 Well, hello and welcome to Understand Men Now. I'm Jonathan Asley of JonathanAsley.com and I'm so excited to be doing this live stream for you today. Our topic, the six signs he's catching feelings for you. How to know if he's catching feelings for you. All right, really quickly, if you're brand new to my YouTube channel, please hit the subscribe button, hit the bell so you can be notified of new videos. And if anytime during this video, the content resonates with you, please hit that like button so I could be seen in the YouTube algorithms. Really quickly, my coaching is what I call heart centered radical honesty. I'm direct, a little tough love and a lot of heart and occasionally I use expletives to enhance the sentence. So if you don't like an f-bomber, if you don't like an f-bomber too, then I suggest logging off right now. Really quickly, these are my thoughts, my perceptions, my opinions, by no means do I suggest this is the truth. You have to decide the truth for yourself. I'm a bit of a contrarian. So my advice is gonna be contrary to what public opinion says or at least in some cases, my advice is contrary to what public opinion says. All right, let's jump into the six signs he's catching feelings for you. So listen, ladies, I recognize it's kind of hard to tell the difference between the guys who like you, the guys who wanna get laid or the guys who are just using you. It can be very confusing these days to figure it out. And you've been indoctrinated with so much rhetoric out there that it probably makes it incredibly confusing to just understand human behavior between all the narcissist talk and the ghosting and disappearing and insensitivity of people. It makes it very difficult to kind of determine if this person that you've just met, oftentimes this person who's just a stranger actually has some potential. This is very challenging today to recognize this because the vast majority of people are suffering on the inside in some way, shape or form, not feeling good enough, not feeling likable, not feeling lovable. And in addition, the reality is is the vast majority of human beings have weak emotional skills, weak emotional skills, weaker relationship skills, okay? And quite frankly, the vast majority of human beings have weak communication skills, the ability to actually listen to another human being and accept what another human being is suggesting is true for them and their own ability to communicate their own feelings in a way that's seen, heard and understood. The reality is, is most people have a difficult time with this. In fact, most people have a difficult time actually expressing their truth. And in fact, if you're not familiar with my book, What the Heck Is Self Love Anyway? What the Heck Is Self Love Anyway? Chapter one is if it's speak your truth, do it with kindness, I was actually starting to speak chapter nine and chapter nine is if it's sincere and from the heart, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. If it's sincere and from the heart, you can absolutely stick your foot in your mouth if it's not sincere and from the heart. And I know this from personal experience. I am personally, I have definitely have and I still have stuck my foot in my mouth because I'm just sharing with you all, I have work to do in the area of emotional maturity as well. So this isn't something that is easy to get. This isn't easy for most people. In fact, true relationship skills is actually very hard for most people. And so I'm sharing all this before I actually get into the content is just to create some awareness that as much as people try to be good at this stuff, boy, it's not easy. It is not easy figuring out who is your true life partner? Who is someone that you're supposed to go the distance with? Or maybe you're just meant to have a short-lived experience. Maybe you're meant to have a short-lived experience to improve upon yourself. And some of those short-lived experiences can be 24 hours. Some of them could be seven days. Some of them could be a few weeks as an opportunity to heal and learn, heal within oneself. And if you're not familiar with the work that I talk about frequently, inner child work to heal childhood wounds and traumas, I highly recommend checking out the book, The Hoffman Process. The Hoffman Process. This is a great book for you individually to work on healing those negative patterns, limiting beliefs in your life that stem from childhood. And we all have that. I have that. You have that. We all have that. And this is a great opportunity to, I recommend reading this book as an opportunity to heal from that. All right. I might have laid quickly a foundation to create some awareness that most people are good people. Deep down inside, they're good people. They're just bad daters. Sometimes they make poor mistakes. Sometimes they are selfish and they're insensitive. It doesn't necessarily make them bad people. It just makes them human beings. This is why I'm such a big proponent of a lot more compassion in the dating process than judgment, criticism, resentment, comparisons. I would encourage we all to have compassion for ourselves and others because not everyone is meant to be in your life long-term. However, I do believe they were meant to give you a gift and you were a gift for them. So with that said, I'm gonna jump into those six signs he's catching feelings for you. So I'm gonna put on my trusty glasses here and let me get started here. So really, sign number one. Sign number one, he actually says the words I like you. And while that's rather obvious, when someone says I like you, when someone says I like you and I wanna spend time with you, that is certainly a sign that they're catching feelings for you. And what do we mean by catching feelings? The reality is, we think of the word love and when we really get down to what love is all