 you guys time for another chit chat and this time girl we are going to be talking and sipping I have a glass of red wine y'all all I drink is wet red wine I mean if you offer me something else I'll try it but I like red wine it's great for your cardiovascular system um so y'all know how we do this we talk about what I'm watching well we talk about what's going on in my personal what I'm watching on YouTube and what I'm watching on TV which for a change I'm watching a lot girl I'm watching a lot so I want you guys what's going on first of all I do apologize if I keep looking outside it is overcast how's the weather at where y'all are at baby it was helling it is very very cold here like high of 50 um morning times to be 44 um it was like 44 40 degrees and yeah it's it's cold it was hailing it was snowing the other morning and y'all I stay cold you see me I stay bundled up you know they be making fun of me I have a traveling heater in the house that I take with me I keep it up in the front in the morning time when I'm working when I go take a shower I bring it with me like don't mess with me my traveling my traveling heater I call it traveling fitness to travel a heater so yeah it's cold here in Phoenix um raining but we needed the rain okay so what else y'all I need to go uh get our passports redone y'all I have a feeling they're going to start like they meaning the people in control of the world going to start locking down on getting things like your passport so even though we don't have any plans right now to travel outside of the country of course it's been a damn pandemic I want to go ahead and make sure that I have my passport updated I mean I've always had a passport but ever since I got married a while back it's been a while now I never got my name changed I need to make sure JB has a passport yeah I just want to make sure we have that in order um home school is going well JB almost today was a struggle he because he was in the middle of doing something and I get it it's going to be like that every now and then um and this is our actually it's our second week back so we took two weeks off for a winter break quote unquote and it was his birthday so we took two weeks off from homeschooling now we're back in it we switched up the math curriculum and he's good now JB y'all one thing I have not um let you guys know you may not be aware JB is dyslexic and within I kind of had a hunch when he was in school but pulling him out and homeschooling him for the first week it was very obvious and I'm like what the hell how is it that his teachers never knew this I mean he's reading 31s as 13 15s as 51 bees or peas these are but you know it's it's yeah and so just being patient with him sometimes he gets frustrated but I really need to take my time to do a little bit more research on how to I know what to do as far as reading language arts so go I I got that down but with the math it's a little bit trickier so I am getting just saddened by the deaths that are occurring whenever I log in to Facebook it's something it's always something you guys and you know it's just a steady stream doing my going down my feed and I don't have a lot of people I think I have a little over 400 friends on Facebook but it's you know a feed full of pray for me pray for my husband pray for my cousin keep us and I'm like oh my god and I knew we would be at this point but it's a lot and it's not necessarily all COVID related you know what I mean um it's just deaths after deaths after deaths I have a cousin who suffered a little mini stroke apparently last week he's well now um he's an older cousin he's I think rotney is in his um early 50s not too old but um and y'all remember the one woman I told y'all or my friend whose husband had a um he was in a coma and they pulled him off unfortunately they pulled him off of um life support I logged in on Facebook I log on Facebook every day y'all but I don't try to stay on there long and I just I don't go through there for a while and so long story short her mother just passed away so can you imagine losing your husband and then literally four months later your own mother dying I just I literally started bawling when I saw that so uh I just cannot imagine so there's a lot of that going on with that being said you know I have it in my heart and I have it here I went through I've been organizing and decluttering you you guys um I think it's a good time to do this y'all y'all ain't going nowhere hell so go through your old paperwork go through makeup I've been going through my makeup oh no I love it but I've been going through my train case now come on now Chris get your ass in the in the house hold on y'all my neighbor Chris making all these damn noise so anyway y'all know I'm silly so I've been um I'm going back like it's taking me almost a year to go back and really girl tell me this is all jacked up um to really get back on my on my on my on my thing you know I have goals I'm going through looking at my goals and make sure that I'm doing things in a timely manner because I got off track there for a while with everything going on so like I said a couple of deaths a couple of people were ill and just all around and um it's just it's just sad y'all it really is sad so I'm praying for y'all you know keep my family in your prayers keep me in your prayers you know I'm continuously uplifting people in prayer but one of the things that I also have it on my heart is I really do feel like that one of my gifts or my gift is encouragement so one of the things that I did and what I've been doing is purchasing blank cards just blank note cards that I get from the Dollar Tree and I've had these for a while so while I was decluttering my planner um stuff over here planner supplies I'm gonna go I have those so one of my two on my to-do list that I'm going to do here