 Almost many things teach us how to love but nobody has ever taught us how to undo the love. The idea of building relationships is that it's of support in all levels of life. In every way, two people can do better than one person, that is the idea. So, moving on. My question is very relatable to the audience as well. Heartbreak is something that I think everybody… I hope it broke your heart. So, heartbreak is something that almost everybody goes through and especially at some point of their time. And I remember in fact my teacher once telling me that it is… at your time you love, you break and you learn to love again and again and again. But the beauty… Who is this teacher? Sorry? Who is this teacher? That's a top secret. The beauty of it is that you fall in love again and you break but then it always ends up healing you again. I wonder, Sadhguru, everybody teaches us how to love. Movies, poems. Really? Bollywood. If you do the things that you're doing in the movie, nobody will love you. Literature. Almost many things teach us how to love but nobody has ever taught us how to undo the love. What about breaking hearts? I don't have a broken heart because I gave away my heart very early on in my life so nobody can break it, you know? I gave it away. You should do that. Then nobody can break it. See, we must understand this. What is a love affair? Is it okay? Mechanics of love affair? We can look at it. I'm not trying to de-romanticize everything. It's just this. Let's say you were ten years of age. You looked around. The world was quite normal. Hello? Was it normal when you were ten, twelve? It was normal. I'm not picking on you because you're in the first row, okay? So it was looking quite normal. Suddenly after some time you got little poisoned, chemically poisoned. Then you looked. Every little bump on somebody's body looks like a world by itself. Hello? Till then everything was okay, isn't it? You're ten, twelve, it's okay. You became thirteen and you look like this. Suddenly this is a world by itself. The neighborhood squany girl who didn't mean a damn thing to you, suddenly she's the focus, she's the apple of your eye. Yes? Yes. So this is because your intelligence has been hijacked by your hormones. So it is making funny things happen. It is making you believe all kinds of things. When you look back and say you'll feel stupid, but it's okay. There's nothing wrong about it. But it's very important that we understand what's happening to us. Otherwise we'll do idiotic things that we may regret later, you know? It is not a question of morality. It is a question of handling our life sensibly. This serial heartbreak business can leave you paranoid about anything, about bonding with anybody in your life. Yes or no? You had serial heartbreaks. It looked like fun for some time. After some time you just don't actually trust anybody in your life because another human being is a problem always. Only when our emotions allow you to cross the problem, in some way they get included. But if we have serial heartbreaks, we will never allow our emotion to cross those barriers. We will always be cautious because anyway this has come with a... what? Expirited. When people come with an expirited, yes, there is an expirited for all of us, but relationships, the idea of building relationships is that it's of support in all levels of life so that two people, that means two brains and two bodies can do better than one in many ways, in various aspects of life. In profession, in domestic situation, in life, in companionship, in emotion, in arranging and organizing our lives, in every way two people can do better than one person. That is the idea. And of course nature is pushing us together because nature doesn't care about your love affair. It just wants you to reproduce. Yes? You think mother nature is worried whether you love or you don't love, it wants you to reproduce. But we've overdone that a little bit. There's no hurry, we don't have to yield to that. Hello? Yes? If you are a tiger, I would encourage you, please reproduce, reproduce, because it's an endangered species. Human beings definitely not endangered, we are endangering everything. So reproduction is not the purpose right now, we have kept it aside. But nature's pushes towards that. But we have emotional needs, physical needs, psychological needs, maybe financial and social needs, variety of needs to conduct these needs in a dignified way. To conduct these needs in a... See once you come as a human being, you can't do things, though they are the same things what the animals do. But we would like to do it more gracefully, consciously. Whether we eat or we copulate or we sleep, we like to do it little more aesthetically right. That's the important thing. For that, we need the cooperation of another person who is also somehow congruent to us. Every two days if you have heartbreaks and going on, well, you will see the trouble of that.