 Growing up I was raised by a toxic woman and she was the perfect example to show me of exactly who I did not want to be. A single mom or a two-parent household? A single mom by choice. Not even a single mom. She was an alienator. We refer to them as single moms sometimes, but a lot of them are just alienators. But she would say things like, if you don't... We're young girls. She would say, you get a boyfriend. If you don't have sex with them, they're going to leave you. So this is teaching manipulation. It's teaching, you know, use your vagina to manipulate a man to get a result that you want. And really what she taught me was there's two types of women. There are good, solid, valuable women who are major assets to men if you're a good woman and then there's a warm, wet hole. So what she's teaching is that if you're a warm, wet hole, that's your value. Your value is that you offer sexual gratification to a man.