 Hot shoes seven. Yes. Y'all got on my pink. We got my Halloween. Y'all it's close to Halloween. So I just broke out everything, okay, so Today, I'm gonna talk to you everyone about men and women shoot one. You know about All these okay, I remember back in the 90s When all the music was about, you know, money over women money over bitches MOB these stoop dog gangsta rap, you know Stuff like that, right? And you know women back then they were they were like, you know, the music was good They liked the tune but men were treating women bad like pieces of property like nothing, you know so Fast-forward 10 years later Into the 2000s now you have these women who don't really care for men But just want to use them and you wonder what happened. Yes Music and pop culture has a lot to do with what happened and why women are treating men the way that they're treating them now Like disposable like a wallet like an ATM because if you haven't noticed back in the day That's how we were treated like a piece of property like nothing all that was valuable on us was, you know Our sexual organs and the way that we looked, you know, we were a status symbol. We were property. We were this we were that so Women, you know, we didn't really like that but you know pop culture rappers singers or whatever they popularized that and Men started really treating women like that, you know so you kind of reap what you sow and This is what the product is, you know, we don't understand why You would follow That type of mentality when you knew that eventually the pendulum is gonna swing back the opposite way You already know that that's what's gonna happen. You know once you Do there's a cop. There's an effect to every Action so we already know that so Fast forward years later now the woman only wants the man for money They're not seeing them as a person anymore They're just saying okay. Well, how can you improve my life make my life better? Give me things that I want because obviously love has nothing to do with it anymore. You know what I'm saying now if you fall in love with someone and Everything is beautiful But they lack certain things You're gonna easily fall out of love with that person quick, right? So guys if you want a woman to truly love you for who you are you can't be lacking in other areas Okay, you have to be the package. Okay, you can't be like, oh, I'm the sweetest kindest most romantic person But I'm broke so you gotta pay. No, you can't have any lack You have to either be very balanced across the board or you know It's not gonna last very long now You don't have to be rich like I I am no way saying that Girls have to marry rich men. You just have to be stable. You can't be needy. You can't be asking her for stuff You know what I'm saying and if you want an even higher quality woman You're gonna have to pay for her, you know her lifestyle the bills and stuff. I'm trying to pick up something You're gonna have to pick up her End, you know, y'all are gonna be living together Anyway, so you're gonna need to pay most of the bills because you're the man men already typically make more money than women so Men should have to pay the bills because once the woman moves in y'all get married y'all have kids She's gonna have to do more work. If you know what I mean. Okay, so It's just Balance is out. It just balances out if you're a man and you can't take care of your family Then you don't need one. I know a lot of people are saying well I'm never gonna get married and have kids anyway, so it doesn't matter Well, that's good because you recognize the fact that you can't afford a family and you don't want to actually work to have a family but some people do and The people that do need to understand That a woman is not going to stick around long if things are not in balance. Do you know what I mean? They're not going to stick around long They're going to try to upgrade because they're not comfortable anymore and women seek comfort by nature So if the situation is uncomfortable to someone they're not going to stay in it very long so you're You know your main concern as a man is keep your woman comfortable emotionally Physically, you know financially you can't just expect someone to suffer with you, you know when they weren't suffering before they met you so, um It's just like your child if you had a child and y'all were um poor And your child was like mom. I gotta move out. I gotta do better. I'm gonna go get a job I'm gonna go do better than you because I can't live in this environment You're not gonna stop her and say hey You love me. You'll stay with me no matter what, you know, you you're gonna stay with me And and suffer with me if you really love no, you're gonna say go do better because I do love you and I don't want this for you You know any man that tries to trap a woman in poverty and say if you don't if you love me You'll stay with me and suffer or build with me or help me It's holding her back because she doesn't need you to succeed Do you understand she can go out there and do whatever she needs to do and and come out better Most men who don't have anything going for themselves pull women down. They pull them down. They're like, you know what? I'm gonna drag you down since I can't get up now. We're on the same level. No Don't let any man drag you down if no man Approaches you and you're still good fine, you know, but don't go with a guy So he can drag you down. Okay a lot of people have gone through this I have seen so many women who are on top of their game on top of their life had their life together And now they're sitting at the bus stop with their boyfriend You know, it's not it's not cute. Okay, and every time I drive on the bus stop I'm getting I'm getting sick of tired of y'all sitting at the bus stop And clothes more expensive than mine, but don't have no car. That is just Sad you need to get your priorities together and I'm talking about People that are wearing $200 shoes, you know, uh, sitting at the bus stop Okay, that's a car note. You can save if you can buy all that all those clothes you can save. Okay I'm just I'm just tired of seeing it and it's just sad and and also I'm tired of seeing So this is gonna be a rant y'all this This is what else I'm tired of seeing. I'm tired of seeing ratchet women on instagram And all these tight clothes flawless makeup and wigs and I'm tired of seeing y'all's dirty room in the background I'm tired of seeing y'all kid and a diaper in the background and If you can afford mac makeup Remi hair wigs you can afford cleaning products and clothes for your child. Okay. Yes I'm calling everyone out today because I'm just sick of tired of seeing it. Okay I'm just tired All right, you know, if you can afford the best nail jewelry and nail bling and lipstick and this this this and that but your kid is uh Lacking you're a bad parent. Okay. You need to get it together No man