 A lot of you have probably heard of the saying, you can't be happy in a relationship if you are not happy alone. And the reason for that is because when we rely on our relationship and on our partner solely to reassure us, it comes from the outside so it can kind of like fall away. You know, you need it to come from the inside so that you really feel it. You and your partner could be walking down the street and someone that you, not necessarily them, but someone that you perceive to be, let's say more attractive than you, can shake shit up, can rock the boat, can make you feel some type of insecurity or jealousy or whatever. And that's because you're relying on the outside. So the outside is going to affect you within that way. It's going to be easy for something to shake shit up within you, okay? So you have to love yourself from the inside out. Because what you're doing then is you're giving the power of the relationship away to something outside of the relationship.