 Guys we and well it's not just now. I'll start over. I'll say yesterday Guys yesterday we literally filmed what we both agree was our best video ever It was completely on accident So we started the video with one topic and then it turned into a different topic and it was just so fucking Hardcore and epic on point like boom boom fire fire. It was funny, too Yeah, and then and then we went to turn off the camera and stop and everything and then we realized four minutes The SD card had filled it up. These are type of problems you run into as people who make videos And it recorded nothing. We were just we were just talking into space and at the whole time Yelling at space the fact we were just so mad and frustrated. We just like shut off for the next 24 hours Yeah, so you make a life-changing video and like it wasn't what made me so mad So it's now one day later. It's the next day. So now the next day and we're ready to refilm. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest I was Furious, I was very mad because this was a video that was gonna change people's lives So but we're about to try and recreate the video. That's what this video is So I encourage you to watch it because it has a really strong message. So Yeah, literally after it happened. I feel like you're totally it's cuz my I got bad delts. Yeah After we filmed the video and Just got really pissed off. I literally could not film the rest of the day. No not even film the rest I couldn't work the rest of the day. So I but instead of resisting it and just like no I gotta do it again get to work. We just stopped and it took the rest of the day off Instead of just talking forever. Let's get into the video. Yeah, so we're gonna sit down so on this casting couch and Start cast and start casting. Okay, but down top All right What this video that we speak so highly of that we say was literally literally I believe it was the best video We've ever filmed to date is what I think so the video originally was What is like the top five lessons that we've learned? From 2018 and it's not just like these buzzfeed top five lessons to take away This is shit that we learned like real shit type of thing and then we will still make that video talking about it Well, there's just one point I want to expand on so we have five points And then one of the points we just could not stop talking about because it was we realized how fucking big it was And there was so much to say about it and what that point was It was just how massively life-changing Getting outside of your comfort zone is what I'll say that's what we experienced in 2018 massively I feel like People are afraid to get outside the comfort zones and that's what's holding them back from achieving what they really want That's really what it comes down to I feel like they don't want to leave the comfort zone And like you cannot achieve everything you want if you just want to feel yeah, and I'll say comfortable the whole time Yeah, and then I want to first by first explaining what that means You can sit there and you can hear going outside your comfort zone like yeah, okay. That's easy. I go outside my comfort zone Yeah, I do it all the time No going outside of your comfort zone is doing something that you genuinely Don't want to do it's something that gives you stress to do so unless you so if you're actively and consciously Think to yourself. I have to do this like I have to fight my urge to not want to do this It's not just as simple as oh, I'm gonna go Whatever the fuck walk down and say hi to someone. Yeah, I don't usually do that. It's a little bit uncomfortable Yeah, that's not good shit doesn't count. That's not getting outside of comfort zone when you think about it Or if you're about to do it, you're fucking stomachache. Mm-hmm. You start sweating and you get really fucking nervous. Whatever it is 99% of people won't do it because they'll shy away from it because obviously you don't want to it's really hard to do And that is what separates like civilians, which is what we just call it's just average people It's not a degrading term or anything Just the 99% of people who just live their entire life. I'm talking entire life inside of their comfort zone I think that's a really good way to fucking categorize these people Yeah, the people that actually go on and do like crazy shit and actually like achieve things that Not normal people do the people who become extraordinary people are people who are constantly going outside of the comfort zone So okay jump in so they're the ones that are willing to leave the comfort zone, but it's not it's not like it's easier for them It's not like they're comfort zone. No, it's not easier. Yeah, it's not like oh It's easier for them to start doing these things No, it's just as hot, but they're just actually still fucking doing it Yeah, as much as it fucking sucks and the thing with going outside your comfort zone So this is what we learned now back to the to what we actually learned one going outside your comfort zone Used the greatest results in your life fucking as simple as that we could end it there But no there's a lot to talk about right now you could think about these things are outside of comfort zone I'm talking massively outside of your comfort zone It can be talking on camera, which is was a massive one that's going to change your life It can be like flying to the other side of the world with no plan could be these different things right now You can think to yourself and feel that this thing that's outside of my comfort zone It will forever just be outside of my comfort zone I cannot imagine a place where I could get to the