 Sorry to work with Kainatka in a mix but you've also become part of us Yes, of course My name is aquimu Ayna and I'm a journalist Also I'm an actress Two actresses who are meeting We love them Nekye kenya, please let this panel I really don't know who he is I don't know what you're telling me is correct or they're not even active We won't pretend. It's a quarrel sir sir. I can promise. So you can find me on social media platforms. It's Anna underscore K official. Yeah thank you for having me. Kha ribunis Anna. So the big question today we are asking and let me actually repeat it for the sake of those who are at home. The big question is let me just read it the way it is before nisamebitu zangu. Uta se maje kwa mwana ume mwana ana tii mama ke kuliko his wife. Uta se maje kwa mwana ume mwana ana tii. Is it kutii okuskiza? Mwana ume mwana ana tii mama ya ke kuliko wife. Ya. So Miss Junia and Ziawapii discussion. Nikola vitu one million za kuliza. Nikola vitu one million na tika clarity on, but let's just begin from what's the definition of ana tii. Kutii in terms of, I really want to understand what it means to say that ma nomi ana tii. Whether it's the mother or his wife. So me I feel like for Raman kukua obidient, kutii kukua obidient, ya it's like they are putting whatever they are being told by whoever their priority is. Kila kutii nitu ana mwa they choose to follow. They choose to follow. I don't know if we can call it blindly when it comes to e questionia to Yalel. So I feel like kukua obidient, it's you decide to follow what you've been told. You make your decisions after you consider whoever your priority is, what they say. So you choose to follow in what they think, like you do according to what they think. S.K. What do you think? I would probably say this is someone who has no stand, just like she said. You don't have opinions of your own. You don't have a direction. You just do what your mum tells you because she is your mum. And I just don't think it's right because you've been listening to your mum ever since you've come doggo. Like you've grown up, you're a daddy, you're a husband, you have a home, but still let your mum all this night. I just don't think it's right. But it happens, you see especially last born men when they come with their mums, so they're this close to their mums. Like they are mums boy in other words. Last born light? Yeah last born. Oh my god. You know nice you know. Last born light scheme. Yeah so you find like wakana tuka bond, kengine tu na mzazi, like wow they will always put them first. But I feel priorities, okay all along your journey, you've been with your mum, you've been listening to her, so she's been directing you on what to do, what is right, what is wrong. Then you come in, you grow, you grow and your priorities change. Onanza kongaliya things in a different perspective. Onakujo na pata mrembo, onakujo na pata your girlfriend. So I don't think, I feel like this is the time that you should change a little bit. Like you don't listen to that mum of yours for, yeah. But Simbaya, Simbaya mum. You don't listen to that mum. Yeah. Okay Simbaya but I feel like priorities should change. Una fasesu weke u de moa kwa pombele sasa. I feel like she deserves to own that position. Yeah definitely. Hey kukuna istoryu mesama wekem de moa kwa pombele kakumbuka istorya. Who should sit in front of the car? I wanted to bring that up. I wanted to bring that up. It's a very interesting topic because, okay, let me just get your opinion first before I talk. I want to know what you think. Who should sit mele between mother-in-law and wife? Now wife, wow. I don't know. If it was me and my mother-in-law, who would let her sit in front? Yeah. For me it doesn't. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. But now I've realized that it's a bone of contention. It's a bone of contention. It's a bone of contention. It's a bone of contention. It's a bone of contention. It's a bone of contention. What do you think? I personally feel if, okay, let me just start by saying it's the wife. I have reasons. So your mother is someone's wife. So if your dad has a car, your mom should sit at the front. But now I am your wife. That is my space. So if I am willing, that is if I really want to let you sit in this hour. But there is this video I saw. The husband was literally lecturing the wife that you should sit. I don't think it's supposed to be like that. This is my mom, she should be here. I am just like, if I volunteer nisawa, but don't force me. Exactly. Okay. That brings me to the question here. Kupikiana. Oh, my son loves this food. My son loves this belly. My son loves this belly kwa soft. My son loves this. My son, my son, my son, my son. That discussion