within the next month or so is to take some of these cards and start writing words of encouragement and then um either mailing them out or delivering them into people's houses come I see them and say hey you know I just wanted to give you this just something to encourage people to lift their spirits up during this time because you never know what people are going through and I found especially people who work in that type of service industry a lot of these folks that are always cheerful and happy they gonna be going through some stuff y'all and they put on that smile to just push through it and so yeah that's really something I'm gonna do that that's something I'm definitely going to do this one after this month because we're already in February so for the month of February I want to do that okay so um that's it y'all not not much else going on I have a list of yeah yeah I don't know what to do with my channel girl I have a list of um video ideas that I already generated and I told y'all it won't be a lot of hair related but it will be something at least at least one or two videos a month will be dedicated for hair related but look at me this is this is this is me yeah this is this is what I'm doing right now so um and these have been in this will be the third week so yeah that's that is what it is y'all want to see my nails thank you for asking so these are pressed on because look baby I did not have time to do a full set so these are pressed on it's the first time I've ever done pressed on um I was told they can last a while I don't like the coffin nail shape but it is what it is it'll work for right now so I know that a lot of you don't watch my story times and that's okay um there are you know a couple of you who enjoy those and so I will be continuing that so my next story time idea is a story called gray skies and I gave you guys a free face of what they will look like it's basically a um a couple that is moving from Chicago to Oklahoma the the husband excuse me was raised in Oklahoma by his aunt um his aunt is not one of those nice uh southern she's a little crouching and bitter like so they have decided to move to Oklahoma girl tornado valley which is one of the reasons why it's called gray skies and they are basically starting over his wife Kendra is pregnant with their first child after years of infertility and pregnancy losses so trigger on that I will be including a trigger for the first story time and um yeah poor Lamont Lamont is the husband he has had an issue with gambling addiction um there's also been an incident of um infertility which has caused Kendra to really um have trust issues but they went through counseling and they got through it and and that was two years ago the incident where he cheated they're moving to Oklahoma okay in a small town of course y'all know I love small towns and then moving to a farmhouse now Kendra's a city girl she's from Chicago she don't know nothing about no damn farmhouse and so um you know Lamont was raised in the south he was raised in the country so even though they're moving to this farmhouse they're gonna need help so Lamont puts out an ad but that's when his aunt tells him hey I know someone who can help you and let me let me introduce you to my friend's nephew Byron I like that so Byron oh let me back up Lamont and Kendra are in their mid 30s okay Kendra it's like she just turned 30 Lamont is like 34-35 but Byron this is 28 28 yeah so Byron is this handsome younger um gentleman that agrees to help out Lamont on the farm with you know everyday stuff but then Kendra suspects that Lamont is back to his old ways due to the stress of running the farm and the expected of their first baby you know them expecting their first baby excuse me he's under stress so he's back to drinking and gambling he does the gambling online child you could lose money like that too so I think that's illegal now but we're gonna pretend like it's legal here so you know she finds herself getting closer to Byron and that is I'm gonna give y'all because I'm working on it and so yeah this is called gray sky so yeah y'all this should be interesting not this I don't know if it's gonna have some some murder or anything like that this is just gonna be some pittiness going on you know a bunch of foolery so just how we all right y'all let's move on to what I'm watching on YouTube um you know what I really wasn't watching a lot but one thing that I have caught on and I need to pull it up because I've seen several people do a video on this um there was a young woman let me pull it up y'all let me pull up Leia's because she just did a video on this hold on y'all so I've seen several videos on this but I already peep this uh story before folks started doing videos on it so there was a Kansas City woman who ended up killing taking revenge on taking revenge excuse me on um her brother I didn't realize her brother was this young but apparently someone her 16 year old brother was murdered this girl found out who it was tracked them down and shot him up let me tell you something yes I do believe that we have a justice system and we should follow the laws but there is nothing nothing wrong to me in this case now I'm hoping she got the right person and it sound like she did and from what I understand this is uh not the only loss that this family has had I believe two small children were murdered not too long ago like a eight and nine year old brother who are murder it was a um drive by shooting and I believe the children were in the house don't quote me on that okay but this happened out in Kansas City and hey she took matters in her own hand and she served justice there was a story I believe it was it was in the late 80s or early 90s where a woman ended up killing the man who raped her child her child's um molester she ended up killing him now I