 another Knox Fiver live video got the Christmas tree as you can see Christmas is coming now what am I gonna get for Nala maybe some special treats or some new toys any ideas let me know down below just checked into a new apartment it's quite spacious two bedrooms two bathrooms some views the city there so yeah let's get into the topic for tonight when the narcissist realizes they play themselves how amazing would that be after everything they've done to you I mean whether or not you may choose to forgive them just imagine for a moment if they just realized what they've done they realized they messed up and now they want to make amends they want to make it up to you for everything they put you through because they put you through a lot they put you through hell they made you suffer so how great would that be they finally woke up and they could see wow I did all of these things I ruined their life and yet they still chose to stick by me despite all of the things I did they could have walked away but they didn't they were still there after everything I did to them maybe they left you maybe you left them then they realize I brought all of this on myself I'm the cause of all of it and you've moved on things I've got better for you things I've got worse for them and they're thinking this is all my fault I am the reason why I'm now stuck in this unfortunate situation yeah it would be great wouldn't it if the narcissist could think like that but now let's come back to reality because if a person can think that way then that person is not a narcissist I know I may have said some things in the past but I learn new things every day I'm always researching I'm always studying the minds of these types of people and I can tell you that they're never gonna come to that conclusion they're never gonna think that way they're never gonna realize that you were the one you were their soulmate a twin flame whatever they're never gonna think that way even if you are you could be the perfect person for them you could be their soulmate you could be the one you could be the best thing that ever happened to them it doesn't matter they're never gonna realize it they might think that they had a good situation with you yeah narcissists can definitely think that way but it has nothing to do with you as a person it's all about what you could provide to them so yeah after they've left you or if you've left them they will think about that they will think about if you were a good source of supply and if the person they're with now can't do half of the things that you were doing then yes they may hover you but it's not because they realize they've played themselves no they're never gonna think like that if anything they're gonna blame you even though they may not tell you they may love on you but in the back of their minds they're thinking this is all your fault you pushed me away you were confronting me all the time that's why I had to leave with you left them then you abandoned them it's always you they're never gonna look at themselves and think my actions have led to this undesirable result you're never gonna get that from a narcissist but of course you know if you do move on and you become better you achieve greater things you become stronger and healthier happier and you're living your best life and they've moved on to something else which isn't half as good as what you're doing of course they're gonna feel like shit and they might try to hide it they might act like what you're doing isn't that great but trust me they feel it and they're very envious and jealous the very competitive after they leave you so yeah they feel it and they may not so much regret what they've done but they're just gonna be angry at you or they might have this epiphany but it isn't real and they might re-idealize you see was perfect again and that may cause them to hoove you but whatever it is it has nothing to do with you as I've said before narcissists live in a world with a population of one you are not in that world no one is it's just them and everyone is just an object when extension of them so if they idealize you if you're new and fresh to them or they haven't seen you for a while you are a positive extension of themselves you're like a reflection of their false self the false character that they display to you but then if you've been around them for a long enough time they will start to devalue you and they will project everything they hate about themselves onto you but it's never really you it's never really anyone it's just projections of the narcissist they can't see you they can't connect to you you don't even exist in their world no one does it's just them and it's very lonely so of course they need supply they needed a distraction from or actually no forget that they they need someone to come into their world so it's not so lonely that's what they need so they bring people into this world and then you start to see that this world is not perfect and then there's a problem but it's a cycle it just goes on and on never ends so yeah they never realize that they play themselves that doesn't happen would be nice if it did because then they wouldn't be a narcissist anymore but yeah it just doesn't happen that way that's never gonna happen they're never gonna realize that you were their soulmate that you were the one that you were the best thing that happened to them never it's never gonna be like that and there's no point having any hope that they're gonna change as I've said before the best thing you'll ever get is an illusion all they can do by default is be fake and manipulative there is nothing else there's no other side to their personality that you haven't seen I mean you may think when you see them move on with the new supply their new partner you may think that wow they're like this fun and exciting person now they're doing all of these things I never did with you no they're exactly the same they can put on an act for the camera for a short period of time but they're still exactly the same person and they're never gonna change they will always be that way with anyone they meet so don't feel like you're missing out you're not missing out on anything they will always be that way they're not gonna discover some hidden part of themselves that they never knew existed and then suddenly they're a better person it's never gonna happen they will always be that way they will always blame you so yeah I just really wanted to drive that home make sure that it sinks in because I know what it's like that cognitive dissonance you think maybe they've changed maybe they can be better for you maybe they could be a person you always wanted them to be or maybe you're missing out on something maybe they have something better with this new person I can tell you that the answer to all of those questions is no so yeah I hope this helps just take away any hope hope is not helpful anyway make things happen for yourself instead of hoping and waiting for something that's never gonna happen and I mean never but now what I hear I think she's hungry time to go to some food I'm gonna get something to eat as well then I'm gonna do some work so yeah I hope you like this video if you did as always please give it a thumbs up down below thank you all for joining me and you all have a great day