point where I feel comfortable talking on camera Which is how we felt I and then another example for me. I cannot possibly ever feel comfortable flying I used to have a massive fear of flying Now that's changed because I want to have outside of my comfort zone And the point is when you go outside of your comfort zone long enough that shit goes inside of your comfort zone And then it's just cool and then you enjoy doing it and then you could live life Being able to do this thing that you feared for so long without the stress without the anxiety of that thing Yeah, I feel like everyone my guess is probably everyone watching this video right now You have a thing in your head that you know that if you did face this fear and left your comfort zone And did this thing it would change your life so much better right because we have is that thing I have that thing for myself right now Yeah, we have that thing everyone has that thing you know is going to change your life But you choosing not to do it because it's really fucking scary and hard and uncomfortable so yeah, there are certain fears and Uncomfortable things that you can do that one like won't change your life So like you don't really it's you don't have a lot of motivation to actually overcome this fear But then there's these other things that it's so big that it's stopped It's completely holding you back in life completely holding you back in life now We'll talk about what it was for us in 2018 the biggest one was like I said talking on camera We went eight months. We're literally every day. We will say to each other Rasmus We're doing first video. Yeah, we've been doing this. We've been doing this posting shit. We know this is not the end game We know we're ambitious. We want to achieve these big things. We want to be the next Gary V We want to do all this shit. I can't be the fucking next Gary V if I can't make a fucking video Yeah, so we said for a month straight every day. We have to make our first video. Let's go YouTube We we know we knew this was our next step was making YouTube videos and every day We would have a new fucking excuse would make up some random thing why we shouldn't do today. Oh, no I don't know. They're not gonna like this video. There's a random like whatever and in the end all it was We were fucking too scared to do it and it was too uncomfortable for us. Yeah It was that's that's that's what the reason was every single time It was so far outside of our comfort zone that we just it was so hard to actually fucking do It was so hard to do it took so much mental capacity and conscious effort to actually do And the longer to actually fight through it you to actually fight through it You had to do something different you couldn't just be yourself and the longer you go not doing it becomes Harder harder harder so it wasn't just one day. Oh, okay. Now. Let's actually do it No, it took a it took it took our life had to get flipped upside down to actually Take that step and do it and it's because we didn't realize at the time How big it would be how life-changing it would be because 2018 was our fucking year 2019 is gonna be even more our fucking year and the big thing was Overcoming the fear of talking on camera. We knew it was holding us back But we didn't realize how big an impact. I know it was fucking with my whole life Because I knew I had to do it every single day. I know I have to do this I know I have to do this, but I really don't want to fucking do this It was just it was just a hole in me now like I couldn't enjoy I couldn't even enjoy the moment of my life because I knew this thing that I wasn't fucking facing every single day at the time I felt like you probably felt the exact same way I literally felt like I cannot get to the point where I am comfortable and good on camera because my identity Was this person who was afraid of talking on camera super awkward super awkward? Just not good at anything regarding that at all. So I genuinely thought I can't become like a PewDiePie Just be good on camera. I can't become like a Stefan James and Articulate myself and be good on camera But as you can see a lot has changed since then and I'm sure other people feel the same way you have this thing that you don't think you could actually become that Once you approach it get outside the comfort zone do it practice it Then it becomes that uncomfortable thing goes in your comfort zone And now you can comfortably do it and it's just the most freeing feeling in the world And more than that feels so good both of us We truly had the exact same idea of ourselves that I could never be that guy that is on camera on stage Talking to people moaning moaning people and they like really love hearing what I say and I'm like resonating that as well We're not there yet That's one of our next big stuff The part of the way I thought right and then so that's not that's not possible That's not possible, but we fucking gave it a shot right and now I can see that I can do that it is possible and When you literally like overcome this like This limiting belief that I cannot become a person I simply cannot and then you do now There's literally nothing in the world that I think I can't do yeah I overcame the biggest thing. I was so fucking convinced that I could never be that person I could never be that person and now now we are that person now now at least on the fucking path to become that I can totally see myself being exactly what I wanted me. Yeah, and there's literally no I Believe there's nothing I can't do. Yeah, I literally genuinely believe like it's so genuine now. Yeah, so for example, one of the things that's outside of