 Do you ever think that the way people see you is different from the way you see yourself? Have you ever wondered whether or not you were attractive? If you're watching this video, the answer is probably yes. And hey, it's not always a bad thing to wonder about how other people see us. Maybe they see something good in us that we don't yet see in ourselves. So if you've ever wanted to know whether you might actually be more attractive than you realize, here are 7 subtle but psychologically backed ways to tell. 1. People pay attention to you. Do you ever feel self-conscious because people always seem to be paying attention to you? Have you ever introduced yourself to someone only for them to say, Oh, I know who you are? Or be surprised that they remembered something about you that you just casually mentioned before? If the answer is yes, then it means people pay attention to you. When psychology says the more attractive a person is, the more attention other people tend to give them, which brings us to our next point. 2. People tend to stare at you. See you're not the talkative or outgoing type, which makes it harder to tell how attractive other people find you because you don't really interact with them much. Still, you can get a pretty good idea just from reading their body language and picking up on their nonverbal cues, especially eye contact. Do people often stare at you or look you up and down whenever they see you? Or subtly try to catch your gaze? Do you turn heads every time you walk into a room? Or look at someone only for them to look away, embarrassed, and having been caught staring at you? Don't let it make you self-conscious. You're probably just more attractive than you think. 3. People want to be around you. Similar to the last point, if people find you attractive but have little opportunity to act on it, they might resort to what we call hovering or benching. Because even if they can't talk to you, they still want to be around you. So they might just purposefully go to parties or events they know you'll be at, stalk you on social media, or hang around places you tend to frequent. 4. People come to you for styling, beauty, or dating tips. Another subtle sign that you're more attractive than you think is that people will often come to you for advice on things like styling, beauty, or dating. Why? Because it means that they want to be more like you, and that in itself is already such a compliment. They probably think you look good, have great style, or have no trouble finding romantic prospects. And they want to know how you do it, indicating that they find you attractive. 5. People are comfortable around you. Psychology tells us that it's only natural to gravitate more towards better looking people. After all, it's called attraction for a reason. So if people usually seem more comfortable around you, if they like joking around and making you laugh, or tend to be physically affectionate towards you, even if you're not that close, then it's probably because they find you attractive and are subconsciously trying to tell you. 6. Strangers are often nice to you. When strangers do something nice for us, we tend to ask ourselves, are they flirting or just being kind? But the answer doesn't always have to be one or the other. Because both could be true. So if strangers tend to act warmly towards you, smiling at you, and trying to strike up a conversation or doing small favors like letting you in front of them, or helping you carry your things, there's a good chance it's because they secretly find you attractive. 7. Some people try to tear you down. If people often try to tear you down for no good reason, either by talking about you behind your back, trying to belittle you, or spreading false rumors about you, it might be because they find you attractive, or know that most people do, and it makes them feel threatened. Jealousy, as they say, is the highest form of flattery. So don't be too surprised if some people try to tear you and your self-esteem down, even when unprovoked. Take it as a sign that deep down inside they actually admire you and want to be more like you. So do you relate to any of the things we've mentioned here? Even if you don't, that doesn't mean you're not attractive. They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And there's a lot of truth to this. But what matters most is how you see and feel about yourself. So open your eyes to all the wonderful things that make you you. And love yourself all the more for it. Do you think we missed anything? Mention it in the comments. If you found some insight or new ideas in this video, make sure to leave a like and share it with a friend. As usual, all the sources are in the description. Thanks so much for watching. Until next time, beautiful.