believe she died of cancer not too long ago now I think she served a couple of years in prison but people was like you don't you don't need to go to prison and there have been other incidents of that of people who have killed you know molesters or parents who have killed their children molesters look thank you you just saved us a lot of time and money and hassle and getting them in jail they asked us probably wouldn't serve a lot of time anyway so thank you for getting you know what I mean everything yeah I'm really not watching a lot I am watching I am Sharika B um she's a she's really a monk banger but I've started to watch some of her videos um that's it y'all let me see if there's anything else on here it's time for another drink girl all right y'all what I'm watching on tv girl everything so one of the things I did do y'all let me go to my google account and pull it up because I want to give y'all the correct information so I went ahead and um got well subscribed to Lifetime Movie Club or something like that because I watched I did watch the salt and pepper biopic we'll get to this but let me start this first so after that there was this movie that kept coming up deaf in the water and I'm like girl what what is this about I love me a cheesy ass lifetime movie so I went ahead and subscribed to this Lifetime Movie Club or whatever which some of the movies I'm pretty sure I can see for free on YouTube but I got it anyway it's like $3.99 a month and I've been watching movies on it all day because it's so cheesy y'all I like it so some of it is good because they do have the celebrity um biopic movies like the Whitney Houston movie which is called Whitney um uh Gianni not Gianni Versace Versace's sister what's her name y'all y'all know who I'm talking about and then the Tony Braxton story which I never I never got a chance to finish so I'm gonna go back and watch those okay I did watch the Whitney story um like I said we'll talk about the salt and pepper biopic here at the end thrones as far as other stuff I'm on game on thrones season five it's getting a little slow like like okay you know I'm not gonna give any spoilers for those of you who are interested but I'm like yeah this is getting a little slow I'm not interested in anymore um started to watch snow piercer it's okay it's a little weird and I like those end-of-the-world type of movies and I don't know some of the characters I don't know whether to laugh or to cry you know what I mean I'm like this is confusing and I have mixed emotions about this so Olivia Spencer is in it too and the real pretty girl from I'm labyrinth from A's yeah I gotta get people's names together um I rewatch Shelby dance with Jennifer Lopez and Richard Greer yeah I find Richard Greer to be a attractive older man but y'all know I think it's sexy as hell now he ain't but about 15 years ago he was it's um Julia Roberts brother Eric Roberts I think he's a I think he's sexy he was in Mariah Carey's videos with his old ass you know now he's all soft he was salt and gray there for a while now he all soft girl um he's had some issues in the past I think he's had issues with drugs um and he's often known to play in these B rated movies so he's actually in a movie I'm watching now on my time he's in it and biblical Fox y'all it is so bad the acting is bad and it's calm the movies called the wrong mommy but I'm like I think y'all got the damn titles wrong it has nothing to do with that like it is I'm like y'all got the titles wrong so it was I watched another one this morning on the lifetime movie called dead in the water which is which was very predictable but it was good I watched it um but yeah I watched Shelby dance girl got way off topic topic I watched Shelby dance and girl I'm sorry but Jennifer Lopez y'all see her ass singing at the inauguration Jennifer Lopez when she was singing Jamie was like he said girl this ain't your land because she was singing this man is my land this y'all Jennifer Lopez cannot sing and I'm pretty sure those you know that she has had goals not only has she had ghost writers but she's actually had I believe who was Ashanti was singing on some of her um I think it was Ashanti and Brandi I know I don't I don't think it was Brandi but definitely Ashanti was singing on some of her records you know Jennifer Lopez poor thing she's a great entertainer she can dance her ass off which is why she's great and showy dance but no she she can't act and she can't sing but she's cute okay and so you know it is what it is so yeah watch Shelby dance try to watch the ring with JB don't judge me hold on y'all don't judge me hold on girl we got all the way through I think the woman was on day two or something and JB was like I can't watch this anymore it's disturbing I'm like I said are you scared he's like no I'm not scared it's disturbing I'm like well I know baby you know the poor little girl come after well he said no that's not what what it was it's when the horse fell over I said JB and now I get it baby's empathetic towards animals y'all that's why he's a vegetarian too because he feels bad for animals poor thing so I said wait a minute you do realize the the the little girl was are you more upset over the name of horses than the child being pushed into well he's a mama that's sad the horse that was sad I said okay baby child he didn't hear I was like oh he's so sweet I'm like okay we're gonna be watching the ring why do I have to get discovery app to watch 90-day fiance I'm not doing that y'all like seriously like no isn't that crazy like I'm so sick of this like I shouldn't have to pay for all this little stuff I mean it's gotten to the point to where is this my neighbor no so it's gotten to the point to where okay I pay for Hulu Netflix HBO now I got this lifetime lifetime thing that's like 399 now I'm thinking about