about, it's a feeling. It's the feeling of you feel good with another person. You enjoy that other person's company. You like them for who they are. That's what catching feelings is all about is when you feel good with another person. And when you feel good, when a guy feels good or a girl feels good, they say the words I like you and to take it a step further, they actually want to spend time with you. That's a great sign that they're catching feelings for you, that they say the words I like you and they wanna spend time with you, okay? Number two, he consistently checks in with you. He consistently checks in with you. In other words, you're not forcing it. You know, I know you've watched a lot of videos about not chasing men. Listen, I think the word chase is oftentimes misused. I think it's really more you're forcing, some of those cases where some of you are forcing interaction with men, you're forcing it. In other words, there's an imbalance. And let me just say, when a guy does like you, he will be consistent. He will be consistent. Now, there's always the exception, the rule they've got things going on at work, they've got things going on in their home life, yet there's a level of consistency. That's usually a great sign that a guy is catching feelings for you. Number three, he says, I want to meet your friends. He wants to meet your friends. Whenever someone says they want to meet your friends, they're saying, I wanna get to know your personal orbit. I wanna get to know your personal world in your life. So a man who's genuinely catching feelings is going to say, I'd like to meet your friends. Now, we could say family as well, but I really do believe friends is a different dynamic when you're actually breaking bread with friends. It really gives you insight into the other person, how they behave, how they interact, that sort of thing. So I'm just here to say that men who genuinely like you will make the effort to get to know your personal world and actually want to get to meet your friends. They're not avoiding that. And in fact, they actually initiate the conversation or at least suggest that it happens between the two of you. So that's a great sign. Number four, he's not chasing sex. He genuinely wants to get to know you as a person. He's asking the kind of questions that really get to the heart of your life. And this is very tricky because look it, all red-blooded males want sex. It's quite part of the process. I mean, it's part of the drive that gets us up to want to even be in relationship is the sexual piece. This is true for men and this is true for women as well. So the desire for sex is something prevalent, but the chasings of sex beyond and only that piece, in other words, not going beyond the sex piece is usually, when they actually go beyond and want to be part of your personal life, they're making effort to be part of your personal life. That's usually a good sign that they're catching feelings for you. And number five, he's acting like a teammate or a cheerleader in your life. He's acting like a teammate or cheerleader in your life. In other words, he wants to cheer on your successes. He wants to be there for you when you need him. That's usually a good sign that he's catching feelings for you. At least he makes the offer. Some of you don't accept the offer, by the way, but certainly they makes the offer to be part of a teamwork in your life. And I just want to say that's a great sign that he's catching feelings for you. And number six in the final one, he starts opening up his personal life to you. He's actually sharing personal feelings with you, expressing his feelings with you in a way because he actually feels safe with you. He actually feels a level of trust with you. The reality is, is we men need to feel trust, just like you women need to feel trust. It feels safe with another human being. So we men need that. And when a man begins to open up his personal world to you, and let me just say this, not his drama, not his problems, that's so different. It's more about addressing his, maybe his fears or insecurities. There's a big difference between dumping their problems on you, which a lot of people do. They've got problems with ex-thousas and problems with children and problems with work. And they dump their problems versus their actual fear with another human being. And that is a great sign when someone can open up from their insecure place, when they can be vulnerable, authentic and transparent, that's a great sign he's catching feelings for you. So I just laid out the six signs he's catching feelings for you. I'm just gonna repeat them really fast. He says he likes you and while that's obvious, he likes you and wants to spend time with you. Number two, he consistently checks in with you. You're not having to force it. Number three, he wants to meet your friends and even your family. Number four, he's not chasing sexy, genuinely wants to get to know you as a person. Number five, he's acting like a teammate and cheerleader in your life. And lastly, he's opening his heart and he shares his personal world. That's a great sign he's catching feelings for you. All right, well, we just wrapped up the content portion of our live stream today. We are gonna take a few minutes to take some questions. So if you have a question, post the word question and then write the question thereafter. I'm gonna do my best to respond to the ones I see or you can purchase a super sticker, super chat. There's a little dollar sign in the bottom of the chat box and you can purchase the super sticker, super chat. All of the funds for the super sticker, super chat goes to a scholarship fund in the name of my son, Connor Asley. This is a picture of Connor right there and right there. That's my son who passed away a few years ago and his honor. I've created a scholarship fund to defray