 So, where can one go to find nice women here? Oh, you got to get out and look. We've been to every bar in Queens. Well, that's where you messed up, son. You can't go to no bar to find a nice woman. You got to go to a nice place, a quiet place like a library. It's a good woman there. And a church is good girls. It's going to be some fine women there. Good, good, clean girl. Church singing is me. That's proper now. I don't know what is considered to be modest. I do know that what we see now doesn't seem to be like what we saw back in the day. Now, I understand it's harder for certain people to dress a certain way, to not be too revealing, but doesn't it seem like trying to be modest for the most part? In many cases, it's kind of going out the door. Or maybe being modest is just a new definition of modest. It's just something different. Something that if you would have wore what you wear now, if you would have wore it 20 years ago, if you would have wore it 30 years ago, 40 years ago, would you have been in trouble? When you were a kid, could you have worn that in school or at church if you went to church? Could you have worn that? And I'm not saying like the ladies, you have to wear the big ruffle dresses and so forth that they wore back in the day or the big hats. By the way, how many of you ladies when you go to church still wear the church hats? Does anybody, does anybody still wear the church hats? I need to see the ladies with the church hats. We still have them. I know the church mothers make still wear them, but nowadays though, some of the church mothers are dressing like some of the young ladies. It's getting a bit ridiculous. It's getting a bit out of control. And I don't know what a standard should be, but we got a problem. And I will, I will, I will ladies, I will get on the fellas. I promise you, I will, I promise you, I cannot leave this live stream without getting on the fellas, but I'm gonna get on the ladies. See, everybody got upset. I was bothered too by Beyonce's church girl. I was bothered, but it's not like Beyonce just made that up. It's not like Beyonce didn't have some sort of test subject, like she just brought that up out of thin air as though nobody fit that person, like no one fit the description. It's not like she just came up with that on her own. There are some girls that go to church, some ladies that go to church who are just like what Beyonce was talking about in the song, who just as nasty and vulgar and there are. Let's call it what it is. And I wanna get to this issue of why we see this happening because I think what's happening is, we've got a bunch of confused ladies. I would have said young ladies, but no older ladies too. And now granted, we've got some confused fellas too. We do. Again, I'll get on the fellas in just a little bit. And I tend to always get on the guys because I think that the problems in society come from a lack of good strong male leadership and a good strong male presence, I do. And men who know what it means to be a man. But that's just some things that just cut across different maturity levels, age levels. And for a man, let's just gonna be honest guys, let's come on, we're gonna tell the truth, shame the devil. I don't care if he's 85 or if he's five. Well, let's get the five year olds a pass. But certainly once he starts eating 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, when a nice looking woman walks in front of him, it's over with. Bible study is not what he's thinking of. Bible study is not what that young fella is thinking of. And so with that being stated, I wanna cover something because it is an issue with me. And by the way, when I was little, cause I'm trying to think of what age did I start, you know, just kind of thinking about ladies. Cause when I was a little boy, if you like other little boys, if other boys were like me, when I was little, I had a list. Anybody have a list when you're a little kid? I had a list. And my list didn't, my list didn't, my list had, no, my list had two girls in it. Two girls that were close to my age. Laura Ingalls was one of them, close to my age. Tutie, from Facts of Life and from Good Times. She was on Good Times too. And but then I had Princess Leia. Yeah, Princess Leia. I also had, I don't know if y'all remember this. Some of you guys aren't old enough. Jane Kennedy. Jane Kennedy was it back in the day. Some of you guys in your fifties will notice. Jane, oh, it was Jane Kennedy did it for me. Princess Leia with them two balls on the side of her head. Yeah. And so guys, we just, it's just something natural about us. That is if we act according to our gender. I know that's a big issue today. But it's always been, ever since we were little, that girls were taught and told how to dress. And I think that because some women have been hurt so much or they're looking for something, that they're trying to figure out how to go about appealing to a man. And they have forgotten that being attractive and being sexy aren't really necessarily the same two things. See, I believe that an attractive woman doesn't have to try to be, a person that's trying to be sexy, they're trying to be sexy. But the person that's naturally attractive, they just, that's just who they are. They just, cause it's something, not just the outside appearance, but it's something on the inside that also resonates and radiates from the inside to the outside. And I did this experiment. I've always done an experiment with the kids. I haven't done it in a long time cause I haven't been a youth pastor in a long time. But when I was a youth pastor, I asked the fellows a question. And I asked them this question in front of the young ladies. These are teenagers. These are high schoolers. And then I went in and asked all the, because I was a youth pastor, our age group went from the college age all the way down. So I went and also talked to the young adults, the 21 year olds, the 23, 24 year old male and females. And I asked them the same question. And it was the same response, same answer. Suppose you've got two young ladies, two twin sisters, Mary and Terry. Mary and Terry, both gorgeous. Both gorgeous looking young ladies. Mary wears conservative clothing. She wears, she might wear some pants from time and time and she wears dresses. Nothing is really fitting. Nothing's really too overly revealing. And both of them are built well enough to where they got some stuff to show. Let's, we're gonna be adults here. But Terry, she's showing it. Terry leaves no room for the imagination. She wants you to know what's there. And so I asked the guys, the high schoolers and the guys in college, and those that were just young adults, which one would they prefer to actually date and marry? Now these guys are going to church. Which one do they think was the most attractive? Now remember, these are two twins. So they look exactly, they look the same, they built the same. All of them, it wasn't even close, said that the one who was the more conservative was the more attractive woman. Now they don't, we didn't have a picture. I just had them just thinking your mind. Just think of somebody. Someone who was more revealing and someone who was less revealing. And the one who was more, who was less revealing, more conservative. That was the one that they thought would be, that was the more attractive one. The one who they thought would be the one that they would rather marry. Now the one they would like to kind of hang out with was obviously Terry. That's kind of how it was. And so I think though what has happened is that women have thought that because some boys, some males notice the sexy woman that that's what they ought to be. And I'm gonna tell you this, I'm gonna tell you the end before we get there. Ladies, if you are dressing sexy to catch somebody you've messed up, you've already lost, you put yourself at a disadvantage already. If you got stuff revealing, some ladies got more than others, this would be, we're adults here. And if you're showing what you got, then when he sees you, that's what he thinks of you. And it's hard for him to change his initial perception of you over time. It just is what it is. And the problem is it wouldn't be that big an issue if it was just in the world. But this issue has crept over into the church. And so we're gonna go all through this stuff and we're gonna kind of, and by the way guys, I had to, there was a lot of stuff left on the chopping block that I wanted to show. Y'all know me, I like to kind of put some clips in there. There was some clips I said, no, if I did, they gonna be upset, they gonna unsubscribe, they gonna send me all kind of nasty letters, they'll do all kind of stuff. And so I had to leave some things off, there was some stuff that I wanna put on there. But I also wanna kind of make it interactive. And so I wanna ask you