is my son, my son, my son loves this, my son loves that. Where do mothers need to draw the boundaries in terms of when you visit, where the boundaries drawn in terms of getting into the kitchen and the decisions that are made at home? I don't know. What to ask, what do you think? Well, first of all, let's start with how long that the mother-in-law should stay because I also find that... So who determines how long she stays? She will be the first question and she will ask Basi. I think me and my husband should sit down and discuss like it shouldn't be a one-person decision because if it's up to the mother-in-law, I'm sure it's up to her, but they don't mind. Okay, they don't see. They're so comfortable. They're so comfortable, like you say. Yeah, they don't mind. Yeah, at all. In fact, when they mind, you see, I think the wrong thing that men do at a point, niku kwa wanna make assumptions. I assumption that the lady Akosawa, she's cool with it, but then this lady, and I decide to kuhambol who is her choice, she's your mum, so her choice. But I feel like if this man prioritizes her lady, he will first consult her. He will first discuss it with her to get a clear view on a clear perspective of how the wife or mother, yeah, the partner in the relationship thinks about it. That brings me here in Aniliatakulia Pointia. This is my son's house. I can visit anytime I want. And then those mothers-in-law that are like, I mean, this is my son's house. I can visit the time I want, when I want, do I need to seek permission from both of you or either of you? How do you deal with such a mother? You know, I think the problem is, the man looks at this like a competition. Like, who's better between my mum and my wife, but it shouldn't be that way. You're my mum, you remain to be my mum. This is my wife, we have boundaries. There's no competition, $18.90 need better kulekwa $19.90. That's how we should understand it. Kilam tuakuna, you know, they are on side and yeah. Yeah, and I don't think, if you as a man, if you as a man, you let this happen. You let your mum come, akai for that long, you see, ita leta issues kwa relationship. Ita kwa like this woman, oh sorry. Yeah, your mum will be like in control. Atakwatu na taftiliatu makosa for your lady there. So atakwatu, kuna tu biliata kwa in control and sure ita kwa to, it won't be okay. Yeah, ita leta issues. Yeah. Mara, neskia kuru di kwele pointia, eskia kukakwa gari. Untu akise mama. Monume na fakwa mbia mama ke eeee kwa sanaka. No imagine I think it's common sense. I'm not your wife, lemme sit at the back. Why are we fighting? No, it doesn't make sense to me to be honest. It doesn't make sense to me. But I think, you can still you as a lady for a window de miawu yuma na umiwa kwa so you just, you can just let it happen. After all, yuna kwa ngatu na yuman. Kuna zahambul. That's on my, that's when I may have a baby now. That's when you may have a baby now. That's when you may have a baby. It's a lot of argument. Sometimes it's good to sacrifice. I mean, you can just let the mums say that. I think the problem in Engiliya is don't ask me. As a man. Usi yunze kunia mbia tii sasa fanya iwi mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia It should be a me initiating. Sasa tiki wangia ibo mbia mbia mbia mbia mbia About those men who can defend their wives in the presence of their mother. Mamba Boys y married mamas boys Ya you know it's my mother So are we not able to stand up for their wives? No, I mean can we solve our problems or maybe they can say something out of those men in a reality纔we maisama hawa Ushago weekend Zawe We think it's communication. First, know what your wife or lady thinks about everything. See, Achi, you just do what your mum wants you to do. Remember, we had parents who were part of your dream. You are part of their dream. So you have your own life. You have to stand on your own. So you have to make your own choices, your own decisions. You have to have a say. It's not bad to show your mother in a polite and respectful way. You just set the boundaries. You just talk to her and don't make assumptions. You just ignore her and say, oh, she should understand. That's why I have a lady so she can behave well. Just make it clear. I feel communication is key. And her control is there. I feel like I'm going to be a bit harsh. We should be harsh. The name man from you. Because a man is known to be the head of the family, to make decisions. Now when your mum is telling you every little thing to do, why you still a man? BAM! Let me tell you. Let me tell you guys. I have a problem with a man that cannot man up. It's a complete turn off. How are you a man and you're not able to lead? I have to make decisions. Maybe we are done. We