our comfort zone now is Talking on stage and public speaking but now because we did it for the first time. Yeah, we overcame this We overcame this thing. I know I could become the person who can talk on stage in front 20,000 people deliver like the best message ever and motivate a shit ton of people So the camera just fucking over here like it always does and really annoying. Yeah, it's really fucking annoying I don't remember exactly where we were but I do want to I think we're talking something about our own fears Mm-hmm. I'll talk about what our biggest fear is right now And I know that something we really need to become good at and I'm speaking on stage the one that's holding us back a lot I know this is the one that's holding us back the most It's not it's not we have direct offers to be able to speak on stage or turn down or anything like that Yeah, but in the future. Yeah, but I'll be chasing that much more if I felt comfortable doing it And I knew I was good at it, but over the summer in Cancun actually in September We had our very first experience with that was speaking on stage, right? So we were talking in front of 15 fucking people and I guess 15 people and they're like almost all of them were like really good friends Yeah, it's like it's super super like laid-back. It should not be that hard at all, right? But once you get on stage, it's just different I can be on our head all your fucking head. I think I could be talking to Any like my family like I don't know something about it It's just gets me fucking weird in my head and I can't do it Like at the dinner table. You're sitting talking to I'm talking to you mom and dad now stand them do the same exact But then suddenly get on my chair and stand up and talk to them and then suddenly it's just Oh, now I can't do it anymore. It's weird. It's very fucking weird and I don't think it would be like that I thought now I'm kind of used to speaking on a camera. So I thought I could do the same thing on stage I I felt like I fucking came back straight to square one where I started agreed So I thought like oh, we'd be good at now because we talked on the camera now We just talked on stage. No, I I got about stage. I said like and then oh, we slowly went back to who we were in high school Yeah, I was like, oh, yeah, it's really good. So I I personally I personally I personally thought we bombed it other people say we didn't but I thought we did they're being that they said It was it was kind of funny, which I fucked around a little bit. You can tell we were uncomfortable. Yeah So another thing that's what I was with getting outside comfort zone. It's I Don't think there's any exceptions here. It's all in your head All of it Everything is in your head. Like if someone else can do it, then so can you that's a real thing by the way But I just want to tell you like that that was our first experience with like really really not first experience Just with the speaking on stage on like really getting far outside Our comfort zone. I was really hard. It was really hard and like I just want to explain like how it went for us Like that's how it goes You're not just gonna do it once and then now you've overcome it and you're not great at it And then that's it. That's the thing. It's a fucking process and it was You know, it's not haven't done it since because it was hard and I didn't like how I felt So I've kind of been avoiding it and procrastinating with it. It's not yeah You don't just go out outside comfort zone once and then boom now you're comfortable. No, it takes repeated efforts I can get back into that later. Yeah, what can I say the analogy? Okay? So I came with like analogy. I just thought of this and It's just about how to view this whole comfort zone on comfort zone thing so imagine like a virtual map everyone has their own virtual map and Everyone has like this the area that is unlocked in their virtual map is their comfort zone And then there's just this massive part of the world some bigger than others. That's blacked out It's blacked out and that represents your uncomfort zone. You can't go there or at least you feel like you can't go there So normal people The 99% of people who just live their life They have this small comfort zone and they stay inside this comfort zone their whole life never ever because going outside of it Going to the blacked out region is really really tough So it takes a special it takes a 1% type person to actually go into that on comfort zone and then This blacked out part of your map which kind of represents your life is a different Uncomfort zone so for us one was talking on camera and for example that was a really big part of it So not just me as a person and the things I can do exactly. It's just so much more vast So I'm not limited to this fucking shit. I was just limited as a person explain I need to explain it first So then you go into this part that's blacked out your uncomfort zone and then you explore it You don't just go under once and then suddenly boom it suddenly a comfort zone now You have to be in there and explore it and then after a while it suddenly opens up and now it's no longer blacked out It's now a part of your map. It's now a part of your life And it's just the most freeing feeling like oh I have this whole other part of life I can explore that that's been the biggest thing for us It's how freeing it's been to overcome that fear speaking on camera because like I would always even if I'll just walk Around doing my thing it had like there was no camera anywhere around me I just knew there was just this this thing inside me that I knew I had to face underline I wasn't