guys a question. This particular lady, these two ladies, doesn't matter at this, where they're at, but I want you to look, but this is at a church service. And you tell me, do you think that, I don't know, I'm letting you guys male and females tell me, if you think that what both of them have on is appropriate, or if either are inappropriate, y'all let me know, thanks Proverbs. We grown, we are grown. I hope you know what, there are some people that actually watch Smart Christian channel that aren't grown though, so but still, this is for the kids too. So we look at this, do y'all think that what they have on, that either of what they have on is appropriate? Y'all tell me. Now I'm thinking that the white lady, that might be a bit too much. What do you guys say? Do you, would you ask them, maybe what the young lady who's holding the mic, maybe what she has on, that might be okay. That might be okay, I don't know. But what the white lady has on, she's got some, because let's be honest guys, let's be honest. Not to the ladies, but to the fellas. If you see her, before you think about what she said, you're checking her out, right? You kinda, now she's comfortable, relaxed. I'm not saying she's dressed like a hoochie or that, she's like dressed like a lady of the night. No, she looks relaxed, but again, what are guys gonna notice? They're gonna notice her hips, they're gonna notice her behind, they're gonna notice her chest, and all that. She's a nice looking lady, same thing with the woman that's holding the mic, and so guys are just looking. By the way, can I tell y'all a story? You ladies got me in trouble. Got me almost beat up in church. Can I tell you this, can I tell you this story? Got me beat up in church, yeah. The church that we, when we first moved to Dallas, I mean, we were checking out this church, matter of fact, my wife was going to us, and her professor was the pastor at this church, he ends up becoming our pastor eventually. And so we go to visit, and we're sitting most of the way back, not halfway, a little more than halfway back. I'm sitting down, I've got the kids over on this side. No, I've got, I don't know, I don't know how many kids we had. We had three kids at the time. Two on this side, and my wife's got another one on that side, and my wife is right here. This young lady in front of us, she's in front of us, she is literally in between my eyesight and the pastor's eyesight preacher. And she stops, she checks her purse in the pew in front of us, so she's facing me. Now this is nice looking young lady. She bends over to get something out of her purse, and her top of her shirt is loose. And so it's kind of dang, y'all, y'all, you ladies know what I'm talking about, it's hanging down. And if I wanted to just kind of, I could, you know, I could see some stuff, right? I didn't, I didn't do anything. I was totally innocent. She was sitting there in front of me doing that in her purse, and fellas, Mary, can you just tell when your wife is looking at you? I mean, she's looking at me, she's about to, and she hits me, I didn't do anything. Well, you shouldn't have been looking. I'm looking at the preacher, she's in front of me. You should have looked away. I get in trouble, because this girl is showing her business to me. Right, I didn't look, I didn't even see anything. I didn't see much at all, I didn't see a whole lot. It wasn't that much, okay. She put it there in front, okay, it wasn't my fault, but I got hit, she hit me hard too, twice. It wasn't even my fault. Help her brother out, don't do that. Because even if I'm not trying to look, I'm gonna be, what are you doing looking? Y'all seen before, she just, yeah, it's kinda hard. Or you go out to the store someplace, and some girls got something on where she looked like she just got off out of the strip club. She looking for a pole to get on, right? Yeah, we adults here. And she's just certain way she walks by you, you ain't even looking, and your wife's like, you better not look. You better not look. She's got on bright lime green with purple lights flashing, and you tell me not to look. How hard is that? So I think we all probably, it's safe to say that the lady, the white lady had, that might be a little too much. She ain't going to hell for that. But that, again, you're harming us. The Bible says, let's get with the Bible. By the way, we're gonna try to have some fun tonight, guys. But the Bible tells us what Paul tells Timothy in 1st Timothy chapter two. He says likewise, if he says I want the men everywhere to lift up holy hands, he says that likewise I want women. He's speaking to women. This is Gnacas, which is women. I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing. And he describes the clothing modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garment, but rather by means of good works as it's proper for women making a claim to godliness. Now, his issue really isn't as well as it is for today. It's not the braided hairs and so forth. It's just the women making a spectacle of themselves. That's what the deal, and that's what was happening in that particular culture. So if you've got braids, that's not what we're not saying that you cannot have braids. If that's the case, a whole lot of people will be in trouble. But the issue is how you adorn yourself. Because it's an issue, and God has cleared with this in the Bible, it's an issue with men. What's the one sin that we can think of where the Bible doesn't say fight? God doesn't tell you to fight this one particular sin. God is not saying, hey, stand and fight, be tough. You got it. No, no, this one particular sin, when it rears his head, and you know when it's rearing his head, you know when it's about to come on because it's almost like a song is in the background playing and you can feel it. When this issue of some sort of sexual morality comes, he says flee, flee, if it's less flee, run. Don't try to fight it, do not. Listen, some of us put ourselves in position to where you're already defeated. You sitting over there with her or she's sitting over there with him and the lights are off and Luther's on or whoever y'all listen to nowadays. And the lights dim low and it's too late. Now you better hope the phone ring. You better hope the parking catch on fire or something because it's just, so don't put yourself in those sort of positions. And if we're not to be put in that kind of position, well then men and women, but specifically women, do not entice the men. Women can do better than men can because a lot of times what men wear is not really enough to entice women. Don't get me wrong. Some women can be enticed by a guy wearing, by the way, fella, let me just say this again. I have so, listen, I would rather you be Marcus Rogers than to be a regular fella with some skinny jeans on. That's just me. That's just, how do they say it down in the south of the country? It ain't right. Or how to say it ain't right. It just ain't right. It's just not right skinny jeans, especially if your skinny jeans are colorful. I'd rather you go back to the 80s and put on leather pants. Yeah, I'd rather see you in a Michael Jackson outfit, thriller outfit or beat it outfit. It just ain't right. Can I get, fellas, can I get a amen? Now you fellas that are wearing skinny jeans right now repent. All you fellas with skinny jeans on right now, repent in the name of Jesus. I'm buying that skinny jean soft demon right now. I rebuked you. Some guy like, man, what's wrong with skinny jeans? I know it's a preference. There's nothing in the Bible that says, thou shalt not wear skinny jeans. This is the book of cord and the quarry. In first quarry, chapter two, verse one. Don't wear skinny jeans. I promise you this, I promise you this. You fellas wearing skinny jeans, take a picture. And in five, 10 years, you can look back. What was I thinking? What was I thinking? It's almost like us back in the 70s, the 80s, wearing them curls. What in the world was I thinking? Which is why there's no surviving pictures of me with a curl. Yeah, I know how to get rid of my evidence. Anyway, so women though aren't really, aren't usually as enticed by men where they were. Granted, granted, there are some guys that want to show off their arms and chest and so forth and have fitting shirts and so forth and go, ooh, girl, look at him. But wait a second, because some women fall with men who are thoroughly out of shape. I mean, thoroughly out of shape. And so it's not always the shape of a guy. But granted, what do women say their dream guy is? Tall, this guy built and so on and so forth. They want that. And so, and granted, women can be enticed too. I'm not saying they cannot be, but it is still more of a problem for men, which is why you see women dressed in the way they dress. There's a reason why you don't see a whole lot of men wearing the