are done. I prefer getting older. I feel like they have their life figured out. And you are a sumbwani. I am not stressed out. You don't have to teach him being a man. But then you meet younger men who are also probably mature. But now there are things I can do. You can't be the one in this relationship. You're supposed to be the leader in this relationship or in this marriage and then Mimi, do you wanna call shots? Mimi, do you wanna come to a village and spend money? Mimi, do you wanna come to a... Why? Why you have a problem? In fact, you should live that man. Exactly. Why do you think it's like... Why do you think it's like... Why do you think it's like... You're like a second mom. It's boring. It's boring. Making decisions. Like, this is how we should do it. I feel like you're doing wrong. So, me, I feel apana. You shouldn't be the one. Like this man. I can't... I can't do this. I can't do this. There are two things. Three. There are three things I stopped doing. One, I stopped being rehab for badly raised men. Oh yes, thank you. I stopped being rehab for badly raised men. I cannot do it anymore. Two, I am not mission ground. I'm not going to be a missioner in a relationship. Preaching Christ to you. I know. Guy, please go and know Jesus for yourself. But when you know Jesus and you're filled with the Holy Spirit, come with us. Come whoever comes to the session. They can't teach you Jesus. And now, three. I know, right? I know, right? I know. I know. I know. You said mamami say, that the aspect of a man being a leader the aspect of a man bringing out his manhood comes from the dad. Because it's the dad who's mordial amount to becoming. So I mean those things I can't do them. So I don't know what you guys think. Well personally, I am submissive and I'm very sure I am being submissive girl out there. No look like submissive girl? I do! So, that's interesting because she does this. My guy told me, I do this, and then I ask for the explanation of kwa me maliza. Ya, but you already like cookfish. Oh, I don't sharp picka. So, ya. Me and you rhyme. Exactly. Rhyme. But then again, you don't submit to nonsense. Of course. Exactly. You see, I'm okay. She was telling us something. What was I saying? You're telling us first of all, you're submitting. Oh ya, so I definitely want a man who's in charge, a man who's just be a man. That's attractive. Ya. So, you're talking about language? Ya. What do you think? Ya, a man who has main quality. Ukwena quality is a man almost. When I do, you can be a man. Hey, let us give it to you. A human who has man quality. Ya, you can be a man, but you're not a man. Kwa zia vinyuna behave. Ya, you can be a man. You don't know how to fix things. You know, a man is a fixer. You, who is the expert? Kabali bika mea ribika tuwako. And then una pige, una taftana. Oh, I try to fix here. But the builder. You have to sense those main qualities. You have to be a fixer. Wendu unafu ujwe, this is done this way. So, like, tunaza kutige mea. See exactly. Ni kwa po end. Wow. Points. I know it. I feel like I'm just having a very nice conversation. Because let me tell you something. Maybe I'm just thinking. You've said a man needs to be a fixer. Of course. I'm just thinking. I thought nil kwa nga lakha suwa ni kiseyama that mea nida man that can handle things I cannot handle in the house. May I have a long list of what I want? Man, it's 46 qualities. So, the other kutik one by one. So, I'm always thinking that I want a man that is able to handle what I can't handle. Like, kama balb zime tokana. Wacha ni fiki. Wafiki abalb. Kama wunata kakuchu kwa witu kujuku kwa drowas. Please be able to pick them for me. If I need to move this seat. I need to panguzo kuchini. I need to move the seats. Please. You need to be capable. You need to be capable to fix it. And then I think it... I don't know. Let me ask you this question. Do you think it's... It shapes the way a woman looks at a man? Do you think they fix it mentality that is the man being hands-on shapes the way a woman looks at him? Definitely does. Because I feel like when I'm doing everything for myself I am losing touch of my feninin self. So, I'm sort of feeling like I'm the man in the house. Kidoga kufukuza. Because what are you doing? Naika balb. Nothing in this I think. Kidoga, Kidoga. Rent nimi na 12 big person. Pae na. Pae toa kantawa mingili. Wajiki ga... Waa tiki dana kufukuza. Kanyatom misia maju. So, ok what are you there for? Because I'm poor. So I feel... I totally agree with her. You have to be there to do what I cannot do. Just like you said. Ya, alafu, ya tu kuwaitu na ka balanski dogobots apana Vitu tu unadjoa tu ni mandli wefanyatu Wefanyatu Usini ya chekilaki tu, no, I don't think I can cope up