 Well hello and welcome to Understand Men Now. I'm Jonathan Asley of JonathanAsley.com and I'm so excited to be shooting this short video for you today. Our topic, How to Make a Man Crave You After Sleeping Together. Okay real quickly, if you're new to my channel please hit the subscribe button or the bell and also if you like this video please hit like button and I really would appreciate a comment. Also there's a couple links there below if you'd like to check out more about what I do. Okay how to make a man crave you after sleeping together. Okay a very common tale I hear from women is that once a man is slept with you their you know their energy is no longer as aggressive or progressive as it was in the beginning stages and mainly this happens because in the early stages of dating for men in particular we are craving that physical connection. We're craving that desire to be physical with a woman. It's one of the reasons why the idea of the chase in the hunt is predicated on chasing sex for the most part and while this isn't always the case anyone who comes on really strong in the beginning of a relationship is often driven by biology. Now there's another reason why a man might come on strong and that is that he's craving emotional connection because he's disconnected emotionally to himself. Let me repeat that he's craving emotional connection because he's disconnected emotionally to himself. In other words he needs to feel connected to another human being because he's lacking self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence within himself and while this is I'm stating this about men this is absolutely true for women as well. Women oftentimes are pursuing relationships because they're not feeling whole within themselves. So there's the biological reasons and then there's the emotional reasons why some people are choosing to connect with other people. It's kind of like that line from Jerry Maguire you complete me in other words I need you to feel good about myself. In fact we're very conditioned to be this way from early on in childhood. Okay so the sleeping together part and to continue to want to I don't want to I don't like the term making a man do anything but certainly what men crave in relationship. I'm going to mention the three top things that they crave from women. Now I'm going to talk about men who are emotionally grown up. We'll call them quality men we'll call them emotionally grown up men that are actually kind of mature because immature men emotionally immature men require something different but what emotionally mature men those quality men that you that many of you are interested in being relationship there are three things that they really want from a woman that makes them continue to want to be with a woman after they've had sex with a woman after that initial conquest. So number one is something about that woman radiates it radiates and we often times think of confidence as radiating then certainly confidence can radiate but there's something about a woman that just radiates and what I'd like to look at is does she smile often does her eyes light up does she seem enthusiastic. Enthusiasm effusiveness demonstrative energy is incredibly enticing and for a emotionally healthy man he wants to be he craves that from a woman that energy of radiance. Okay and for a lot of people because they've been so many women and maybe even you watching this might have been hurt in the past relationship there's actually a slight energy of being jaded which doesn't show your radiance. So just want you to lean into that. Number two is your sovereignty your sovereignty. I learned the term sovereignty from watching the TV show The Crown but the sovereignty is kind of its own entity in other words you're solid and complete within yourself in other words you don't have to have I need you to complete me you are complete within yourself. Someone who is whole and complete has a life of their own doesn't feel like they don't come across as needing someone to feel good about themselves but they actually feel good about themselves and they want someone they are in their sovereignty that's incredibly attractive to that quality man who is also coming from his place of sovereignty. And the third place is what Tony Robbins talks about in the six basic human needs. Number two is variety or novelty in other words we want a level of certainty in our lives but we also want some spontaneity some surprise and so that woman who has a sense of novelty in her life a variety in other words it's all not always doing the same thing over and over again she's not in a treadmill in her life she's spontaneous she might want to go hiking out of the blue she might want to jump in the car and say let's go take a drive doing spontaneous things that are from a place of variety or novelty is incredibly attractive and men crave that those quality emotionally mature men crave those three things then certainly we crave more but if we feel that before we enter in relationship with you we're more apt to want to continue with you after we've had sex with you. And while this isn't an absolute it's a bit of a generalization there is some truth to it on some level so take it for what it's worth and see if it resonates for you in your own life. Okay I'd like to hear your thoughts on this please post a comment below if this resonated with you if you have something to say I want to hear about it. Also I remember to check out those links below I'd love for you to schedule a call with me if you think working with a coach. My job is to help prepare you to attract that great quality guy in your life so if you want to meet that kind of guy schedule a call with me or check out my book what the heck is self love anyway which the link is there below. Okay I'm gonna sign off this video as I always do giving you a big gigantic job then bear a hug if I have your consent. Aw thank you. Wishing you a wonderful day. Thanks so much. Bye bye now.