sexiest outfit they can find. First of all, most men aren't built well enough to do it. Let's just tell the truth, Shaven Devil, most men have built like a carton of milk, right? A lot of men today. Sorry, fellas, listen, for all you fellas that are geographically challenging in terms of your size and so forth, I'm not picking on you, but that ain't no woman, you know, she ever dreamed about having a round man, unless it's Santa Claus. I'm kidding. But the problem is still, the problem is still, women tend to be bothered by, or men tend to be moved and aroused by the women. It just is. And so women, you have to help a man out. You have to help not just the single man, but you have to help the married man. You have to help the man who you don't even have eyes on. You have to help the person who you respect, as well as those who you don't respect. You've even got to help yourself because what is it gonna do for your name, for your reputation, even if you haven't done anything? Some of you ladies can testify either you were on the giving in or the receiving in where the lady in the church, she looks nice and other ladies are upset with her because she looks nice. And she tends to maybe dress, maybe not so provocatively, but in a way to where other women, they're just cutting her with her eyes, look at her. She know good and well, she don't need to be wearing that in church. What does she, where's her, she needs a man, right? This is church stuff. Church can be messy sometimes, but it's just like the world. The church is full of worldly people who realize they were messed up and then came to Christ. That's all, and they placed their faith in Christ. And so there's some issues that we've got to fix. Can I ask you a question? How come some of the ladies, and I remember being in a pulpit preaching and as you're gazing out there, what you do is me personally, they don't tell people when they're speaking to latch onto a couple of people and focus on them. I can't do that. I cannot do that because if I try to do that and people think, are you preaching? Are you talking about me? So I literally look at everybody and I gaze around and sometimes I look above them and I look in different areas. And so you notice everybody the way they're dressed. And I'm gonna tell you the truth, y'all. This is a secret. This is something that, it's not a secret. Maybe it is, I'm not sure. But there are a lot of women in the church that come and they dress in such ways. And they've got these shirt, I mean, these short skirts and dresses on. Hold on, a dress is the full, yeah, a dress is the whole thing, right? And a skirt is just from the hips down, right? Is that right? Okay, I think I got daughters, so I should know this. My mama was a woman and my wife's a woman. So I should know this. You know what, wait a second, let's say this. Let's say, I want to stay away from this, I want to stay away from this because I just didn't want to get into it. But since you brought it up, she says leggings are also considered a no-no. They show the shape of their bodies and they do, they do. Now you got a whole bunch of men saying, no, leave them leggings alone. Yeah, it's too, y'all remember when the Spandex came out and you would see people that ran track and athletes wearing the tights, but then MC Hammer and other folks wanted to start wearing that stuff. And I don't know who told somebody that it was a good idea to wear Spandex and tights and stuff like that. And then, you know, back in the late 70s and early 80s with the Jazzercise stuff and so forth, the girls were like the little fit and stuff like that with the stirrups on it, you know, that kind of stuff. That was stuff was never meant to be worn outside in public and just to be, you know, that, no, no. And so you ladies around here wearing the leggings and stuff, y'all stop that. You trying to mess up somebody's career. That's what you're trying to do. That's what you're trying to do. Don't even wear it to the gym. Don't even wear it. Remember the good old days when, some of y'all remember, y'all have been raised a certain way when you went swimming, girls. You had to have a bathing suit on. Couldn't be a two-piece bathing suit. Had to be a one-piece bathing suit. And what did you have to put on top of that one-piece bathing suit? Had to put a t-shirt over that one-piece bathing suit. Why? Because we ain't about to go out here and show all your business. No. Nope. Nowadays though, uh-uh, date, date. And we have over-sexualized our entire country. So now, since all the adults have been over-sexualized, now let's go deal with the kids. And then let's also make sure that the church gets a little bit of this. And it's bad in the church. Y'all tell me, am I wrong? I've got some thoughts about this young lady, these two young ladies at this, this is more of a Pentecostal church, but it's what they're wearing. It's what they're wearing that's the issue. I can tell you what the guys were saying. They were a couple, let's just go ahead and just reveal what's in the mind's head. I mean, in the minds of these guys, first thing they thought, whoo, she fine. Matter of fact, who the other one's fine too. That's first thing they thought. That's the first thing the guys thought. I didn't think that. I don't have those kind of thoughts. I didn't think that at all. I was just, I was praying for her wondering what was going on in her, what Lord deliver her. That's what I was thinking. I don't have these problems, but the other guys like, whoo, she's fine. But let me just say this. My thought was this. My thought was this. Is it possible that what she was shouting and screaming about, might've been brought on by maybe not the outfit she had on that day, but other outfits like that that she's worn. Maybe her issues were about a man and maybe if she learned how to dress, she wouldn't have or attracted the wrong kind of man. Cause guess what? You put the right clothes on. You put the right clothes on and you go and catch the right man. Now you'll find that he ain't necessarily the right man later on. And so maybe that's it. But you got, you sitting there shouting, you got everything showing. If you got on panting, you got your panting line showing. It may not have them. I don't know or a certain kind of what was happening. And then you got to hold your chest right here so stuff don't fall out. Cause you shouldn't have to do all that. You shouldn't have to do all that. I'm not saying you got to wear a burlap bag, but you shouldn't have to do that. You shouldn't have to wear that. That's the issue right there. And the other lady, her stuff, well, you know, it was a little lucid, but still, you still showing some stuff off. No, listen, somebody said I see why your wife, I'll be slapping it. Look, I need to tell you guys how I met my wife. Good for her bad for me. Good for her bad for me. Not good for her that she met me. That was good and bad. No, I'm saying it reflects positively on her, negatively on me. We were at Texas Tech. I had a class, a music class, easy eight, easy eight. And I was late to the class. I had just moved to an apartment off, not off campus, but away from campus. And I had to catch the bus to get there. I didn't have a car at the time and I caught the bus late. So I get there late. I'm not going to that class. So I'm in the student center. My wife, who was in my wife at the time, she walks in and she's got this. I still remember this little maroon dress. We are, how was she? I don't know, was she even 20 yet? But she had this maroon dress on and it was, it was fitting pretty good. Fitting pretty good. I ain't gonna, listen, I'm not gonna lie. My eyes went to like, my buddy was sitting there and he did the same thing. And I said, well, go talk to her then. He said, yeah, I didn't go talk to her. I said, what's taking so long? He said, man, don't put that. I said, you scared. He said, why don't you go talk to her? Well, it's fine. I went to go talk to her. But you know what my wife was doing? I feel bad about this. She said, I mean, she was passing out Christian tracks. She had another little friend who was in a wheelchair who, she was suffering from, I was dwarfism. I'm not sure what it was, but she wasn't very tall and my wife was pushing her. I didn't even see that she was pushing out of the dress she had on and they had a stack of Bible tracks. They were out evangelizing and here I am lusting. But it worked. It sure worked because she ain't over there yet but she'll be over there and it worked. Anyway, that's how we met. She, I don't know what that has to do with what I was just talking about, but still. But what she had on the two ladies, that's a problem. There are a lot of pictures that I saw. I said I left some things on the chopping block on the cutting floor of pictures where guys were just checking these