respects a woman who does not take care of their child A lot of women are like, well, I have kids and can I get a man if you take care of your children and love your children And they see that you're a good parent and you're not out in the street You know giving your kid to whoever will babysit it every weekend and you're just out there like that Nobody else gonna respect you as a real parent You know, that's y'all need to get it together. Uh, I might look ratchet right now But my mind is not ratchet and my life is not ratchet. This is a costume. Okay. This is not my life I have respect For myself my children and I understand that my life decisions Will affect the rest of their lives. Okay So ladies y'all need to think about that men y'all need to think about You know your priorities if you're not financially stable don't you don't need to be dating You don't need to be trying to get a wife. You don't need to be looking for none of that You need to be looking for a better job A career a trade a skill y'all are just not Getting it. Okay in 10 years When men turn over 40 and they don't have anything going for themselves They look like pathetic losers and I'm not I'm not just I'm not just saying this But y'all look really bad y'all look y'all might as well just be homeless Okay, because if you don't have anything going for yourself by 40 and you're a grown man You might as well be homeless because that's how women look at you like a bum. Okay So y'all get it together. I'm just I'm just giving tough love because sometimes people need to hear this Sometimes people need to hear That they can do better, you know, everyone has the potential to do better Everyone has initiative. Everyone has drive, you know, even if you don't have an education you could get up and go You know work and and save even if you don't have you know, this or that A lot of people create a job, you know, a lot of people you can't find a job make a job You have a you have some type of talent or skill or something that you can do to earn money, you know It's just some people are just too lazy to even sit there and think about how they can earn money Uh I can tell you I know so many people who have started their own business online In in this day of technology, you can start a business for less than 200 dollars. Okay Less than a pair of Jordans. You can start a business online a profit Okay, you don't have you don't have an excuse anymore. Your excuse is you only you can save yourself and get out of that Okay, uh, even guys with money Are making fun of these broke guys You know Listen to all the rap now. They're no longer talking bad about women hardly. They're talking bad about broke men Grown men with money are now talking about broke men. Okay. Listen to the music Okay, they're they're targeting you and y'all are steady sitting. They're listening to it talking about. Oh, yeah, I drive a bugatti and at the bus stop seriously Oh, my favorite rapper is this is that but he's making fun of you too. He's talking about broke niggas broke men, you know, uh You're not on my level. You're not in my frequency. You're not in my range. You know, I'm my radar. You ain't my radar And you like it, but they're talking about you You know my side chick better look better than your main chick my side chick at your league my main chick out your league Listen to the music Uh, they're talking about Y'all's women low class women. They're talking about how broke y'all are and y'all still like their music If that were me, I'd be like, you know what? I'm not gonna be broke for long You know, y'all not gonna sit here and talk about me and get my money But seriously You know, I mean we need to do better people in general Um, I could talk because I have done better I can talk because I don't you know, I didn't settle for less I can talk because I've been Through it. I've dated broke guys before and I and I wouldn't settle. I'm like, no, you don't need to do better than this. Okay No, okay, um it's like You're And in high school and you're dating you're dating someone in your grade level, right? You know, it's time for grad, you know, it's time for the next grade level. You go to the 10th grade. They stay in the 9th grade Okay. Oh, baby. It's okay. You just you can do better Okay, so now it's time to go to the next grade. You're in 11th grade. They're still in 9th grade Okay. Oh, baby. It's okay. You got to learn in disability. Okay Okay, now you're in the the 12th grade. You're a senior. He's still in 9th grade. What are you gonna do? You're gonna stay there in high school with him or you're gonna graduate move on go get you a college boy and then you know Move on to the next level of your life. You can't stay With the guy who brings you down if you do you're stupid and your IQ is low I'm just gonna tell you If you're in a relationship and a man is bringing you down and it's been more than one year and you haven't seen it you need to go and check yourself because Ladies I've seen so many men bring down women and don't care what they look like Let that other ratchet girl take care of him. Go get you a real man with real money real job career That can help you and bring you up if not At least be your equal. You know what I'm saying? Y'all are messing with these guys who can't do nothing for you, but be another child to you And then y'all oh, but I'm in love with them They're not in love with you because if they were they would get up and do something for you. Do you understand? Okay They're not in love with you no matter what comes out their mouth If they're not getting up to help you or do anything for you They're not in love with you and you don't love yourself Okay, so I just have to make this rant video because I get so many women Asking me How do I get How do I do this? How do I make my man become a better man? You can't you got to move on and get into one? Okay You can't make a man into a better man They have to do that for themselves and if they won't do it for you It's because they don't love you And they don't love themselves and you don't love yourself if you stay with them. Okay. It's time to move on move forward get Someone who's on your level or above you. Okay ladies men same thing a lot of men will Sleep with the woman who you know, they don't really worry about the relationship aspect of their when they're meeting a Woman for the first time They just sleep with her and they don't realize how she can ruin his life as well Okay, y'all guys think about that too Who you sleep with who you have children with will affect the rest of your life Are they going to bring you down? Are they going to be a burden to you? Think about it. And if you can't afford kids put on a condom, okay? It's just it's not that hard. It's very easy So i'm gonna leave it at that i'll see y'all later comment and subscribe if you're new and feel like my way I got it on wish.com Bye