with that Ya, like I need to be a girl Mi na chaka Exactly, we go on a date, I'm not opening that door But I'm teaching myself this thing Munti ma ya Munti ma ya, mu kwambia Mu kwambia, fungwab lango Mu kwambia, mi na ala telli you open the door I will tell you, I will tell you, I will tell you, I will tell you Kwa ni ala, menta si mama If you want to live without me Acha kwa sit, acha kwa sit loose mama Na jifada si Siju kwa leokiti Ujiku, alafu you will find men who will sit down and look at you I know Kachiri na kwa nga lalashyaga kwa nu nu kwa Aka ha load, kawini a kwa makosa Luchba, who raised you? Who raised you? Exactly She has said, she has talked about paying rent And then it has reminded me What is your opinion about those men that Bata kwa ala fukpe leke kwa omkaisi kwao Kama Indians I love your face I love your face What have you been doing after school? People are investing No, that's the culture Kwa it's culture I mean, I mean, I have a point Kwa kwa kwa bia ti Oh, if you want to live without me Oh, if you want to live without me That is how we do it Double it and give it to the next person I don't want There's no way Oh no, I just can't I just feel like it's No, we should have time as a nuclear family The extended show on it I mean December, Christmas and all that That's fine But just living with them on a daily basis That's when the problem starts by the day That's when you and the mother-in-law are clashing When we are intimate When we do up unnecessary things I just don't think that's right No, I mean, in terms of kwa naisi Kwa naisi wukum They have a family mansion in Karen And you know that it's maybe a trend You see, especially Indians live together So assuming that there is someone when you are called So attached to the mother Or especially that happens a lot when It's an only son And an only mother Single mother and an only son So when we are together So mama kia kwa kukimowa Kujeni tutuishi Tushi na nini What do you think? I don't think I will agree with that Kus Just like me say Ma, we need that katae mene Meme, weven, and maybe the kids Ya, kus kwa na sasa kud Kweingia in another relationship ya kungesia Tena at that party At that party Ya, ita leta Ita leta kutakuna conflict A kweziya, atweziya wed conflict But again, I think It's not bad It depends with the relationship With the relationship you have With this mother-in-law at the moment Ya, it's, itna depend Venye meneza Meneza kumech kuliana Meneza kuna iile You can be comfortable So if you're comfortable with her Depending on how you communicate I don't think kutakuna ham Ya ku enda kujain Muisha pamoja Only if your communication is good If kutakuna a lot of conflicts Though atweziya wed conflict Ya It depends We have a good mother-in-law Of course Kwa ni wechawa ma, ni kusemt I think ya, we don't have No, no, no They are good mothers out there They are good mothers out there I believe my mum is one of them I was telling my mum that She was telling me We have only one brother Our last bone kalasti So while I was thinking Kwa kutu rangatwezi Bitu alafi kwa ni bai brother Enda ala saafa We is the mother's boy Ya Kus it's been raised na wascana Is he life-skinned? Yes Oh And then we are all girls Kwa tachu and then there is him And then now mum And then my My great-grandma used to go Maka alia cha kwa Pwantimomangu kwa nda salon juzy I mean na campus Wow Like they were so inseparable He will take me mum Wende kwa salon Wende isili Wende sjuwapi Like they were so close So it has brought me to this point Ya kuna mungine Na I'm reading comments on social media Just to get feedback And then there is one comment Tapa ina sewekana Ati she is the only woman That is we had asked Uta ambi aje Uta sema jemon kwa mone umemone Anati mma kekuliko His wife So mingina na sema She is the only woman behind her success Aende le kumpenda So the success factor has been brought up That it's only the mother Who's behind that son's success So don't come between that What do you think? Well Okay We've been looking at the negative side of this But kido go pe ni sema On the positive side When a man is this attached To the mother When it's not like an unhealthy attachment I think he also grows to learn How to respect women And ya That's very important He learns how to respect women How to live with women And that's a good thing Nice Ya So I think Basing on the That's positive side Of it The mother contributing to The success of this man Ya She has contributed a lot She has raised She has raised the man So I mean For you to deserve this man The mother She played a very big role Ya So We should also look at it In that angle ya Ya This woman deserves a lot of respect And Kuna tu pati Uezi toa Uezi mu toa kwae Patia relationship