 There's a dangerous trend happening in society right now and social media, which is that a lot of young people are finding fame. I think too early. I mean, we all have heard of the child stars, you know, Hollywood child stars or musical acts of musicians who get famous and then they haven't learned how to handle that fame. And so they get into drugs or, you know, other issues that come with with popularity and fame. And now of course, but lots of influencers, Instagram, TikTok influencers and just like, not just young people, adults to who find kind of overnight fame, like haven't really developed the personal growth and attention to their own narcissistic tendencies, which we all have, you know, we all have this spectrum that we all have tendencies of narcissism, and we all have tendencies of ECHOism. And I want to thank Tia Ma, TIA, MA, you can she's teaching a course on narcissists versus ECHOist. The ECHOism is the opposite side of narcissism where it's like you apologize too much and you just repeat back what others say and you, you've lost your own voice and you just kind of pare it back what others say. But we all have that. We all have, we all have tendencies for both sides. It's really the dynamic of the relationship with whom we're talking to, right? But the thing about online content creation is that it has the danger of turning all of us into narcissists or stoking the narcissism within us. I mean, there's what's well-known stories of spiritual leaders who seem all spiritual enlightened when they're speaking and giving sermons and lectures. But when you get to know them privately, they are, they're narcissists. They are, you know, not very, not very enlightened, you know, and I've seen business leaders too. In fact, I can think of a specific one who is quite well known, and I was able to get close to him for a short time, at least get close to his, his assistant. And he seems he's written books and about enlightened business is very enlightened, apparently, you know, on TED talks and on lectures, but his assistant says, and he's really difficult to work with like he's, he's not nice, not a nice person. And so like, that's the kind of, and that's I'm, I'm well aware of that within myself, which is why I'm glad that I haven't gotten overnight success. Well, I kind of in early on my business, I kind of had this bump where I had like, you know, relatively quickly at 10,000 email subscribers. And over time, after a while, when I got into authentic business, I removed most of those email subscribers because I don't really well, well, well built, not true fans, but so I kind of had to taste the fame for a little while. And, and I'm glad nowadays, I'm building my fame very slowly very gradually over time, I mean, you know, I had 3000 Facebook fans in 2015, and now in 2022, I have 8000 Facebook fans, it's very gradual, not suddenly 800,000 or whatever and I think the gradual growth is good for my own personal development because and I'm always really careful when people praise me I just, it's like, don't drink the Kool-Aid George, you know, because it's like it's so easy to become a narcissist when people just praise you all the time like oh you're so great oh yeah I'm like no, I'm a, I'm still a judgmental person, I'm still a, you know, I still have that side of me and I have to be aware that I have to notice those parts and continually try to integrate and transform those things and I just, I'm worried that so many people online now are getting popular without having, and their personal development has not caught up with them. The awareness of their narcissistic tendencies have not caught up with them. And so, they don't treat their students, their private students well, they might look like they're, and a lot of internet markets people are my niche right they sell so powerfully. It's like this kind of narcissism goes into copywriting and selling as well enrollments like they hype up their programs and they charge a narcissistic price also it's some of their pricing is like are you serious, but they sell so well and then by the time you get into like the customer support sucks, you know, like I they promised me the sun and the moon, I come into this program and it's really not like that. You know, and like I said I have to be aware of that might be that's that's basically narcissism you know it's like. So anyway, I just wanted to share that like it's it's okay to grow gradually always being aware of how our own how are we reacting to praise. And are we continuing to say well I've got so much within me to integrate and to be willing. And as I've said this before, to be willing to make a fool of yourself publicly to. And I do this purposefully, I purposely make a fool of myself on a regular basis, because I don't want to grow that fast, because it's almost like I'm. This is you're trying to push people away or self sabotage could be some self some subconscious self sabotage but I also do a consciously because I'm like, I want to push away the people who aren't ready for the whole of who I am at the stage. Maybe later when I'm more enlightened they'll be more ready for me at that point but but yes, so those of you who are still watching. Thank you for being willing to put up with my foolish sides that I that I show sometimes so, and I'm going to grow and I and let's all continue to be aware of those sides of ourselves.