ladies out. They wore some pretty inappropriate stuff. There's this one picture, I didn't wanna show it, where it's just a row of ladies sitting on the front row or a second, I'm not sure. And they all had on short skirts. So much so that the majority of their thigh was showing. It's a problem ladies, it's a problem. It's a problem if you sit down, you got all that thigh showing. It's a problem if you're standing up. If you're standing up and that much thigh is showing, then certainly a whole lot of it's gonna show when you're sitting down. Which means you better not. I remember when we stood off in Church of God in Christ, the church mows, they gonna have these little, what do you call it? I don't know what you call it, but little napkins or pieces of cloth. And the church mows in our church, they're gonna bring those little napkins, those little doggies, whatever you call them. And they're gonna put them on those young ladies' laps if they are dressed inappropriate. And they determine it. Not the Bible, not the pastor, not God, that 70-year-old church mama. She's gonna determine if you have been, if you dress too, and she'll give you a little hint. Baby, you cold? Nah, I ain't cold, it's hot in here. They're gonna do it. And you know what you're not gonna do? You're not gonna refuse it. You're not gonna listen. She'll treat you like she's your grandma. Because she's trying to protect your innocence. And she may not be innocent, but she's trying to protect it. She's trying to protect your integrity. She's trying to protect your body, your image. And they may pull to the side and tell her maybe you might not wanna do that. Because somebody told her that that's just, that looks good, that's sexy. You really don't wanna go to church to look sexy. Can I tell you again, and this is gonna be the theme guys, you really don't wanna go to work being sexy. You really don't wanna go out to the mall looking sexy. You don't wanna go to the grocery store being sexy. The only place you wanna be sexy is in your house for your husband. That's it. Now, is it possible to be attractive and come across as sexy? Well, sure, but only if you didn't try to be sexy. If you're aim wasn't to try, let me show a little bit of this. Let me show a little bit of that. Now we got a problem. Now we got a problem. Let me ask you all the question. If you wore this outfit right here, do you think this outfit is a little too much to wear to church? Y'all think that's too much to wear to church? I just, I want you guys opinion. What say ye about this outfit? Do you all think that this is, now this person is on their way to church? This is on their, somebody say, what is looking sexy? Well, what is this? Is this looking sexy? Y'all think this is a little too much? Yeah, I think, and this person is on their way to church. Can I tell you who that person is? This person should know better. This person should know better on their way to church wearing it. This person, she needs a whooping. My grandmama needs to get her. My grandmama's dead, but if she were alive, she needs to get a hold of her and give her a whooping. This lady's on her way to church. She knows, she's old enough. I know she's old enough cause she's a little bit older than me. That's who that is. That's Michelle Obama. She knows better. What are you wearing at the church? You wearing at the church? All right. All right, Michelle, they'll be checking you out and you can't move too much now, Michelle. I know you got secret service around you, but that's just not that bad. Come on, Brock, get your wife together, buddy. She can't be when you wouldn't let Sasha Malia wear that, would you? I hope you wouldn't. I hope you wouldn't. But yeah, that's a little too much. You can't move your arms too much without showing something. And I promise you guys are gonna be watching. Guys are going to be watching. Now, I wanna show this because it's not just the ladies who go to church that we got to issue it. It's not, matter of fact, I may ask you a question in second, Pastor David. It's not just the ladies that are in the pews. It's sometimes the ladies that are on stage. What do y'all think? Now, a couple of things. No one knows what she was singing. But I can tell you also this ladies, none of the fellas cared what she was singing. None of the fellas, so Pastor David, do you have this at you? I'm just, sometimes, listen, it is, I think this is in Africa. I think it's a different language she's singing. But baby girl, what she has on? She's got a nice voice and you got guys, you got men who ain't never prayed or nothing in their life, they speaking in tongues and shouting because of course she got it. Yellow troop, shame devil. Now, the pastors have to do a better job. Let's just say this. The pastors have to do a better job. Somebody said she's singing the South African praise song. Okay. The pastors have to do a better job of regulating it. No sweetheart, no baby girl. Treat them like they're your daughters. You cannot get on this stage looking like that. Which is why you see more and more churches starting to go back to choir rows. Cool. We had this issue, and I'll never forget this one discussion we had about what do they want to wear for this particular Sunday. And the pastors, y'all wearing choir robes. You're wearing choir robes. Well, we had a certain color we had choir pick out. We all want to wear this certain color. Nope, you're wearing choir robes. You know why? Because some of you guys, as we said, some of you all are getting a little bit too careless with your clothing. There are men, married and single, who notice your body. Let's go back to the Bible. We tend to do that here on this channel. The Bible says this in chapter eight, verse 13 of 1 Corinthians Paul says, therefore if food or meat causes your brother to stumble, then I will never eat meat again so that I will not cause my brother to stumble. Can some of you ladies stop dangling meat in front of these brothers? Stop. You've got your stuff halfway out and stuff fitting. Again, nothing left to the imagination. They see it all. It becomes a stumbling block. It does. In all seriousness, it becomes a stumbling block. And I know people will say, well, it's harder and harder to find certain clothes to wear. I was buying that too. I was thinking that too. Wow, it's getting harder and harder. No, it's not. No, it's not. I've seen the clothing that they have out there. Now, is there more of an assortment of the tighter, more sexier clothes, the clothes that are trying to be set? Yeah, there's more of those to choose from. But there are clothes out there that women can wear where they don't have to show everything. You wear a size eight, well, you ain't gotta wear a size seven. Get you a size nine or 10. Get some of those little fit, you know. You don't have to have the tightest. By the way, let me ask you all a question. Y'all tell me, do y'all think that maybe some of y'all, now this is old school, but still new school, young ladies are wearing this now, but would you ladies wear this? I think she looks nice with the little dress. I think she looks nice. Matter of fact, she is all season, whether it's the 50s, 60s, 90s, 2000, 2020. Looks nice. But now y'all tell me this, is this appropriate? I don't know. Would y'all say that's probably borderline? I don't know. I don't know. At first glance, the young lady, at first glance, it ain't too bad. It ain't too bad until she turns around. We're adults here. We're adults here. Cause she's not gonna just space you and then when she leaves, just walk backwards. She's gotta turn around. She's gotta turn around and then you'll see the shape of her behind. And so dog on it, the boy's looking again. It's cute. She's cute. And I wonder if she knows that she's cute with looser fitting clothes as well. An attractive woman, I'll never forget, somebody asked me, hey, would you date that girl right there? No. Why? That girl is fine. No. Why? Cause she's one, she's too high made and she's too pretty and she thinks she is. It's not the fact that she's too pretty is that she thinks she is. And she wants to be pretty everybody. And she wants to show off stuff. Nope. Not the headache that I want. Sorry. Sorry. You don't have to do all these things with your clothing to get a man. Now you can do those things to get a male. You do things with your clothing to get a male. But to get a man, he's gonna see past the clothing. He is. Listen, I promise you, if you don't believe me, do the experiment. Go find you, if you're a young lady, go find you five men and do the experiment. The Mary and Terry experiment. Two twin sisters, built the same, looked the same. One of them's got on real tight fitting clothing and the other one's got on conservative, looser fitting clothing and ask them which one would they want to marry. They're gonna, which