 When the narcissist has no one, when they don't have a relationship, when they don't have any supportive family or friends, there may be people around the narcissist, but no one is really supporting them. No one is really on their side. Narcissists need to have someone that they can reveal their true nature to. They need someone that they can use as their emotional punching bag, as their emotional tampon. They need someone that they can use to regulate their emotions. Narcissists are full of negative emotions, but these are emotions that they cannot deal with. So they need to dump them onto someone. They need someone to carry their emotional baggage. Because otherwise it would just drive them insane. This is why narcissists cannot be alone. They can't be left alone with their own thoughts. When the narcissist has no one, they might still have people in their lives, but no one that they can expose their true nature to. Because they have to protect their image of reputation. They don't want to be seen as bad people, but they still need that chaos and drama to function. They need to feel like something is wrong with everyone but themselves. So they will deliberately go out of their way to cause trouble. They will try to tune people against each other. They can still feel like they caused it. It still fuels them. It still gives them supply. They're so full of negative energy that they just have to dump it onto someone else. They have to take the focus off of themselves. They don't want people to see them for what they really are. So they have to cause problems for other people. They will target someone who they believe has offended them in some way. And then they will try to turn everyone against them. They will want that person to feel just how they feel. They will want to leave them isolated. Because when a narcissist can make you feel the way they do, it regulates their emotions. It makes them feel like their situation isn't so bad. They will destroy your relationships. They will steal your family and friends because it makes them feel better about their own lives. It makes them feel powerful to know that they can affect people, to know that they can take someone who is happy and had a lot going on in their lives and leave them feeling sad and alone. Normally, the narcissist wants to keep everything behind closed doors. They don't want anyone to see what they're doing, which is why they seek out a source of supply. Someone who they can abuse when no one is looking. But when the narcissist has no one, they have no choice but to make it visible to other people. But they will do it in a way where the focus is on someone else. They will try to turn people against each other. It still regulates their emotions. It still fuels them. Because they know that they are the cause of it. They know that if it was not for their intervention, then the situation never would have panned out in that way. It makes them feel powerful because it tells them that they have the ability to influence people's behaviour and direct the course of events. When the narcissist has someone at home who they can abuse, there's no need for them to target anyone else. They can effortlessly display their false image to everyone. They can make it seem like they live a perfect life. They can seem like happy, kind, caring people. Even if someone offends them, they can brush it off. They can act like it didn't affect them because they know that they can go home and take it out on their family. But when the narcissist has no one, they have no choice but to target people outside of the home. They will target anyone that they encounter. Anyone who they believe has offended them. And they will try to make their lives miserable. They will elevate themselves at their expense while still acting as a scouts of maritain, as someone who is just trying to do the right thing. You may not be in a relationship with a narcissist, but you could encounter one in the public. And they may try to target you if they have no one at home to abuse. So this is definitely something to be aware of. Narcissists will try to ruin your life if they haven't got a source of supply. They will target random people. They will target anyone who they believe has offended them. And they will go out of their way to make your life miserable. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you'd like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching Inquiries. You can email me at coaching.narc-survivor.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.