getting this discovery app thing because I want to watch 90-day fiance like oh y'all serious this is ridiculous y'all it's getting dark I do apologize like this is getting ridiculous so you have to pay for all this separate stuff so anyway y'all what I have added to my list is I want to watch outside the wire with Anthony Mackie and it's one of those again in the end of the world type of and which is my favorite genre of movies actually y'all besides thrillers and stuff like that in crime outside the wires on Netflix and y'all know that Anthony is from um Vicky's from Louisie from New Orleans but he's definitely from Louisiana um cb strike which is a bbc detective type thing I started to watch that is good let's get into this lifetime salt and pepper now I know some about salt and about salt and pepper um their first song came out I was a child okay and some of the other crunchy stuff I couldn't listen to because again I was a child but I'm very aware of the group Sandy um Sheryl and spendarella y'all what spendarella is real name we can be kind of a spendarella okay I think her name is like Diedra or something uh it is her name is Diedra you know it's so funny y'all a couple of years ago someone had commented on one of my videos you look like spendarella from salt you favorite spendarella from salt and pepper I don't think I do maybe the eyes maybe they were looking at the eyes and cheekbones I don't know but yeah I don't think I look like her so anyway honey all right y'all make the camera a little bit brighter okay so within the first five minutes of the movie I can already sense the toxic nature of salt and pepper's relationship basically Sheryl and Sandy now Sandy is the taller one and Sheryl is the shorter fair-skinned one okay now we'll say the actress that played um Sheryl she definitely kind of favored her and the actress that played Sandy even though she didn't favor her she got her mannerisms down pretty well okay that's why I really did like that the fashions were on point you know they definitely did that they didn't have any bad wigs from at least one I could tell they got to hear all though girl at the very end when they were doing like the it's what's the name wasn't the essence they were doing the vh1 who the hell was that with that Jamaican the with those dread that dread wig child I guess they went through Tyler Perry's old wigs and was like let's let's find this one you know this will work here you Jamaican here put this on child ass miss anyway um let me get it back on track y'all so within the first so within the first five minutes absolutely I can tell that their relationship was definitely toxic I knew that Sheryl one of the reasons why because I believe one or two of them are both of them there was a reality show they did have a reality show together and Sandra the child that once she has been on several different reality shows herself and so I already knew that one uh uh Sheryl's hang-up was that she was a Christian and she really didn't want to do certain songs and she was also changing up the lyrics on some of the songs when they agreed to you know perform live which you have to admire but this is my thing if you I understand that that's a Christian I understand that but for me personally I wouldn't I wouldn't be able to do any of that if you want to say hey I'm a Christian I can't sing this don't sing any of it don't do any of don't change your lyrics hang it up get out of that type of you know it's secular music get out of it anyway anyway get out of the industry don't even do it because I feel like in a way it's unfair to the other person because it seems like she was always that way you know what I mean when I what I gather from the um movie itself so y'all we can talk about some bits and pieces of it mama let you know this it was better than the demilia um movie that's for dang on shirt but they really didn't tell me anything that I didn't know and I felt like some bits and pieces they could have given us more you know they could have gotten to detail because it it we're talking a lot about my window I feel like certain parts of the movie or certain things they shared they could have gone they could have gone into detail more like shul had a um eating disorder okay how did she overcome that how did her family feel about that you know how it didn't really go into that you know what you see you saw her just throwing up you saw her binge eating but like does she still battle with that I mean did I miss that you know what I mean stuff like that or with sandy's relationship with treach you know that it was just like stuff was thrown in there as a filler for the movie and they really didn't go into detail about it and so I feel like girl worse to Tia that I want to know something and they they definitely skimped over spenderella's time um with the group or her story so really didn't even get her part of the story or she again like that was missing from this movie um I will say I didn't know that she was that younger than them um because and I'll honestly she comes off as very mature um or maybe that's because we're feeling the the you know the tension between them too that the reason why she comes off as more mature I'm not sure but yeah yeah it was okay um what I recommend seeing it yeah well you know watch it for yourself just to get an idea but if you were aware of the group if you already know knew what was going on they really not sharing anything new there's nothing groundbreaking there's nothing like oh I didn't know that so yeah y'all like I said watch it for yourself let me know what you think that's it y'all that's what's been going on that's what I've been watching when I'm not watching let me know what y'all been watching what you've been up to girl so that is it everyone y'all thank you so much for watching take care bye