one I think is more attractive? The one who has the more conservative look. Cause no, cause I promise you, no man, no man, no real man wants his woman with her stuff all out there. Yeah, no, no real man. I don't understand some of these, some of these famous people who got famous wives who their wives are out there. No, no, no, I wish, I wish you would. We didn't listen. God don't hate divorce, but I'll tell you what, we're not doing that. We're not doing that. We are not. No ma'am sweetheart, my children want you won't. You've got to set an example. And that's the issues. Matter of fact, let's put up a pretty interesting passage that I think is applicable and apropos for here. This is first Peter 3-3. He says, matter of fact, let's do it. Let's start in verse one. He says, in the same way you wives be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, check this out. They may be one without a word by the behavior of their wives. Look what he says. He says, as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. Huh, interesting. Look what he says, verse three. Your adornment must not merely be external braiding the hair and wearing gold jewelry. Which by the way, that goes back to the past. That's how we know that braided hair wasn't necessarily a sin. It was just for that culture because he said, y'all braiding your hair, that's not the issue. He says, be pretty on the inside is what he said. He said, your adornment must not be merely external braiding the hair and wearing gold jewelry or putting on dresses. But look what he says. But let it be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit which is precious in the sight of God. So this is how Peter says women be that way. Even if you're married and you got some rascal, some jerk husband who's acting up, be that godly woman not just on the outside but on the inside. Be beautiful and pretty on the inside. Either come outside and watch and God is saying, watch what it does for him. Watch what it does for him. But if you're forcing it, have you ever seen a woman just forcing it with her mouth, with her attitude but then also with her clothes? Now you've got 50 year old women who, baby. 60 year old women, 60 year old woman, 70 year old woman, I still got it. No, you don't, no, you don't. I can promise you, I can promise you, no, you don't. Diane Carroll was a nice looking lady, even late into her life but she didn't still have it like she did when she was 20. Like when she was, she just looked, now she did look pretty good for her age but listen, you 70 years old, no, you ain't got it. You ain't, you ain't still got it. I can promise you that. Matter of fact, here's how we know you ain't got it. Go to the club with the 20 year olds. I bet ain't nobody picking you up. So now you pull up, now if you pull up in a Maybach or Ferrari, you might get your young fella in, okay. But I can promise you, be your age. Let the main thing be the main thing. Let the best qualities about you be what's exhibited. But some of you ladies taking these pictures where you turn to the side, where they can see a little rump and see your chest, it's not good. That's not a good look. Pictures where you're behind, where you got your back, your backside showing you got your head turned. Who told you that was pretty? That, this is a word I've never said on a smart Christian channel, but that is slutty. That it just is. No man thought that, hmm, that's my wife right there. That's my, look it, that's my bed. There goes my baby. No, no, no, no, that's, that's, you know what? Hey man, hey man, I like that. He said my wife still got it Corey at 30, 40 feet. She still, you better say that. You better say that. But you tell me though, for real though, nobody else's wife still got it at 70. And that's my point. You better say that. She better, she better light your fire from the time that you die. Y'all both 90 years old. You like Abraham and Sarah when they said, come on, let's go make Isaac. Again, this is adults. We're adults here. I know Scott, you look too young. Close your ears, Scott. Is Rashaan here? Oh, Rashaan's at work. Rashaan, when you listen to this, you look too young, so just, but let's just be honest though. Let's just be honest though. Your fit itself, where things are, you know, arms and abs and all that stuff is just tight and stuff like that. That was reserved. Now you're getting older. Let the better qualities come out. I'll never forget this. I saw this, I thought this, I was 30. 30, 32, 33, 34. I was in my office and I was talking to the guy that was over our mortgage department. And we just had a nice gentlemen talk. We were talking about some lady, I won't say her name, that is a good looking woman. I was like, we saw something, something's on TV or whatever. I was like, that's a good looking woman. She was older and I said, man, ain't nothing, I said, that's a good looking woman, older woman. That's really, it was just the way she cared herself. She didn't have the finest body. She didn't have the biggest breast, the best looking body. No, no, but it was just something about her. It was just smooth and cool about her. Then he says something that kind of turned me off. At the time he said, yeah, I like him older. About 50, 55, my thought was, ugh. Now, again, I'm 30, 32, 33. Now I'm this age, ain't nothing wrong with a 50 year old woman, nothing wrong. That's my speed right there. But when I was 30, I was thinking more like 40. I wouldn't, but the point was, she was a mature woman. She looked a certain way. She cared herself a certain way. Wouldn't that be cool if a girl is pretty, but carried herself like the 40 year old? Not like the 40 year olds that we see today who wanna be 20, who wanna dress like they're 20, who wanna show it off. No, not like them. No, I'm talking about back in the day. You know how your mama, well, I shouldn't say that, because somebody's mama wouldn't. But how the stereotypical mother from the 80s or 70s or 60s or 50s were, right? I'm not saying you gotta be like, you gotta dress like June Cleaver, you know, with the dress on and so forth and the pearls. Do they even still have pearls today? I don't know. I have not seen a woman with pearls on. Now they don't have pearls around the neck. They got them on the teeth. They got, you know, a little bit. Y'all gonna wake up one day and like, ah, all this stuff I got on, stuff that I've done to my skin with all the tech. If they had a stock, a company, all they did was do tattoo removal, invest in that. Cause they're gonna be a lot of Claire Huxway, man. They're gonna be a lot of people in line to get there. You got, you wear pearls? Okay. You were way too young to be wearing pearls. Well, they brought pearls back. Okay. Okay. You are too. Okay. Well, Dinah, you're not old, but you're getting up. You're older than she is. I'm picking on y'all. Carol, do you have pearls? We wanna know. Do you have pearls? Who has, which one are you? So apparently I'm off. Which one of you ladies have, you ladies have pearls? Okay. Paul, she said I have pearls. Okay. Well, lay man. I think pearls are classy personally. I think pearls are classy. That's just me. Everybody came wear pearls. Right? Everybody came wear pearls just like everybody came wear a ball head. So. Brianna, she said I don't know pearls. Well, you are kind of young, aren't you Brianna? Yeah. Yeah. You get older. Diamonds and pearls. Don't do that. Now you got me thinking about Prince. What's the latest thing that song? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're too young for pearls. It's okay though. It's okay. But ladies, you have got to, you have got to go for attractiveness rather than sexy. Because if you're attractive, somebody with some sense is gonna think your attractiveness is sexy. This is somebody with me. Trying to just be you. And by the way, how do you project attractiveness being the best you, the godly you? Now let me say this to the fellas real quick before I finish with the ladies. Let me go go to the fellas. I was speaking before a bunch of men and the ladies contestified this. So fellas, y'all pay attention to what the ladies in the chat say. You guys that come back and watch this later, you all are struggling, you all you doing the dumbest thing possible and going looking out for the, for the Kevin Samuels of the world or what's it, the tape guy, whatever who's, y'all listen these guys, these guys are weak and horrible. These guys are weak. These guys are, listen, before he died, I'm not trying to speak ill of the dead, but he was weak when he was alive. The Andrew Tate, he said some truthful stuff, but weak, weak. I said it. He might be a whoop me. I know he was an actual MMA person, but that's okay though. I gotta stick for him. Weak. These guys is going around telling you what a, listen, I don't know who, when did it happen