 That's one thing that really has kind of hit me and kind of you know You're saying when someone you have ill feelings towards them. They control you. I feel that's like a way I'll just say on my soul and I just kind of I feel like I could you know do better as a father. Yeah, you know And your wife needs you to women need men that the earth the world is going to hell in a handbasket Because men are not leading the way the women are leading the way and they can't see what they're doing because they're into the mind a motion It's the man that's needed. That's why everything is falling apart I do want you to know that once you wake up. You're gonna catch pure hell from your wife Because she's not gonna want to lose that control over you and she's gonna like oh, you don't love me You used to cater to me used to hug me you to do this right but what she said is you're not letting me control you anymore I don't know how to handle that You're gonna change is you're gonna catch hell from her because she's losing that control over you and her ego Won't be able to handle it and she would be like I'm gonna leave I'm going back home to mama and then if that doesn't work She'll bake you a cake and if that doesn't work She'll give you some sex and you should take it all but don't change Eat the cake, but don't change All right, and we have sex just have a quick quick bam bam. Thank you ma'am Did you know the section last more than two or three minutes two or three seconds? Did y'all know that But the women have men licking and lapping and And going for hours now the women are like worship me worship me and the men just worship him When really the only purpose for sex is to make a baby you're supposed to If you see the kingdom of God in his right way God will put a woman into your life That's your hard desire You would date her without the sex because once you have sex with her she take control over you It's like a drug and you you wake up to it You become emotional and you feel like she can't do without it. She has control over you So you don't really see the woman that you're marrying and then once you marry her the morning after the night of you Wonder what in the world happened, right? But you it's like a drug so you were high and you haven't you didn't see what you were getting But if you don't have sex with the woman before marriage You would see what you're getting into and if it's not the right woman for you You know the right wife or the mother for your children You'll be able to walk away from it without tripping. Why did your father protect you from your mother?