 So what, you know, why, why do men say this? Why do you hear this all the time? Why are people talking about this? So there are good men everywhere. And there are men who are jaded everywhere. And I'm kind of hesitant to not call them necessarily good men, cause there's a lot of good men that are jaded. And we live in a society right now where we have this thing called the hookup culture. And you have to realize that it's on both sides. It's not just on men looking to hook up. In fact, if you're in our community, you've probably seen recently a lot of women talking about how they're in these casual friend with benefits situations. And there was even a woman that asked how to get into one. If you can believe that. And so you have to realize that a lot of people are settling for these superficial relationships instead of getting into something that's deeper and more meaningful. And there's actually a study that was done not too long ago. And I'm not sure who all these dating nerds are that are doing all these studies. But there was a study that was done where they surveyed men and they found that around 86% of men out there actually want something real. They want a relationship, specifically what it said was they want a relationship that could lead to marriage and having kids. However, what they also said is that most of those men don't believe that they're actually gonna find it. And so one of the things that you have to realize is that if a guy is attracted to you, if he's physically attracted to you and he doesn't think that you're emotionally the one that he's looking for, then he'll settle with a casual friend with benefits situation ship. If you are willing to settle for a casual friend with benefits situation ship.