the cost of personal development for those who would like some personal development work and also to give to the personal development charities that mean a lot to me. So again, you can purchase a super sticker, super chat at the bottom. And if you're listening to the audio portion of this, just know you won't be able to see the live stream or the questions, just know that. Anyways, just know that if you're listening to the audio portion of this. All right, let's put on my trusty glasses and see what we have here. So Anita says, Anita says, do all things pertain to fearful avoidance as well, do all things. So, you know, here's the thing about human behavior folks. If you're not familiar with the book attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, this book talks about love attachment styles and in it, there's three predominant love attachment styles. There's anxious, avoidant and secure. And what this question is centered around is fearful avoidance. So what this means is there are people who genuinely want love in their life and yet they're also afraid of love at the same time and they become despondent. They pull away when they're receiving love, hence the avoidant piece because they've had most likely a childhood trauma that makes them fearful of love. And so here's the thing. It takes a lot of personal development work, self-help and spiritual work to heal an avoidant personality type or love attachment type, just like it takes a lot of work to heal an anxious attachment type. In fact, relationships in and of themselves, the fact that so many people have multiple, multiple, multiple, multiple relationships in their life is the fact is that they most likely haven't been very conscious in the process of dating. They've been operating as a robotic version of themselves and they're not aware that they have a pattern going on in their life. You ever heard the phrase, what's the definition of insanity? The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting different results. So for those fearful avoidance, for those anxious people, they might have been experiencing the pullback from the avoidant person. They might feel the needy from the anxious person and the relationship is actually a laboratory to heal that. It is actually a laboratory to heal it. The sad part is is most people don't do the healing during that phase. So coming back to our original question, do those avoidant men operate these ways? Well, yes, they do and, and, and, and, they also at the same time fear love. This is the very tricky part. This is why folks, I am coming to the vast realization for myself as well that relationships are not a destination. They're merely a journey. And sometimes they're merely just there to help you learn a lesson. And sometimes we have to learn these lessons, dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens of times. Sadly speaking, it could oftentimes be dozens of times we have to experience the same thing over and over again before we make a shift in our life. So I'm just here to say that that's not an uncommon experience. So is there a good answer for that? Listen, understand that every experience is a journey for yourself as an opportunity to grow and learn. There's no good answer. There's no real final answer in all of this. Just hopefully you work on yourself on the inside, that self love piece on the inside. By the way, there's a link below to get a copy of my book. Because at the end of the day, we can't guarantee that every relationship is going to turn into something that's healthy and juicy. But hey, you give it your best shot. All right, thanks so much for that question. I really appreciate it. All right, we had a super sticker a moment ago, so let's get this. Betta G, and thank you for the $19 super sticker. I really appreciate it. She said, I heard, I like you on a first date. Two dates total went great. Also heard I'm not dating anyone else from him. I didn't say that myself after back in the city, asked him to call me, but he never did. It's been two months. Okay, so here's the part of the dating process. The first time you meet someone, we call that a date, but it's actually a meeting, okay? And the second time we actually see someone that's really the first date, sometimes it's kind of a residual from the first time you met. You can actually like someone, but the reality is, is it takes about 100 hours of face to face time, 100 hours of face to face time to build the first layer of trust. And the reality is, is the vast majority of beings have a life going on before they met you, and a lot of their life experiences could be in the soup of what's going on. I'm gonna repeat that their life experience and if their life is unstable, in other words the ground underneath them isn't solid, they can be rather flaky. It's very common for human beings to be flaky. It's very common for human beings to be insensitive. It could be very common that human beings might desire something, but they may not be ready for it. So this is the challenge with dating is that I don't like to suggest that we have to have thicker skin. I'm just here to suggest that each experience is an opportunity for you to love yourself. Each experience is an opportunity for you to love yourself because we can't control the outcome of what somebody else does. So we can look at this experience, these one or two dates and go, oh, that's, so my invitation is to be curious, to be curious. Okay, well I had a couple of dates, he said he liked me and then he chose not to speak to me. Now, quite frankly, if he's not obligated to ask you out on the third date or quite frankly you could pick up the phone and ask him out the third time and see what happens. I gotta tell you, a lot of women actually follow this advice of me when they haven't heard for someone they reach out and say, hey, I'd like to