ya Your man So she has to be there But then again I feel like Parents They have done their part They shouldn't Be controlling so much Kwa success Of their children Ya In as much as they have contributed Kuna tu ile Okay, they have done their part So You just let your son Make their own decisions Ya You see At some point Uke muwa cha tu Ata leta Ata kwa Ata kwa consider Right in what he's doing So ata kwa nakukonsida What are two You just don't have to be too controlling But ya You can give your opinions And One to be enough career But again Don't be controlling Ya Nice Let me take another one Give each other the respect And draw the line Between that Kasia Muriti She's saying Give each other the respect And draw the line between the two Kus everyone has their place Do you believe that Both of them have their place in a man's life Yes And they should all be respected I have a question Do we have Mama girls Mama's girls Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Daddy's girl exists So it's like the same thing Yes Okay Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Tuna Tuna Tuna Tuna Tuna Daddy's girl Tuna Tuna Daddy's girl Tuna Daddy's girl I would have been like this Daddy's girl Daddy's girl Ata kwa 294 Ata kwa you will be daddy today Ata kwa 294 We have daddy's girls Ya It can be healthy And it can be unhealthy Personally I believe they're healthy relationships In terms of parents Children I've seen my brother in laws My brother's in law It treats their baby girls And I'm like Waaay My dad You need to have gone for this classes Because my brothers in law will Take their children out for dinner Like you know daddy Daddy daughter dates And then the daughter will be dressed up Ata shikwana To ribbon kwa kichwa The mum will pamba like a girl Baba ata come Like they will literally I've seen it My brother in law will come Pick the girl up Kwa mlango amemleti ya kama ua Ameleta Troses amemteya Those things I used to see in the movies I know I actually used to I was correct Ya see So he takes her And they go for Atlomahayuka They are just the two of them One endawa na kula And buy everything they want They talk Like and that That's a four-year-old Three four-year-old Because one is three years The other one is four years And they both And I'm wondering What do you talk to Three-year-old The four-year-old Then I realized It's not about what they talk about But it's about The whole experience What they feel I'm like My father Oh are you Where I was growing up On my phone To me grope the lens Is a Dadi ya kinge unas mama Unas mama attention Dadi ya pite kwanza Awa sene me Aki fana Una kindi ya kuskian Ataka inuze Aki say my niniuze Ribotun ampe atuze Ula lata Exactly Kwanza Ribotun ampe ama kwaza Kinge akuna kushika remote Ikua habo kwanza There's no touching remote when the father is in the house But you know Ya we have Dadi's girls So that brings me to That's conversation here What's the place of a mother And what's the place of a wife In their life of a man Who wants to Should I go Yes, you can The place of a mother The mother raised you The mother taught you Moral values He taught you a lot of things And he contributed a lot To your success So the place of your mom You should respect her But you should also create boundaries When it comes to a point that You are in a romantic relationship You see Whatever your mom is doing for you It's not what your girlfriend will do for you So these are two relationships So it's you to have a balance On how you're going to treat each of them So your mom is playing a very big role In terms of giving you advices But your wife here Should also be a priority When you make decisions Don't go to your mother And tell her everything So you can ask her to tell you everything That's what your wife feels So consult with your wife Know if she's right with everything You want to do And then Yes She can be a momentum She can be a sphere from a lot of dramas She can be a computer party She can be strong She can be a girl She can be a pitiya She can be a wife She can be a wife She can be a wife She can be a wife So kutakuna a lot of conflicts So understand the place of your mom And the position of your lady So that kutakuna balance Itajileza Well, I think I'd agree with her Just like she said Your mom raised you But it also gets to a point where now You need to take charge of your life And let your wife handle it Which also brings me to this point Men who try to make their wives look like their mom I don't know kama ni kumis mama kwa sana You just You want to make your wife your mom And it's just not cool You want your wife to be cooking To do all the laundry You just do everything Also ignoring the fact that She goes to work Which is also not