doing it and it was fucking with my life So just always there would be this like constant underlying feeling of anxiety Just and just being caged and not being able to fully be yourself and be completely comfortable at all times Now every you unlock would just be fucking bugging me and day at me at all times just a little bit At all times so you unlock this blacked out region of your map and then you realize It opens up so many things. It's not just oh speak on camera No, it it opens up so much more than that this whole part of life that you could not explore before I would say now you can suddenly explore it so a big one for us to talk on camera then this other one for me Was flying and then this was outside of my comfort zone and it was holding me back so much I wanted to travel places, but I couldn't because Traveling and flying on a plane was outside my comfort zone But then if you know, maybe you know this so as an 18 we traveled a shitload. So then constantly traveling constantly flying Being outside my comfort zone all the time in this regard Suddenly made realize oh shit. It's not that bad, which is always the realization you have something's uncomfortable You live it you live inside of it for a while and you realize this shit is not that bad As that it becomes your comfort zone So now that is another part of my map that opened up. Oh now there's nothing There's no flying no traveling that holds me back anymore And now I just feel so free now I can go anywhere in the world and not feel Constricted because it's outside my cover zone to do our mom is just as afraid of is more fair flying than you And it's completely stopping her from doing something completely and she won't she won't Because it's so hard to go outside of your comfort zone like that. So she won't do it because she's not mentally there I don't realize what's gonna happen when you get outside of comfort zone. It will go away You think now it won't go away, but it will go away and become comfortable I would say you said that once you actually do the thing that you're afraid of it's kind of that wasn't that bad Mm-hmm wasn't bad as I was expecting and so as hard as being on stage was I still had it was also This isn't actually that bad. Mm-hmm, you know, so I had that thought as well. All right This video has gone on long enough. I don't want to keep talking forever. So I want to end it with this What are the things in your life? That that it is gonna change your life for the better, but you're not doing because it's outside your comfort zone What things are you not choosing to do because it's really uncomfortable? It can be fucking anything I'll give an example real quick one for me that is still massively outside my comfort zone And I feel like right now it cannot be overcome. I feel like it cannot be overcome. It is my fear of Spiders. Yes, it's embarrassing, but it's so fucking real So and it was holding me back a little bit But I don't have the motivation to get outside of that comfort zone because it doesn't affect my life enough It's only on very few occasions where it causes me stress I thought you're gonna say this is what I thought you're gonna say because that doesn't really like fucking Yeah, exactly. I thought you're gonna say like it's uncomfortable for us to film in public with other people Oh, yeah, that's a big one. That's a big one. We need to overcome. We need to overcome and Work in progress. Yeah, it's holding us back Once we overcome that and it becomes our comfort zone It opens up and expands so much It opens up a whole new part of our map now we can oh now we can film in public and I can film anywhere It frees you it opens you up So I only feel completely comfortable filming when it's just us two same even like one of our best friends is like standing like 200 feet away, but it's just the thought that they can hear what we're saying on camera It fucks with me. Yeah, if you watch the the villi tour video. We have a guy that filmed for us It was a clear random guy. We didn't know I found him on Facebook He'd a drone and shit, but he filmed for us and the whole time. I just could not be myself I couldn't do myself. I was fucking acting the whole time. Yeah, because someone else was watching so now you guys know Like what still fucks with us. There's still so many things But once we once we're able to overcome that then we could be ourselves and then it'll freeze us up Let's actually end this video now Comment section. I do want to hear what is holding you back the most what is like three things three things I were each gonna write three things each so so you can either look at as the three biggest things That's outside your comfort zone that is holding you back the most or like your three biggest fears I went we're both gonna put it in the comment section for us and you can overcome them you can overcome them That's what we've learned is that you can even though right now. It doesn't feel like you can but you fucking can So that's good to know right? So yeah, that's the end of the video. What emoji should they drop spider emoji? Even the fucking emoji gives me anxiety in the last in the last video Which we said was a banger and we went but had a really nice good long talk about Spiders, but it would relate it to the whole thing. Yeah the so the first one I'm still sad that we don't have the first take of this video, but this will be the substitute Yeah, this was not as much of a bang. It's still good. I hope so but the other one was just different It was special anyway, let's shut the fuck up already drop the spider emoji if you watch the end Thanks for watching the next video. Yes