take you out on a date and they end up getting some level of closure or sometimes they end up being surprised. The guy might say something like, you know, I wasn't really sure you liked me. I gotta tell you, I've gone on, I've had the exact same thing happen. I actually liked a woman. I said the words one on two dates. I didn't ask her on a third date because I just didn't think she liked me. I just didn't think she was into me. And so for a lot of men, the reason why they don't pick up the phone for a third date is they're not sure about you. And believe me, this is scary stuff for us men too. But Jonathan, I wanna be with a confident man that knows what he's doing. Look at confidence oftentimes is bravado for, you know, for a mask. And I speak this from my own personal experience. I mean, my own confidence sometimes is merely a mask for the scared little child inside myself. You know, we men have a scared little child inside ourselves and it takes a lot of awareness to be, you know, to really be, they said the word awareness, but to be aware that, you know, emotions are a rather fickle thing. Emotions can be very difficult for, especially for us men to even navigate in our lives. So just recognize that we're going through, we're doing the best we can. And sometimes we can make a mistake. And that simple mistake was you did, you know, we didn't know you liked us, so we chose not to reach out to you. Didn't mean we ghost you, we didn't do anything wrong. I know in this case it's been two months, but did you reach out to him and say, hey, I'd like to take you out on the third date? Because if you did, and he said no, you at least have closure. And that's just a suggestion I have for you is to have a little closure in your life by leaning into asking the question. So to our writer, Bita G, thank you so much for that question. I really appreciate it. I hope it helped. Okay, Julia says, question. I'm struggling with my own feelings for him. I like to spend time with him, but I could also leave it. What inner work to do to get to the conviction in me to make him, to make him my special person? Oh, that's a great question. So, all right, folks, many of you know that I recently did a psilocybin journey. And I actually did it with a professional life coach, hypnotherapist, someone who's a real professional to work on some individual things in my life. It was an individual healing. Now, I'm not suggesting you go to an experience like that. I had an amazing breakthrough. I had an amazing breakthrough in my inner child. I had a, it was like regression therapy. It was like a rebirth thing. This was an amazing experience for me. I can suggest, you know, talk to a life coach, talk to a therapist, talk to a dating coach, talk to someone that has some professional expertise at this, because first you have to get to the root of what might be causing you not to be able to lean into the relationship. And there might be a block that centers around your childhood. There might be a block that happened in your adult life. It might even be PTSD. So just recognize that some block might be there. And then the question I have for you is how are you going to overcome that block? What are you going to do to push past it? What are you gonna do? Because the reality is, is it takes a level of self-discipline to push back past our blocks. It takes a level of self-discipline. And I'm here to invite you to look inward because, and maybe you might need a professional to do that. I highly recommend that. And then once you get to the answer of it, once it's revealed and it's out on the open, then it's no longer under the rug, so to speak. I'm not suggesting it's under the rug, but there's probably a fear there that needs to be addressed. And that's how I would approach that going forward. So I hope that helps, Julia. Thank you so much. All right, let's go swim. We've got a lot of people writing. And I just do not have time to read all these. So I'm just looking for the ones that say the word question. Sharon writes, question, Jonathan. What are your feelings on blocking X's? I know you say you can still be friends, but it just takes me back and makes me sad. Great question. So if you do, if, if being friendly with an X, being, whether it's social friendly or communicating on a regular basis brings you any pain, then I highly recommend blocking from that person and weeding yourself from that person. You might do a very kind message saying, I need to do this for myself. I'm going to block you from my phone and block you on social media because I find that it's triggering me. You might, you could say something first and then give yourself a 60 day detox, a six month detox. I'd say six months. And then check in with yourself to see, and by the way, here's the thing. I am, I am friendly with a lot of women I've gone out with or dated, been in relationship. I am only one or two. Am I technically friends with? I, you know, the word friends is really, is this person going to be there for me through thick or thin? Is this person going, if I need them, will they help out? That's really what a friend is. And I'm here to say that, you know, it's one thing to be friendly. It's another thing to be friends. And what I don't recommend in friendship is talking about very intimate things about your relationship life with a former lover. I wouldn't be too overly emotionally friendly in that area with someone who is a former lover, but you can certainly be social friends. You can be social media friends, that sort of thing. But being friendly is a lot different than being friends. And if you need to do a digital detox from them to some degree, then take a six month break. There's nothing wrong with that. You can certainly give a heads up and go from there. And if they're actively trying to get back into your life in an unhealthy way, you