right This is a song that says When I'm back in Dago Your wife is your partner, not your mom Your wife is your partner, not your mom So give them the respect that they deserve Exactly Let there be boundaries Treat your mom like your mom She's raised you Hachkata We appreciate that She made you who you are And that's okay But there are places when she has to step down And let your wife do her duties Like a wife He's my husband Yo My sad too Hi These are Williams I may respond to Kezia Muriti Kezia had said You give respect to each And drew the lines So Vizia I may say It's easier said from a woman Jo Kaga Adasema My favorite show Mama Muhimubana Thank you Then Andrea Oscar Adasema Respect your father and mother To live long Hi Osima Any way I can do Hey Kenyans I Cornel Ket Anasema The fifth commandment is very clear And then there is Albi Mukatoliki Anasema Vihigamago Center Tune Thank you so much Then Mara Wilson is saying A man must have to Boundries in all sites Otherwise You're going to have a miserable marriage Full of frustrations You agree Respect them both That is Louise Moli Respect them both But respect your wife And don't involve your family To your marriage please How do you deal with relatives living with you? This week I have been reading a lot about How to handle relatives living with you That is how to maintain the respect of your wife With relatives And for the wife how to respect To maintain the respect of your husband In at a home So what Let me just throw the same question to you How would you deal with How would you deal with relatives living with you? Now assuming that really pataumanome Or assuming that things happen And you have to live with these relatives I feel like you first have to know your position Your position as Ya kwa yo relationship ya You may include the relatives Just know your position You may include your girlfriend But don'ts uskwena ka ego U feel like una jo umekuja You've replaced the nini Ako ka That's kabond Ya ume interfere na yuki logo So kuna tu veni Lazimatu ulan kufu Kurei mambu ya kufu iti In rasa yungiruna First issues of iti To please the relatives But then I feel Knowing your position Just know how to Talk to this relative Wasome kwanza You know what they like What they dislike Know how they can be interactive Try to form Ako tuka relationship I feel u kifanya evo It's all about humbling U shu ke tu kidogo U si se meti Now you are in control Kus we window Ya window kwa po sasa kwa yo position Ya it's just a matter of Stepping down kidogo Wasome kwanza You learn how they behave And then Nenda tunafluu Ya Okay Mr. Jeremy Tufaifu is saying Every issue and if he can share his mind Ataza yuniza owa willi Unampea priorities anakuliko waifu wei He? For me it's saying Good morning gong tune Thank you Then Eri Kojambu is saying The fifth commandment is very clear Respect your mum and dad And anmoya and prosperity in this world Some women if respected They tend to reciprocate the respect Into inferiority They therefore behave like they are the ones in control And start issuing instructions And lectures anyhow I like the shun denderu Kiyambu locked Do you agree with that? I'm so into it I have to Tell us Okay I don't know Vila mendika komente I don't want to be rude kuspeyama kwaan nais But then He said when you respect a woman She feels like you're inferior or something like that No I just don't think it's right Like at all Okay so what he's trying to say in shat is You're not supposed to respect your woman In shat words Why? Okimpea respects Why? Okimpea respects sana When you don't want to come up Inferia and they start throwing Kumek orders Ni kama kukwa supermarkets No I just feel like respect goes both ways And it shouldn't be like that But also I find yourself a submissive woman Yeah I Eh juku natu enye Kuna enye to naturally they don't want to be submissive and it's fine Yes yes But now when you treat a woman right When you treat a woman right on your respect Who doesn't want to treat a submissive woman like that? I know right Who doesn't want to submissive woman like that? Respect women Anyway I don't want to put my opinion on this Someone is saying Confirmed Wasafi Kris is saying It's very important to respect your parent Admiillo is saying Tuangazia baraka kwa zamsas India kila kitu You can't compare with anyone else Then that prince is saying Respect your parents Bibi ni wengi sokoni Hei Chawaini Where? Natu pinga mawa You better guide Dya mawini Mungina Marionistin Marionistin is saying Mam is my hero Patrick Murady is saying I found my wife fighting with my mum Eli bide ni hende ni hitabuda 200 bibi aneni hata she died Why? I don't know if you know who my Lisa guys I found my wife fighting with my mum Eli bide ni