 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARC Survivor Live video, and yes today is Christmas Day for most of us. It's probably morning for a lot of you, so I just like to say before we begin, Merry Christmas everyone. I hope you all have a great day today, whatever you're doing, whether you're with family or friends, and I hope you're able to avoid any narcissist over the holidays, and if you're not able to do that, then I hope that you can go grey rock, then you can protect your emotional state and not expend too much of your energy on unproductive things, so yeah I hope they are able to do that over the holidays, Christmas, and yeah Merry Christmas everyone. I hope you all have a great day today, and yeah okay so on to the message today. This is when the narcissist comes back. You may have been waiting by your phone for a very long time, wondering why you're not receiving a call, wondering why you're not receiving any text messages, any messages on social media, you may be wondering what's going on, you may feel like they've just completely forgotten about you, as though you don't matter, as though you don't even exist, as though they have just ghosted you, and they've just moved on with their lives, and you're just hanging on, waiting for a response, you want to know what's going on, it's driving you crazy, it's keeping you awake late at night, you can't sleep, you don't know what to do, it's eating away at you, and yeah they may feel like they've just completely forgotten about you, despite all of the time that you spend together, it's like you never existed, it's like it never meant anything, and it makes you wonder why, or how, how can they just forget about you like that, how can they just treat you like you're nothing, like you never meant anything to them, when you were together for months or even years, and yeah of course the reason for that is because it was all fake, it wasn't real, it wasn't a relationship as I like to call it, it was just you being this object that existed to serve them, that existed to meet their needs, and it's like that was your only purpose in life, so of course when they're done using you it's so easy for them to just move on, and act like you never existed, because they've just used you up and then they spit you out, so yeah of course it's easy for them to do that, but it wasn't like that for you, it was real, it meant something to you, so of course it's very hard for you to move on, and you're the one who's sitting by the phone, you're waiting for a call, you're waiting for a message, maybe you're waiting for them to knock on your door, ring your doorbell, but nothing's happening, but yeah this is when they come back, this is when you start to hear from them again, this is when they pop right back up, when you start focusing on yourself, when you start worrying about your own life, and worrying what you're doing, when you realize what's more important, because this entire time you've been focused on them and what they're doing, and how they were once with you, they were once everything to you, they were there, and then they just ghosted you, they left you, they moved on like you were never important to them, like you never meant anything, but at some point you get to the point where you're not worried about them anymore, maybe you're thinking okay they're not gonna come back, they're done with you now, or maybe you realize it was all fake, it was all a lie, it was an illusion of significance, of love, happiness and joy, because you never felt like they actually loved you or cared about you, they just used you, and when you realize that it is so easy for you to just move on and forget about them, and when you do that, that is when they will come back, that is when they will be blowing up your phone, they'll be sliding in your DMs, trying to get your attention again, because that's all they really want is your attention, they want that supply, they want that validation, they want to feel like this false character that they've created exists, and they need someone to support the illusion, and that's your job, that's what you're supposed to do, so yeah that's when they're gonna come back, it's when you finally forget about them, when you move on with your life, especially when you move on to someone else, when you find a new partner, someone who actually cares about you, they don't care about that, they'll still come back, these people do not value loyalty, that's why when they were with you they were probably cheating, it's very rare that a narcissist can stay loyal to anyone, they need supply, but yeah this is when they will come back, and actually they do like to come back around the holidays as well, so if you haven't been hoovered already, please do be very cautious that they may hoover you today, or even sometime around the new year, so yeah, as you can see I'm just walking through the park here looking smart today, just had my Christmas lunch earlier, vegan of course, and yeah I think it's morning for most of you, so I hope you all have a great day today, Merry Christmas everyone, and as always please give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it, share the video with anyone you believe it may help, and if you'd like to speak to me one-on-one, you can book a call anytime, just head to my website, it's narksify.uk, and if you'd like to support the community you can leave a donation as well, just head to paypow.me slash narksify, or you can leave a donation in the comments down below as well, all right thank you all for the support, hope you enjoyed this video, and as always I'll talk to you in another one very soon