know, well, if it's, well, hopefully you don't have to call a doctor, a policeman or attorney. So long as you don't have to do that. If you do, then that's a bigger issue. But if so long as you don't have to do that, you can be friendly with them and say, hey, I'm taking a digital detox from you. And if they don't, if they don't respect your boundary, if they don't respect your boundary, then you might have to call the police on that person. That's certainly one option you can do. So I really appreciate that question, Sharon. Thank you so much. I hope that helped. Folks, is this helping? Please let me know. Hit that like button. Hit that like button. All right, let's go swimming. Ah, Jane P says there should be classes for men coming out of relationship to help them do self work. Jane P, that is true for men and women alike. It would be great if men and women alike took classes on how to be an adult in relationship. This is one of the reasons why I continually recommend the book, how to be an adult in relationship. And folks, you know, I know many of you put me up on a pedestal. I just want to say something. While I've done a lot of work reading a lot of these books and doing the work, I continually put my foot in my mouth. I have a capacity to be insensitive. I have a capacity to be downright stupid at times. And it's part of my journey too. Sometimes we make mistakes so we can learn from mistakes. And I'm here to say that while, you know, there should be a class for men, there should be a class for women too. You ladies are just as much of a pain in the ass out there as men are assholes, okay? You ladies can be just as much of a pain in the ass out there. You know, we got to let go of this pointing the finger at the opposite sex because listen, men complain about women, women complain about men, and guess what's not happening? There's no merging of the sexes, and I don't mean there is in the sexual sense, but there's no merging from a relationship perspective because we're pointing the finger instead of doing the work inward. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. All right, thank you so much. Sandra says, amen. I appreciate that, thank you so much. Lisa says, dating is hard work. It is effort, it does take a lot of effort. All right, so let's see what other questions. We're gonna take one or two more questions. Bear with me, bum, bum, bum. You know, I'm just gonna share something personal. I'm rather embarrassed. Recently met a very interesting woman and I sabotaged it. I don't know what's going on inside of me. I think there's still a lot of residual fear that happened, you know, whether it's the ending of my marriage, the ending of my last relationship. I have mother issues. There's a picture of my mother and father. I have mother issues that creep up. I had a very controlling mom in my life and I'm a guy, I'm driven by my libido and I'm here to say I've done, you know, I've been insensitive. And I've certainly, and by the way, I've owned it and I've apologized to it but it doesn't, you know, it's not right that I did it. So I have to ask myself, why did I behave this way? Why did I behave this way? Why would I sabotage something? And I'm sharing my own personal experience to maybe give you some insight on why you might have sabotaged things in your life or why a man you've dated might sabotage the relationship and that sabotage is simply maybe saying something that's insensitive or doing something that's insensitive because there's still a fear in your life. And while I've done a lot of personal development work to heal a lot of my fears and insecurities and I'm gonna be candid with you, I'm no different than any other person. My biggest emotional health issue is I'm not good enough, I'm not lovable, I'm not likable. I have those same fears inside of myself. And as much as I present myself out in the world, and that's why I said earlier, please do not put me up on a pedestal, many of you do. But I'm riddled with insecurity and flaws. I happen to be a pretty good communicator and I do take ownership when I make a mistake and I certainly have in this case and yet why would I sabotage something? I oftentimes feel like we create pain in our life as an opportunity to learn, we create pain. Sometimes the pain is also a pain to someone else for their own experience. I can only say this in my own life. Each time you connect with another human being, it's certainly an opportunity to be in a state of love and be of loving to another human being and hopefully loving to ourselves. And at the same time, each experiences, it's like a movie I was watching on Black Mirror. If you don't have Black Mirror, check out the episode called Hang the DJ, Hang the DJ. I was just watching it last night and I'm here to say everything does happen for a reason. And sometimes they're short-lived experience, sometimes they're long-term experiences and they don't go the distance because it's really an opportunity to learn and also love yourself when you make a mistake. I've made a terrible mistake recently and I'm beating myself up terribly over it and I deserve it, I did it to myself and I also have to practice what I teach in my book, what the heck is self-love anyway? I have to teach what I practice in my book. And my hope is that no matter what happens, we can learn to find the inner peace within ourselves. We can learn to love the little kid inside of ourselves because every one of us has a little kid that's hurting inside of us. I mean, every one of us has a little kid and some of us has a little kid that's really hurting for a variety of different reasons and we don't mean to hurt others. I really do believe this. I know you watch these thousands of hours of videos about narcissists and all the terrible things that narcissists do and it makes you and it makes it feel better that you've