hende ni hitabuda 200 bibi aneni hata she died Rest is history Guys I am a kumashara We all know that one woman Who can be married to more than enough homes But The mother will forever remain By your side I think mums deserve it more Jack is saying Watching from Migori stage Thank you Maria Is saying Akaina mamake We are mungina Jack So we are going to see Raja Dosh Raja Dosh Now watch Nikiwa Njiro Kasiwa ni gomakali saranchese Iposiku by Raja Dosh We are Raja Dosh Yes Then this good morning Unaeza patamke mungine Leki ni mamayako ni mamayako Uezi patamama mungine Labdama mawakambo Then someone else said Wacha Akaina mamake another comment And there are so many Let me read like two more or something Because according to God's commandment We are instructed to obey parents Not a wife Wife can draw you into problems That is Ilari Makoha Mama is everything Naibasha kentalaya tune Then there is mama Fasthu mungine tijevine Then mungina Mesema mamangu ni mamangu Wife ni watu akuao Jemjanja 2 Reinhardu jemjanja Then only saying my mama first Huya mungiden ilimpatakama Ako na 30 years My mama first Then respect jemzazi muhimusana Then comments are so many Mama kwanza mimi nili kupatana 32 Zako Ula anajua ataya kwanza ilipotoka I don't know Mama kwanza mimi nili kupatana 32 Zako Mama kwanza mimi nili kupatana 32 Keep it up Mama jemzazi muhimusana Bungama tijevine Reinhardu jemjanja Mesema mamangu I think a lot of people Respect your parent Respect your parent But as we bring this whole conversation to near an end or something Can they coexist? Is it possible that a man will have a healthy relationship with his mother and a healthy relationship with his mom Definitely I think it's very possible But we also come back to the point of respect I respect you as his mother You respect me as my wife We have different roles Let's play them Let me ask you How far is too far to share information? How far is too far to share information? No It's not very far You can just Communication You just communicate Uki yambia wiyu Uki yambia wiyu Uki yambia wiyu It's not very far to share information So long as you just Usi eke Don't put that information We say matu Whatever is in your heart There is someone there to scare And then atambia mwingine So it is a little understanding Okay Instead of answering that I have a question Do you think the mother in law should be able to ask To talk happy Was going on in the bedroom That kind of conversation I'm just asking if they have the right to ask What are my grandkids Grandkids Yes No If you guys haven't had kids And the mother is wondering No What is your business with our having kids They are my grandkids We are grandkids We are grandkids We are grandkids You already gave birth to me So what is my having children It also contributes to their happiness They just want to be happy So it's not like they live with those kids I don't know We don't know if they will be happy So okay Let me not say anything Let's do a parting show Where do we start Let's start So naskia wachengia mungila About commandments Yeah The fifth commandment Yeah, it's good to obey that Respect your mother Respect your parents What miyondo ameku raise Yes, you met a lady When you amekuja after I don't know 10, 20 years So Just know that kuna another Priority amekuja So it's you to just make a balance Yeah, it's you to make a balance On what's is important Miyondo utajua If this what I do Is it going to be Ita later balance kwa whatewa willi Whatewa willi will they get satisfied Whata kwa contented with how you are Relating with them So just communicating and Make sure that wakota a good relationship Themselves So we can find your specials Of course, you can find me on Instagram Tiktok everywhere as Anna underscore K official Yeah Finally, my guest cohost Thank you Thank you for coming through Thank you for having us And I've had fun I was feeling like I'm cheating on Val But yeah, it's okay You are the outro Okay, what I'd like to say is I am not against you But If you saw today's topic I clearly had to be on the wise side Because you were talking about The man being totally Inclined to the mother So yeah, it's very important To respect both of them And we go back to boundaries And respect You can find me on all social media platforms At SK Gichonga Twitter, Instagram, Tinder I'm kidding We are sub- We are sub- Anyway, let's wrap up The entire conversation Thank you For keeping us company Here at Y25 I've had a good morning A good morning of great vibes Good conversations and great music And final word In case you need to reach out to Bath and Beyond What is the earlier discussion I had on Strength of a woman And beyond, my name is Chris Mange Let's meet tomorrow same time Same situation Bye