 a different way to start off a video in the middle of the jungle with this incredible waterfall behind me to get safe to say I am living my best life. Check that out. I think we're very lucky we actually can get signal here because as I said I am in the middle of the jungle and there's actually a bit of a storm. It was raining but it stopped now I'm just gonna come up back here so you can hear me a bit better. So yeah the best way to take revenge on the narcissist. The best way to do that is to just let them do what they're gonna do. The problem is when you try to stop them when they're engaged in some impulsive or reckless activity and you're trying to tell them no don't do that and try to show them a better way and try to share your morals values and standards and try to impose them on them and I'm not saying that your way isn't the right way. If you're watching my videos it probably is the right way but it doesn't work when you try and impose your ideals on them because remember they are narcissists and the narcissist is always going to rebel that's the nature of them that's how you identify a narcissist it's marked by opposition so whatever you want them to do they're going to do the exact opposite whatever you expect them to do they're going to do something else whatever you want from them they're going to withhold that from you I mean that is really the easiest way to define a narcissist it's opposition disagreement doing the opposite of whatever you want that's exactly what a narcissist is if they didn't do that if they were more agreeable and cooperative there would be no problem then we'd get on with them very well or at least if there was some compromise if there was a mutual understanding if you were at least on the same page everything would be fine but no they their disorder is marked by opposition, disappearance, rebellion and defiance and if you want to take revenge on them for that for going against you and everything you want everything you try to build with them if you want to take revenge on them just let them keep doing what they're doing if you give them enough rope they will hang themselves they will so you just let them keep on doing what they're doing and what show things turn out if they want to engage in these impulsive and reckless behaviors that's fine let them do it just don't let them do that around you let them do that somewhere else and watch how it affects them because eventually it will have an effect on them that way of life that lifestyle it will come back to haunt them i mean these reckless activities like alcohol and drugs it's going to have an effect on them gambling they're going to lose all their money same thing with shopping and sleeping around they're going to get sd guys they're going to end up with a baby it's just everything everything they're doing it has an effect it has consequences so you let them keep doing what they're doing that is the number one way the best way to take revenge on the narcissist because they will they will destroy themselves you don't have to do anything they will do that on their own they will do that on their own so just let them do what they want to do really is that simple i just stay out of it don't get involved let them do what they want to do and you just carry on doing what you want to do what you know to be right that's really the best way to deal with them because you know you're not dealing with an emotionally mature growing adult it's not something you can talk to or have a conversation with there's not going to be any cooperation or compromise since everything has to be their way because they think they know it all they're very arrogant and entitled i mean you're dealing with someone who is a child in an adult body you're not going to get any sense of them there's not going to be any reasoning so it's a waste of time you shouldn't even bother talking to them or trying to get them to see things your way trying to get them to understand it's just not going to work with the narcissist that's that's the whole point of the disorder is that these ways of communicating like normal people do that does not work with them the more you try to get them to understand the more you try to get them to see your side of things the more they're going to rebel and push against you and that's all you really need to know but yeah i hope you enjoy the waterfall and i hope this information was helpful if it was please give it a thumbs up down below thank you i appreciate the support and i look forward to talking with you soon