yourself longer. What do you think is going on? And then it will begin a whole conversation. And I'm not passing the buck. I'm listening for more information. And it's also purposeful to help confirm whether or not they got on it, at least from my perspective.