to where men had to come and do what, what's happened to us as fellas? I don't know. I don't know. But I made this statement and I'm talking about real, not this fake manufacturer stuff because lesser men, lesser men, or I should say lesser males, get bothered by what I'm gonna tell you guys. Listen, let me, let me where, where my cup, there it is. Let me get my coffee. Fellas, I'm about to give you the game. As they say, are you, are you paying attention? Especially you single men use, I'm getting ready to give you the game. Single ladies are gonna agree with this. Married ladies will definitely agree. All ladies will agree with this. Pretty confident me to say this. I'm about to give you the game. Let me, let me drink my coffee from my official Bureau of Prison cup. What a woman wants. The most sexy thing that you can find in a man. Are you ready? It's a two-parter, but I'll give you the first part. The most sexy attribute that a man can have. I almost need a drum roll. The most sexy, and people are like, hurry up man, tell him. The most sexy attribute that a man can have turns the ladies on. Even the ones that don't know it is to be godly. I just said something. Listen, if we were in church, the organ would be going, I'd pass a second offering. I don't even believe in tides. We take up tides right there. If, listen, if you are godly, if you're godly and you walk in the room and that godly persona comes through with you and it will, if you're really godly, women notice it. You know what else notice it fellas? Cause we're always in competition. Men do too. I don't, listen, I ain't the biggest and the baddest. I might be the baddest, I think I am. I kind of think I am, which gets me in trouble sometimes. But when I walk in the room, you know who I am. That's why I said, yeah, if you invite me to a, to a game, and I ain't nobody, ain't nobody invited me to a game with because they know what's gonna happen. But if you do, I'm coming and you getting all of me. Because you know what a godly man also has? A real godly man, which makes lesser males bow down and makes every other woman, including women who aren't their wives notice. Confidence that comes from that godliness. Yeah, there was a old, it was a commercial, a colonial commercial and Charlton Heston was in and he said, and he put, I think, I don't know what it was, must or something, I don't know. And he says, confidence is sexy, don't you think? Well, the confidence that exudes from being godly, because you, and the reason why you're confident, cause you know who you are, you know who you belong to. And you're not trying to, you're not trying to impress anybody. You're just being you. There's a quiet confidence about you. You're not trying to, you're not fake about it. You're not trying to be the, you're not trying to show anybody up. Lesser males notice that. It bothers them too. As a matter of fact, they may even want to try you. They may want to, you know, come up and melt. The reason why, cause they see something in you. They see something in you. And they'll talk trash, they'll talk noise. You just keep on moving. Okay, whatever. I get called all kinds of names. Get called all kinds of names. All right, fine. That's what you feel, young brother? And do you know what? Younger guys hate this. I don't do it to be belittling. I do it because I'm there now. But when I just kind of don't give, when I don't give the young folks what they're looking for and then say, no, I'm a good young brother, that young brother cuts them. When I call the 30 year old young brother, yeah, don't worry about the young brother. Oh, it's like I said something about his mama. It's like I said something about his mama. Cause guess what? I'm not worried about you. Listen, unless you pay in the bills, unless my wife looks up to you, I'm not worried about it. I'm good. I've got this confidence based on where God has put me. I don't try to dress a certain way. I don't try to put on airs. I'm not trying to show off. I'm not trying to wear a tight shirt. I'm not all over the, what do you call it, the Facebook and stuff like that? And it, and showing pictures of me and this and that. Let me just get y'all some game. Men stop doing that. That's not what males mean. That's not what men do. Boys do that. Boys want to be seen. Men are to be seen by boys. Don't do that. Do not get your face off of Facebook and all. Stop that. I'm giving you guys some game. I told you, yeah, you're right. I let off earlier, no skinny jeans. Being safe, repent of the skinny jeans. In the name of Jesus. I cannot buy, I said, bye, bye, bye. Yeah, there's my tones for you Pentecostal folks. No skinny jeans. We rebuke that in the name of Jesus. Also, just find Christ. That's where your confidence comes from. That's where your modesty comes from, fellas. Cause what's happening is, let's just be real. A lot of you guys are the reason why you got these ladies out here acting like just idiots. Fools, silliness, stupid. I'm being, I'm being harsh, but I'm being God. I'm being real because they're trying to follow you. They're trying to figure out what does this man want? He wants my breasts out. Okay. He wants to see me backing it up. He wants to see me twerking. Baby, if you got a twerk for it, you don't want it. I can promise you that. Some of y'all don't need to be twerking anyway. You pass your prime. I've seen some, I shouldn't have said that. Say more. I should not, scratch that. Y'all didn't hear me say that. Y'all didn't hear me say that, but yeah. Some of y'all, it's pass your prime, it's pass your prime. Act like it. But fellas can help the ladies out. Ladies, you can help the fellas out. Dress the right way. Take care of yourself the right way. Some of you all know what you look like cause they had a woman in the world that didn't have a mirror or two or five or 30. You got a mirror, you look at a mirror. You're always looking at something. And so all you need to do is just be presentable. That's all, that's all. Now, if you want to accentuate something, this is for males and females in order to be the most attractive you possible. Now I'm gonna give y'all some extra game. This is extra credit. This is bonus points for males and females. And by the way, did I see a person named Mark Rogers? Man, listen. I just saw Mark Rogers and I had to do a double take. I thought there was a U.S. on the internet, Mark. Okay, I'm just messing with you, brother. But I might give y'all some bonus points, some bonus. This is how you can make yourself be your most attractive self. This is how you, oh, we are not the same. Hey, that's what he said, he said we are not the same. I put the emphasis on the not for you, brother. He said we are not the same. But I'm gonna give you a bonus, guys. This is how you can make yourself look really, really attractive. Especially you guys that are single. But guess what? Even married people, even folks in their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, you still want to look, everybody wants to look nice. Some folks have just given up on looking nice. Some folks have said, yeah, it's just beyond me. I'm not even trying to look nice. Okay, fine. But everybody wants to look nice. Let me help you out. I'm gonna give you something that you can accentuate, that you can magnify to make yourself look more attractive. Let's go to the Bible. Paul says, here he is. He says, whether you either drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. Look what he says, give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God, just as I also please all men and all things. Look what he says, not seeking my own profit, but to profit the many so that the many can be saved. Corey, how does that fit what you're saying? Well, he says, whether you eat or drink, whatever you do, do it to the glory of God. So when you go in and you're in the mirror and you're fixing your hair and you're putting your clothes on, make sure that you're accentuating yourself to glorify God. If what you're wearing does not glorify God or take away from, and that may be the issue right there. Maybe you can't tell if it's glorifying God, but if it takes away from glorifying God, then you've just gotten your answer should I wear this or not. Does this make me look fat? Does this, no. You need to do everything that, I told y'all in a short, are you too short, that this was the most complete verse. Whatever you do, do to the glory of God. He even said, why so? So that verse 33, so that many may be saved. And so if you are accentuating him, you know what he's gonna in turn do? The same towards you. You looking for a male, he'll take care of that. He knows what you need before you even ask it. But your focus has been on him and magnifying him. He got you. You single ladies, he's got you. Single males, he's got you. You don't have to go and do dire