learned this but the reality is is most people, even the narcissists, even the people like myself don't intentionally, I really don't believe that they intentionally wanna hurt someone and yet we can do stupid things. Human beings are flawed, we are riddled with flaws. I am no different, I'm riddled with flaws and I'm here to say what matters most is letting go of the judgment, letting go of the criticism, letting go of the contempt because all that's going to do is bring more and more into your life and I'm just here to encourage you to just have compassion for others as well as compassion for yourself, have compassion for others, have compassion for yourself, recognize that this is all part of the experience. It's happening for a reason. Those reasons are for you to learn to become the best version of yourself and that's my invitation for you and as I just shared with you, I went through this experience where I screwed something up. I mean, I said something stupid and I deserve what came to me because I did it to myself and I'm also going to have compassion for myself at the same time because beating ourselves up is like the cross, it's the cross. I've nailed it to the stake, my feet, my arms and that's not healthy to self-crucify and my hope is by me sharing this experience with you, you don't crucify yourself in the future. Can I get an amen for that? I mean, when I say amen, you will not criticize yourself for the future. Can I get an amen? Thank you so much and thank you for allowing me to share that personal experience here. So Jennifer says, I've sabotaged men many times and I've healed it. I'm still learning myself. Lisa says, I'm working on my spiritual life and putting dating on hold because I'm not meeting anyone. I understand that too. Renee says, Jonathan, thank you for your candid honesty. It was really been helpful. I'm so happy to hear that. Teresa says, amen. Sandra says, amen. Thank you so much. All right, let's see what else we have before we wrap up tonight. I'm gonna take one more question. Bump, bump, bump. Bump, bump, bump. All right, Brenda says, question. I am in a casual relationship but he is always asking where I've been when not with him. Why does he care? Well, it's very common for human beings to feel insecure when we, the minute we open our heart to another human being, that's a very vulnerable thing. It's a very vulnerable thing. And these days when we're not spending regular time together, when we're not in each other's orbit, I want you to think about 50, 100 years ago before these little things were invented, before the internet was invented. I want you to recognize that, anybody you dated was in your life on a regular basis. So you kind of knew what they were doing because they knew your friends, they knew your family. Now, we can live 15 miles away from someone and have no ability to know what's going on in their life. And simply being out of communication for five or six hours can cause someone to get very scared. It's very natural to get scared. Even if you're the most confident person on the planet is natural to get scared. It just means that they're human. It's a very human thing. The minute you open your heart to someone and you become vulnerable, it becomes incredibly scary. And sometimes, as I shared a moment ago, we can sabotage things the minute we open our heart to someone because we're afraid to put ourselves out there and get hurt again. And sadly, it takes a lot of thick skin to do this. And sometimes many people give up on putting themselves out there because there's a greater chance of it getting, not going the distance. There is a greater chance that it's not gonna go anywhere and that we could feel hurt. And so it's not an uncommon thing for that to happen. And I'm just here to say that, again, the question, Brenda, was, but he's always asking, that's probably why. He cares, or at least he's feel like he's been vulnerable with you and he needs to feel safe. And by the way, ladies, you do the same thing too. So this isn't a singular demand. Ladies, you do the same thing too. All right, hope that helped. All right. You know what, folks? I think this will be a great place to wrap up today. I'm gonna cover those six signs a man is catching feelings for you. Number one, he says he likes you. And while that's obvious, he says the words and he follows it up by seeing you on a regular basis. Number two, he consistently checks in with you. You're not having to force it. Number three, he wants to meet your friends. Number four, he's not chasing sex. He's genuinely wants to get to know you on your personal life. Number five, he's acting like a teammate and cheerleader in your life. Number six, he's opening his heart and he shares his personal world. Those are six signs. He's at least catching feelings for you. It doesn't mean it's gonna go the distance, but those are some really good signs. He's interested and at least exploring a relationship with you and I hope that help. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this. Please post a comment in the comments section. I do my best to read them all. As always, if you find value in this, please share my channel to your friends. Please like this video before you leave. And I'm gonna wrap up this video as I always do. First off, giving myself a big gigantic Jonathan Barrett of self love. I'm gonna reach into the camera and give you a hug of love if that's okay. I'm gonna ask you to turn to someone, a pat, a teddy bear pillow and give Iter them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love and let's face it, we could all use more love in our lives. Thanks a bunch. Bye now. Bye bye. And I'm gonna say goodbye to River Chick and Kelly and Lisa and Brenda. Thank you so much. Jennifer, Suzette, Dawn, Jane, Lisa, Dave, Veronica, Shira, River, everyone, thank you so much. Bye bye now.