things. Things that are just kind of, you don't have to go and do things that are really frustrating to your psyche. You don't have to go and do things that you just otherwise wouldn't do because you're becoming desperate. You're 40 years. I was one of the saddest stories I've seen. I do pray for her. My favorite perfume is Bengay. Stop it, Proverbs. Although Bengay has helped out a lot though. But I saw the story of this lady, pretty young lady. Well, she's not young anymore. She's 10 years, yeah, about 10 years or so younger than me. The girl, I could call her a girl, Lolo Jones. It's just a sad story. She's trying too hard. She is literally, it's sad. Before your face, you see her trying too. She's a pretty young lady. Single, if I'm correct, she's still a virgin. Guys would be knocking that, and I don't know what she's doing, what she's like. She might be just bonkers and batty. I don't know what's happening there. But I see her trying too hard. Sweetheart, you don't have to do all that. You really don't. Because she says she's a Christian, let that be it. Get off this social media stuff. Because listen, you might find you a man through social media. I'm not knocking that, but just be you. Be present at church. Be involved. Let the Lord use you and then see what happens. See what happens. And I see a lot of people, male and female, going down that route. And it's never worked. It's never worked. Advertising yourself and thinking that you've got to go out and sleep your way to the top and find somebody that way. Giving up the goods before time. No, no, no. Listen, it's not an issue of quantity. It's a quality issue. Again, we talked about it before. Ford and Chevy and Jeep and Mercury, they advertise. But Ferrari doesn't. Rolls Royce, they don't. They don't have it. You don't have it in the newspaper. They're not trying to sell the most. Their issue is quality. And what you'll never see is a Rolls Royce at the junkyard. But you'll see a Ford there. You'll see a Chevy there. Chevy's got a huge, a large body count. Yeah. That's something we haven't talked about. Because you're being sexy. And then, of course, what naturally comes with that is these people that you're with. Let me tell you all a story. What happens, because you dress sexy, then you dress sexy, you'll end up having sex. And what happens is this, and this is why people are so messed up. You ever wonder why the people are so jacked up out there? Let me tell you one of my theories. This is a theory. I don't have a Bible verse for this. I don't think I do. I might, if I just slow down, I might be able to find one. But I'll give you something that you all know of because you've all done this before. You take a piece of paper, take a red piece of construction paper, and let's take a blue piece of construction paper. Take some Elmer's glue and put it on that red piece of construction paper. Take it and put it together with that other piece of paper. Pull it apart quickly. Nothing. Some of the glue from the red is now on the blue paper. Do it again. Pull it apart. Now, the glue is starting to harden. But some of that glue from here is still over there. And then some of the original glue that was on the blue paper is back on the red. Do it again. Take it apart. Now you're gonna start seeing some little bit of red paper on that blue paper and a little bit of blue paper on that red paper. Vice versa. Do it again. Pull it apart. Now you got chunks and pieces of each paper on the other. You got a little bit of this rotten jerk in and on you. And then a lot of you left with this person. And for some reason in your mind, you thought that that went so well that time. Let's repeat it again. Do it with the next guy or with the next girl. That didn't work out. Let's do it again. That didn't work out. Let's do it again. That didn't work out. Well, let's do it again. Eventually it's gonna stick. No it doesn't. No it doesn't. We are horrible at picking maize. We really are. We really are. Especially if we go about doing it the worldly way. Sleeping your way through. That typically doesn't work. As a matter of fact, you got a bunch of kids and more heartaches than you can count because of that. Stop it. Stop it. You gave your heart to this person and guys do the same thing too. It's a misnomer to think that guys don't fall in love and get their hearts broken. They do. They just try to act macho about it and then do even dumber stuff afterwards. So the issue is going to be guys, just wait, just chill out. Folks, do that passage again first. If you don't have a favorite verse, allow me to give you my favorite verse as your favorite verse. First Corinthians 10, 31. And then follow it with 32 and 33. But whether you eat or drink, whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God. So whatever clothes you put on, the sexy dress, does the sexy dress give glory to God? No. Do the skinny jeans. I wanna say blank, no, it don't give glory to God. Never in the history. Matter of fact, I'm almost a Mr. Devil. The devil even wants you wearing skinny jeans. Nobody likes skinny jeans. Except for folks in America. Never bothered to say something. But whatever you do, do it all to the... Can y'all tell I really don't like skinny jeans? I don't understand it. I just, I don't... Listen, I went to prison. We didn't have skinny jeans before I went to prison. I come back and guys have lost their mind. I feel like my two ministries in life are to spread the gospel and to get rid of skinny jeans. And to also let folks know that, to let folks know that almond milk and oat milk is an abomination to the Lord. Those are my three things. The gospel, skinny jeans, and no almond or oat milk. That's it. Oh, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. And preach the cults. Whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God. You single, be single to the glory of God. You're dating somebody, it better be to the glory of God. The clothes you put on, guess what? The hair, he said whether you eat or drink, those are things we take for granted. Do it to the glory of God. Dude, how do you do that to the glory of God? Well, you're not causing or bringing attention to yourself. You're not trying to show off your breasts. You're not trying to show off your behind. You're not trying to show off your legs. You're not trying to, you know, look at how she looks. No, do it all to the glory of God because he's looking. Somebody said, what's wrong with almond milk? He says that he's gonna take the children into a land flowing of milk and honey. That's cow milk. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. No, I'm not, no I'm not. I'm not stealing your verse, buddy. And take your hat off. Take your hat off in here. Show your bald head. But anyway, yeah, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Wait a second, guys. But we have an intervention. We gotta do it, yeah, it ain't necessarily gotta, we gotta, we gotta cast a demon. She said, I hope I just, you said, no, why, you. Maybe skinny jeans for ladies. But for men, no Tamara, no, sweet, listen, listen. If you guys are, if you're single and the guy that you're dating or you're interested in wearing skinny jeans, just tell him, brother Corey said, I can't see you anymore. I can't see you anymore. He says, why, why, why? Just tell him, it's not me. I mean, it's not you as me. I just can't date anybody with skinny jeans. And he probably doesn't know his Bible. He doesn't know his Bible anyway. Just tell him this in First Hezakai. First Hezakai clearly tells us not to wear skinny jeans. He's like, he's gonna go buy a Bible and look for First Hezakai. Yeah, the eyelashes too. By the way, by the way, by the way, by the way ladies, no man ever thought or said that the longer your fingernails or eyelashes get the more sexier you become. That is, I don't know what, what, where y'all get that from, I don't know a man on the plane like, yeah, those long fingernails just do something for me. Or those ridiculously long thick eyebrows and eyelashes. Yeah, got me. No, no. That's all, I don't know where I get that from, but hey, listen, if it floats your boat, amen, I'm not on that yet. I'm on skinny jeans. So, yeah, let me see, he said facts. Yeah, wait, I ain't no. I told you we were gonna have some fun tonight, but we're also being serious. We're also being serious. Yeah, yeah. You know, I thought about that too, Seiko. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And now you got men, now you got men who are, now you have men who are putting makeup on, almost had a tear come out for the fellas who are doing their eyebrows and fixing their eyebrows. Now my daughter, she'll fix her eyebrows. She didn't like the eyebrows that I gave her. She didn't like my eyebrows. She wanted them, okay, fine, she's a girl. But you got guys that are doing that and putting eyeliner on and putting foundation on you. You know what, I'm sorry, in the name of Jesus, you sissy, stop that. Stop it. Wow. That was something that the Bible didn't even have to address you putting makeup on and you were, oh, wow. Fellas, am I by myself on this? Am I by myself on this? That, yeah, kneeling, that's just, but men are doing that. Men are doing that. Listen, I'm cool with men taking care of their hands and so forth. Now me, I got, listen, I think a brother needs to have some calcium somewhere. I think a brother needs to have some calcium somewhere. Me, I got some calcium. I'm cool with it. I probably, you know, get you a file and move with my little file. I'll keep my little, there it is. Listen, let your little calcium girl get you a little file and just, you know, send you a little, send you a little, yeah, you never seen that on, first time on YouTube, somebody's calcium. And when a man supposed to have some calcium somewhere, my daddy would have slapped me if I had no calcium somewhere. Listen, if you ain't working out there on the field, then go pick up some weights or something, something. But you sitting there doing your eyelashes and plucking, and whatever happened to the good old days where men were men. I'm talking about me, just, and so now these boys are looking up at these men and that's what they look up to, you know? Nope, nope. I'm not saying you gotta be some rough and tumble guy, but you don't have to be some dainty female either. That's the problem. And so now you cause confusion in the land. Preach to Jimmer say, I wish he'd listened to me. I wish he'd listened to me. So, yeah, see, it's the way it is. The world has gone, but listen, all I can say is, now I'm gonna say this on my way out the door. Anybody out there single, I'm gonna give you a guaranteed tip. Yeah, we got preachers with perms. That's, yeah, Nicole, we got, I mean, Nicholas, we got preachers with perms. Let me give you all a tip if you're single, is to help you. Cause you wanna stand out. I get it, I get it. You ladies dress a certain way so that it can be attention grabbing. You can stand out. Fellas, you the same way too. Let me tell you how you can stand out since you wanna stand out. I said, at what age did I start to lose my hair? I was born bald. Yeah, I came in the world with no hair. And no, I'm kidding. When did I lose my hair? When did God bless me to get rid of all that excess fluff, all that nonsense up top? God blessed me to get rid of his hair. Lord, wow, 30, no, 38, 39, I don't know. Oh wait, let me see, hold on, I can take exactly what it was. It was 2000 and you got me off topic. That means it was, okay, yeah, I was 37, 38, 38, 38. I should remember that day cause it was the day the heavens opened up, the sun shined on me and poof. I was clean. I was clean. There we go. There we go. Love my bald hair too. Hey man, everybody can't wear bald hair. Everybody can't wear bald hair. Yeah, they take a real man to be able to go without no hair. Some of you guys were here, you'll learn that one day. Anyway. But let me tell you something, listen, I don't know why no one has told you this. I don't know why no one has told you single people this. Cause this works. Everybody is racing, trying to figure out all these different types of things to do to stand out, to stick out. You're gonna thank me when I tell you this, all you single people, if you try this, it's gonna work. If you try it, you are blessed. You bless with art, you bless. Man with no hair, no hair. Let me tell you how you can stick out if you single. Be godly, it all comes back to this. You know why? Ain't nobody else being godly. Ain't nobody else being godly. So if you're godly, he'll notice it. Something, there's something about her. What is it? And he just talked about how these women with their husbands, if they are chased and respectable and adorn themselves a certain way, it wins that man. It'll win this other man who's looking for a woman. You wanna stick out, don't be like the world. If you wanna stick out, don't be like the world. You're not gonna stick out in a sea full of eight billion people acting just like them. But if you're different, and I mean in a godly sense, people will notice that. When men go to church and they see all these women, they can see which women are the godly, at least look godly. Yeah, those ladies that were shouting at the beginning, these ladies, yeah, or this lady singing, they don't stick out. They look like every other little girl, young lady, whatever, walking down, they look exact like them. But the lady that's just reserved, she sticks out. She does. So anyway, this has been fun. This has been fun. I thought I'd get in some trouble. Again, I left some stuff on the chopping board, some other videos that I thought, yeah, I can't do it. I can't do it. People get upset with me. There was some stuff that cut some videos and some images that might've been too much, kind of cutting, you know, kind of, you know. So, these are, they stick out all right. So anyway, guys, ladies, gentlemen, I hope this has been good for you. I had fun. I had fun. Tomorrow, tomorrow's gonna be a bit controversial. I'll let you just see the thumbnail later on. But tomorrow's, tomorrow is going to be controversial. It's gonna be, so y'all get it with your popcorn, with your opinions. Some of y'all gonna disagree. Some of y'all gonna agree. But anyway, y'all make sure, y'all make sure, y'all go get y'all some cereal with some cow milk. Eat you, you fellas. Y'all need to go back and eat some TV dinners. Brianna, you don't know what this is, Brianna. You're too young. CG, CG New Creation, you're too young too. Lisa and Bonnie, Bonnie knows what this is. Bonnie, you know what TV dinner is. Wendy, you know what TV dinner is. TV dinner, y'all don't remember these old metal plates that you didn't put in the microwave because we didn't have microwaves, you put it in oven. It took 35 minutes, 40 minutes to heat that thing up. You could have made a whole meal with this TV dinner. You could, yeah. And they have Hungry Man, Hungry Man TV dinners. You ladies go feed it to your husband. They don't even sell them anymore. They haven't been in prison. They taste horrible in prison. But you gotta eat, listen, that'll put some hair on his chest right there at TV dinner. It's got some vegetables in it. I'm not sure if they've vegetables grown or not. It's got some meat, some kind of meat. Probably it's some meat. I don't know what kind of animal, but they'll call it beef. Let's just say it's beef. And it's gonna have a dessert in it that is not very sweet. Eat that bad boy. Yeah, if he had on skinny jeans, he won't then. Yeah, give your man who got on skinny jeans, give him an old-fashioned TV dinner. Watch him, watch him toughen up. He gonna go bald right there before your eyes. Muscles start popping out. He's gonna just all of a sudden grow calluses. If he's got some eyelashes on, he'll pop off. Yeah, that's what's gonna happen if you give your man a TV dinner. Anyway, I'm kidding guys. I'm having too much fun. My wife is working late tonight. She had to do something. And so the kids have left. So it's just me. It's just me. So anyway, I gotta go ahead and get ready for a few other things. You guys, wait a second, wait a second, wait a second. There was somebody though at the very beginning. And I'm sorry, I almost forgot. I almost, actually I did forget. I did forget. Who was, Kyle, that's right, I'm sorry. Kyle was at you, then you asked for prayer. So let's do this guys. Yeah, that is. Kyle says, if you don't mind me saying it, he says he's been battling Lyme disease for two years. And so before we go, let's do the most godly thing that we can do since we don't have the ability but we know somebody who does. If y'all will, let's just go ahead and we're not gonna pray for Kyle. We're gonna pray with Kyle, amen? So God, we ask you Lord that with you, with your healing hands, would you touch Kyle's body? God, we would ask and even prefer that you would heal him. But even now, we would even take that you would just comfort him. Father, that he would get over whatever the symptoms are, that whatever medicine is taken or whatever doctors prescribe, whatever they're doing, Lord God, that you would govern his body, govern his health. And Father, if you choose not to heal, Lord God, I don't know the situation. I don't know the difficulties behind it. But Father, we pray that even through it that you give him glory or that you would even give comfort to his family around him. And that everyone would know that you are involved. So I pray your blessings upon him in Jesus' name, amen. All right, guys, this has been real. On our way out the door. I've already shaved my head for the day. I'm about to go shave it again. Why not? You can't, you can never be too bald, amen.